Aquarius strandard n controlling behavioir

not sure if this apply to both men and women but do u sometimes have these standard in ur mind of what ur loved ones shud b behaving, doing, eating? I'm talking about family, close friends and intimate relationships? Lol. Like no jokes do u want them to do things your way? And get annoyed if they don't do how u want them to b done? Even maybe secretly? Or express that outwardly? R u then more judgmental than open minded? Is that coming from the deep need to control the situation ? I know if u guys don't care it won't matter but cud it be the more u care the more controlling u become?

Obviously I seen through his I'm a nice chill calm open minded man... underneath that is someone totally different n I told him to b the real him towards me. At first it's funny n all but I think it will only get worst. Coz I have a chill ass Aqua moon n mars n a stubborn fixed ass Taurus sun.. so I like things my ways too and a lot more chill in life n very very open minded to my loved ones too... I let them be what they want to be n support their dreams and goals... he says that he wants the same for people and me but I noe underneath he wants his loved ones to follow his standards n goals.... very fixed on his ideas and maybe refuse to see it any other ways! Or try to understand... arghhhhhhh is this a common trait?

Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

Posted by bittercupcake
I feel like Taurus have the stamina and perseverance to make anyone they set their minds to commit. That and Capricorns.

But .... my Aqua moon need for freedom n not wanting to b controlled is running miles away lol.... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 But thank u hahahah u r right though I got so much fixed. My stubborn heart doesn't wanan give up.... it's annoying ... imaoooo I love u Aqua peeps but really... sometimes just chill plz ... lol

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

taurus gives stability and consistency and that to me feels really good. you can count on me...*singing*



" i can count on you like 4, 3 2...you'll be there....oooo oooo oooo"

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

But arnt u suppsed to b open minded? Why can't u let ur loved ones do things as they please and let them be who they r or want to be??! Do u have kids?!!! How r u like with them—

Posted by saweetz1988
Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

Because he probably thinks you chasing your dream job is a pipe dream, ie if you get it, it won't bring nothing to the table or you won't get it, either because you're unqualified, you need connections to get it or it's some silly field where paycheck isn't guaranteed, ie jobs that liberal arts and comparative grammar studies provide. A good job opening in this field doesn't happen very often because job slots re limited and it's easy so that means they open up only when someone dies or goes into pension.

Catch here is, he must have his life sorted out at least 90% for him being to able to boss you around like that. If not, it's just hypocrisy and a nascent inkling to latch on to the steady taurus breadwinner, which you will provide given a good job. Because your incessant need for stability won't allow otherwise. (at least in theory-i avoid taurus women because mommy issues-she is a taurus)

What is your dream job then? Let's hear it. How do you think you qualify. When will it pay mucho dinero?

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

But arnt u suppsed to b open minded? Why can't u let ur loved ones do things as they please and let them be who they r or want to be??! Do u have kids?!!! How r u like with them—

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lol@open minded.



😛

yeah we would let them choose their life path,



i think this hubpages astrologer said it right...



" Miss Mom

Aquarius women make very good mothers because they are so damned understanding and forgiving and tolerant. I could never have been best friends with so many if they weren't! So if you're looking for someone who's good Mommy material, this may be the girl you want. Not that you should expect her to Mommy you as well -- I wouldn't go there, if I were you, as she's likely to get well annoyed."

https://pairedlife.com/compatibility/Dating-an-Aquarius-Woman



you have aquarius moon you would know 😄

Posted by saweetz1988


But arnt u suppsed to b open minded? Why can't u let ur loved ones do things as they please and let them be who they r or want to be??! Do u have kids?!!! How r u like with them—

Open-minded is a fool's game when it leads nowhere.

i don't have kids, when i'll have them they will be enrolled into things they have a natural inclination for so that they develop to the best of their abilities. Obviously i won't force stuff on them, but if i see some of them are wavering at something they're good at they'll get a gentle push, followed by more gentle pushes, but progressively less gentle as time goes by, until i finally see things won't work out and they lost the love for it. Then we try something else.

In theory. We'll see how that pans out in practice.

Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like the controlling part is a red flag.

I've met alot of decent aqua men in my life. The ones who have a slight bully like sense of demand or communication are a restless kind, I've only seen those types cheat or collect nude pics of other girls on their phones for fun.

All the amazing aqua men I have met and dated were sweet, warm, inviting, socially attentive, made me feel like family with his friends.

Made dinner, never questioned me, always wanted to hold me, nurture me.

The quiet ones are the ones that I've noticed come with more peace, passion and respect, the ones off running their mouths like morons, demanding and throwing fits when they don't get their way are bad ones.

You're pregnant aren't you?

So, you won't try to influence the decision making of your SO if you deem it's not going the way it's beneficial for you and your baby? And steer him towards something better?

girl, plz......

Posted by Capmercury87

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like the controlling part is a red flag.

I've met alot of decent aqua men in my life. The ones who have a slight bully like sense of demand or communication are a restless kind, I've only seen those types cheat or collect nude pics of other girls on their phones for fun.

All the amazing aqua men I have met and dated were sweet, warm, inviting, socially attentive, made me feel like family with his friends.

Made dinner, never questioned me, always wanted to hold me, nurture me.

The quiet ones are the ones that I've noticed come with more peace, passion and respect, the ones off running their mouths like morons, demanding and throwing fits when they don't get their way are bad ones.

You're pregnant aren't you?

So, you won't try to influence the decision making of your SO if you deem it's not going the way it's beneficial for you and your baby?

girl, plz......

What makes you think I'm with a man who doesn't prioritise me and his child.

A wise man never needs to be reminded of what matters and what right choices to make.

Your dumb.

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I didn't say you are but if you might be in such a position, but congratz for super defensive stance where there isn't a need for one.

Posted by Capmercury87


Here let me make it sound better.

Your not smart.

Assuming you know anything about anyone on this website makes you as unintelligent as they come.

Okay and i think you're full of shit. And that's that.

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by saweetz1988


But arnt u suppsed to b open minded? Why can't u let ur loved ones do things as they please and let them be who they r or want to be??! Do u have kids?!!! How r u like with them—

Open-minded is a fool's game when it leads nowhere.

i don't have kids, when i'll have them they will be enrolled into things they have a natural inclination for so that they develop to the best of their abilities. Obviously i won't force stuff on them, but if i see some of them are wavering at something they're good at they'll get a gentle push, followed by more gentle pushes, but progressively less gentle as time goes by, until i finally see things won't work out and they lost the love for it. Then we try something else.

In theory. We'll see how that pans out in practice.

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sounds like you'd be a great father. 😄

see what their skills/talents are, like say if they are great at football, or maybe computers, ect.

being super supportive.



you already got this in the bag.

Posted by Capmercury87

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by Capmercury87


Here let me make it sound better.

Your not smart.

Assuming you know anything about anyone on this website makes you as unintelligent as they come.

Okay and i think you're full of shit. And that's that.

Bye bye felicia 😛😛

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Buh bye 5 $ till next paycheck. You go gurl.....

Posted by lisabethur8


sounds like you'd be a great father. 😄

see what their skills/talents are, like say if they are great at football, or maybe computers, ect.

being super supportive.



you already got this in the bag.

Meh, this is all theory. It's easy to be an armchair general thinking your plan will go through 100% of the time. I hope it's gonna be like that in practice too, or at least similar to it.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

taurus gives stability and consistency and that to me feels really good. you can count on me...*singing*



" i can count on you like 4, 3 2...you'll be there....oooo oooo oooo"

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I won't give give on us.. dah dee dah dee dah! How r u sweetie?😉

Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like the controlling part is a red flag.

I've met alot of decent aqua men in my life. The ones who have a slight bully like sense of demand or communication are a restless kind, I've only seen those types cheat or collect nude pics of other girls on their phones for fun.

All the amazing aqua men I have met and dated were sweet, warm, inviting, socially attentive, made me feel like family with his friends.

Made dinner, never questioned me, always wanted to hold me, nurture me.

The quiet ones are the ones that I've noticed come with more peace, passion and respect, the ones off running their mouths like morons, demanding and throwing fits when they don't get their way are bad ones.

and u r prob right. 😉 what's ur sign again? Cap?

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like the controlling part is a red flag.

I've met alot of decent aqua men in my life. The ones who have a slight bully like sense of demand or communication are a restless kind, I've only seen those types cheat or collect nude pics of other girls on their phones for fun.

All the amazing aqua men I have met and dated were sweet, warm, inviting, socially attentive, made me feel like family with his friends.

Made dinner, never questioned me, always wanted to hold me, nurture me.

The quiet ones are the ones that I've noticed come with more peace, passion and respect, the ones off running their mouths like morons, demanding and throwing fits when they don't get their way are bad ones.

You're pregnant aren't you?

So, you won't try to influence the decision making of your SO if you deem it's not going the way it's beneficial for you and your baby? And steer him towards something better?

girl, plz......

That can be understandable when in a relationship. But the OP isn't with the Aqua as he hasn't committed yet. So there's nothing you can do and try to control whoever or forcibly 'guide' anyone, especially an Aqua.

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idk about these details tbh. All i remember is she posting she once crawled through the back seat of his car looking for condoms. Sounds like a relationship to me. 😆

But yes, if it isn't so, then my point is moot as i was speaking from relationship pov, although him trying to control her in this way would suggest something more than casual buddies.

i'd say aqua chill is just a socially acceptable facade for not caring about someone/something. once things get serious the chill is gone lmao, at least i'm like that.

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by saweetz1988
Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

Because he probably thinks you chasing your dream job is a pipe dream, ie if you get it, it won't bring nothing to the table or you won't get it, either because you're unqualified, you need connections to get it or it's some silly field where paycheck isn't guaranteed, ie jobs that liberal arts and comparative grammar studies provide. A good job opening in this field doesn't happen very often because job slots re limited and it's easy so that means they open up only when someone dies or goes into pension.

Catch here is, he must have his life sorted out at least 90% for him being to able to boss you around like that. If not, it's just hypocrisy and a nascent inkling to latch on to the steady taurus breadwinner, which you will provide given a good job. Because your incessant need for stability won't allow otherwise. (at least in theory-i avoid taurus women because mommy issues-she is a taurus)

What is your dream job then? Let's hear it. How do you think you qualify. When will it pay mucho dinero?

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Hold up. I will reply soon so I can win this argument lol. But thank u for ur long n deep responses , plz hold up. So ur mum is a Taurus? Hehe

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Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like the controlling part is a red flag.

I've met alot of decent aqua men in my life. The ones who have a slight bully like sense of demand or communication are a restless kind, I've only seen those types cheat or collect nude pics of other girls on their phones for fun.

All the amazing aqua men I have met and dated were sweet, warm, inviting, socially attentive, made me feel like family with his friends.

Made dinner, never questioned me, always wanted to hold me, nurture me.

The quiet ones are the ones that I've noticed come with more peace, passion and respect, the ones off running their mouths like morons, demanding and throwing fits when they don't get their way are bad ones.

You're pregnant aren't you?

So, you won't try to influence the decision making of your SO if you deem it's not going the way it's beneficial for you and your baby? And steer him towards something better?

girl, plz......

That can be understandable when in a relationship. But the OP isn't with the Aqua as he hasn't committed yet. So there's nothing you can do and try to control whoever or forcibly 'guide' anyone, especially an Aqua.

idk about these details tbh. All i remember is she posting she once crawled through the back seat of his car looking for condoms. Sounds like a relationship to me. 😆

But yes, if it isn't so, then my point is moot as i was speaking from relationship pov, although him trying to control her in this way would suggest something more than casual buddies.

i'd say aqua chill is just a socially acceptable facade for not caring about someone/something. once things get serious the chill is gone lmao, at least i'm like that.

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Yay when we fight(current stage) it's nothing chill. lol to him we have something real. He's treating me like a family now n even told me how much he's earning. Anyways the point is, I don't noe if I can stand his controlling behaviour. I think it's only going to get worst. hahaha

Mr pinchy. What r u like with ur loved ones? Do u have much fun with them lol.

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

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because you only focused on the 2 and not opening yourself up to other opportunities.

I dunno,

tbh Bulls are WAYYYYY more stubborn and even controlling than most Aquas from what I have seen. Not saying Aquas aren't we are, its just we are stubborn about different types of things.

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Posted by saweetz1988

He's treating me like a family now n even told me how much he's earning.

oh my gosh

you make me cringe please stop

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Ok u need to leave my thread. Going to block u officially. I don't even care if u cringe or not.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

because you only focused on the 2 and not opening yourself up to other opportunities.

I dunno,

tbh Bulls are WAYYYYY more stubborn and even controlling than most Aquas from what I have seen. Not saying Aquas aren't we are, its just we are stubborn about different types of things.

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Yay... maybe hehe.... what r u stubborn about?

Posted by Capmercury87
If this entire thread teaches anyone about Aquarius..ladies please never go for someone like username: Aquarius_man

I don't even need to list off why, he speaks for himself.

Oh god he's horrible I blocked him already. The worst Aqua I have ever known. He drives me nuts

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Shit gets serious once we are invested. We like you, we don't want you to hurt yourself by what we think is the incorrect way of doing things. If you hurt yourself, there's chances you'll hurt the relationship which we like as it is, so being fixed we try to maintain the good times of that relationship and prevent you from doing silly things.

Plus you're a taurus, you don't see far, because you graze in the high grass. I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. Everything else is..........more or less.

Lol. Hey easy I have Aqua moon! I can teach him tons lol. Ok I'm giving u example so u can help me understand better since u mentioned this! -. *I'd say the only thing a taurus can teach an aqua is stamina and unwavering perseverance in pursuit of goals. - *. that's the thing I have clear goals and dreams!! N he got annoyed and pretty angry coz I wasn't wasting much energy applying for meaningless jobs at the shopping centre!!he told me to print out 100 resumes. I printed 30 n only applied for 2 that I really liked! ! I spent more time applying for better jobs online. That will deeply align with my dreams and goals! Why didn't he get that?!!! Plz explain this to me coz it's driving me crazy lol..

because you only focused on the 2 and not opening yourself up to other opportunities.

I dunno,

tbh Bulls are WAYYYYY more stubborn and even controlling than most Aquas from what I have seen. Not saying Aquas aren't we are, its just we are stubborn about different types of things.

Yay... maybe hehe.... what r u stubborn about?

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Aquas tend to need to prove their point or that 'I'm right", can't you see it within this very thread? lololololol