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Aside from the physical, what do you find are the main differences between the genders of the sign?
I think the God complex that is associated with aquarius really applies to males. I've not seen female aquas displaying that. Though they may come across as androgynous.
my husband and my ex's have NEVER called me androgynous; they love FEMININE women, lol jeesssuss....the shit i read online. *smh*

Ellen Degeneres i can see. and some of the ones i google. but for only some.


and why the god thing— i dont understand that part.

Idk...but i have come across male aquas who are really up in their heads. When i see my aqua male and aqua female converse or interact its like two guys talking..so ...i din't mean physically
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oh ok. you mean they can have conversations like men do??

well to be honest i didnt in the beginning. shy and dumb. and clingy as hell.

you get more confident and happy when you're with the right person.
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Aside from the physical, what do you find are the main differences between the genders of the sign?
I think the God complex that is associated with aquarius really applies to males. I've not seen female aquas displaying that. Though they may come across as androgynous.
my husband and my ex's have NEVER called me androgynous; they love FEMININE women, lol jeesssuss....the shit i read online. *smh*

Ellen Degeneres i can see. and some of the ones i google. but for only some.


and why the god thing— i dont understand that part.

Idk...but i have come across male aquas who are really up in their heads. When i see my aqua male and aqua female converse or interact its like two guys talking..so ...i din't mean physically
oh ok. you mean they can have conversations like men do??

well to be honest i didnt in the beginning. shy and dumb. and clingy as hell.

you get more confident and happy when you're with the right person.
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Thats not what she meant. Aqua women are not flirty social butterflies like Gems in our element or gracefully feminine Libras. We come off pleasant but matter-of-fact, its a masculine quality.
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I've always wondered what's it like when an Aquarius dates an Aquarius? Is it a more mutual understanding or more confusion?

I have never dated an Aqua, and m not even thinking of dating one. The thought jst turns me off. I wud feel like m dating myself which wud be very frustrating, as I can imagine what I wud have put my latest ex through due to my ...u know what by now.
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how do you feel about leo men? hate? love?


what is your idea of a ideal date?


i have no idea of leo sun males. but some of you guys in your bday months have married happily with aqua sun females. Sooooooo.........good on you both!!!

but i love leo energy and my husband has leo energy,. it's opposite of me, and i need my opposite to COMPLETE me.

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"the life long friends are the ones you hate at first" - aquarius friend

do you agree?
um nope.

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maybe with aqua venuses.


what is your friend's placements??
yes she has aquarius venus! 😆
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lol

do you remember all her sayings??

it's funny ...i remember all my husband's sayings.

and the people i love.

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I'm actually trying to get my questions across to the Aqua men but is this thread only for the Aqua women?

Damn! I have got a few question to dump on the dudes. My virgo girlfriends are all getting hurt by the Aquas.

It is so bad that they really got crushed and broken inside. My son is an aqua too but how can I ask him when he's only 15?

My ex was an Aqua who doesn't know how to zip his pants as well. Urghh ladies, why are you so different from the men.

Okay now I am feeling so negative! Damn, it must be the energy from the virgos. 😢
why do you meet nasty men??

lol
Nah, not me. It's my virgo friends.

But my ex husband of 10 years was an Aqua too. Urgh..I'm just feeling bad and besides, Lisa, my son is an aqua as well and he has already show signs of easily getting detached and emotionless.

It's scary. I read about my neptune in Sag in house 5 that I will have my first born to be like that and shit somehow it's kinda true. 😢
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why do you talk like he's not your beautiful baby boy?? that's not even funny.

he's your son for god's sake. you love him for who he is, now snap out of it.

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how do you feel about leo men? hate? love?


what is your idea of a ideal date?


Definitely not hate. I got nothing bad to really say about Leo sun or Leo dominant men based on my experience with them. Most of my guy friends are Leo suns or have Leo risings etc. I've dated Leo guys in the past and they were complete gentlemen and there was no bitterness or hostility when we split. Just continued mutual respect.

As for an ideal date, maybe a painting with a twist type date or something where we can probably laugh and yet bond at the same time. Just depends really.
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Ok Aquarius. ..all Aquarius please answer this...dont take offense because i get along well with Aquarius my bf etc all Aquarius i love you guys....buy why do u guys move on fast in rel? Why do u have more than one partner? One person pays this the other does that. I never met any Aquarius who wasny codependent on someone and faithful? Im sorry if i offend. Even friends i know who dated alot Aquarius they all do the same thing. U guys get so bored that u meet somene cool u hang out u date them too etc. I feel u guys only get one real love who u loyal and faithful to after that its like u guys arent very loyal....when it comes to dating....please explain
i have never cheated. if i am with someone i am 150% with them. I'm a 1 woman/1 man type too. if others are into other things, thats fine for them, but if i am in a realationship, it's just with one person, Honeslty i can't even enjoy sex if i have someone else on my mind, if i am at the end or feel it's at the end, sex will stop between us. I have tried to continue on with someone that it was just for sex and i got zero enjoyment from it... i was 100% completley detached and i felt like i was just a piece of meat.. was not fun.

As for moving on, it depends on what has gone down, i tend to not move on fast, i just hide the emotions.
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Would you date me?
Scorpios scare me.. true story.
Why?
lol they just do, i have been attracted to a few. i dated one that turned nuts when he moved in with me. my brother is one.....not pleasant experinces.
How many of them have Aqua mars though? 🙂
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no clue

Aqua mars seems even scarier...
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how do you feel about leo men? hate? love?


what is your idea of a ideal date?


hmmmm can take some, leave the others.....

i think it's the more evolved ones that i am more drawn too. I'm so firey that i think i may repeal them TBH.

Ideal date:

SEX!

I kid.. sort of. lol

just spending time getting to know each other or just enjoying each others company if we already have established friendship. Outside would be huge bonus points, near water, amusement park would be cool too. I'm pretty easy going and down to earth in regards to dates themselves.. the less pressure for those involved, the more we can enjoy it. I would love to go to the mountains and stargaze... its amazing if you have never done it.

why do i feel like i am on a dating site? 😆

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im surprised i like you guys so much. I get on very well with you. But maybe the Aqua makes me want to believe they get along with me, but secretly hate me?

its not like we're friends, just had aqua coworkers that i really enjoy talking too ....and very peaceful stable people





is it my leo placements?
Aquas and crab get along better than most think. We have many similarites but are different enough to keep it exciting...

*pokes the squishy*
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i mean why do you feel the need to take a long time testing people before considering them real friends or close? and while doing so youre detached but once you consider them close you show your real personality?
i dont... at least i dont think i do. I follow my instincts about people. I actualy have been told by more than a few that i have a very warm personallity and i can disarm most people lolol

now. even my close friends don't see my more emo side... that;s not even for family either, that's for me.
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like seriously all the aquas I know do this 'clingy' alert test its hilarious
Whaa? Clingy alert test?
LOL
they test everyone to see whether they are clingy or not so they know whether they should stick around or run 😆
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Hmm. I personally don't test, or at least purposely. As I mentioned earlier if I become "detached" it's a defense mechanism to keep myself from getting hurt and that happens if someone sends me red flags such as actions don't match words or I get a bad vibe etc.

I think most people tend to be cautious at first when meeting or getting to know new people though. 🙂
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Ok Aquarius. ..all Aquarius please answer this...dont take offense because i get along well with Aquarius my bf etc all Aquarius i love you guys....buy why do u guys move on fast in rel? Why do u have more than one partner? One person pays this the other does that. I never met any Aquarius who wasny codependent on someone and faithful? Im sorry if i offend. Even friends i know who dated alot Aquarius they all do the same thing. U guys get so bored that u meet somene cool u hang out u date them too etc. I feel u guys only get one real love who u loyal and faithful to after that its like u guys arent very loyal....when it comes to dating....please explain
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I have cheated in the past. And the reason I did it was because I was just not sure abt my partner so I wanted to explore outside of the relationship. Cheating is nice , but is too much work cause u need to cover up and not get caught. But I dumped the guy I was cheated with even though he still wanted more. He wud even send me money , but I was done with him, cause he tried to hurt me. Cheating can ruin your relationship, so I will never do it again no matter bored.
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Ok Aquarius. ..all Aquarius please answer this...dont take offense because i get along well with Aquarius my bf etc all Aquarius i love you guys....buy why do u guys move on fast in rel? Why do u have more than one partner? One person pays this the other does that. I never met any Aquarius who wasny codependent on someone and faithful? Im sorry if i offend. Even friends i know who dated alot Aquarius they all do the same thing. U guys get so bored that u meet somene cool u hang out u date them too etc. I feel u guys only get one real love who u loyal and faithful to after that its like u guys arent very loyal....when it comes to dating....please explain
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I have cheated in the past. And the reason I did it was because I was just not sure abt my partner so I wanted to explore outside of the relationship. Cheating is nice , but is too much work cause u need to cover up and not get caught. But I dumped the guy I was cheated with even though he still wanted more. He wud even send me money , but I was done with him, cause he tried to hurt me. Cheating can ruin your relationship, so I will never do it again no matter bored.
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Actually that gives me an idea @vixen2 ever date a Venus in Aries?
I never did my first two ex's charts...I know I should as it would of given me prospective after our breakup...the first was Virgo, the second is Libra....they are both tools.
The third was Scorpio with Scorpio venus = ♡♡♡♡♡♡ worked for me! Who knows what the future holds....

*rubs hands together*
Mwahahaha
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. The future is bright u've dated signs that can be handy experience wise.
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I'm actually trying to get my questions across to the Aqua men but is this thread only for the Aqua women?

Damn! I have got a few question to dump on the dudes. My virgo girlfriends are all getting hurt by the Aquas.

It is so bad that they really got crushed and broken inside. My son is an aqua too but how can I ask him when he's only 15?

My ex was an Aqua who doesn't know how to zip his pants as well. Urghh ladies, why are you so different from the men.

Okay now I am feeling so negative! Damn, it must be the energy from the virgos. 😢
why do you meet nasty men??

lol
Nah, not me. It's my virgo friends.

But my ex husband of 10 years was an Aqua too. Urgh..I'm just feeling bad and besides, Lisa, my son is an aqua as well and he has already show signs of easily getting detached and emotionless.

It's scary. I read about my neptune in Sag in house 5 that I will have my first born to be like that and shit somehow it's kinda true. 😢
why do you talk like he's not your beautiful baby boy?? that's not even funny.

he's your son for god's sake. you love him for who he is, now snap out of it.
No, don't get me wrong Lisa. I love him so much, I am just afraid he will turns out to be like that.

He has been through alot with me and I know how he was hurting alot. He was my first love afterall. I am just afraid that's all.

Well ok today's just a negative day for me with all of that stories I had from my friends. I'm sorry if I put it in a wrong way. 😢
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you FEAR too much.

love is not fear.

you definitely are not Scorpio, or a water dominant sign at all. because they are FEARLESS with love.
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Ok Aquarius. ..all Aquarius please answer this...dont take offense because i get along well with Aquarius my bf etc all Aquarius i love you guys....buy why do u guys move on fast in rel? Why do u have more than one partner? One person pays this the other does that. I never met any Aquarius who wasny codependent on someone and faithful? Im sorry if i offend. Even friends i know who dated alot Aquarius they all do the same thing. U guys get so bored that u meet somene cool u hang out u date them too etc. I feel u guys only get one real love who u loyal and faithful to after that its like u guys arent very loyal....when it comes to dating....please explain
.

.

I have cheated in the past. And the reason I did it was because I was just not sure abt my partner so I wanted to explore outside of the relationship. Cheating is nice , but is too much work cause u need to cover up and not get caught. But I dumped the guy I was cheated with even though he still wanted more. He wud even send me money , but I was done with him, cause he tried to hurt me. Cheating can ruin your relationship, so I will never do it again no matter bored.
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he sounds like a SUCKER.

and honestly your actions show how much you value that person. NONE.
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im surprised i like you guys so much. I get on very well with you. But maybe the Aqua makes me want to believe they get along with me, but secretly hate me?

its not like we're friends, just had aqua coworkers that i really enjoy talking too ....and very peaceful stable people





is it my leo placements?
Aquas and crab get along better than most think. We have many similarites but are different enough to keep it exciting...

*pokes the squishy*
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i think that's because placements and houses.

i mean Sarah Palin is a 4th houser, and guess what?? her husband has venus cancer venus mars. That's not a coincidence.
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how do you feel about leo men? hate? love?


what is your idea of a ideal date?


I find Leo men to be incredibly charismatic, fun, sexy. My only caveat with Leos is that they like to fix everything the way they think it needs to be. With Leos, they have a difficult time accepting that i like beautiful, flawed things. I wanted a stuffed animal in target once, it was ratty, it had a sewing mistake, I knew no one would ever buy this toy and it would end up in the trash. I bought it. The Leo looked at me like "Why?" 😕

Great dates for Aquas should be mentally engaging, yet low-key. Instead of a fine restaurant, how about one that has you cook your own meat survivor style? Art, music, museums, festivals, are all great locations for Aqua dates where we can pick and choose how social to be. Couples classes for painting, cooking, wine tasting are also good for more trendy Aquas.
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like seriously all the aquas I know do this 'clingy' alert test its hilarious
Whaa? Clingy alert test?
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It's more for their protection than ours. A clingy person is never going to be happy with us. We know we got space issues, most Aquas figure it out early. So if a person is a type to want to hang ALL.THE.TIME, we're like....we shall stay acquaintances and you shall never be tempted.
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how do you feel about leo me that subject.

I also like how you make everyone feel accepted. It's strangely attractive to see you interact with the "loners" and "crazy ones" and see how compassionate and tender you are with them. You reveal a side of yourself that is very loving and attractive.

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. Some how I feel obliged to accept people for how they are. I have a lot of awkward moments so I know hw it feels not to be accepted.
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Hopefully you guys can help me out. I had a best friend, we were really tight always hanging out. Shes a Sun Aquarius, Venus Aries. I'm a Sun Cancer, Venus Leo. We were good, and eventually we dated. It didn't work out for reasons that were my fault and because she would become detached, and since we were so synced i would feel and express her emotion. Now after we broke up we tried being friends, i admit i was trying to get us back together. But after 9 months of trying and only making her seem more and more detached, I decided to move on. I started talking to another girl at that time. I think she found out because not even a couple weeks of us talking, her friend sent me a message to not talk to her at all. That was more than three months ago. I've sent her texts, I've tried calling her, I even tried to talk to her at work, She said No, and walked off. She's always would take flight at any opportunity to show emotion, even when we were talking. I've admitted my faults, and I've forgiven her for the pain shes caused me, but she won't forgive me. I just want my friend back, what can I do?