Aquarius sun/Scorpio moon expressing love

For a man of this placement:
Aquarius/Capricorn cusp sun (jan 20)
scorpio moon
capricorn venus
sagittarius mars


..how would someone like this express his love, and when would he find the right time to say it?
I've been dating a guy with these aspects for a little over 5 months now and he definitely shows he cares about me (I have read capricorn venus and aquarius are slow and cautious with love..) but what signs should I look out for before he verbally expresses it?

Is he likely to say it first, or is he waiting for me to say it? If I say it first, would it scare him away?

I'm a Cancer sun and scorpio moon as well (I don't really know how 2 scorpio moons are supposed to relate to each other though)
with leo venus/mars

We actually get along surprisingly well though.

it also feels hard to predict him sometimes or figure out when he is saying something serious or just being sarcastic and joking because he seems more bubbly/energetic and animated than most aqua/scorp/cap venus that I've read about too..ha. I'm guessing that may be his sag mars coming into play, and he may have sag rising as well.

but he also has mentioned to me that he isn't a sentimental or very sensitive person so I'm afraid that things I do may not mean as much to him as I intended for it to, haha. It's hard to tell!

Anyway, any input would be nice! 🙂

Well with a watery moon he can definitely feel as much as he thinks. His over all disposition, however, you might want to look into dominants and aspects as such.

I'm still not great but lisabeth might be able to chime in here and help you out she's great with that 🙂 I personally don't believe in cusps because I'm a capaqua cusp myself but don't really relate to any of it. My mercury is in Capricorn so I can relate to need structure, reasoning, stability so that may be how he views love on a very basic level. If that's the case he won't be quick to jump to conclusions and will probably gauge you for a bit.

I'm still not sure how Mars effect internal conflict (after aspects) so if that's what you're wondering he might be flighty with Sag in mars because of this need for freedom and free-spiritedness.

I don't really see much here to indicate he'd be the verbal type but then again the majority of Aquas here if I remember don't really say I love you, me included. We're more action people.

well WC is the scorpio moon here, but also dominant scorpio in her chart.
you can look up dominant chart energies here:
http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/pullen-charts
http://www.astro.com/cgi/genchart.cgi?gm=pu
check google and search for more.

Sagittarius Mars, my husband has that. Definitely needs freedom. Similar to the Sun, weirdly. (it's probably too because they're both masculine energies for the male, while for the woman it's who they are attracted to) I don't know about the other aspects of your charts.

you can also check this astrology site. A Taurus Sun, Cancer Moon, Gemini rising researcher studies astrology on a deeper level, but his methods are so SIMPLE. anyone can understand it. It's not complicated at all:

He has a Capricorn Venus:


MOON or VENUS in CAPRICORN

The type of woman who attracts you is socially acceptable and somewhat formal or aloof - and serious about success or status.

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-capricorn.shtml

If she can boost your image or your career or finances, then likely she'll draw your interest - as may "Old Money" or OLDER women. As you get older yourself, you may be attracted to much YOUNGER women.

To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which better indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.
Powerful women or "executive" types also interest you; and it is important to you that you can regard your mate as competent and responsible and mature.

You are afraid of rejection, so may act rather shy or reserved - and can be drawn to a woman who is either equally reserved, or is willing to be assertive enough to take the emotional risks you can't take yourself.

You may appear to fear commitment, but what you really want is a very committed relationship with the right woman who will take commitment as seriously as you do - and you will wait as long as it takes until you are certain.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Sorry im not here to contribute anything helpful.

I just came to get wet.. On the Aqua board 🙂

Hi!

HI pssymonstaa *waves* 😄

** i meant your guy has a capricorn venus, which is similar to his moon's needs.

this is Mars in FIRE SIGNS:

LOVE style S:
Mars in FIRE SIGNS: Aries/Leo/Sagittarius

Suitors with Mars in FIRE Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love...
* active pursuer...prefer to be chooser and chaser; not be passive
* impulsive...fall in love too fast, too foolishly, too often
* passionate...very enthusiastic; very expressive about feelings
* forceful...can be assertive or aggressive in their pursuit.

Mars in ARIES acts...

* impetuous...is easily infatuated, then suddenly in hot pursuit
* direct and bold...makes intentions known; is never subtle or coy
* challenged...loves a new challenge; and the hard-to-get types
* competitive...loves the thrill of the chase, to win the prize
* ardent...pursues with a passion; is determined to catch you
* aggressive...may act macho or tough; might fight for you.

Mars in LEO acts...

* dramatic...courts you with a flamboyant flair; may "show off"
* romantic...sends flowers, reads poetry, stages sweet surprises
* regal...courts like a King or Queen, with an aristocratic air
* giving...gives gifts and treats; maybe more than s/he can afford
* warm...acts affectionate and friendly; makes you feel worthy
* proud...acts proud to be with you; may try to "show you off".

Mars in SAGITTARIUS acts...

* to-the-point...doesn't want to waste time on games or rituals
* blunt...shares opinions, whether you want to hear them or not
* adventurous...seeks to explore many new experiences with you
* freedom-loving...wants to avoid restrictions; gives you space
* philosophical or humourous...plays philosopher or clown; laughs
* companionable...wants to pal around with you; be friends first.

yeah, he is definitely action-oriented, just like I am as well. I'm not very good with expressing myself verbally 😢 but I think that has to do with me not wanting to get rejected in a sense whether emotionally or just not being reciprocated back (as much as I HATE to admit it!)

I just thought it was so interesting that even from the 3rd day we started hanging out, he was already bringing up kids (like asking how many I wanted and such).. things that for me I've never really thought about or put much thought into, especially at our ages (early 20s). He's brought that up a few times, and about 3 months ago said to me he can see being with me for a very long time..........then a couple months ago he said he wanted to be with me forever!
Things like that are very surprising to me. It doesn't really scare me, but it shocks me that he thinks/feels that way. I'm very focused on the here and now, although I do think about later on things from time to time.. but I guess I feel thinking too much about future things would add pressure to the relationship and "us", although I don't mind it at all. It may sound pessimistic but I tend to see it as, we never know what can happen.. anything can, even next week -- we never know. And that is kind of universal for making plans with friends or anyone else. Things around us are always changing.

I definitely see his need for time to himself once in a while, and we love spending time with each other, but I feel like it's come to a pattern of seeing each other every other day as if it's like an unspoken "rule", if that makes sense. I like to look at things as just wanting to see each other whenever we feel like it, and if/when we need time to ourselves for whatever reason, just take a couple days or whatever off. Or I would prefer it that way, at least, so there's no reason for it to be, "oh I saw you yesterday so that means I will see you tomorrow"

Perhaps that's where his sag mars comes into play ^ haha

Ah, also a few months ago too, we were talking about something jokingly, I guess he was bringing up the fact we thought and said the same thing about something. And I just jokingly said, " *gasp* Oh, we're like soulmates!" Then he was like, "hey I'm holding you to that. Remember you said that..!" He says it in a joking way, yet it seemed like he wanted to show, hey you're in this now. I'm sure a lot of people would be kind of freaked out at how fast he seems like he is moving, which actually with others I also feel pretty hesitant as well.. but with him, I kind of like it because it gives me a sense of security that he is there with me, he's serious about me, and I won't have to worry about what may happen to us in the near future.

He also includes me in his future plans and things like that too, so all of this shows commitment to me. I guess the issue for me is that I can tell that my feelings for him have grown increasingly stronger and I can tell that I've fallen for him. But my scorpio moon makes me not want to reveal that in possible fear of rejection and makes me not good with verbal expression either.. I hate it!
Is it better to just wait on his terms for him to say it, or do you think he rather me say it? He could be the type that rather not say or hear anything until later though, but I guess at this point it is kinda driving me nuts wanting to know! Ha :O

haha, lisabethur8 that is pretty accurate of our mars leo and sagittarius! I can't see much for his venus in capricorn though, although the last 2 paragraphs miiightttt make some sense.. he just seems more outspoken and unafraid to voice his opinions and feelings, which really throws me off! Kinda hard to tell....

🙂 Yep that's a Sagittarius Mars style of PURSUING love. It could also depend on his mercury. If he's got an earth merc, those blend with his Mars. And too, if he's a pisces mercury, astrologers say that is a merc in detriment. I dont have any probs with pisces mercs, they are just fine to me communication wise. My sis has that merc.

since your guy has a Scorpio Moon, it gets complicated cause they have even decans for moons and maybe other placements. But this is the link to Scorpio Moon and Venus, and what researcher Michael Star writes:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-scorpio.shtml

MOON or VENUS in SCORPIO

The type of woman who attracts you is very vital and gutsy, and passionate and intense. You go for dynamic and powerful types of women - who aren't wishy-washy or weak-willed, or passive or push-overs. Niceness bores you... but intensity interests you.

You can be enticed by secret affairs or "dangerous liasons".

To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.
You probably "test" the willpower of your partners, and don't really respect them unless they can stand up to your own strong personality. Or the opposite may occur - where you are drawn to a women with a stronger will (such as women with Sun or Mars in Scorpio).

Sexuality is a very important part of your relationships, and you can be enticed by a woman with a raw "animal magnetism" or overtly sexual appearance.

There is often an element of psychological power struggles in your relationships, even if on a subconscious level.

Scorpio Moon men sound rather sexy don't it? *raises eyebrows* LOL so there you go, you lucky gal you. 🙂

lol sorry can't help myself...*teehee* My husband's scorpio venus makes me giddy:



*ahem* anyway, since you have a double dose of Leo (Venus AND mars) you probably have less patience? He's got that Venus Capricorn to keep him in check too, but it's probably conflicting with his Mars in Sag. Cause sag wants to play. anyway good luck, sorry to cut short, gotta get to bed early. G'nite.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Sorry im not here to contribute anything helpful.

I just came to get wet.. On the Aqua board 🙂

Hi!

I cant help much on this one but Hi!

HAHHA lisabethur8 your pics made me laugh! Hm that is true, for the most part I'm extremely patient but for small things I can be very impatient when I really want to know the answer to something or find a reason behind another thing. I'm always on the search! He has Mercury in Capricorn, how do you think that affects him or comes into play? How does it work with his Mars in Sag?

This is all pretty helpful so far guys, thanks! (Or.. to those that participated haha) 😛

anyone else have anything to pitch in about this? I'd love to hear more about this type of person..!