aquas males are capable to love?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by starlit88 on Thursday, January 4, 2018 and has 11 replies.

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@starlit88
8 Years

Hello everyone, im an aqua female. i have this aqua male friend and we talk almost daily unless we are busy, we flirt and we click. the thing is:

1. we have been friends for 3 years now

2. whenever he disappear he comes back. and when he is back he is rude and mean and blame me for not asking about him.

3. and when i do, he ignores.

4. he is cold but yet sweet

5. never talks about his feelings

6. he keeps telling me that im his best friend

7. what shocks me the most that WE DONT MEET! and i hate that! we meet once every month maybe.

8. he keeps telling me that when he is ready he will be with me in a relationship.

now i apologies for making this boring and long, but i like this guy and i dont know what to do, im not allowed to have male friends because of him and there are alot of male friends that wants to be friends with me. and im afraid that ill wait more 3 years and he wont take a step with me.

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@Bullhead7098
8 YearsTaurus

He wants you on his terms and if you have anything to say about that, he’s a ghost. I’ve dealt with an aqua male before and to say the least, I was burned out after two months. They take games to a whole different level.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Bullhead7098
He wants you on his terms and if you have anything to say about that, he’s a ghost. I’ve dealt with an aqua male before and to say the least, I was burned out after two months. They take games to a whole different level.

You couldn’t have said it better!!

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Lawl

Funny isnt it.

Are you capable though? That is the question.

Im more than capable.

Whats more than capable?

Willing?

This thread turns into another bashing aqua male thread.

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I was tempted to start the "aquas are evil" convo again. But I stopped myself. 😉

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Haha you wish.

No ones gonna believe you on that, we represents The Star in Tarot 😂

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Lawl

Funny isnt it.

Are you capable though? That is the question.

Im more than capable.

Whats more than capable?

Willing?

This thread turns into another bashing aqua male thread.

😂😂

I was tempted to start the "aquas are evil" convo again. But I stopped myself. 😉

Haha you wish.

No ones gonna believe you on that, we represents The Star in Tarot 😂

They'll find out in their own time.

At least I'm safe.

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Lol 😂😂😂

Actually its we who are saved from you crazy aries.

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@starlit88
8 Years

Posted by JadeAlexander
I found when Aqua wanted me there was no doubt. He changed his schedule, he was direct about it and assertive about what he wanted.

It sounds to me like you’re being toyed with.

Thank you for the reply, I do feel that I’m being toyed but sometimes I feel bad for him and I really care about him, I don’t know how to react or do

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@starlit88
8 Years

Posted by Bullhead7098
He wants you on his terms and if you have anything to say about that, he’s a ghost. I’ve dealt with an aqua male before and to say the least, I was burned out after two months. They take games to a whole different level.

I agree with u, do u have any advices on how to deal with him?

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@Bullhead7098
8 YearsTaurus

Posted by starlit88

Posted by Bullhead7098
He wants you on his terms and if you have anything to say about that, he’s a ghost. I’ve dealt with an aqua male before and to say the least, I was burned out after two months. They take games to a whole different level.

I agree with u, do u have any advices on how to deal with him?

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In my experience, I was always so eager and excited to talk to him and even if I wasn’t super flirty or desperate about it - I think just being open to conversation gave him the impression he had me where he wanted me. SO my advice would be to make yourself less available and when he does reach out, take your time replying, live your life before being his partner. I spent countless hours learning about the aqua male and if I learned anything its that they really don’t like clinginess, they want someone who is crazy busy with fascinating stories/conversation.

If I could do it over, every time he came back, I’d make it look like I was so busy with something else I didn’t even realize he left. And honestly it does boil down to a point where you have to ask yourself how much longer you wanna keep playing games with him. I love games but after awhile it got very confusing not knowing where I stood and I’m a Gemini venus, games are my centerpiece. I guess you just have to ask yourself what you want and what you expect long term. But definitely be careful talking to him about how you feel - they scare super easily.