Aquas, how do you feel about holding hands?

Just curious to the Aqua take on this.

How do you feel about it?
What does it mean?
Etc,

(OK, I'll admit got the idea from the Scorp board).

My aqua did it at the beginning of our relationship. I found it quite odd as the ex never used to do the whole pda thing and definitely didn't hold my hand so it was all new for me and took me by surprise and confusion (sounds silly). Secretly, I loved it. I loved how he took authority when going for my hand. He made me feel like number one.

He won't do it anymore tho since I made a mistake and told him I loved it but wasn't used to it but it was great while it lasted. He said he does hold hands and do pda usually so I think it's a thing most Aqua's like. He isn't shy with it at all. I just stuffed up my share of it!

I can go without it, but I felt special when we did it.

I love it too, especially if the attraction is electric. I feel closer to the person somehow...i think aquas are more emo than we let on 🙂

My aqua never used to , but as recently I have got my foot fractured so he is being a bit extra tender and a bit mushy, helping me to hop around, or getting me up from chair. It's amusing and honestly touching at the same time, because he used to carry the persona of indifference and coldness very convincingly. So his newly found gentleness and caring ways, along with some healthy dose of PDA thrown in, is quite endearing.

Yea the PDA I feel is more reassurance for you guys then it is for us. From what I've seen a lot of us do not like the holding hands thing. If were doing it usually it's so you feel protected and that you are with us. Examples would be if you were walking through a crowd and I could sense discomfort I would go for a hand hold or walking with just us at night. It's just more of a protecting a loved one then an attraction to me at least.

Depends on how you feel about someone, sometimes you feel you wanna hold someones hand sometimes you dont. For me I like to hold hands always and never let go. It depends on the relationship really. Not sure how others are like though

Yeh I am a caprrcorn by the way. Not very showy in the holding hands department unless I am in a relationship with someone. Then I am like all lovey-dovey. Depends on the relationship as well, some guys jsut dont like holding hands and if this is so then I wont hold hands coz they dont want to even if i want to. Also if I feel comfortable in holding hands with someone, I never hold hands with just anyone. Its really depends on if I feel I want to hold hands with a person or not and if they dod or not. Am I a holding hands person? Never thought about that before, for me its more depandant on the person, some people you can hold hands with some you cant.

i could live with or without it. its not really consistent on my part. I dont mind holding the persons hand .ONLY if its to show them how much i like them. but if its required or to pamper their feelings i tend not to reinforce that behavior. haha ok thats really mean of me. for instance, i was dating a leo and jesus we are so incompatible. He woudl find everything i do to be confusing. like when we kissed i giggled..im also very not "emo" but a hopeless romantic and i blush. giggling was a way to just express my comfort and excitement. he took it as rejection. I would hold his arm and pinky...i have this thing. i like holding the guy's pinky. anyways then i would run off and talk to other people, chase those butterflies the things aquas and air signs do. i come back and hes cold as a piece of hot ice. later on he expresses me "i dont know what to do with you..you dont notice me and i really like it if you hold me more" So its not that i dont like it..i just dont want my freedom to be replaced by constant hand holding.

i love holding hands, but my favourite is when I hang on to my husband's arm, sort of like old fashioned but i love that so much. I love to be close to him when we're anywhere. it's almost like, sheild me, protect me and hold me but i feel so comfortable and happy in that way.

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i could live with or without it. its not really consistent on my part. I dont mind holding the persons hand .ONLY if its to show them how much i like them. but if its required or to pamper their feelings i tend not to reinforce that behavior. haha ok thats really mean of me. for instance, i was dating a leo and jesus we are so incompatible. He woudl find everything i do to be confusing. like when we kissed i giggled..im also very not "emo" but a hopeless romantic and i blush. giggling was a way to just express my comfort and excitement. he took it as rejection. I would hold his arm and pinky...i have this thing. i like holding the guy's pinky. anyways then i would run off and talk to other people, chase those butterflies the things aquas and air signs do. i come back and hes cold as a piece of hot ice. later on he expresses me "i dont know what to do with you..you dont notice me and i really like it if you hold me more" So its not that i dont like it..i just dont want my freedom to be replaced by constant hand holding.

I giggle all the time with someone i feel a strong attraction to. But i also dont hold hands with everyone and i only like it in private moments alone not all out in public

Posted by candi3bb
i could live with or without it. its not really consistent on my part. I dont mind holding the persons hand .ONLY if its to show them how much i like them. but if its required or to pamper their feelings i tend not to reinforce that behavior. haha ok thats really mean of me. for instance, i was dating a leo and jesus we are so incompatible. He woudl find everything i do to be confusing. like when we kissed i giggled..im also very not "emo" but a hopeless romantic and i blush. giggling was a way to just express my comfort and excitement. he took it as rejection. I would hold his arm and pinky...i have this thing. i like holding the guy's pinky. anyways then i would run off and talk to other people, chase those butterflies the things aquas and air signs do. i come back and hes cold as a piece of hot ice. later on he expresses me "i dont know what to do with you..you dont notice me and i really like it if you hold me more" So its not that i dont like it..i just dont want my freedom to be replaced by constant hand holding.

lol I've done the giggle thing in the middle of the first kiss before. I think she thought I was high thought :/

It makes my skin crawl

HAHAHA i once told a guy right when he inserted * ....."OMG!!! you are so CLEVER!!" he cracked up laughing we laughed for a good 1 min. hAHHA sigh sex should be fun.

im so glad to hear im not the only one who does that giggling thing. i was starting to wonder if all my cheerios werent all in one bowl!

LOL! I get the giggling thing too and guys are always commenting about it. I even had a bartender compliment me about it because I guess I was just sounding flirtatious? That is our playful side that is a good thing.
I'm not a big hand holder, but I do like to be close and touch in public. I might put my hand on his leg or lean in if he puts his arm on my chair. I'll even sit in his lap if the situation is comfy. That's my PDA.
At home, it's an all-out thing.

My Aqua is big into the PDA- hand holding, hugs, hair petting- he's been extra touchy-feely lately. He also absolutely craves massages- back and legs.