Aquarius Men Preferences in a Woman

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I need to add strong yet vulnerable, outdoorsy yet pretentious, wild yet stable, silly yet savage guess i want it all lol or in some form or fashion. Truth all of the women that stole pieces of my heart were none of things i wrote. They were perfect in thier own way and thats what i want really; for you to be you not what you think i want you to be. The brain may tell us what we like but our hearts tell us who we love.
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Pisces Venus, Mars, Eros, Pysche. Suffice to say even when I don't want to when I love I fall pretty deep and I've been told I can be overwhelming but not in a smothering way.

My preferences in women:

- the x-factor, you need to have something uniquely you that draws me in. I really can't pinpoint it but I guess all Aquas appreciate something that's not normal! Might be the way you speak, your hobbies or just the way you do certain things.

- You look after yourself, body and soul wise. I love diving into the minds of others and there's nothing worse to find nothing there. I love a pretty looking girl but rather immune to it after working events, hospitality and photography, I've seen some hot girls with zero personality and it makes them almost revolting. Natural beauty is where it's at. Saying that there's a limit of course.

- Loving me an loving yourself. I want you to keep your sense of identity, aspire to your own dreams in life because that in turn makes me more lively. I don't want us to be one of those 'couples' like we're just a single entity.

- You must be a kind and positive person. I really hate girls who complain a lot I guess. Rather girls who internalise it first and think about things.

- Must be willing to go on adventures rather than staying at home all the time. And if you do prefer to stay home better get ready for a lot of sex.

- This last one: must appreciate Gaming because I'm a massive nerd.

But like EvilTurtle said, preferences aside, if you manage to steal my heart all these can go out the window.
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Posted by truecap
"- the x-factor, you need to have something uniquely you that draws me in. I really can't pinpoint it but I guess all Aquas appreciate something that's not normal! Might be the way you speak, your hobbies or just the way you do certain things."


My aqua has told me "there's just something about you". He has no idea what it is (or so he says). lol!



Likewise. He's told me that he can't read me completely. He's just beginning to 'learn' me despite knowing me for years.

I think Aquarians appreciate others that are complex without having to figure it out and own it, like Scorpios. For some, they are able to effectively have that within a relationship (being figured out/conquered), but I guess I'm not as emotionally comfortable with that

Blah, sorry - schoolgirl mode again. 😢
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Yeah I definitely think that x-factor thing is pretty accurate. Someone who is distinctly different in how they think or view things. Not afraid to think outside the box and independent. I swear one of the most attractive things to me is if you are always sweet all the time BUT if you have that x-factor .... You could be so much more bitchy and I dunno if it would matter..... I might still keep coming back for more of that uniqueness I can't find anywhere else! I guess we really dislike society conformists.... -shrug-
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Trucap I got so many answers to that question I wouldn't know where to begin...



Once upon a time there was an Aquarius guy who`s preference was...... coz......

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LoL I am eccentric and I know it.... Not oblivious to it.... Almost makes me shy sometimes in interactions with people even though I truly am not a shy person. Sometimes it's that person who makes me feel comfortable enough to share all me views on life and just be myself. I mean in truth I am always true to myself but I find myself, more often then not, keeping to myself then shouting out "Oh your wrong because bla bla yadda yadda". I'd rather keep the peace in a large group of people then spout my views unless asked for them. I mean there are a ton of other things I have preferences toward.... Fiery attitudes, Passionate ambitions, Smartasses, just plain SMART.... hell I damn near think I'm infatuated with long dark hair BUT the truth is if you are uniquely different from your average Jane a lot of what I just said could be put on the back burner or even looked passed. Sorry, I know that BEING DIFFERENT is pretty vague but it is the damned God's honest truth!
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1st - She was awkward and shy but she was the most beautiful dancer and she kept holding herself back and even through that she was the one that went after me.
2nd - I think it was her bossy attitude yet behind all that was the most fragile girl ever.
3rd - Not sure if it was the weird way she dressed or the weird music she listened to but given that she's the most normal girl I know
4th - Still a mystery to me

Starting to think we like girls who are total opposites to what they are inside and out LOL
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Posted by truecap
Complex, but not difficult.
Independent, but vulnerable.
Loving, but not needy.
Affectionate, but not clingy.
Intelligent, but not arrogant.
Etc.

A very, fine line.

Am I on the right track?



Well if you could be all this I'm pretty sure you would be attractive LOL....

Your probably right though I guess that is most men's desire but I can't speak for them all...

I really think Aquarius men want a woman they can admire for what they've done, what they aspire to be, or what they practice in life .... Especially if it is something we have a hard time doing ourselves. We wanna feel like this person has something to teach us, to better us, to help us grow as human beings and In turn we feeling the same way I guess. Could be wrong but that's how it is for me. I know I may not show Im here to learn from you lol but... If I am intrigued by you it's because I'm certain I'll never find another like you.... And why do things intrigue us Aquarians? It's because it is something we do not understand ^.^
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relationships where there is a feeling of emotional fusion. There is a strong inclination for sacrifice in personal relationships, and disillusionment may ensue when loved ones turn out to be ordinary. Pisces feels empathy towards those in sorrow and pain, and when they allow others to take advantage of their gentle and sympathetic nature; they lose a sense of personal value. Venus in Pisces people can confuse sacrifice and martyrdom with real love. Someone with this placement has a tremendous capacity for compassion and selfless, devoted love. This placement of Venus has a soft, loving heart, but lacks discrimination and is easily preyed upon, and love can involve losing or surrendering the self in some way, demanding this person give something up.

Venus here is romantic and idealistic and they yearn for the perfect love, and because they expect so much, they are easily disappointed. Sometimes they devote themselves to unrealized and fantasized romances. This person might not see the flaws in a current relationship, and falls for people they can —save??. Venus in Pisces can flow into the feelings of others, merging with others even if they don't know it. Physically they would like to erase the physical boundaries that exist between them, and they often have psychic ties with lovers.

Venus in Pisces has a high sensitivity to colour and might possess artistic and musical ability. Inwardly filled with beautiful and inspirational images, they enjoy creating illusions and instil a sense of hope and belief into he lives of those who need to believe in something. Women with this placement have an ethereal and fragile quality. The individual can seduce others easily, but there is a tendency to lose themselves in relationships. Relationships can be used as an escape from reality and they can become addicted to love. Venus in Pisces is very giving and understanding, and the individual is entirely swayed by emotion.

The person can attract needy and dependent people, thus forming co-dependent relationships. And it's important for them to learn that relationships are not all about what they have to give, and to have someone to fall in love with who they really are. Venus in Pisces can infuse a feeling of guilt and denial at an unconscious level. The partner can be overwhelmed in love and affection, and feel unable to live up to it. Inevitably disappointment will follow, but this placement loves unconditionally and is willing accept more suffering tha
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Im attracted to independent girls. Financially stable. Emotionally as well. Rare and Natural beauty, confidence of a goddess, with eyes of an angel, yet with lips of seduction. I like strong, sophisticated, intelligent, well read, quite yet talkative, adventures yet, tending to her garden, doesn;t need anyone but wants someone, I like a freind in them, a lover, and life partner. I like them loyal, friendly, and creative. If I were blind, her voice and warmth and presence will be just enough, if I were mute, her kiss and huggs would be thirst quenching, if I were sick, her chicken soup and and presnece shall be truthful 🙂 Overall, she must stand with herself knowing she doesn;t need anything because shes indepedent and self sufficient, knowing shes beautiful without a compliment but knowing the pleasure of someone sharing life, love, scecrets, worries, health, sickness, and burdens, young age and old age, and beauty and pleasures and and and lol