Are we Aqua women naturally indecisive?

Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Posted by Amethysst
God.. this sounds like my life since my pisces ex and Scorpio ex.

I've had flings here and there in between but nothing to make me stay and truly connect.. I swear I'm going to end up alone. 😢

That's what I thought until I met this guy, and he's given me "Fyi's and warnings" about his difficult personality, he says that is hard for him to approach girls or he's just not interested but he felt a connection with me and I with him

Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

This is exactly like my aqua!!!

But what would you like for him to do? What would make you settle for him?

if you are air dominant, you are naturally indecisive.

https://astrolibrary.org/interpretations/dominant-air-element/





5 air points denotes a person who is "very" much like the following keywords, whereas 6 or more points for the air element denotes a person who is "overly":

•intellectual

•questioning

•conceptualizing

•synthesizing

•observant

•objective

•detached

•unrealistic

•indecisive

•talkative

•interacting

•cooperating

Air as the dominant element (6 points or more) in the birth chart usually signifies a person who lives in their mind, restlessly seeking knowledge and sharing their thoughts with other people. Somewhat impersonal (emotionally detached), yet they thrive on communication and social interaction.

amytheyst is Gemini rising, Gemini mars and aqua sun, so those three main points and she's aqua mercury too. is extremely AIRY.

and you are not gonna be lonely, amythest, plenty of air dominants are with other air dominants in general.

there's plenty of air dominant peeps on here.

if they aren't air dominant they have a lot of mercury in their chart.

Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

It's okay to enjoy life before getting into another friendship to start.

Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Capricorn men do not like indecisive women. so that's weird you are with him. 😕

unless he too is a lot of air/air dominant.

does he have a lot of aqua in his chart and other air elements?

for example, he is aqua venus, aqua mars, libra moon, Gemini rising? that could do it.

I think that this forum is my main communication, lol it helps my lone aqua singularity. cause I really like astrology 😛

otherwise i'm a hermit!!! and don't associate or communicate with anyone outside. which is the truth.

so, everyone on here is either mercury dominant, strong mercury influence and or have air in their chart /and or air dominant.

cause everyone on this forum is here talking and communicating!!!

Oh I'm indecisive with people who are shady right away. It could be their tone, attitudes, goals, habits. As I got older I'm alittle bit picky. I could go another year before I feel I need to bang someone and It's not that important.

What is important though is a mutual friendship/partnership between each other with respect, honesty, not being flaky, and etc.

And I am also not perfect but I am good hearted with a bit of too much caring and not understanding some other behaviors of others. So I observe and proceed with questions that I see that no one could even bother with. But it's for me to know if they are sincere or something real. If it's too much wishy washy I become wishy washy and detach. Time and time I'm just not compatible with alot so I do things by myself and I'm okay the atmosphere around presents opportunity for me when it is time to cut or move along.

If I detach then I'll be back later and see what's up with myself and the other people I see.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Amethysst
God.. this sounds like my life since my pisces ex and Scorpio ex.

I've had flings here and there in between but nothing to make me stay and truly connect.. I swear I'm going to end up alone. 😢

That's what I thought until I met this guy, and he's given me "Fyi's and warnings" about his difficult personality, he says that is hard for him to approach girls or he's just not interested but he felt a connection with me and I with him

Yeah.. I'm probably going to a be crazy cat lady in the future. Leave me to my lonely misery..

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Haha I've thought about it too.. is hard for guys to understand us because we are very independent and free spirit so not many things will actually impress us.

I really hope things to go well with the guy..but now he's been very distant so... I kind of already know the end of the story too. ?

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

This is exactly like my aqua!!!

But what would you like for him to do? What would make you settle for him?

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I want him to ask me more about me, things that I like, to take the time to get to know me and I get to know him. How long have you been seeing each other?

For me to settle, I want to see that he is responsible and the good thing that you are a Taurus, you guys are very responsible but on the other hand, I think you are conformist, and we don't like that, we like people with ambitions and people who always want to keep moving up the ladder.

My dad was Taurus and my mom Aquarius.

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Not indecisive, actually very decisive. Your intuition knows what it needs.

You are a perfect example of why I don't believe in long term relationships with non-compatible suns.

Sooner or later someone is gonna Crack and realize there's a fundamental clash in ideals

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uhhh that's bullshit and you know it. I know so many trine suns and conjunct suns NOT make it because their fundamental ideals were NOT in line.

I see this in real life ALOT more often, and even when I research.

even my father in law is a double virgo and he couldn't stand the Capricorn sun, and vice versa.

and my husband's grandmother loved and was loved by a Gemini sun, she was Pisces sun.

I see it with my OWN eyes and even went to her funeral and when she was alive she loved him very much and her own children said good things too. And he took care of her a lot.

even in my own family, same thing!!

you know why he couldn't stand the Capricorn sun? Because she was aquarius dominant.

and he is scorpio dominant. that's why!!! aqua venus and scorpio venus DO NOT mesh well.

he married a Gemini sun, cancer venus and he is HAPPY!!!

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

This is exactly like my aqua!!!

But what would you like for him to do? What would make you settle for him?

I want him to ask me more about me, things that I like, to take the time to get to know me and I get to know him. How long have you been seeing each other?

For me to settle, I want to see that he is responsible and the good thing that you are a Taurus, you guys are very responsible but on the other hand, I think you are conformist, and we don't like that, we like people with ambitions and people who always want to keep moving up the ladder.

My dad was Taurus and my mom Aquarius.

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Its been 6 months now.. but mainly the last 2 matter. And those 2 months were amazing, she has a way of showing her love... which is wooow.

But during those 2 months there were constantly steps back from her side. And for a week now she is very distant, nothing like I've seen her before. And makes me sad ... She said she is in a bad mood these days but also that she doesn't want a relationship, she feels good to be single, with her daughter.

Yes, I am very responsible and do not takes things lightly. On the other hand, I am very, very ambitious when I set my mind to something. A significant other next to me would make things way easier for me.

Right now, I don't quite know what to do... should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her. I try to help her with small things, but I don't want to suffocate her...

and look at this guy,

he is a DOUBLE air... Alex Jones, Aqua sun/libra moon and why the hell is he married to a CANCER SUN??





I saw he is cap dominant.

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Posted by lisabethur8
you know why he couldn't stand the Capricorn sun? Because she was aquarius dominant.

and he is scorpio dominant. that's why!!! aqua venus and scorpio venus DO NOT mesh well.

he married a Gemini sun, cancer venus and he is HAPPY!!!

You're getting way too deep into astrology on the success of relationships..

Sometimes when two people get to know each other it's best to keep the zodiacs out so they can truly get to enjoy the companionship.

I most likely will not end up with an air dominant man because of INFP tendencies. I dig into my emotions a lot more than many aquas I've met..

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introverts wil not do well with extroverts that's for sure.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Capricorn men do not like indecisive women. so that's weird you are with him. 😕

unless he too is a lot of air/air dominant.

does he have a lot of aqua in his chart and other air elements?

for example, he is aqua venus, aqua mars, libra moon, Gemini rising? that could do it.

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I'm scared because my past relationship was very toxic and I let it go on for too long before getting out of it. I feel like I might waste my time in a relationship that won't go far. I like that he has told me plans about buying a house, and jokingly he said "that way You can come visit me and stay all the time with me, and we don't have to eat breakfast outside in the morning ". We are very sarcastic with each other. Still he's telling me that he's not gonna make an effort to visit me (I have my own place with my girls and he stayed one time, he woke up in the morning and left) ? But I can go and stay with him as much as I want.. like if I'm a doggy wagging my tail around him all the time ??.

Anyway, I don't really know much about astrology but Im always i terested in peoples personalities based on their signs, and how close they are.

Can you tell me what's mine and his?

my dob: 01/29/1988

his dob: 12/26/1987 ( casually my ex partners dob is 12/25/1987...exactly a day before this new guy.. that might have something to do with the attraction we have lol.

Its been 6 months now.. but mainly the last 2 matter. And those 2 months were amazing, she has a way of showing her love... which is wooow.

But during those 2 months there were constantly steps back from her side. And for a week now she is very distant, nothing like I've seen her before. And makes me sad ... She said she is in a bad mood these days but also that she doesn't want a relationship, she feels good to be single, with her daughter.

Yes, I am very responsible and do not takes things lightly. On the other hand, I am very, very ambitious when I set my mind to something. A significant other next to me would make things way easier for me.

Right now, I don't quite know what to do... should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her. I try to help her with small things, but I don't want to suffocate her...





That's good, but let her support you and take her opinion when she gives you one, we aquarius like to support and be next to our partner and plan things together. Taurus males are quite stubborn, I saw it through my dad. My best friend is a Taurus as well and he is very stubborn, but we get along very well, so whenever he ends up being wrong I make sure he understands that is not always how he sees it.

maybe that draws her out from you. I read your story in another thread. Maybe that's why she made a comment about the house? The guy I'm having issues with mentioned that he wants to buy a house and be more responsible, this draws me closer to him because I also see that he has the incentive of stepping up and tell me that he can take care of me and my 2 girls.

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Posted by lisabethur8
you know why he couldn't stand the Capricorn sun? Because she was aquarius dominant.

and he is scorpio dominant. that's why!!! aqua venus and scorpio venus DO NOT mesh well.

he married a Gemini sun, cancer venus and he is HAPPY!!!

You're getting way too deep into astrology on the success of relationships..

Sometimes when two people get to know each other it's best to keep the zodiacs out so they can truly get to enjoy the companionship.

I most likely will not end up with an air dominant man because of INFP tendencies. I dig into my emotions a lot more than many aquas I've met..

introverts wil not do well with extroverts that's for sure.

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I'm an extrovert and my ex and this guy are introverts, we never had issues as far as that. because I plan all the things I wanted to do and they come with me because is what I like.

That's what love is like. Neither of them dance, and they would still take me out to dance bc is what I like.

I think astrology has a lot to do with the connection and the spark between the people, there must be a reason why 4 of 7 if the significant men in my life are Capricorns. My 1st daughters dad, my 2nd girl dad and longest relationship (11yrs) my mentor who claims to be in love with me for the past 8 yrs, and this guy that I can't just let him go...I'd have cut him off like all the other guys I've met. :/

My dad (whom I have a good relationship with ) and my best friend are Taurus!

my mom is aqua and my dad aqua

my best friend us Taurus and I'm Aqua.. but I don't feel that attraction to him.

Yes Taurus and Aquarius get along but just need space and devotion, dedication on making it work

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Posted by lisabethur8
you know why he couldn't stand the Capricorn sun? Because she was aquarius dominant.

and he is scorpio dominant. that's why!!! aqua venus and scorpio venus DO NOT mesh well.

he married a Gemini sun, cancer venus and he is HAPPY!!!

You're getting way too deep into astrology on the success of relationships..

Sometimes when two people get to know each other it's best to keep the zodiacs out so they can truly get to enjoy the companionship.

I most likely will not end up with an air dominant man because of INFP tendencies. I dig into my emotions a lot more than many aquas I've met..

introverts wil not do well with extroverts that's for sure.

I don't mix well with extroverts. It's exhausting.

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I think I might be ambivert, or I just like to please guys too, since he is my partner I make sure I don't over do it..and I also like to see him happy at home enjoying a nice movie, so what I do is bake or cook something that that way I don't get bored and then enjoy it together 🙂

They also say signs that are 6 months apart are compatible. But who knows. Mine are neighboring and exhausting sometimes.

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An airy man is not going to understand this;

"As an INFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in primarily via your intuition."

He will be too busy rambling his ideas and thoughts when all I will want him to do is give me quiet. Always needing constant mental stimulation and I will care more about talking about how he feels, how I feel.. my introverted ways bend towards my emotions.

it's EXHAUSTING just thinking about it.

my man LACKS air. and i'm so thankful for that. very very thankful.

I ike my own quiet and so does he.

I need too much recharge time.

So I'll branch out to the opposite side of the planets almost colder ones. Like Capricorn, Aquarius, possible Scorpio. November, December, cusper of these months.

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Not indecisive, actually very decisive. Your intuition knows what it needs.

You are a perfect example of why I don't believe in long term relationships with non-compatible suns.

Sooner or later someone is gonna Crack and realize there's a fundamental clash in ideals

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I don't know much about the suns, but the fact that they're hard working, ambitious drives me a lot towards capricorn men.

I don't mind giving them space to work, but as long as they give me the attention too and work well with me.

The reason my relationship didn't work,was because of immaturity. We started dating since we were 16 until 27.

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Capricorn men do not like indecisive women. so that's weird you are with him. 😕

unless he too is a lot of air/air dominant.

does he have a lot of aqua in his chart and other air elements?

for example, he is aqua venus, aqua mars, libra moon, Gemini rising? that could do it.

I'm scared because my past relationship was very toxic and I let it go on for too long before getting out of it. I feel like I might waste my time in a relationship that won't go far. I like that he has told me plans about buying a house, and jokingly he said "that way You can come visit me and stay all the time with me, and we don't have to eat breakfast outside in the morning ". We are very sarcastic with each other. Still he's telling me that he's not gonna make an effort to visit me (I have my own place with my girls and he stayed one time, he woke up in the morning and left) ? But I can go and stay with him as much as I want.. like if I'm a doggy wagging my tail around him all the time ??.

Anyway, I don't really know much about astrology but Im always i terested in peoples personalities based on their signs, and how close they are.

Can you tell me what's mine and his?

my dob: 01/29/1988

his dob: 12/26/1987 ( casually my ex partners dob is 12/25/1987...exactly a day before this new guy.. that might have something to do with the attraction we have lol.

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I see you are DOUBLE air, aqua sun/Gemini moon, aquarius mercury, but with pisces venus. sag mars.



I was gonna say ALOT but deleted what I wrote. cause I saw the BOLDED....



yeah he isn't taking you serious at all.

forget him!!!

That's a long time, people change, move on and it's okay to do that if you aren't happy. Or if its one sided.

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Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Capricorn men do not like indecisive women. so that's weird you are with him. 😕

unless he too is a lot of air/air dominant.

does he have a lot of aqua in his chart and other air elements?

for example, he is aqua venus, aqua mars, libra moon, Gemini rising? that could do it.

I'm scared because my past relationship was very toxic and I let it go on for too long before getting out of it. I feel like I might waste my time in a relationship that won't go far. I like that he has told me plans about buying a house, and jokingly he said "that way You can come visit me and stay all the time with me, and we don't have to eat breakfast outside in the morning ". We are very sarcastic with each other. Still he's telling me that he's not gonna make an effort to visit me (I have my own place with my girls and he stayed one time, he woke up in the morning and left) ? But I can go and stay with him as much as I want.. like if I'm a doggy wagging my tail around him all the time ??.

Anyway, I don't really know much about astrology but Im always i terested in peoples personalities based on their signs, and how close they are.

Can you tell me what's mine and his?

my dob: 01/29/1988

his dob: 12/26/1987 ( casually my ex partners dob is 12/25/1987...exactly a day before this new guy.. that might have something to do with the attraction we have lol.

I see you are DOUBLE air, aqua sun/Gemini moon, aquarius mercury, but with pisces venus. sag mars.



I was gonna say ALOT but deleted what I wrote. cause I saw the BOLDED....



yeah he isn't taking you serious at all.

forget him!!!

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I should have said Sarcastically..not "jokingly" we are always throwing stones at each other and the next min be all cuddly and he's always complimenting me. I mean the fact that he wants to buy a house is good, he knows I like responsible/independent guys. I just think he doesn't like coming here for a reason.

I still had pictures of my ex with the girls, I think he was just uncomfortable.

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Capricorn men do not like indecisive women. so that's weird you are with him. 😕

unless he too is a lot of air/air dominant.

does he have a lot of aqua in his chart and other air elements?

for example, he is aqua venus, aqua mars, libra moon, Gemini rising? that could do it.

I'm scared because my past relationship was very toxic and I let it go on for too long before getting out of it. I feel like I might waste my time in a relationship that won't go far. I like that he has told me plans about buying a house, and jokingly he said "that way You can come visit me and stay all the time with me, and we don't have to eat breakfast outside in the morning ". We are very sarcastic with each other. Still he's telling me that he's not gonna make an effort to visit me (I have my own place with my girls and he stayed one time, he woke up in the morning and left) ? But I can go and stay with him as much as I want.. like if I'm a doggy wagging my tail around him all the time ??.

Anyway, I don't really know much about astrology but Im always i terested in peoples personalities based on their signs, and how close they are.

Can you tell me what's mine and his?

my dob: 01/29/1988

his dob: 12/26/1987 ( casually my ex partners dob is 12/25/1987...exactly a day before this new guy.. that might have something to do with the attraction we have lol.

I see you are DOUBLE air, aqua sun/Gemini moon, aquarius mercury, but with pisces venus. sag mars.



I was gonna say ALOT but deleted what I wrote. cause I saw the BOLDED....



yeah he isn't taking you serious at all.

forget him!!!

I should have said Sarcastically..not "jokingly" we are always throwing stones at each other and the next min be all cuddly and he's always complimenting me. I mean the fact that he wants to buy a house is good, he knows I like responsible/independent guys. I just think he doesn't like coming here for a reason.

I still had pictures of my ex with the girls, I think he was just uncomfortable.

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yes but you answered your own doubts and this topic is just telling you what you already KNOW...

he is not serious about you...you even said in your own words that you are just waiting around and that's NOT good.

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Posted by Aerazo
Relationship wise, we either like long term relationships or no relationship at all...

I was in a 11 yr relationship (at 16) it ended last year bc my ex (at Cap) was very jealous, possesive and we had a lot of issues at the beginning. I decided to end it because I didn't feel the same for him, he cried and begged me to get back with him but as a Cold aqua woman I had already shut him down in my heart after all the disappointments.

Since then, every guy I've met has been just a one night stand, a month, two months maybe.. also was with a libra for 4 months who would bring me the stars if I wanted. only that he was too young for me (21-28) he met another girl and I felt heartbroken.. 😢

I met a couple other guys but never felt a connection until 3 months ago, I met another Cap man. his bday is the day after my ex.

I'm very attracted to him..almost like a magnet. things went by too fast at the beginning, he told me he liked me, but maybe I went a different way (fwb) I'm really into him and I'm trying to show him that I care about him in a different way, but I still hold back since I'm scared to fall too hard for him and things might not work out..he has also held back ..so now we see each other but don't have any sex or kiss.. we still show we care about each other.

I'm still indecisive...and how do I let him know I'm thinking about something more serious? Caps are different and complicated

Not indecisive, actually very decisive. Your intuition knows what it needs.

You are a perfect example of why I don't believe in long term relationships with non-compatible suns.

Sooner or later someone is gonna Crack and realize there's a fundamental clash in ideals

uhhh that's bullshit and you know it. I know so many trine suns and conjunct suns NOT make it because their fundamental ideals were NOT in line.

Yes that's true also, but I personally don't believe in incompatible suns. I know they work out, but I cant understand why

Maybe I'm closed minded or my 5th house believes too much in the sun

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that's even more baloney no offense but I know in real life TWO leo suns who are married happily, one to Pisces sun and the other Virgo sun. they are already both senior citizens and they have been together forever. so it's not the sun in 5th that's telling you that.

even famous Paul Newman, Aqua sun married happily to a Pisces sun.

yes but you answered your own doubts and this topic is just telling you what you already KNOW...

he is not serious about you...you even said in your own words that you are just waiting around and that's NOT good.





Maybe because I forgot to mention that he's very busy because he works along with the attorney, he is also in process of getting into law school, owns a flooring business with his fam which he manages, and does logistics for another company. Sometimes I visit him at the office, and he texts me when he gets out ...Sometimes 1 or 2am.. he also does boxing, he used to be pro boxer in the state league. I just met him 3 months ago in the middle of all of this. So it is understandable.

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yes but you answered your own doubts and this topic is just telling you what you already KNOW...

he is not serious about you...you even said in your own words that you are just waiting around and that's NOT good.

Maybe because I forgot to mention that he's very busy because he works along with the attorney, he is also in process of getting into law school, owns a flooring business with his fam which he manages, and does logistics for another company. Sometimes I visit him at the office, and he texts me when he gets out ...Sometimes 1 or 2am.. he also does boxing, he used to be pro boxer in the state league. I just met him 3 months ago in the middle of all of this. So it is understandable.



doesn't matter...

you can make excuses for him all day long...

but he hasn't made you HIS,while being busy.

a man who will love you, doesn't let his career and success get in the way, if he knows you are gonna be there for him.

he may have found you lacking in some areas, that's probably why the wishy washyness and not realy sure of you.

no offense. I am just guessing.

Total oxymoron.

Woman and indesicisive in the same sentence!

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Its been 6 months now.. but mainly the last 2 matter. And those 2 months were amazing, she has a way of showing her love... which is wooow.

But during those 2 months there were constantly steps back from her side. And for a week now she is very distant, nothing like I've seen her before. And makes me sad ... She said she is in a bad mood these days but also that she doesn't want a relationship, she feels good to be single, with her daughter.

Yes, I am very responsible and do not takes things lightly. On the other hand, I am very, very ambitious when I set my mind to something. A significant other next to me would make things way easier for me.

Right now, I don't quite know what to do... should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her. I try to help her with small things, but I don't want to suffocate her...





That's good, but let her support you and take her opinion when she gives you one, we aquarius like to support and be next to our partner and plan things together. Taurus males are quite stubborn, I saw it through my dad. My best friend is a Taurus as well and he is very stubborn, but we get along very well, so whenever he ends up being wrong I make sure he understands that is not always how he sees it.

maybe that draws her out from you. I read your story in another thread. Maybe that's why she made a comment about the house? The guy I'm having issues with mentioned that he wants to buy a house and be more responsible, this draws me closer to him because I also see that he has the incentive of stepping up and tell me that he can take care of me and my 2 girls.



Well.... I would love that.. I like to be partners with my s/o, so no problem here! Not at all. I like hearing other people's opinions and I take them into account.

I have my own house.. A very good job. And btw, we work together, she is 100 ft from me 8 hours a day 🙂))

So, its not that... I think she sees me a bit confused... I was very wrecked at the divorce, she was the one that stood by my side and helped me get over it. She told me a month ago that Im not ok to be in a relationship right now.. that I need more experiences after the divorce and then to settle down, that I need to grow etc etc and she can stay by my side helping me, as a friend.... and just that. After that ... we were again like in a relationship for 2-3 weeks.

So... you didn't answer my question 😛

should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her.

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Its been 6 months now.. but mainly the last 2 matter. And those 2 months were amazing, she has a way of showing her love... which is wooow.

But during those 2 months there were constantly steps back from her side. And for a week now she is very distant, nothing like I've seen her before. And makes me sad ... She said she is in a bad mood these days but also that she doesn't want a relationship, she feels good to be single, with her daughter.

Yes, I am very responsible and do not takes things lightly. On the other hand, I am very, very ambitious when I set my mind to something. A significant other next to me would make things way easier for me.

Right now, I don't quite know what to do... should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her. I try to help her with small things, but I don't want to suffocate her...

That's good, but let her support you and take her opinion when she gives you one, we aquarius like to support and be next to our partner and plan things together. Taurus males are quite stubborn, I saw it through my dad. My best friend is a Taurus as well and he is very stubborn, but we get along very well, so whenever he ends up being wrong I make sure he understands that is not always how he sees it.

maybe that draws her out from you. I read your story in another thread. Maybe that's why she made a comment about the house? The guy I'm having issues with mentioned that he wants to buy a house and be more responsible, this draws me closer to him because I also see that he has the incentive of stepping up and tell me that he can take care of me and my 2 girls.



Well.... I would love that.. I like to be partners with my s/o, so no problem here! Not at all. I like hearing other people's opinions and I take them into account.

I have my own house.. A very good job. And btw, we work together, she is 100 ft from me 8 hours a day 🙂))

So, its not that... I think she sees me a bit confused... I was very wrecked at the divorce, she was the one that stood by my side and helped me get over it. She told me a month ago that Im not ok to be in a relationship right now.. that I need more experiences after the divorce and then to settle down, that I need to grow etc etc and she can stay by my side helping me, as a friend.... and just that. After that ... we were again like in a relationship for 2-3 weeks.

So... you didn't answer my question 😛

should I be casual with her and wait for her get to me, or "chase" her.





She's very like me, we are probably sure about ourselves committing to a relationship but we feel that the lack of experiences on your side would end up boring you and cause you to cheat.

Is hard for an aquarius to date the same guy she works with, I guess because we might feel sofocated having you around all day.

I'd say to just take your time for you to learn about yourself and show her that you around really a happy, sucessful, full of life type of guy and she will most likely reconsider and open herself to you.

As much as we want to be supportive during your hard times, we are attracted to good energy.

So, plan things out with her, surprise her, take things slow, it's only been a few months since you two started dating, sometimes we want to rush things because we just want to spend more time with that person, but it ends up crashing up the relationship.

My mom is an Aqua and we were talking the other day about guys in her life and past that she will always love. A Cancer(my sisters father), and two Caps.

She was done wrong by all of them but she'll always love them for whatever reason. She doesn't talk much to one of the Caps, but he came to visit her maybe two weeks ago and she said she'll always love that knucklehead. The Cancer and other Cap she still talks to regularly.

She's dated guys here and there too, with the most recent being an Aqua(total disaster) and before him a Leo. She has STRONG feelings for the Leo, but it didn't work out.

Pisces men like her a lot, but idk.

She's dealt with Cap men, by far, the most. .y dad is a Cap. I'm not sure which she'll settle with though.

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My mom is an Aqua and we were talking the other day about guys in her life and past that she will always love. A Cancer(my sisters father), and two Caps.

She was done wrong by all of them but she'll always love them for whatever reason. She doesn't talk much to one of the Caps, but he came to visit her maybe two weeks ago and she said she'll always love that knucklehead. The Cancer and other Cap she still talks to regularly.

She's dated guys here and there too, with the most recent being an Aqua(total disaster) and before him a Leo. She has STRONG feelings for the Leo, but it didn't work out.

Pisces men like her a lot, but idk.

She's dealt with Cap men, by far, the most. .y dad is a Cap. I'm not sure which she'll settle with though.

It's so interesting, I had a very adventurous relationship (fwb) with a Cancer. I haven't really been cheated on, most things were circumstantial. Is hard to decide, mostly when I'm sure the one she really wants is the one that comes and goes.

A Leo fell in love with me but never accepted it, I liked him but we were just fwb. We were both very extroverted I think that's why it didn’t work out. I said he was in love bc he would call me and play songs, he'd hug me and was very affectionate, he's there if I want him to but he's a player with other girls. that's why I don't take him seriously lol

That basically sounds like her situation with the Leo. They were both very independent and had their own thing going, so I don't think they took each other seriously. The Leo was definitely a player, but he ended up marrying an old college girlfriend, last year I believe, but he still calls my mom and pops up at her job even to show her stuff...like his new veneers for example. He just popped up at her job last week. He's moving away soon to be closer to his wife... she's in the military. She was devasted when she found out he was getting married, but now, seeing more of how he really is she is glad it didn't work out and sometimes questions what her feelings were.

She'll say or think she really be in love but I'll tell her "ma, you think you are in love but you are not." lol. She's extremely independent and is a flirt at all times.

I never like the requirements put in place on her when it comes to both Cancers and Capricorns. There's a need to alter her life too much so I'm always against those relationships for her.

I think another fixed or mutable would be good for her.