Curious about Aqua Women.

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coldwater
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Hmmm. You being boring. And by that, having no depth about you. I need someone that I can really sink my teeth in. If I am to be pulled away from my constant dreaming, then it had better be for something worth it. I cannot stand rigid people stuck in one mind set. Also, I have to be able to emotionally connect with you on a mental level. I need to be able to get inside your head. I need for us to be close, spirtually, mentally and physically. We are big on friends. This is the way we can begin our bonding process and see if there is a connection. I cannot stand if a man has a closed off mind or his greatest aspiration is to watch sunday night football on tv.I know this may sound wierd, but I love being obsessed with my partners. I love the passion, the intensity and the mental rush. He had better be obsessed with me too. Theres nothing worse than giving someone your all and hes halfway in. Its all or nothing with me. I want the whole nine yards. Cant stand immature, closed minded, weak little boys.
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coldwater
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Oh and by closed minded I mean I want to know the "real" you. I want the man noone sees. The inner you, the one you guard the most. Thats the one I want. I dont like when you "hide" it from me because I can tell the difference. I dont want shallow. I want to go deep with you. We are also big on loyalty. I cannot stand liars or acts of betrayals. In order for me to trust you and for this "connection" to work, it has to be based on trust and your ability to show your real self. Few people are comfy with this and even few have the same desires. Thats why I believe we pass on alot of potential mates and throw up our walls. I cannot stand phony people.
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lisabeth
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Posted by BommyKnocker
I dated a few, but never went deep enough to figure out Aqua woman D.N.A. I'd like to know more, much much more.

Tell me about things that would piss off a stereotypical Aqua woman.



I like how you put in there 'piss off'= anger the atypical woman born in late jan/early to mid february 🙂

hmmmmm women are thinking...



moreeee thinking....




isn't it different with every woman? Some of these ladies get 'pissed off' because they didnt get their raise at work, or they got a flat tire or they didnt what they wanted? I dont really know. Wish some of them would confess their greatest anger flaws.

in the past, it's disrespectful men who don't know how to understand no means no. Not interested, that means don't bother sending me your childhood pictures, your 401k plan, your job/career goals and where you work, how much you make, how 'great' you are. It's nice that they back down and respect women and go on their way. But there are just those few out there that have no respect and pursue it like a stalker who puts roses on your doorstep every morning. Creepy. That's just a way of posting a guard at the doorstep, hiding them in the bushes, so they can catch the stalker and place a restraining order on them. That kind of thing is the very most, utmost that would make me blow. honest to god.
Everything else, I'm cool. Even if i have disagreements with my loved ones, it's all good. 'Cause patience is wonderful. But creepy stalkers are not.




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lisabeth
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as i re-read, i do care about all those things i mentioned with one i love, to a certain degree. My husband's already brilliant, smarter than me. And, because, common sense, a couple needs to work towards a future together. It's just vehement when it has been in the past to those who i just felt were not my type at all, and they just have no respect. Meaning, they can show off their career, how much money they make, how brilliant they are, but not interested means not interested. So when asked, what sets off your anger. That's the one. It's stupid, i know, but sigh, it's better for women who love that attention. I'd rather be under the radar, with a dark hoodie.

and i liked what you wrote, coldwater. i guess it's more or so, an instant 'click' and that has nothing to do with friendship either. Friendship remains in the friend zone. Or twilight zone.