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Aquarius, are you shy when you're interested in someone?
Are Aquarius Men Shy When Interested in Someone
Aquarius men can be shy and reserved when they are interested in someone. They often show subtle signs of attraction like small gestures and making an effort to communicate. Their laid-back and sensitive nature means they may take time to pursue a relationship, especially if they are shy or cautious about opening up fully.
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i'm not.
i'd say depends on his other placements and age.
What's his mars ? Look there .. and his moon. A typical Aquarius isn't so shy.... ESP in the beginning . Once they develop feelings though is another story all toghee lol
Posted by AerialView
i'm not.i'd say depends on his other placements and age.
My Aquarius moon get all children like if I'm really into someone lol... when I can b friendly to any stranger I meet but if there r strong feeling omg I'm so akward lol
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.
from your personal experience?
Posted by aquarius_man
i am shy, particularly if i m into someone, because im afraid she might reject me .by avoiding to initiate contact i want to make sure she is into me. thats why i let her make the first move. coz you can never be too sure about mixed signals. maybe she's into me, but not physically. once i make sure she likes me, i am no longer shy
This sounds like him, he's not so shy as much now since I've shown interest back in him but he's very slow at developing this relationship and I suppose I like to do things fast lol.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
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Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
Even if they are shy, they would get over it, to get what they want.
Especially if they have already made the mental decision to pursue whatever it is that they want.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
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lol why it took you so long?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
lol why it took you so long?
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So long for what ... ?
i notice i can be indecisive, like when asked if i would get the luggages back, from the airport if it's lost.
i dont have that quick thinking like aries mercury, like i would say, "YES I would!!" with no thought.
i had to think about situations and weigh them like i have a libra mercury or something
indecisive. lol
but at the end ultimately, i would definitely pick up my luggage. i just have to be FAST thinking..
my husband thinks faster so i'm so happy for that. He saves my life alot, in those situations, the fast thinking.
i'm SLOW thinking. always looking at many angles and greys and shit, ugh!! so annoying.
Posted by lisabethur8
i notice i can be indecisive, like when asked if i would get the luggages back, from the airport if it's lost.i dont have that quick thinking like aries mercury, like i would say, "YES I would!!" with no thought.
i had to think about situations and weigh them like i have a libra mercury or something
indecisive. lol
but at the end ultimately, i would definitely pick up my luggage. i just have to be FAST thinking..
my husband thinks faster so i'm so happy for that. He saves my life alot, in those situations, the fast thinking.
i'm SLOW thinking. always looking at many angles and greys and shit, ugh!! so annoying.
Lisabethur, you are a Water - Bearer but what sign is your husband again ? 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
i notice i can be indecisive, like when asked if i would get the luggages back, from the airport if it's lost.i dont have that quick thinking like aries mercury, like i would say, "YES I would!!" with no thought.
i had to think about situations and weigh them like i have a libra mercury or something
indecisive. lol
but at the end ultimately, i would definitely pick up my luggage. i just have to be FAST thinking..
my husband thinks faster so i'm so happy for that. He saves my life alot, in those situations, the fast thinking.
i'm SLOW thinking. always looking at many angles and greys and shit, ugh!! so annoying.
Lisabethur, you are a Water - Bearer but what sign is your husband again ? 🙂
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Scorpio, fire dominant. lacks air, some earth too (virgo dominant)
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
lol why it took you so long?
So long for what ... ?
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nevermind lol
there's a long pause between you liking my comment and answering it.
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
wrong.
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Simply speaking from my experiences, it may not represent all Water - Bearers. 😆
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
lol why it took you so long?
So long for what ... ?
nevermind lol
there's a long pause between you liking my comment and answering it.
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AerialView, you were overthinking it. 😆
I was distracted by other things, before I came back to respond to your post.
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
wrong.
Simply speaking from my experiences, it may not represent all Water - Bearers. 😆
you definitely are not. not two aquas are alike. your experiences don't 'cover' all of us.
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That was what I just said.
Posted by lisabethur8
i notice i can be indecisive, like when asked if i would get the luggages back, from the airport if it's lost.i dont have that quick thinking like aries mercury, like i would say, "YES I would!!" with no thought.
i had to think about situations and weigh them like i have a libra mercury or something
indecisive. lol
but at the end ultimately, i would definitely pick up my luggage. i just have to be FAST thinking..
my husband thinks faster so i'm so happy for that. He saves my life alot, in those situations, the fast thinking.
i'm SLOW thinking. always looking at many angles and greys and shit, ugh!! so annoying.
Lisabethur, you are a Water - Bearer but what sign is your husband again ? 🙂
Scorpio, fire dominant. lacks air, some earth too (virgo dominant)
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Do you find it difficult, living with our quirks ?
After all, Stingers are not easy people to be with in a relationship, much less a marriage.
What do you believe are the strengths and weaknesses ?
Posted by lisabethur8
i notice i can be indecisive, like when asked if i would get the luggages back, from the airport if it's lost.i dont have that quick thinking like aries mercury, like i would say, "YES I would!!" with no thought.
i had to think about situations and weigh them like i have a libra mercury or something
indecisive. lol
but at the end ultimately, i would definitely pick up my luggage. i just have to be FAST thinking..
my husband thinks faster so i'm so happy for that. He saves my life alot, in those situations, the fast thinking.
i'm SLOW thinking. always looking at many angles and greys and shit, ugh!! so annoying.
Lisabethur, you are a Water - Bearer but what sign is your husband again ? 🙂
Scorpio, fire dominant. lacks air, some earth too (virgo dominant)
Do you find it difficult, living with our quirks ?
After all, Stingers are not easy people to be with in a relationship, much less a marriage.
What do you believe are the strengths and weaknesses ?
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wel i understand why, over the years WHY if you get with an earth or water sun, you really do need alot of earth/water combo.
it doesn't seem like a hardship to me because i'm used to hardship and sacrifice.
i think that's the key element and to have the same life goals.(and always be appreciative too! and i'm super appreciative too!)
it's hard to asnwer this because i dont find it really hard, because i really really love him lots.
i have a difficult time to say this when i'm in the spot, but it's so easy for me to tell it happily by showing as well (earthy this way too)
maybe this gal too can help, she seems like she has a hard time explaining. lol
she has a cap mercury too.
but i notice her and her husband are libra dominant. lol
wow...
she mirrors what i think about my own man. his sense of humour i love. 😆
he always makes me laugh.
Posted by aquarius_man
i am shy, particularly if i m into someone, because im afraid she might reject me .by avoiding to initiate contact i want to make sure she is into me. thats why i let her make the first move. coz you can never be too sure about mixed signals. maybe she's into me, but not physically. once i make sure she likes me, i am no longer shyThis sounds like him, he's not so shy as much now since I've shown interest back in him but he's very slow at developing this relationship and I suppose I like to do things fast lol.
whats ur sign
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I'm a Pisces
Posted by lisabethur8
wow...she mirrors what i think about my own man. his sense of humour i love. 😆
he always makes me laugh.
Lol, i thought he was a very serious man when I first met him but he's actually funny
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..
They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
That is just my take on it though i could be totally wrong or just basing it on my mis-perception.
I'm a Pisces
oh
one night this pisces girl calls me - it was 2 AM; she wants me to accompany her to a car wash coz she's afraid of the ppl who hang out there, she tells me. i went along. i was cold and i had a high fever but i went ayway. she said lets have a coffee. i said its too late. i want some tea & meds. i could make you some tea, she said. she invited me to her place. she selected a hitchock movie for us to watch. odd choice. she left for the bathroom to brush her teeth and get ready for sex. it was all too fast. she was getting ready and me i was shivering on the bed, amazed at her boldness (and lack of privacy); this made me change my mind. i made an excuse, saying that i wasnt feeling well, and asked her to drive me home (LOL); she did. she never spoke to me again 😄
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Hah! 😆
Posted by AerialView
i'm not.i'd say depends on his other placements and age.
My Aquarius moon get all children like if I'm really into someone lol... when I can b friendly to any stranger I meet but if there r strong feeling omg I'm so akward lol
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Exactly what I was gonna say! Keep moving though. We like moderation.
I'm shy at first and then get awkward as hell and shy when I know I like you. All that no eye contact, stuttering and blushing ? He thinks it's cute but I think I'm being stupid ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
They are not shy, they are merely slow to warm.from your personal experience?
Yes.
They could be awkward, or indecisive but never shy.
lol why it took you so long?
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Ahhha!
Aquas & curiosity! 😛
Posted by LittleFairy
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
As a Pisces I definitely feel like he wants to get to know me but I think he feels that I'm not making it clear if I like him or not, I'm very different from an average Pisces I find it hard to show feelings especially if I don't know you. But I like him a lot I just fear rejection even though I know he likes me back ugh
I'm a Pisces
oh
one night this pisces girl calls me - it was 2 AM; she wants me to accompany her to a car wash coz she's afraid of the ppl who hang out there, she tells me. i went along. i was cold and i had a high fever but i went ayway. she said lets have a coffee. i said its too late. i want some tea & meds. i could make you some tea, she said. she invited me to her place. she selected a hitchock movie for us to watch. odd choice. she left for the bathroom to brush her teeth and get ready for sex. it was all too fast. she was getting ready and me i was shivering on the bed, amazed at her boldness (and lack of privacy); this made me change my mind. i made an excuse, saying that i wasnt feeling well, and asked her to drive me home (LOL); she did. she never spoke to me again 😄
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Lol. That is not me! Okay well just a little, but I would never go on too strong on him. Not yet anyway lmao
OP I'm not aqua but I can tell you a bit about them from my knowledge that aqua guys are not really that shy. Yes they are laid back and have good sense of humour. Once you guys get a bit close they'll have no problem to approach you. They love seeking attention at times. They go with the flow. The "getting to know each other" phase will go smooth. But after a while their detachment thing will come on surface.
So I'd say dont think about anything more and let them take the lead coz if they feel that you're going too fast, they will back off. They'll back off good!
Posted by LittleFairy
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
As a Pisces I definitely feel like he wants to get to know me but I think he feels that I'm not making it clear if I like him or not, I'm very different from an average Pisces I find it hard to show feelings especially if I don't know you. But I like him a lot I just fear rejection even though I know he likes me back ugh
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ah you are going ..pa .pa pa pa
Posted by LittleFairy
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
As a Pisces I definitely feel like he wants to get to know me but I think he feels that I'm not making it clear if I like him or not, I'm very different from an average Pisces I find it hard to show feelings especially if I don't know you. But I like him a lot I just fear rejection even though I know he likes me back ugh
ah you are going ..pa .pa pa pa
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Don't worry little heart. You shall both get to there in the end ..it just might take a little longer
Posted by Astrology101
I truly don't understand aquas.. and it seems I don't know them either.
Me neither ..but I am a water sign cancer with a fire leo venus ..i mean it' s not my thing To know or understand them!
Posted by lisabethur8
wow...she mirrors what i think about my own man. his sense of humour i love. 😆
he always makes me laugh.
Lol, i thought he was a very serious man when I first met him but he's actually funny
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what are your man's placements?
Posted by Astrology101
I truly don't understand aquas.. and it seems I don't know them either.Me neither ..but I am a water sign cancer with a fire leo venus ..i mean it' s not my thing To know or understand them!
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my best friend is a cancer sun, leo venus but she has a capricorn mars.
she is so different than you to be honest.
she loves beautiful things and is more like this type of woman...
ohhhh she has a cancer moon. lol but gemini venus. leo mars.
and also my girlfriend has Pisces moon.
😛
Posted by Librasetting
Lol I belong to a Aquarius woman wherever she might be ?
you're the type of libra man with this aquarius woman. lol
Posted by Astrology101
I truly don't understand aquas.. and it seems I don't know them either.Me neither ..but I am a water sign cancer with a fire leo venus ..i mean it' s not my thing To know or understand them!
Im a leeb venus. I should be getting them ?
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lol
i dont get libra venus for some reason.
i am nice to them of course, very polite and good peeps.
but the only libra placement i like is libra mars cause of my family members. lol
i mean like as in platonic and get along...but we clash at times.
my mother in law with Aqua venus loves the Libra sun and Libra venus. i notice.
she gets along with them well, cause she has this view of how things should be, and libra satisfies that.
sadly she will never get with one, i notice. she loves the Scorpio and Virgo energy,
but her ideals should match with libra.
and that is why she is alone. One of her male best friends is a Libra sun too, so strange!!!
she treats her loves as friendship. but she is never gonna get with anyone.
but she is an awesome mother, grandmother and friend, and family.
just observing with her Aqua venus style . it's similar to Princess Diana, Aqua moon with Aqua Jupiter.
i think the Aqua Jupiter conjucnt with either Aqua venus OR aqua moon makes it like that.
not sure, i am seeing that it's diffeernt with Amal Alamuddin with Aqua sun, Aqua venus.
soooooo different. I think Amal has a Gemini Jupiter. she seems more mutable.
edit --- of course my mother in law would NEver get with the libra sun guy cause he is married,
but they are always inviting my mother in law out to travel like a triangle thing.
that is her very best friend next to her Gemini best friend.
she always talks about him and their travels.
i thought to myself....if ONLY she got with a libra man with libra venus, cause that is the type she would be happy with.
just like the cappy woman who is with Sting. (libra)
to be honest if she has capricorn placements anywhere,
you wont go far with her, unless you give her Monetary security.
look at Aquarius sun, Isla Fisher.
her Libra husband is NOT from POOR.
and he's a well made comedian (not my type) but she likes it.
and look at Sting (Libra sun and moon) with Capricorn sun Trudie style r, she will never get with him if he weren't so successful.
i notice that too with any Cap sun, cap moon too. and Cap rising. not just venus and mars. or cappy dominant.
thats why Scorpio men are always IDEAL for them. because Scorpio men /Plutonic men
I think that Sting is Plutonic.
are successful.
edit i know that sounds SNOOTY as hell..
but they'd rather be SINGLE. (and depend on themselves, and be self reliant, they will start to resent the man viciously if they can't get with a man who is successful)
at least that's what i notice with Capppy energy.
Posted by magma2
Bumper sticker: "I'm not shy, I'm just examining my prey."
Well we cannot expect them to love and cherish a woman if they are of this mindset.
Posted by Senorita_LL
I wonder, what kind of energy, this Aqua, be giving? HmmmmSun: Aqua
Moon: Sag
Mars: Sag
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Aqua
Rising: Sag
Moon and Mars in 12th.
Anyone?
Constantly traveling and learning new things. I would say he is a father already.
Posted by Senorita_LL
I wonder, what kind of energy, this Aqua, be giving? HmmmmSun: Aqua
Moon: Sag
Mars: Sag
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Aqua
Rising: Sag
Moon and Mars in 12th.
Anyone?
LOL
omgosh...remember that Cappy sun woman with scorpio moon, aqua venus virgo mars cap mercury on here?
i think she married a couple of men that she resented having to take care of...
if i can remember her name, i dont think she visits here anymore
but she has been saying stuff about her marriages and her resentment over men over the years.
it's just like that!!
Capricorn doesn't like that stuff.
this is similar to my mother in law. (although weirdly same placements. lol) i mean..very similar.
edit --- ohhhh the only difference is that Aqua venus on women are more Open minded, they dont believe in reliigion has much or traditions of marriages.
her sisters who has Leo sun, Cancer venus scorpio moon is more into traditional and family and religion...
cancer venus loves family and tradition more. Aqua venus is so different....
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
OP I'm not aqua but I can tell you a bit about them from my knowledge that aqua guys are not really that shy. Yes they are laid back and have good sense of humour. Once you guys get a bit close they'll have no problem to approach you. They love seeking attention at times. They go with the flow. The "getting to know each other" phase will go smooth. But after a while their detachment thing will come on surface.So I'd say dont think about anything more and let them take the lead coz if they feel that you're going too fast, they will back off. They'll back off good!
Okay thank you for the advice
I'm so new to Aquarius so I can be wrong, but this is what think.
Aquarius people want to know how you feel about them. Then once you do, they take another step further. This becomes a pattern.
Posted by LittleFairy
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
As a Pisces I definitely feel like he wants to get to know me but I think he feels that I'm not making it clear if I like him or not, I'm very different from an average Pisces I find it hard to show feelings especially if I don't know you. But I like him a lot I just fear rejection even though I know he likes me back ugh
ah you are going ..pa .pa pa pa
Don't worry little heart. You shall both get to there in the end ..it just might take a little longer
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Lmao, thanks! I hope so anyway. This is what I like about him, he's different I never expected this from an Aquarius. I like to not be rushed when it comes to relationships lol even though sometimes I move fast paced. But I can definitely give him space and time
Posted by LittleFairy
No they are not shy nor indecisive. But they think about relationships intellectually. They know they like this person. So they think..hmm ? How do I get to know this person? What best environment would we feel comfortable in? Whereas we water signs or fire signs go with it or burn through the crowd ..They make great conversation with you. But I find when they really like you they hang too much on the fun and avoid deep dark emotions.
They might want to get to know you a little. They are the opposite of fire and water signs. But less gritty and more commitment phobe than earth signs. I used to underestimate Aqua thinking they only liked to be on the surface of emotions, they are actually much deeper than you think. I tend to go deeper very quickly I think i find water people and fire people a lot in life. They come to me. So we talk intensely.
But no not shy. But they have a unique way of going about things. But it's the ONE sign i think you would know if they want to get to know you.
As a Pisces I definitely feel like he wants to get to know me but I think he feels that I'm not making it clear if I like him or not, I'm very different from an average Pisces I find it hard to show feelings especially if I don't know you. But I like him a lot I just fear rejection even though I know he likes me back ugh
ah you are going ..pa .pa pa pa
Don't worry little heart. You shall both get to there in the end ..it just might take a little longer
Lmao, thanks! I hope so anyway. This is what I like about him, he's different I never expected this from an Aquarius. I like to not be rushed when it comes to relationships lol even though sometimes I move fast paced. But I can definitely give him space and time
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Sounds like you might be just right for him then 🙂 I do hope it goes well for you 🙂
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I have just started speaking with an Aquarius, we are at the getting to know each other stage.
He's interested, but he's very shy I had to approach him first after he asked for my number, I had to contact him first and from then he's opened up a little and has been making the first move.
I've noticed he does little things to get my attention, at first I thought it was all in my head but now I'm definitely sure.
What sort of signs can I expect from him, he's very laid back and has a lot of humour and is quite sensitive which I like but I don't know how far this can go. So far he has shown he's interested but that's as far as it goes, he's not trying to persue a relationship and I'm not sure if it's because he's shy or he's just taking his time or what lol