Aquarius woman panicking?

I was introduced to this Aquarius woman through a friend of my father's. We started speaking on the phone and though initially I was hesitant, I eventually started to enjoy talking with her. We spoke for hours every day and she actually told me that she liked me. This was an arranged marriage set-up and we are both not very traditional-minded, but we still kind of hit it off.

Then a week leter, we actually met. She travelled a long way to see me and it was a much shorter trip for me. We met with a couple of her friends also present. It was awkward meeting for the first time knowing well that our parents wanted us to marry. But it went off well enough.

I called her a couple of days later and she seemed hesitant. Said that she had doubts concerning whether I would be able to adapt to her changing ways and whether she will be able to be what I need from a life partner. I was sad and told her that I would not want her to be unhappy and we should call it off then. She asked if we can continue to be friends.

I said no. She started crying. Said she did like me and she would not have spent hours talking to me every night if she did not like me. I asked her if she needs more time to think about this. She said maybe. She also said that the prospect of an arranged marriage scares her.

I am thinking of going to her town and meeting her once again. Perhaps one awkward meeting was too little exposure to each other?

Any views on what is going on inside her head will be appreciated.

I am a Jan 4 Capricorn. She is a Feb 2 Aquarius.
My ascendant is Virgo. Hers I don't know.

You're being a little pushy. Pressuring the poor girl. Marriage is not something to jump into when you're not sure 😢 Especially an arranged marriage. Be nice and understanding Mr. Capricorn. Give her the time to be sure. Get to really know her. If you really want her that is. If you don't and you'd like to go fishing then part ways.

That's the thing. It seemed to me that she was really into it. Perhaps I was wrong. I would hate to make her sad.

marriage is a big thing for Aquas, aquas hate being pushed to do anything, even a simple kiss must be thought through, what more if it's marriege. get yourself a Taurus girl, she will marry you by yesterday.

Posted by vomisa
I was introduced to this Aquarius woman through a friend of my father's. We started speaking on the phone and though initially I was hesitant, I eventually started to enjoy talking with her. We spoke for hours every day and she actually told me that she liked me. This was an arranged marriage set-up and we are both not very traditional-minded, but we still kind of hit it off.

Then a week leter, we actually met. She travelled a long way to see me and it was a much shorter trip for me. We met with a couple of her friends also present. It was awkward meeting for the first time knowing well that our parents wanted us to marry. But it went off well enough.

I called her a couple of days later and she seemed hesitant. Said that she had doubts concerning whether I would be able to adapt to her changing ways and whether she will be able to be what I need from a life partner. I was sad and told her that I would not want her to be unhappy and we should call it off then. She asked if we can continue to be friends.

I said no. She started crying. Said she did like me and she would not have spent hours talking to me every night if she did not like me. I asked her if she needs more time to think about this. She said maybe. She also said that the prospect of an arranged marriage scares her.

I am thinking of going to her town and meeting her once again. Perhaps one awkward meeting was too little exposure to each other?

Any views on what is going on inside her head will be appreciated.

I am a Jan 4 Capricorn. She is a Feb 2 Aquarius.
My ascendant is Virgo. Hers I don't know.

I'll answer this in a bit, you seem very earthy and practical and thats not a bad thing. It kinda depends on her placements, what year was she born and where?

she was born in 1988, In Raipur, Chhattisgarh, India.

OK, you are being very practical, she wants to be romanced. Her Sun is Aqua, her Moon is in Leo and her Venus is in Pisces. This is a superficial guess, but those planets tell me she very much wants friendship and love. In fact Leo Moons thrive on love, and are very self conscious about public image. Her Leo moon maybe saying, Ok so its arranged, but I want it to be the best arranged marriage!

Her Aqua sun wants to be friends as well as spouses, with her spouse giving her the space she needs to be an individual, she fears being locked down in a traditional manner. Her reaction to you wanting to call it off immediately probably made her think you were only interested in her as a wife and not much else, otherwise wouldn't you WANT to be her friend? Her Venus speaks to dreamy romanticism, so....Mr Practical this maybe a challenge for you.

Actually, I just found oout her Moon is Cancer. Does that change things?