Okay , I'm currently seeing an Aquarius male . We have been hanging out and he expressed that he was catching feelings for me . But for two days he completely ignored me . But he left his hat here on the table , might I mention its his favorite hat . I'm trying to figure out all these mixed signals . can you guys help?
Confused Aquarius

No mixed signals... If he tells you he has feelings, then he does. Not hearing from him for a few days here and there are gonna become a normal thing if you pursue a relationship with him. Are you ready for that?

I agree with PennyStealing, he's being a typical Aqua man. I believe it's a good thing that he came clean on how he feels, despite their lack of communication skills when it comes to their emotions. So yeah don't take the disappearance personal.
Penny's right.
And if he's under 28 he'll be a complete doofus
Remember:
1. Aquas are hugely romantic. the most T-h-o-g-h-t-f-u-l...But its in their HEADS so they have to think it whilst you FEEL it
2. They are above the banal. The predictable. They imagine soul unions. He's right now wondering if you are just that.
3. He may worry that you're [not] The Real Thing. He will need time to study you. thats ok.
4. As he sees (sorry... Proves) that you are For Him, behaviour will change. Watch.
5. He's got things to do, people to bump into you/he won't know, facts to study,. Most would find it infuriating...Don't!
6. Instead start studying HIM. What are these interests? If you [secretly] learn/leak some details of Borneo or Snail Framing, he'll be in AWE.
7. Just don't be overly enthusiastic. Never mention the thing in the middle (Relationship).
8. I'm guessing your not exactly TomBoyish with a name like PlushBarbie. Too bad - Aquas love a pal/partner in crime...
9. If you can find your way to connect on an Idea-level, you'll be inseparable. Play a little dumb Barbie, give him problems to solve.
10. texts/calls which are 'project-based' will be appreciated. Just don't mention shopping, family (or relationships)
He will slowly grow to need you. And that will surprise him. And scare him. Comfort him.
If he turns away, it will be because He's soo afraid of rejection.
In time, you can be real direct. I got tickets for X - Wanna come?, its starting in 30 mins... waay better than planning a date for 2 wks time.
Never give him time to think if you want a quick decision.
Remember that anything in the future (Breakfast, Next weeks date) is hypothetical. Involving hours of deliberation.
And...If you would like him to marry you one day - stop on a street, tell him to give you a minute please - and run down to a distant homeless person.
Tell him thats Chad. You went to highschool, but after drugs etc so you try to help him out wheneer you see him. Bingo 🙂
After that, your Aqua will forever regale his friends with heroic stories about your amazing self.. He'll craft a giant pedestal - just for you. Believe in his 'stuff', and watch how he believes in You. And have your own goals. He'll think thats awesome.
Remember, the boy is 'Handicapped'.
You need to be considerate of his condition 🙂
And if he's under 28 he'll be a complete doofus
Remember:
1. Aquas are hugely romantic. the most T-h-o-g-h-t-f-u-l...But its in their HEADS so they have to think it whilst you FEEL it
2. They are above the banal. The predictable. They imagine soul unions. He's right now wondering if you are just that.
3. He may worry that you're [not] The Real Thing. He will need time to study you. thats ok.
4. As he sees (sorry... Proves) that you are For Him, behaviour will change. Watch.
5. He's got things to do, people to bump into you/he won't know, facts to study,. Most would find it infuriating...Don't!
6. Instead start studying HIM. What are these interests? If you [secretly] learn/leak some details of Borneo or Snail Framing, he'll be in AWE.
7. Just don't be overly enthusiastic. Never mention the thing in the middle (Relationship).
8. I'm guessing your not exactly TomBoyish with a name like PlushBarbie. Too bad - Aquas love a pal/partner in crime...
9. If you can find your way to connect on an Idea-level, you'll be inseparable. Play a little dumb Barbie, give him problems to solve.
10. texts/calls which are 'project-based' will be appreciated. Just don't mention shopping, family (or relationships)
He will slowly grow to need you. And that will surprise him. And scare him. Comfort him.
If he turns away, it will be because He's soo afraid of rejection.
In time, you can be real direct. I got tickets for X - Wanna come?, its starting in 30 mins... waay better than planning a date for 2 wks time.
Never give him time to think if you want a quick decision.
Remember that anything in the future (Breakfast, Next weeks date) is hypothetical. Involving hours of deliberation.
And...If you would like him to marry you one day - stop on a street, tell him to give you a minute please - and run down to a distant homeless person.
Tell him thats Chad. You went to highschool, but after drugs etc so you try to help him out wheneer you see him. Bingo 🙂
After that, your Aqua will forever regale his friends with heroic stories about your amazing self.. He'll craft a giant pedestal - just for you. Believe in his 'stuff', and watch how he believes in You. And have your own goals. He'll think thats awesome.
Remember, the boy is 'Handicapped'.
You need to be considerate of his condition 🙂

Pfff aqua guys are so freaking weird
Good luck with him lol
Good luck with him lol

Posted by Arianlotus0214
I agree with PennyStealing, he's being a typical Aqua man. I believe it's a good thing that he came clean on how he feels, despite their lack of communication skills when it comes to their emotions. So yeah don't take the disappearance personal.
Excuse me, I'm an Aqua male with my Mercury in Capricorn and my Venus in Pisces, I have excellent communication skills. The only reason I won't tell a girl something is because I feel like it will scare her away or it will hurt her feelings. But I still will find a way to show her through my actions even if I don't tell her.
Other factors do count in before you can just say "typical"
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