Are aquarius men afraid of intimacy?

I'm dating a guy who doesn't want to see me on weekends and only sees me every 2 weeks for only about 3 hours. I always feel he's being physically distant from me. And he isn't using me, we didn't have sex yet and he even said he wants to take it slow. Is this an aquarius thing? Or should I move on? 😢

Fear of intimacy is a lie women tell themselves.

If he's not wanting to see you more often, the fact is he's not wanting to see you more often.

Live your life. Don't make excuses for him.

He either wants to see you or he doesn't.

Not an aquarius thing. It's a man thing.

Aqua does take it slow for what it's worth.

Build the foundation.

is this the "netflix and chill" guy?!

My aqua and I live about 2 hours away from each other. We both like our space and we're not all over each other so even though we don't see each other a ton we make sure to talk every day. He doesn't ask for me to come up there for him nor would I just go up there to just see him (we're not official yet & I live w/ my parents), but I'm in his city all the time (used to live there/looking to relocate). When I am up there we always make time to see each other. He'll say "well I was going to do this but I won't go because I want to spend more time with you" or if he's working (photographer) he'll ask me to come to the set so that way we can still see each other. Even if he's super busy he'll tell me and still try to find a way to see each other rather it works out or not. Bottom line is even though he doesn't ask me to drive up there when he knows I'm in town he makes an effort to spend time with each other.

Sometimes guys really don't know what you want. If you just always go with the flow and don't speak up they'll think you're okay with how things are. What you need to do is set a benchmark. Say hey I would like for us to spend more time with each other. Nothing more nothing less. See what he does. If he starts to put in more effort then you know he's into you. If he doesn't try to spend more time with you or give you excuses well then you know to cut him loose. If he does spend more time with you after a while give him some positive reinforcement, "You know I really do appreciate you making more time for us". Men love that shit lol because it strokes their ego a little bit. This way it encourages them to continue the behavior. Kind of like a dog I guess lol.

Any ways good luck!

Maybe he's more comfortable in distance relationships you should ask him.

Posted by Huntertyga
I'm dating a guy who doesn't want to see me on weekends and only sees me every 2 weeks for only about 3 hours. I always feel he's being physically distant from me. And he isn't using me, we didn't have sex yet and he even said he wants to take it slow. Is this an aquarius thing? Or should I move on? 😢

uhm, he's maybe married?

Maybe he means what he says. Taking a smart approach to a woman he only had a few dates with. You should respect his views as much he respects you.