Aquas how territorial are you?

Growing up under my mother’s roof I never had a lock on my door and everyone was free to come and go from my room. I never felt like I had a space to call my own I merely inhabited spaces and I hated it. Mum would always come in and dump shit on my floor like my brother’s clothes and toys after I cleaned up and it got to the point where I thought there is no point in cleaning my room fuck it.

My number 1 need for me besides the essentials is my own space. it is so sacred and important that I have a room to myself, I spend 90% of my time in my room naked, but that’s not what’s important.

I hate it when someone lets themselves into my room, I know when someone has been in my room I’m very anal about that....I know I said I had a messy room when I was a kid but now that Im old enough to live in my own place I keep my room perfect

My room mate’s sister and boyfriend is staying with us from Germany and we were all nice, everything is fine until I come home from work and my phone charger is missing, so I turned my whole room upside down looking for it, I even turned my futon mattresses over and made a huge scene about it only to find out that they let themselves into my room and took my charger. I walked past their bedroom and saw my charger on their bed, it took me ages to work up the nerve to ask them if it was my charger and I did and they were very apologetic about it but I’m still really pissed off with them about it who the fuck does that?!

I remember when I was a kid and I’d go to my friends house and they would take me to their parents bedroom and it would freak me out to go into their room and it even freaks me out when I go to a friends house and they have room mates and my friend gives me a tour and they show me their friends room like open the door up and shit.

If my roommate did that to me while I was out I’d pack my shit up and get the fuck out of there.

What I’m trying to get at is my room is sacred, if someone goes in there or they don’t honour my privacy I’ll reject that room and I’ll relinquish ownership of that room until I find another one.

I remember I rented a room out and the landlord would let himself into my apartment, I wanted to rip his head off

Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

Posted by STILL
Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

my husband doesn't even like to take up the neighbor's offer of free, delicioius dinners, of a few neighbors already. he's not interested.

with family and close friends, he is definitely.

edit -- so what do you think? lol i'm with him sooooo.... whatever he wants i like and me likey.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by STILL
Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

my husband doesn't even like to take up the neighbor's offer of free, delicioius dinners, of a few neighbors already. he's not interested.

with family and close friends, he is definitely.

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Hbu?

Posted by STILL

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by STILL
Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

my husband doesn't even like to take up the neighbor's offer of free, delicioius dinners, of a few neighbors already. he's not interested.

with family and close friends, he is definitely.

Hbu?

oh look at my edit lol

hbu - how about you?

Posted by Capmercury87
I'm the same way. I used to set traps.

Then when they are relaxing I'd walk up to said person and say "you know my room is booby trapped right? Stay the f out of it"

Call me a bitch but that's my shit.

My room mates avoided me and we're scared of me. It created hostility but that's what they asked for by going into my room.

I even caught a room mate going in my room while I was in it. You know what she said when she saw me " oh I didn't know you were in here"

I said "oh yeah who were you expecting dumb ass"

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lol

Posted by STILL

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by STILL
Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

my husband doesn't even like to take up the neighbor's offer of free, delicioius dinners, of a few neighbors already. he's not interested.

with family and close friends, he is definitely.

Hbu?

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That's okay you answered my question in your edit lol

Posted by Capmercury87
I'm the same way. I used to set traps.

Then when they are relaxing I'd walk up to said person and say "you know my room is booby trapped right? Stay the f out of it"

Call me a bitch but that's my shit.

My room mates avoided me and we're scared of me. It created hostility but that's what they asked for by going into my room.

I even caught a room mate going in my room while I was in it. You know what she said when she saw me " oh I didn't know you were in here"

I said "oh yeah who were you expecting dumb ass"

😂😂😂

I’m the EXACT same way. I can’t stand people touching my things or in my space without permission. It’s so rude.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by STILL
Yeah I don't like people in my personal space

my husband doesn't even like to take up the neighbor's offer of free, delicioius dinners, of a few neighbors already. he's not interested.

with family and close friends, he is definitely.

edit -- so what do you think? lol i'm with him sooooo.... whatever he wants i like and me likey.

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Are you saying they invite you to their place?

Posted by Wineaux15
I’m the EXACT same way. I can’t stand people touching my things or in my space without permission. It’s so rude.

Yeah I don't understand that either. I'm pretty generous. All you have to do is ask just don't go into my personal space without permission.