Posted by SeleukosWhat do you love an Aquarius man? Like he knows that I love him but how do I show it?Posted by GeminPhillyHow can I help you?
I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idkclick to expand
Posted by TimonIsn't that just insane?!? lol
An aquarius calling you cold. 😆
Posted by Leo188881We hug, kiss sometimes. But, we live together so I just randomly hug him or rub on him.
Are you affectionate towards each other when you see each other... Or is it always cold?
Posted by tizianiI mean, I'm never really been super emotional. I thought that wasn't really a problem because I was like that already when we fell in love with each other. So, I am curious to why this is suddenly an issue.
Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?
Posted by GeminPhilly*How* How do you love an Aquarius man?Posted by SeleukosWhat do you love an Aquarius man? Like he knows that I love him but how do I show it?Posted by GeminPhillyHow can I help you?
I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idkclick to expand
Posted by SeleukosOhhh I am understanding more now. I have to cling to him a little bit more? Dote on him and bring him breakfast in bed? This is maximum effort on my part btw lolPosted by GeminPhillyHis softer side is coming out now and he needs emotional security.Posted by tizianiI mean, I'm never really been super emotional. I thought that wasn't really a problem because I was like that already when we fell in love with each other. So, I am curious to why this is suddenly an issue.
Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?
In this process anything that doesn't give him the affirmation he hoped for can be perceived as coldness.
Aqua tend to lose their objectivity in those cases which makes them a bit hypocritical because they would probably be as irritated as you feel now.click to expand
Posted by GeminPhilly
***Update*** So, I continued to be in a relationship with my bf and also talking to the friend. I got caught....again smdh (I can't make this stuff up) We had a whole big blow up and in the end my bf said that he would move out and just move on. Then, he went to work and called me from work saying that he thought about it but he loves me and doesn't wanna give up on us so if I was willing he was willing to give it another shot. I love my bf, and I weighed the pros and cons. I have feelings for his friend but I genuinely love my bf thru wins and losses. So, I agreed and we have grown even closer since, and I haven't talked to the friend. Haven't even been tempted. I blocked him cold turkey. This happened on Tuesday night btw. So, is this an Aquarius trait? You're willing to forgive big things but if I wake you out of your sleep you will plot my murder?
Posted by SeleukosThank you so much!! You've given me great insight into this man's complicated mind. I'm very grateful! 😊💕Posted by GeminPhillyIf he keeps trying to make it work you can trust him that he is trying to move forward.
I know that he hasn't forgot about me breaking his trust, it was only a couple of months ago. But, this is not what this post is about. He's still here with me, working to rebuild the trust and all. So, that's what I wanted to focus on. But, apparently this is something that I will forever be known for here. Thank you for your input though. I'm gaining so much understanding!
Expect a couple of emotional outbursts form about it from time to time but those are often a way to deal with the pain.
Good luck for you two.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneOk. I can do that! I am going to be more open about my feelings, wants and needs to him. Thank you!
All you can do is keep making the effort, keep showing you care and your first priority is him.
Also let him know in concise words what you need from him to be happy. We know he cares deeply for you because he forgave you. But maybe the way he expresses that love isn’t your preferred way.
Communicate what you want to him.
Not a one and done. Gotta say things at least 3 times before they sink in.
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