@ZoNo
8 Years
May have annoyed/offended an Aquarian
Need more details. What did you do that may have offended him/her? What's the person's sign?
I have no idea what it is that I had done. One day we are hanging out together for like 5 hours and said goodbye to each other on good terms and the next day ice cold towards me.
I am an Aries Sun Libra Moon and they are Aquarius Sun Virgo Moon.
Posted by ZoNo
I have no idea what it is that I had done. One day we are hanging out together for like 5 hours and said goodbye to each other on good terms and the next day ice cold towards me.I am an Aries Sun Libra Moon and they are Aquarius Sun Virgo Moon.
Idk it's mystery to me. I'm not like that. Maybe you should ask him/her?
What type of relationship is it? What are your sexes?
I have tried once to ask them if I have done anything to offend them and they just told me to stop, so I've never brought it back up again.
I am openly Lesbian and they are non-binary who has a boyfriend for show.
Is this someone you like or just a friend?
Why are you using terms like they or them, like it is more than 1 person. It's an anonymous board. You can use him/ her. No one will know lol.
As it read, it seems like you're talking about a crowd of people 😂😂😂
@STILL what's your previous username?
@Saggurl88 Because they are non-binary that is why I am using They and Them.
@pinkbird03 It is a friend because they have a partner. If they were single I would be interested
I just want to know what would make an Aquarian go cold for 2 weeks straight at someone.
Posted by ZoNo
@Saggurl88 Because they are non-binary that is why I am using They and Them.@pinkbird03 It is a friend because they have a partner. If they were single I would be interested
I just want to know what would make an Aquarian go cold for 2 weeks straight at someone.
Does this friend know you are interested in them? Maybe he or she is uncomfortable with it and wants space from you.
Yes they do I told them 5 months ago and they had no problem with it. Everything continued as normal until this recent incident.
Posted by AerialView
@STILL what's your previous username?
This is my first and only username. What made you think otherwise?
Posted by STILL
Posted by AerialView
@STILL what's your previous username?
This is my first and only username. What made you think otherwise?
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Just checking (: I'd like to know my Aqua ladies.
I like your writings.
Posted by Lioness18881
Posted by ZoNo
Yes they do I told them 5 months ago and they had no problem with it. Everything continued as normal until this recent incident.
In my experience, when an aqua is pissed or annoyed, you can't tell at the time. They pretend that nothing is wrong and then go away to think about it instead of reacting to it. Unless you're super self aware and perceptive, you won't know what you did wrong but you will know later because the behaviour shifts. They will bring it up and tease you with it in a joking way, but you might not realise if you don't pay attention to details.
Things that will piss them off is being rejected in any way. Saying no or that you don't want to do something that they want you to do. If they suggest doing something but you're busy suggest an alternate day instead of just saying you're busy. It also goes reverse and anything you push them for that they don't want will also cause this.
They also refuse to accept that they did something wrong, were mean or treated you badly. They think they are always right and that they are awesome so bursting their bubble is a good way to piss them off also.
To apologise to an aqua, you need to figure out what you did wrong, and say you are sorry for that specific behaviour so that it shows that you thought about it and know what you did. Explain why if you need to, because they're too dumb to realise you felt hurt about something and acted out. They will tell you it's fine and are more likely to let it go if you can acknowledge your part in the mess.
They're hard work. Good luck!
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Are you speaking about the men only?
Also, you seem as though you're starting to feel resentment towards Aquas. Are you ok?
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Posted by STILL
Posted by AerialView
@STILL what's your previous username?
This is my first and only username. What made you think otherwise?
Just checking (: I'd like to know my Aqua ladies.
I like your writings.
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😁 oh yeah! Thanks. I take pleasure in reading your post as well.
You must've saw what I wrote to @saggurl88 regarding aqua men on the board about the aqua being jealous.
👆 hey @saggurl88! There's your shout out.😜
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Posted by STILL
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Posted by ZoNo
Yes they do I told them 5 months ago and they had no problem with it. Everything continued as normal until this recent incident.
In my experience, when an aqua is pissed or annoyed, you can't tell at the time. They pretend that nothing is wrong and then go away to think about it instead of reacting to it. Unless you're super self aware and perceptive, you won't know what you did wrong but you will know later because the behaviour shifts. They will bring it up and tease you with it in a joking way, but you might not realise if you don't pay attention to details.
Things that will piss them off is being rejected in any way. Saying no or that you don't want to do something that they want you to do. If they suggest doing something but you're busy suggest an alternate day instead of just saying you're busy. It also goes reverse and anything you push them for that they don't want will also cause this.
They also refuse to accept that they did something wrong, were mean or treated you badly. They think they are always right and that they are awesome so bursting their bubble is a good way to piss them off also.
To apologise to an aqua, you need to figure out what you did wrong, and say you are sorry for that specific behaviour so that it shows that you thought about it and know what you did. Explain why if you need to, because they're too dumb to realise you felt hurt about something and acted out. They will tell you it's fine and are more likely to let it go if you can acknowledge your part in the mess.
They're hard work. Good luck!
Are you speaking about the men only?
Also, you seem as though you're starting to feel resentment towards Aquas. Are you ok?
Sorry, i didn't mean it to sound harsh by saying the dumb bit. I was retracing any mad bits or annoying bits with my aqua to answer the question. I usually focus on positive things but to flick to negative aspects, i need to tie memories to emotions to trace back and remember them because bad parts are bits i don't like remembering.
There's usually a reason for the distance. People in general don't do it for no reason. And often they see someones reaction with out looking for cause. Aqua or not.
She is aware that she has done something but doesn't know what, so i figured I'll put out all the things i noticed in my aqua specifically and that's why i said from my experience.
I didn't mean to offend or be mean. But maybe i am mad at the moment too. It will pass but right now this is what I'm feeling because I'm hurt and mad at myself and feeling things that are scattered and confusing right now.
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Hey, it's ok. I get it. I was just checking on ya.
It's natural to be upset when you separate from someone you cared about and was use being in contact with often. You are always positive, so you are entitled to be angry sometimes. Every moment is not always rainbows and unicorns.
BTW don't be mad at yourself I think you handled every correctly.
Do not bother! There are no double games here, so forget about it!
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Posted by ZoNo
Yes they do I told them 5 months ago and they had no problem with it. Everything continued as normal until this recent incident.
In my experience, when an aqua is pissed or annoyed, you can't tell at the time. They pretend that nothing is wrong and then go away to think about it instead of reacting to it. Unless you're super self aware and perceptive, you won't know what you did wrong but you will know later because the behaviour shifts. They will bring it up and tease you with it in a joking way, but you might not realise if you don't pay attention to details.
Things that will piss them off is being rejected in any way. Saying no or that you don't want to do something that they want you to do. If they suggest doing something but you're busy suggest an alternate day instead of just saying you're busy. It also goes reverse and anything you push them for that they don't want will also cause this.
They also refuse to accept that they did something wrong, were mean or treated you badly. They think they are always right and that they are awesome so bursting their bubble is a good way to piss them off also.
To apologise to an aqua, you need to figure out what you did wrong, and say you are sorry for that specific behaviour so that it shows that you thought about it and know what you did. Explain why if you need to, because they're too dumb to realise you felt hurt about something and acted out. They will tell you it's fine and are more likely to let it go if you can acknowledge your part in the mess.
They're hard work. Good luck!
Are you speaking about the men only?
Also, you seem as though you're starting to feel resentment towards Aquas. Are you ok?
Sorry, i didn't mean it to sound harsh by saying the dumb bit. I was retracing any mad bits or annoying bits with my aqua to answer the question. I usually focus on positive things but to flick to negative aspects, i need to tie memories to emotions to trace back and remember them because bad parts are bits i don't like remembering.
There's usually a reason for the distance. People in general don't do it for no reason. And often they see someones reaction with out looking for cause. Aqua or not.
She is aware that she has done something but doesn't know what, so i figured I'll put out all the things i noticed in my aqua specifically and that's why i said from my experience.
I didn't mean to offend or be mean. But maybe i am mad at the moment too. It will pass but right now this is what I'm feeling because I'm hurt and mad at myself and feeling things that are scattered and confusing right now.
Hey, it's ok. I get it. I was just checking on ya.
It's natural to be upset when you separate from someone you cared about and was use being in contact with often. You are always positive, so you are entitled to be angry sometimes. Every moment is not always rainbows and unicorns.
BTW don't be mad at yourself I think you handled every correctly.
Thank you 🌈🦄
I know. I get angry but only for a few minutes then it goes. i try not to stay stuck in negative for too long but i need it to see reality
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You're welcome. I agree. ☺
Posted by Lioness18881
Posted by STILL
Posted by Lioness18881
Posted by ZoNo
Yes they do I told them 5 months ago and they had no problem with it. Everything continued as normal until this recent incident.
In my experience, when an aqua is pissed or annoyed, you can't tell at the time. They pretend that nothing is wrong and then go away to think about it instead of reacting to it. Unless you're super self aware and perceptive, you won't know what you did wrong but you will know later because the behaviour shifts. They will bring it up and tease you with it in a joking way, but you might not realise if you don't pay attention to details.
Things that will piss them off is being rejected in any way. Saying no or that you don't want to do something that they want you to do. If they suggest doing something but you're busy suggest an alternate day instead of just saying you're busy. It also goes reverse and anything you push them for that they don't want will also cause this.
They also refuse to accept that they did something wrong, were mean or treated you badly. They think they are always right and that they are awesome so bursting their bubble is a good way to piss them off also.
To apologise to an aqua, you need to figure out what you did wrong, and say you are sorry for that specific behaviour so that it shows that you thought about it and know what you did. Explain why if you need to, because they're too dumb to realise you felt hurt about something and acted out. They will tell you it's fine and are more likely to let it go if you can acknowledge your part in the mess.
They're hard work. Good luck!
Are you speaking about the men only?
Also, you seem as though you're starting to feel resentment towards Aquas. Are you ok?
Also, I'm watching jessica jones on netflix so i think I'm absorbing attitude through the tv 😂
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😂😂 yes TV will change your mood.
I started watching certain shows, (that will remain nameless) over the yrs to help soften my hard edges and among other things, it helped. 😊
Posted by STILL
👆 hey @saggurl88! There's your shout out.😜
😁😂😂😂😂
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by STILL
👆 hey @saggurl88! There's your shout out.😜
😁😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂
People who don’t use their mouth and communicate are so mentally exhausting. 🤒 I wonder who dates/marries people like them. Just thinking about casually dating someone like that makes me feel tired.
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
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Personal experience?
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
Personal experience?
I've seen it.
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It's true tho. I've done that to some as part of the punishment.
Guilty 😞
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
Personal experience?
I've seen it.
It's true tho. I've done that to some as part of the punishment.
Guilty 😞
Thas cuz ur a brat
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The most brat avi I've ever seen in here is your current avi 😂
I am openly Lesbian and they are non-binary who has a boyfriend for show.
How very Uranian.....
😀
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
Personal experience?
I've seen it.
It's true tho. I've done that to some as part of the punishment.
Guilty 😞
Thas cuz ur a brat
The most brat avi I've ever seen in here is your current avi 😂
I bet you look more like a brat, but you're too much of a brat to show yourself
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I won't bite the challenge 😜😂
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
Personal experience?
I've seen it.
It's true tho. I've done that to some as part of the punishment.
Guilty 😞
Thas cuz ur a brat
The most brat avi I've ever seen in here is your current avi 😂
I bet you look more like a brat, but you're too much of a brat to show yourself
I won't bite the challenge 😜😂
I know, I've already tried a bazillion times
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Not easy to crack a full aware mature Aquarius 😜😂
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Posted by Smidge
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Smidge
Posted by Koniuchaa
He won’t tell you why he is upset at you?Sounds like a little bee-otch. I’d do a hard pass on that
Because it's part of the punishment.
Personal experience?
I've seen it.
It's true tho. I've done that to some as part of the punishment.
Guilty 😞
Thas cuz ur a brat
The most brat avi I've ever seen in here is your current avi 😂
I bet you look more like a brat, but you're too much of a brat to show yourself
I won't bite the challenge 😜😂
I know, I've already tried a bazillion times
Not easy to crack a full aware mature Aquarius 😜😂
Ew. I actually cringed.
I'm leaving now
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Bye-bye 👋
You're hilarious tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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So I may have offended an Aquarian without actually realising it until the next day when they stopped talking to me all together like ice cold shoulder ignored me. For 2 weeks they were like that and it's only been in the past couple of days that they have actually started talking to me again but they are one moment laughing at my jokes and being friendly towards me and than the next moment they are being very sarcastic and snappy towards me. Is this normal Aquarian behaviour?
I have tried once to ask them if I have done anything to offend them and they just told me to stop, so I've never brought it back up again.