capricorn man and aquarius female.

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I'm a cap woman who's been with an aquarius man for almost three years. Best relationship I've ever had. There were a few frustrations, and I had to learn not to push and let things develop organically, but it really is the kind of relationship I could hope for.




What's his chart? I'm asking because there's an aqua in my life as well. I need to know if he's worth it. Don't you ever get jealous of the billion people he's got in his life? And his air-ness, I mean not taking things seriously etc. How's his way of loving? Is he gentle and sensual? I need soul in my relationship. I need to know there's a lot going inside of him, a lot of feelings etc. Need to know he cares deeply about me and that he'll never leave me. Do you think an aqua can give that?
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Wow. Lots of questions. He is very heavy earth/water (predominately virgo per the Pullen chart. I may have the name wrong) - virgo moon, cap venus, pisces mars. Very gentle, very sweet way of loving. Will do anything for me and is very considerate of my needs. The air-ness, well, yeah, I get frustrated by the way he avoids seriousness and turns everything light and airy, but it is who he is and one thing that attracts me. I have aqua mars, so I'm attracted to the aloofness and the lightness. Aquas move slow, would rather the friendship/fun factor be prominent in a relationship, but serious expression of emotions is not going to happen. They prefer to show how they feel by actions and will rarely say the sweet, loving things that girls want to hear. You have to learn how to read it. Once you learn how to read it, you just know it and really don't need to hear it often. You have to be independent emotionally as well as physically. If you can do that, you'll be fine, but it takes a long time. You must be patient because they will analyze their feelings to death and will be reluctant to give in to those feelings. It was a year and a half before he said he loved me. But dang it! It was well worth the wait.

So, to answer your last question, yes, I think an aqua can give that, but it will be in their own way and on their own terms and it won't be like what you're probably used to. You can't rush it, can't push them and have to let things develop at their pace. The problem with a lot of
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women is that they expect too much, too soon and aren't patient enough to wait for them to come around. A lot of women get ahead in terms of pacing, meaning that they are at one place, whereas the man is several steps behind. Women get frustrated and give up on aquas. I know I've had my share of frustations, but I realized, hey, he keeps coming around, so I'm okay. An aqua won't keep coming around if they're not interested or bored with the relationship. That's what I mean about being patient and about being emotionally independent. If you're wanting validation from them, it's not going to happen, verbally anyway.

So be patient, be independent, keep it light, let him determine the pace and don't rely on him for self assurance. Aquas aren't good at reassurance, so you have to find it within yourself.

Hope that helps.
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truecap, your aqua man has virgo moon, so he's analzying his emotions, that's probably where he gets it. Earth/air moons analyze emotions.

i remember an article on Paul Newman and his wife Joanne Woodward. I'll have to find it again and link it. But he used to tell his wife to stop analyzing her feelings, because you don't analzye. She had a difficult time, because that is her nature. However, he never gave up on her of course, just that for him, he didn't have to analyze so it was odd for him to hear that from his wife in the beginning of their relationships. She had Aquarius mars and moon.
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truecap, your aqua man has virgo moon, so he's analzying his emotions, that's probably where he gets it. Earth/air moons analyze emotions.

i remember an article on Paul Newman and his wife Joanne Woodward. I'll have to find it again and link it. But he used to tell his wife to stop analyzing her feelings, because you don't analzye. She had a difficult time, because that is her nature. However, he never gave up on her of course, just that for him, he didn't have to analyze so it was odd for him to hear that from his wife in the beginning of their relationships. She had Aquarius mars and moon.



Yeah, that virgo moon will do that to ya. It aligns well with my capricorn moon, though. 😉

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.... I think. Neither emotionally nor psychically. I want to become one with the person. I give a billion percent in a relationship and I'd prefer to get something equal back. I also think I can get a bit clingy and obsessed with someone I love. And i can get very jealous sometimes as well. But sometimes Im very tolerant, free and openminded and not jealous at all. It depends. If he gives me what I need and if I trust him then I'll be find and I'll focus on other things. But i don't know... Difficult shiat.

I think I have the same problem as you say many women have. Impatience. Cause i don't want to waste my time and if i don't know him I can't know if I'm wasting my time or not.

Wow not getting reassurance, and keeping it light. AND letting him determine the pace. Wow. I don't know. Sounds like everything that shouldn't happen. Im a cap. Its either my way or no way, my pace or no pace. At least in love. Im too scared to be hurt.




woah slow down. your mercury is going off the charts.

you need to have lots of patience if you want this man. you said his venus is in cap and moon in gemini. Wow. another mercury influence and venus in cap men usually are best when they are in their "building years" from what i read. They will be great providers once they build a nest reaching their goals. During their years of climbing, and if you're in that circle where he allows you, you'll have to be super patient.

that gemini moon of yours is restless. mercury is always restless. Do alot of puzzles, entertain yourself mentally while you wait.

i guess that's all i can say for a guy with those placements.
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.... I think. Neither emotionally nor psychically. I want to become one with the person. I give a billion percent in a relationship and I'd prefer to get something equal back. I also think I can get a bit clingy and obsessed with someone I love. And i can get very jealous sometimes as well. But sometimes Im very tolerant, free and openminded and not jealous at all. It depends. If he gives me what I need and if I trust him then I'll be find and I'll focus on other things. But i don't know... Difficult shiat.

I think I have the same problem as you say many women have. Impatience. Cause i don't want to waste my time and if i don't know him I can't know if I'm wasting my time or not.

Wow not getting reassurance, and keeping it light. AND letting him determine the pace. Wow. I don't know. Sounds like everything that shouldn't happen. Im a cap. Its either my way or no way, my pace or no pace. At least in love. Im too scared to be hurt.



you TALK about it, but walking the walk is the "key", and you'll have to PROVE that by your actions.
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truecap, your aqua man has virgo moon, so he's analzying his emotions, that's probably where he gets it. Earth/air moons analyze emotions.

i remember an article on Paul Newman and his wife Joanne Woodward. I'll have to find it again and link it. But he used to tell his wife to stop analyzing her feelings, because you don't analzye. She had a difficult time, because that is her nature. However, he never gave up on her of course, just that for him, he didn't have to analyze so it was odd for him to hear that from his wife in the beginning of their relationships. She had Aquarius mars and moon.



Yeah, that virgo moon will do that to ya. It aligns well with my capricorn moon, though. 😉

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lol well he's got cap venus so it aligns well with your moon. and his pisces mars trines your venus and rising.

your aqua mars gets his sun.
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truecap, your aqua man has virgo moon, so he's analzying his emotions, that's probably where he gets it. Earth/air moons analyze emotions.

i remember an article on Paul Newman and his wife Joanne Woodward. I'll have to find it again and link it. But he used to tell his wife to stop analyzing her feelings, because you don't analzye. She had a difficult time, because that is her nature. However, he never gave up on her of course, just that for him, he didn't have to analyze so it was odd for him to hear that from his wife in the beginning of their relationships. She had Aquarius mars and moon.



Yeah, that virgo moon will do that to ya. It aligns well with my capricorn moon, though. 😉



lol well he's got cap venus so it aligns well with your moon. and his pisces mars trines your venus and rising.

your aqua mars gets his sun.
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We're perfect on paper! lol!
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Everything,

Stop analyzing. And don't judge his gemini moon, when you have one too!! Think about it, it's like judging yourself! lol!!
At least with the same moons, you'll understand each other emotionally.

It's the venus that determines what a man is looking for in a woman. His is capricorn, you are capricorn. 🙂

Just slow down and be patient. You're a cap, you CAN be patient, it's in our wiring. You've set the goal, now slowly and carefully start climbing that mountain. Two steps forward, one step back, but still moving forward all the time.

Breathe!!


🙂
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Everything,

Stop analyzing. And don't judge his gemini moon, when you have one too!! Think about it, it's like judging yourself! lol!!
At least with the same moons, you'll understand each other emotionally.

It's the venus that determines what a man is looking for in a woman. His is capricorn, you are capricorn. 🙂

Just slow down and be patient. You're a cap, you CAN be patient, it's in our wiring. You've set the goal, now slowly and carefully start climbing that mountain. Two steps forward, one step back, but still moving forward all the time.

Breathe!!


🙂



lmao 😆 It's hilarious isn't it?

it's probably a huge blind spot.
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truecap, your aqua man has virgo moon, so he's analzying his emotions, that's probably where he gets it. Earth/air moons analyze emotions.

i remember an article on Paul Newman and his wife Joanne Woodward. I'll have to find it again and link it. But he used to tell his wife to stop analyzing her feelings, because you don't analzye. She had a difficult time, because that is her nature. However, he never gave up on her of course, just that for him, he didn't have to analyze so it was odd for him to hear that from his wife in the beginning of their relationships. She had Aquarius mars and moon.



Yeah, that virgo moon will do that to ya. It aligns well with my capricorn moon, though. 😉



lol well he's got cap venus so it aligns well with your moon. and his pisces mars trines your venus and rising.

your aqua mars gets his sun.



We're perfect on paper! lol!
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in real life and practice, that's where it matters. 😄

but yup!!
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.... I think. Neither emotionally nor psychically. I want to become one with the person. I give a billion percent in a relationship and I'd prefer to get something equal back. I also think I can get a bit clingy and obsessed with someone I love. And i can get very jealous sometimes as well. But sometimes Im very tolerant, free and openminded and not jealous at all. It depends. If he gives me what I need and if I trust him then I'll be find and I'll focus on other things. But i don't know... Difficult shiat.

I think I have the same problem as you say many women have. Impatience. Cause i don't want to waste my time and if i don't know him I can't know if I'm wasting my time or not.

Wow not getting reassurance, and keeping it light. AND letting him determine the pace. Wow. I don't know. Sounds like everything that shouldn't happen. Im a cap. Its either my way or no way, my pace or no pace. At least in love. Im too scared to be hurt.



you TALK about it, but walking the walk is the "key", and you'll have to PROVE that by your actions.


you're right. but i think the difference between me and a gemini is that my words are true. if i've said something, i make sure it happens. can't say the same about the others. but you're right I can't know how I will be, or it will be. speculating isn't the same as living it for real. i have to live it to know it and also to get to know my own reactions to him and how i'd truly be with him. Absolutely true, thank you.
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you're welcome.

but um, re-read what you said. lol

*smh*
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Oh, they??re hip alright. Before you can say thingamajigger these deft souls have got three more Katmandu expressions to match. They feel with their minds. Feelings aren't the strong point of Gemini moon. The arts, literature, and humanities suit them fine. If you love them give them a cell phone as soon as it comes out or anything that glitters and has a bunch of buttons.

Gemini moon women strike one as pixies that have fallen to earth and are looking for someone to bewitch. The men of this moon are looking for a little pixie to beguile their own mazy mind.

The moon has partial rulership over the mental faculties so being in Gemini makes the mind quicker in the uptake. Gemini moon people learn new subjects quickly and can remember intricate lines of dialogue from books, movies, or their cell phones. Yes, cell phones were made for these people and Geminian people in general. Did you know America is ruled by Gemini? Just a little tidbit for you to soak into your uptake valve, then quickly forget.

Commitment is a four-letter word to Gemini moon people. If you want one of them, don't, I repeat, do not come on strong to them. They will forget you quicker than yesterday??s text message. Jealousy. No. Possessiveness. No. Cell phones, yes. Get them the newest thingamajigger on the block. They??ll come around.

Gemini moon needs multimedia entertainment. Input, input, need input. Need television, radio, computer, and cell phone on simultaneously because if I get bored I'm gonna be a bitch to be around. A car ride around the neighborhood suits them fine. Show them something new. Be telegrammatic. Show them your coin collection. Need input.
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You're such a bicth.

the reason why this guy's gemini moon scares me is because he already has aqua sun which itself was a bit alerting to me since i know how air signs can be. I was scared that his gemini moon might emphasize him aqua sun and the airiness in him and thus making him incompatible with me.






Hey, I was reading this and thought of something that might make you feel better. If he's got that many placements in capricorn, then he should be pretty grounded and not very flaky. Does his behavior give you any indication that he would be really "airy"? If not, then I wouldn't worry about it.
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Oh, they??re hip alright. Before you can say thingamajigger these deft souls have got three more Katmandu expressions to match. They feel with their minds. Feelings aren't the strong point of Gemini moon. The arts, literature, and humanities suit them fine. If you love them give them a cell phone as soon as it comes out or anything that glitters and has a bunch of buttons.

Gemini moon women strike one as pixies that have fallen to earth and are looking for someone to bewitch. The men of this moon are looking for a little pixie to beguile their own mazy mind.

The moon has partial rulership over the mental faculties so being in Gemini makes the mind quicker in the uptake. Gemini moon people learn new subjects quickly and can remember intricate lines of dialogue from books, movies, or their cell phones. Yes, cell phones were made for these people and Geminian people in general. Did you know America is ruled by Gemini? Just a little tidbit for you to soak into your uptake valve, then quickly forget.

Commitment is a four-letter word to Gemini moon people. If you want one of them, don't, I repeat, do not come on strong to them. They will forget you quicker than yesterday??s text message. Jealousy. No. Possessiveness. No. Cell phones, yes. Get them the newest thingamajigger on the block. They??ll come around.

Gemini moon needs multimedia entertainment. Input, input, need input. Need television, radio, computer, and cell phone on simultaneously because if I get bored I'm gonna be a bitch to be around. A car ride around the neighborhood suits them fine. Show them something new. Be telegrammatic. Show them your coin collection. Need input.



omg!! 😄 😆

i hope the guy gives you a car ride around the neighborhood.
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I am mature now. I am getting old and my biggest worry is that I am going to be alone. 😢
I am happy to go for less that I deserved. I am been dating lots of girls (arias, Capricorn, Taurus, scorpion...) but never found women so, so cool like aqua.
She is Different in all ways. What I know is she defiantly like me that I know. I am not stupid!



Not to intrude, but how old are you?
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Cap and Aqua can work soooo well. If the moon signs match I think it's a keeper!

Committed, fun and not too emotional since both are not into that but rather practical. Aquas are super committed as well! Both signs are strong and have balls, males and females, they respect that in each other.
I like Aquas a lot. Then again I have Venus in Aqua :-)

Btw good that the OP said "don't talk about sex" in the beginning LOL, I can see some Aquas coming here and talk about that first, these filthy Aquas LOL. J/K. Cappies are the same (if not worse) but they hide it so well, or maybe not I haven't dated fellow Caps before.