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Do any other aquarius moons only like people when they stop giving you attention?
Do Aquarius Moons Prefer When Attention Stops
Aquarius Moons often value independence and may feel more attracted to someone once they stop giving constant attention. This tendency reflects their desire for emotional space and authenticity rather than clinginess. Understanding this can help you interpret their reactions and build healthier connections.
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.
Posted by Miamia13
I am not an Aqua moon but I am sun/Venus and I become very interested when people back off who were initially courting me.
Yeah I only like them once they disappear. Do you find it hard to get into relationships because of this?
Ye I'm the same, too much emotion thrown at me makes me feel numb to them, I prefer to fall for someone who will hint at how they feel, show lil bits of emotion now and again and be solid and straight with their intentions towards me.
Posted by piscespoppy
Ye I'm the same, too much emotion thrown at me makes me feel numb to them, I prefer to fall for someone who will hint at how they feel, show lil bits of emotion now and again and be solid and straight with their intentions towards me.
Yeah I have trouble when I don't know someones intentions it makes me overthink things and look for reg flags so I can do a runner.
Any aqua suns like this?
Posted by MissM
Any aqua suns like this?
nope.
i need attention every so often.
not too much. My husband doesn't give me attention cause he wants SPACE (this is a man who has lack of air)
but then when he wants it....i better be there!!!!
and he is incredibly INVENTIVE and CREATIVE in getting it.
most times he just wants to watch his sports, drink his beer, or eat his favourite snack, and fart on the couch. lmao 😆 heehee. I farts too so it's ok. we have farting contests.
hahaha
just kidding.
but i already loves him so no problemo!!!
lmao
we're so incredibly immature.
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.
This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
Posted by Amethysst
Aqua moons; ?
True! LOL. I should actually be sad about that, but I'm not.
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
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It's true. Bht I kinda think it makes me desire emotionally unavailable men. Blah ?
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
It's true. Bht I kinda think it makes me desire emotionally unavailable men. Blah ?
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Yes! I am very attracted to emotionally unavailable men and it sucks.
Do any men with aqua feel this way? Usually men are doing the pursuing I guess so I'm curious how it works for them.
Posted by MissM
So when I start talking to a guy if he begins txting me everyday i end up not liking him, eventually when the guy leaves me alone I wonder where he has gone and drive myself crazy. Any other aqua moons only like people who no longer like them?
See I just had a friend tell me I am not the phone type. So when are we going to kick it. He said whenever I call and he really doesn't want to give me his number but he has mine. Because he's not that type of guy.
Then last second he was like I don't want to hurt your feelings so idk.. Idk either. Because I'm not like this and I'm always at work you can say hi, and im sleeping during the day too.
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
It's true. Bht I kinda think it makes me desire emotionally unavailable men. Blah ?
Yes! I am very attracted to emotionally unavailable men and it sucks.
Do any men with aqua feel this way? Usually men are doing the pursuing I guess so I'm curious how it works for them.
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This is where most women are wrong. Men don't do the pursuing at all in order to get a woman and this thread prooves it one more time, no matter what your sign is. Yes some men do pursue and get women but they would have gotten them anyway, maybe because of their looks or because of their status. But most of the time it's actually the woman who does the pursuing. A man just initiates contact and plans the dates, but women text, phone, message all the time inbetween. If men would text and phone you all the time it would get them straight to rejection, just like this thread has proven it. Most men don't mind if the woman calls and texts them a lot (as long as they like them), because it's a feminin trait but most women would get bored if a man did this to them. 😉
It's actually quite common, and has nothing to do with Aqua.
When rejected, the most stupid part of our brains draws the conclusion that he must be better than us. Therefore, to ensure than our offspring gets better genes than ours, we must have him at all costs!
Such stupid responses have probably accelerated the evolution of our species. at the detriment of our personal happiness.
Use the more intelligent part of your brain to combat such delusions.
It also means you have a low EQ, since "the more intelligent part of your brain" doesn't seem to be involved in sorting out the mess you are getting in. The good thing is, EQ can be improved.
My double Aqua ex is that way
I like a hint of aloofness and mystery in my attraction to someone. If a guy is constantly texting or calling me, I perceive that as desperate and I really don't like that.
If he texts and calls moderately in the sense that I feel like he has a life of his own but still stays in contact to show his interest in me, I'm totally in. It's moderation I like in my contact, not complete disappearances.
The sun aquas i know like to chase. They really don't like when a guy is too into them or shows it at least. They see it as desperate.
Maybe it's my Taurus sun but I don't really see it like that. I just don't trust when someone leaps it on too thick. Like what are u hiding that u can't just let it be natural and flowing? Are u tryna rush through a rebound? Need a visa? Tryna seduce me to bed? Just chill; let's get to know each other.
So I like the aloof guys as I'm like that myself. But after awhile I find that most men like to be pursued and thus eventually go after more needy girls that balance out their lack of emotional availability.
I've tried to tolerate a needy guy. I could have too. But even needy guys like to be pursued and le sigh, same story as above.
So yeah... maybe we are forever alone ?
My Taurus sun would literally rather die than let that be the case tho so I'm definitely open to suggestions on how to change it.
Posted by Undine
It's actually quite common, and has nothing to do with Aqua.When rejected, the most stupid part of our brains draws the conclusion that he must be better than us. Therefore, to ensure than our offspring gets better genes than ours, we must have him at all costs!
Such stupid responses have probably accelerated the evolution of our species. at the detriment of our personal happiness.
Use the more intelligent part of your brain to combat such delusions.
Yes, except usually i find reasons as to why i don't like them and just am aloof then they disappear cause I haven't made any effort cause I'm not interested... until they leave me alone that is
Posted by Diddybop
The sun aquas i know like to chase. They really don't like when a guy is too into them or shows it at least. They see it as desperate.Maybe it's my Taurus sun but I don't really see it like that. I just don't trust when someone leaps it on too thick. Like what are u hiding that u can't just let it be natural and flowing? Are u tryna rush through a rebound? Need a visa? Tryna seduce me to bed? Just chill; let's get to know each other.
So I like the aloof guys as I'm like that myself. But after awhile I find that most men like to be pursued and thus eventually go after more needy girls that balance out their lack of emotional availability.
I've tried to tolerate a needy guy. I could have too. But even needy guys like to be pursued and le sigh, same story as above.
So yeah... maybe we are forever alone ?
My Taurus sun would literally rather die than let that be the case tho so I'm definitely open to suggestions on how to change it.
I am the other type of aqua, where guys chase me. LOL
men with stellium Aries, chasing me DOWN. lol and Capricorn placements.
I think it's because of Taurus being dominant in my chart, so it brings all the boys to the shake down MILK SHAKE.
haha. 😆
goodness we need some music!!!
take note, some of you aquas,
this one cause she is aqua rising. lmao
just having fun. lol
😛
but I know with astrology there are girls who will chase.
cause there are SHY guys out there.
Posted by Amethysst
Aqua moons; ?
...and happy.
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if you're happy how come you're so interested in romantic relationships??
😕
are you single just to be checking out others and how they romance?
I think you may secretly want to be loved too!!! every woman does.
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
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I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
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Possessive and jealous within reason is fine but insecure, needy and clingy is a hell no!!!
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
Possessive and jealous within reason is fine but insecure, needy and clingy is a hell no!!!
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how the hell you keep attracting Libra sun/Cancer moon, orCancer sun/libra moon is beyond me...
those are intensely the opposite of freedom. lol
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
Possessive and jealous within reason is fine but insecure, needy and clingy is a hell no!!!
how the hell you keep attracting Libra sun/Cancer moon, orCancer sun/libra moon is beyond me...
those are intensely the opposite of freedom. lol
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That's exactly it though. The clingers are attracted to their opposite.
Posted by Diddybop
The sun aquas i know like to chase. They really don't like when a guy is too into them or shows it at least. They see it as desperate.Maybe it's my Taurus sun but I don't really see it like that. I just don't trust when someone leaps it on too thick. Like what are u hiding that u can't just let it be natural and flowing? Are u tryna rush through a rebound? Need a visa? Tryna seduce me to bed? Just chill; let's get to know each other.
So I like the aloof guys as I'm like that myself. But after awhile I find that most men like to be pursued and thus eventually go after more needy girls that balance out their lack of emotional availability.
I've tried to tolerate a needy guy. I could have too. But even needy guys like to be pursued and le sigh, same story as above.
So yeah... maybe we are forever alone ?
My Taurus sun would literally rather die than let that be the case tho so I'm definitely open to suggestions on how to change it.
I am the other type of aqua, where guys chase me. LOL
men with stellium Aries, chasing me DOWN. lol and Capricorn placements.
I think it's because of Taurus being dominant in my chart, so it brings all the boys to the shake down MILK SHAKE.
haha. 😆
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Lots of men pursue me... I just get put off of them
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
Possessive and jealous within reason is fine but insecure, needy and clingy is a hell no!!!
how the hell you keep attracting Libra sun/Cancer moon, orCancer sun/libra moon is beyond me...
those are intensely the opposite of freedom. lol
That's exactly it though. The clingers are attracted to their opposite.
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my brother in law has those energies. He is libra sun/Pisces moon but he has Cancer Venus conjunct Cancer Jupiter and he's cancer dominant. with a libra sun. His wife, my sister likes the clingy. but my sister is Cancer rising. Pisces dominant with Taurus moon, aqua venus, youd think the aqua venus, but her chart is dominanted by all water and then earth, and then there is her fiery sun, that his air likes and needs..
you are leo rising with Sag mars/Neptune? So you tend to attract some airy men with water. lol
The rising is interesting cause it is also the chart energy ruler and the 7th house of marriage.
you're always gonna be constantly attracting those cancr/libra libra cancer energies, aqua09.....you're DOOMED.
Posted by Diddybop
The sun aquas i know like to chase. They really don't like when a guy is too into them or shows it at least. They see it as desperate.Maybe it's my Taurus sun but I don't really see it like that. I just don't trust when someone leaps it on too thick. Like what are u hiding that u can't just let it be natural and flowing? Are u tryna rush through a rebound? Need a visa? Tryna seduce me to bed? Just chill; let's get to know each other.
So I like the aloof guys as I'm like that myself. But after awhile I find that most men like to be pursued and thus eventually go after more needy girls that balance out their lack of emotional availability.
I've tried to tolerate a needy guy. I could have too. But even needy guys like to be pursued and le sigh, same story as above.
So yeah... maybe we are forever alone ?
My Taurus sun would literally rather die than let that be the case tho so I'm definitely open to suggestions on how to change it.
I am the other type of aqua, where guys chase me. LOL
men with stellium Aries, chasing me DOWN. lol and Capricorn placements.
I think it's because of Taurus being dominant in my chart, so it brings all the boys to the shake down MILK SHAKE.
haha. 😆
Lots of men pursue me... I just get put off of them
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I get you...no emotional connection.
Posted by Amethysst
Aqua moons; ?
...and happy.
if you're happy how come you're so interested in romantic relationships??
😕
are you single just to be checking out others and how they romance?
I think you may secretly want to be loved too!!! every woman does.
I'm a guy. We all want to feel some love though I'm not interested in sexual relationships other than to see what makes people tick.
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oh ok. you love to watch romances then? like romance movies? to see how they tick?
Posted by Diddybop
I wouldnt say that. But I don't like clingy or naggy men. And if ur too needy I run for the hills.This! We like some aloofness in our partner. A stage 5 clinger is repulsive.
I like possessiveness of course, cause well...my man is LOW-KEY possessive. lol
but clingy as fuck and needy? ewwwwww.
Possessive and jealous within reason is fine but insecure, needy and clingy is a hell no!!!
how the hell you keep attracting Libra sun/Cancer moon, orCancer sun/libra moon is beyond me...
those are intensely the opposite of freedom. lol
That's exactly it though. The clingers are attracted to their opposite.
my brother in law has those energies. He is libra sun/Pisces moon but he has Cancer Venus conjunct Cancer Jupiter and he's cancer dominant. with a libra sun. His wife, my sister likes the clingy. but my sister is Cancer rising. Pisces dominant with Taurus moon, aqua venus, youd think the aqua venus, but her chart is dominanted by all water and then earth, and then there is her fiery sun, that his air likes and needs..
you are leo rising with Sag mars/Neptune? So you tend to attract some airy men with water. lol
The rising is interesting cause it is also the chart energy ruler and the 7th house of marriage.
you're always gonna be constantly attracting those cancr/libra libra cancer energies, aqua09.....you're DOOMED.
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Doomed indeed. I don't see what cancers like in my chart. I'm all aqua.
The fun lies in the telepathic communication rather than texting every day or disappearing. For that to happen I think both of them needs a good mental connection.
Yes my ex
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So when I start talking to a guy if he begins txting me everyday i end up not liking him, eventually when the guy leaves me alone I wonder where he has gone and drive myself crazy. Any other aqua moons only like people who no longer like them?