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lisabeth
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Posted by Devious686
Hopefully you guys can help me out. I had a best friend, we were really tight always hanging out. Shes a Sun Aquarius, Venus Aries. I'm a Sun Cancer, Venus Leo. We were good, and eventually we dated. It didn't work out for reasons that were my fault and because she would become detached, and since we were so synced i would feel and express her emotion. Now after we broke up we tried being friends, i admit i was trying to get us back together. But after 9 months of trying and only making her seem more and more detached, I decided to move on. I started talking to another girl at that time. I think she found out because not even a couple weeks of us talking, her friend sent me a message to not talk to her at all. That was more than three months ago. I've sent her texts, I've tried calling her, I even tried to talk to her at work, She said No, and walked off. She's always would take flight at any opportunity to show emotion, even when we were talking. I've admitted my faults, and I've forgiven her for the pain shes caused me, but she won't forgive me. I just want my friend back, what can I do?
all i see is a CUTE TURTLE!!!!
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Aquastic007
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Posted by Devious686
Hopefully you guys can help me out. I had a best friend, we were really tight always hanging out. Shes a Sun Aquarius, Venus Aries. I'm a Sun Cancer, Venus Leo. We were good, and eventually we dated. It didn't work out for reasons that were my fault and because she would become detached, and since we were so synced i would feel and express her emotion. Now after we broke up we tried being friends, i admit i was trying to get us back together. But after 9 months of trying and only making her seem more and more detached, I decided to move on. I started talking to another girl at that time. I think she found out because not even a couple weeks of us talking, her friend sent me a message to not talk to her at all. That was more than three months ago. I've sent her texts, I've tried calling her, I even tried to talk to her at work, She said No, and walked off. She's always would take flight at any opportunity to show emotion, even when we were talking. I've admitted my faults, and I've forgiven her for the pain shes caused me, but she won't forgive me. I just want my friend back, what can I do?
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to change her made up mind about you. She just can't be your friend anymore! U were probably not adding any value to her anymore. Aquas don't go back to friendships once they decide it's over , no matter how close you were with them. Move on! She moved on along time ago!
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Gennie
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Posted by Devious686
Hopefully you guys can help me out. I had a best friend, we were really tight always hanging out. Shes a Sun Aquarius, Venus Aries. I'm a Sun Cancer, Venus Leo. We were good, and eventually we dated. It didn't work out for reasons that were my fault and because she would become detached, and since we were so synced i would feel and express her emotion. Now after we broke up we tried being friends, i admit i was trying to get us back together. But after 9 months of trying and only making her seem more and more detached, I decided to move on. I started talking to another girl at that time. I think she found out because not even a couple weeks of us talking, her friend sent me a message to not talk to her at all. That was more than three months ago. I've sent her texts, I've tried calling her, I even tried to talk to her at work, She said No, and walked off. She's always would take flight at any opportunity to show emotion, even when we were talking. I've admitted my faults, and I've forgiven her for the pain shes caused me, but she won't forgive me. I just want my friend back, what can I do?
I only see Aqua women do that when they were hurt deep in the soul. Its probably not what you wanted to hear. Unfortunately, you are now associated with that experience of pain, and one she doesn't care to repeat everytime you pop up. I advise, learn from your mistakes, and keep hold of the good memories, leave out all the rest. Its the best closure I can offer.
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Devious686
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Thanks everybody for your responses. It's not what i want to hear. But i get it, yes it was painful, i don't know if i was doing right by trying to get her to express her pain. But i felt that just keeping things bottled up wasn't good. I do think of our good times, and i don't have any resentment towards her. She is probably completely done with me, but I won't like i do hope that maybe one day we can be friends again. Thank you all for your responses, does give me some closure. Lots of Love!
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Aquastic007
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Posted by Devious686
Thanks everybody for your responses. It's not what i want to hear. But i get it, yes it was painful, i don't know if i was doing right by trying to get her to express her pain. But i felt that just keeping things bottled up wasn't good. I do think of our good times, and i don't have any resentment towards her. She is probably completely done with me, but I won't like i do hope that maybe one day we can be friends again. Thank you all for your responses, does give me some closure. Lots of Love!
Glad you got closure!