Do aquariuses..?

Like small talk? IME aquas typically the men don't and aren't into small talk like how are you, or what's been going on, asking questions like these, they don't seem big on. I realize they are more "big picture" kinda people. So even if u haven't talked to someone in a long time like an ex, would u ask them how they've been or what's going on i their lives now? Or would you just not do that? I'm asking cuz an old bf from college I found on FB and he was vague with me and didn't ask anything like that, and my other ex Aqua was the same and never asked anyone questions like that.

I don't think it's just an aqua man thing. I don't like small talk either. I feel awkward and usually don't know how to answer questions like "so what's new with you?" In my head I'm thinking, "well, let's see here..I haven't seen you in 4-5 months. So how do I sum up all (which is a lot) that's happened in couple sentences".

What would be nice is if people ask me something specific from last time they saw me. Like "how did that seminar go that you told me about?" When you see an aqua, pretend like no time has passed.

We don't do small talk.
We like learning. Solving. Championing. Planning. Analysing. Counselling. Imagining. Dreaming.

We detest talk for talks sake.
There must be a Result. And Outcome.

Like...All the things I know about this world I've learned/am interested in learning - and all you wanna do is ask.....X?
Really?
Seriously?

Dont expect romantic texting (playful/imaginative maybe)
But do text us when kidnapped inside a container ship headed to Kowloon.
We'll get right on the sh!t.

DO ask whether the Mall is really right for this town.
DONT ask us if we'd like to go there Sunday.

etc

Yeah alot of people dont like small talk, i hate it.. my Aqua ex doesn't like it much either. An aqua guy i met recently messaged me abit of small talk but its turned into a week long conversation.. He seems big on chatting!

Don't mind small talks as long as they are engaging.

You have to engage our minds, we need bigger ideas to tackle than "what did you eat this morning".