Aquas Aquas Aquas....the continuation of my story

I wanted to make a post for everyone here in case I don't have much time to respond individually this week (I'll soon!).

As some of you know, I came to this forum because I wanted to understand my ex-girfriend of a year, who is an Aqua (with a Venus in Aries, my Venus is in Libra) a bit better.

We had broken-up and it seemed as if we got back, but then she was so indecisive and confusing that I had to break things off (only she first broke things off the first time)...

Well, so I decided to pick up my desires and good intentions and move on.
I meet this beautiful Libra girl one night (known as cute Libra here) and she's fantastic and so ready to develop something with me, at my pace.

One month and a little over passed by since I met that Libra, and although I didn't wanted to cell her my gf, we truly were exclusive with each other and were getting closer to that place I needed to take things to the next level.

So, out of the sudden, Ms. Aqua decides to get back into my life...sigh.

First she texts me, then she sends e-mails...I'm thinking, she's doing her Aqua thing trying to be friends with her ex...so I barely reply back and keep on moving. One day, I get this one e-mail (that some of you know) where she pretty much tells me she can't barely breathe because she missed me so much.

All this is happening of course, as I'm getting ready to ask the Libra to be my gf...phew...and of course Ms. Aqua knew, but she said she couldn't help herslef when she said that...

So, I eventually gave into her desires to see me again...which brought up only more feelings out of my heart...and when I saw Ms. Aqua cryin, I was crying inside...

I think Libra has been better for me in many ways...but I can't control my heart...and my heart may love Ms. Aqua still....

I had to tell cute Libra about how I've been feeling, and she thinks I just freaked out because the same day cute Libra said that she loved me!

So now, I got these two in my life trying to see if there is a chance...and once again I feel so torn an confused.

I can't stop loving my Aqua, but is she really going to be better this time? Is she even really the person I need?

I can't love my Libra as much yet, but is because we only dated for a month? Is she someone I feel complete drawn towards like I did to my ex? Am I ready for what she may need?

At the end, I had to request them both some time off to process things out...
Oh Aquas, what is is with your timing? I'm torn.

By the way, to all my friends aquas here (you know who you are)...thank you for all your fine words and advices! You are defenitely a caring and helpful sign....that is for sure!

hey there...

it is crazy how similar your situation is to mine, only i was hanging out with a sag, not a libra and i didn't really have much feelings for him past a friends level. but your aqua and mine are so similar (as i have said before)!!!

and like i have said before, you must follow your heart on this one. that is what i did. but i also didn't have any doubt that i still loved my aqua. he may leave me again someday, i am well aware of that. and if it happens, it happens. and if he keeps coming back then it is meant to be...of course i am scared of what is to come, but no matter who you end up with, nothing is 100% certain. there are no guarantees in life. so even if you stay with your cute little libra girl, things have the tendency to fall apart one day...anything can happen. and of course everything with her seems great now, it has only been one month...it better be great, right? although, the fact that she has already said "i love you" to you is a little creepy...at least i think so. a little too soon for that in my opinion...but, you need to do what you feel in YOUR heart. you can't keep asking us on here what to do, because this is YOUR decision to make. i know it is hard, but only you can do this.

good luck to you...

Hey VLL

Well I have been guilty of coming around at the wrong time. Take your time and think about it...You never know what you got till its gone (so true for aquas I see).

Follow your heart as moonchild said and your head (since your a virgo).

I wish you the best...look on the bright side, 2 girls, you must be a GREAT guy. 🙂

VWLL....not trying to make little of your situation....but the classic song "Torn between two lovers...feelin' like a fool - loving both of you is breakin' allthe rules"...just keeps going thru my head:-) Rules are made to be broken so as you say, take your time, enjoy both their company although now Ms. Libra may be backing off herself to avoid more hurt.....oh those aquas:-)!!!

Hope you got my PM yesterday though with my own thoughts.

Alana x

moonchild,

i know we got similar stories, how interesting. good luck in this new stage with your aqua!
yes, i know i can't make decisions based on what people say here, although i have to say many of the aqua ladies here were right on target about some of things they said.

nonetheless, what i come here for is mainly to vent a bit, hear some comments, and just maybe give others an insight into what is like to have a relationship with aquas in at least this one case.

i'm trying to fall my heart and mind in this one. right now i just pulled a bit away from both, libra and aqua, to get in touch with my thoughts and process things for a bit.

lady m,

yes, you are right, maybe i should feel somehow special to be in this situation...they both are beautiful and have been so honest with me about their intentions lately. i must be a very very lucky guy.

i don't like hurting people though, that's why i'm nervous right now, because i know no matter what decision i make, someone will get hurt.
i told my aqua, i know you will be fine with everything (since she always said that in the past) but she said, no, she wouldn't be fine with me letting this chance go...
i may talk to her later tonight.
i think at this point i'm trying to figure her out...kinda trying to see if her intentions are real and also if i feel like i could give it another try..

i know what my heart feels for her, but right now i need to be logical and make the right choice...not the one that feels best but the one that is the best ya know.

thank you for your words lady m!

alana!

how are you? i read your message and we have to stay in touch. i can't believe you dated a virgo for so long, since we supposedly break the mold or something!
you guys must really love each other...but i know right now you are also torn...

your thoughts about my situation were so right in target.
i think aquas although are more logical than emotional...do feel afraid of many things...just like virgos do. so we act in ways that many times are the opposite of what we would want and show off a "i got it all together" look...

my ex aqua was so hard to read in her e-mails...but i guess, like you said, it was her way to let me know, in between lines, that she wanted me back and was waiting to see how i would respond.

she was so afraid to let me know directly what she wanted, but when we met, she cried...and i knew how she felt, even when she didn't say a word...