Aquarius the lonely

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Why do we have to be so objective?

Why can't I feel like Im in the company of others if they cannot think for themselves?

Is it that I am never here.... But actually always deep in thought?

And is it possible that the reason for why there are so many cases of sociopathic/pshycopathic Aquarius men..... Dare I say because they spent so much time in thought and learned so much that the world turned into a very dark place.... Where they reasoned that if this all life has to offer in the end than I'm going to take from it all that I can And I don't care who gets hurt while in my way............

I think in general this is what happens to a lot of smart people... Ignorance is bliss .... Knowledge is misery
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I personally love living in my head and it does get lonely when i finally come out, but am usually back in there before loneliness gets a chance to engulf me. When im around people, i drift in and out (mentally), normally i find that people disturb me and i usually cant wait to be alone and get back in there. My mind is my sanctuary, my own creation and the only place where im completely happy. I honestly dont know/remember what i think about so much, but whatever it is it keeps me occupied and not really living in the moment tbh. In short, i think i would go completely crazy if i wasnt allowed to think.
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And the other thing, when im busy doing real life things ie. at work, i steal a few breaks to pause and think or if i dont do that it happens automatically...i drift faraway in thoughts. I think the line "your body is here with me, but your mind is on the other side of town" describes me personally.

I dont know if your topic is about the habitual thinking or not..just wanted to share and know that ur not alone if thats the case.
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That is part of it.... it's sort of the tragedy of who the Aquariun nature... well people who are always spending their time in thought.... half the time there is rarely anyone to share what it is you have discovered....

They will probably either be profoundly taken aback and know not what to say... or not understand at all.

And my topic is also about too.... Do you think that the smarter you get the more knowledge you attain equates to darker out looks on life... And can explain these crazy cra cra Aquarius we all hear about all the time.... or is that actually the cra cra Aqua's are just unevolved immature little children?
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I was a little harsh. All I will say is that Aquarius should make better choices.



I wonder what you originally said before that I'd embrace the harshness as long as it was true haha...

I agree we should make better decisions... or I should... I always tend to find something that I know will improve my understanding of things I'm confused or curious about and chose to put all other things aside to attain this knowledge... And it could include significant amounts of time taken out to do so...

Well..... I should say I used to be worse about that I am much more practical about this now. I take a pragmatic approach that I may not understand what I want to understand now... because I have more important things to take care but this subject will always be here later for me to reflect on.

Hmm, at least that is the idea... however I will admit I still don't follow it perfectly... Like right now I'm choosing to embrace astrology a lot more than usual only because I have found this outlet to discuss it with others... I probably haha should be studying for my final tommorrow... and the bad part is I have an A on every test so my mind is trying to play this game with me that I don't need to
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No darker life outlook on my part, jupiter touches my personal planet so im very optimistic. I wish to get smarter thou, lol. For me its like dis, the more time i spend alone with my thoughts, the less i care about real people, real life and some real issues. I honestly dont care much about here and now. If NOW sucks, a part of me thinks tomorrow will rock and be better, even if it doesnt...theres ALWAYS hope for a better day. Im that oblivious to today and now
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I only come outta my head if I feel like I can be challenged. Now, alot of things that someone else may consider important may not even register on my list. If I feel that I cannot relate, or if I chose not to relate then I stay within my mind and keep myself entertained. The reason that I do this is because if said person cannot actively hold my attention then my mind is gonna wandeeeeerrrr anyway. Its like, they have can a whole conversation with me and I wont hear a thing they are saying. I have to struggle to focus.

I do have a couple of friends that actually love to jump within my mind. What I mean by that is they open themselves up to MY possibilities. They love to see things through my eyes. You can really do deep with such a person.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

And my topic is also about too.... Do you think that the smarter you get the more knowledge you attain equates to darker out looks on life... And can explain these crazy cra cra Aquarius we all hear about all the time.... or is that actually the cra cra Aqua's are just unevolved immature little children?



I actually can somewhat understand this. From a capricorn perspective, the more knowledge you attain can equate to a possibly darker outlook. We are realist, so we get a glimpse of the realism of the cold, dark world. Can be quite depressing when your view of the world doesn't include sunshine, glitter and candy-coated truths.
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I'll agree in saying sometimes I feel lonely in my thinking. For me it's more like when I'm thinking I can't share it. And when I'm done thinking that's that I don't need to share it but mostly those thoughts I can't share is generally thoughts about myself and what I want to do.

General things I tend to be very open about. I know my mind can't possibly see all the angles and I ask others what they think, it helps me learn and see things in a new light. Maybe I'm the odd Aqua? I also hate this new age with ipods and ipads, when I want to know people I want to meet them in person, not online or anything else but here we are discussing things online 😉

I definitely understand thinking too much may impose a darker outlook in general but when you say knowledge, I disagree with that word. I use to think I know certain situations, I use to be quite negative and lock myself in my ways of thinking. But you know what it's what I think is true, did I consult others about my thoughts? no. So how can it be true no matter how logical and how thorough I try to dissect it. Us Aquas can only be miserable if you let yourself think that way. It doesn't mean things all suddenly become all fuzzy and good but you get the wider perspective.

It's okay to think and it might be hard to stop thinking but honestly just tell yourself to stop before you're permanently stuck in the past or future.