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I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wan
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  • I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idk
  • Posted by GeminPhilly
    I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idk


    How can I help you?
  • Timon
    female
    An aquarius calling you cold.Laughing
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  • Posted by Seleukos
    Posted by GeminPhilly
    I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idk


    How can I help you?
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    What do you love an Aquarius man? Like he knows that I love him but how do I show it?
  • Posted by Timon
    An aquarius calling you cold.Laughing


    Isn't that just insane?!? lol
  • Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?
  • Posted by Leo188881
    Are you affectionate towards each other when you see each other... Or is it always cold?


    We hug, kiss sometimes. But, we live together so I just randomly hug him or rub on him.
  • Posted by tiziani
    Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?


    I mean, I'm never really been super emotional. I thought that wasn't really a problem because I was like that already when we fell in love with each other. So, I am curious to why this is suddenly an issue.
  • Posted by GeminPhilly
    Posted by Seleukos
    Posted by GeminPhilly
    I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idk


    How can I help you?


    What do you love an Aquarius man? Like he knows that I love him but how do I show it?
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    *How* How do you love an Aquarius man?
  • Posted by GeminPhilly
    Posted by tiziani
    Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?


    I mean, I'm never really been super emotional. I thought that wasn't really a problem because I was like that already when we fell in love with each other. So, I am curious to why this is suddenly an issue.
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    His softer side is coming out now and he needs emotional security.
    In this process anything that doesn't give him the affirmation he hoped for can be perceived as coldness.
    Aqua tend to lose their objectivity in those cases which makes them a bit hypocritical because they would probably be as irritated as you feel now.
  • vixen14
    Ich bin sein licht ♥️ immer
    Weren’t you the one that cheated on the aqua with some other dude ?
  • vixen14
    Ich bin sein licht ♥️ immer
    Nvm. You are. You can’t expect the aqua to forgive your betrayal even if he’s still with you. We never forget and from my experience, aqua men are the worst. They will gaslight you and treat you like 💩 for your betrayal. I’d say they’re the worst people to cheat on.
  • Posted by GeminPhilly
    Posted by GeminPhilly
    Posted by Seleukos
    Posted by GeminPhilly
    I have no idea how to love this man that I'm in a relationship with. I thought that love was supposed to be warm and effortlessly given and received. This seems like way too much work and he doesn't even appreciate my effort. I don't know what more he wants from me. He calls me cold and not in touch with my feelings but he knew that from the beginning Soooo....idk


    How can I help you?


    What do you love an Aquarius man? Like he knows that I love him but how do I show it?


    *How* How do you love an Aquarius man?
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    That's actually quite simple (in theory).
    Be truly honest and soft in your love towards him.
    We need time to adjust ourselves to the fact that we have someone who means so much to us that we aren't as free as before anymore.
    Think of the most naive, free and undented form of love you can imagine and act upon the first impuls you heart gives you on the question how you should act.
  • Posted by Seleukos
    Posted by GeminPhilly
    Posted by tiziani
    Did he read the "he knew that from the beginning" smallprint you're putting in there?


    I mean, I'm never really been super emotional. I thought that wasn't really a problem because I was like that already when we fell in love with each other. So, I am curious to why this is suddenly an issue.


    His softer side is coming out now and he needs emotional security.
    In this process anything that doesn't give him the affirmation he hoped for can be perceived as coldness.
    Aqua tend to lose their objectivity in those cases which makes them a bit hypocritical because they would probably be as irritated as you feel now.
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    Ohhh I am understanding more now. I have to cling to him a little bit more? Dote on him and bring him breakfast in bed? This is maximum effort on my part btw lol
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