Genius or Insane?

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cancerlady
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OMG

My poor Aqua girls...Emotional Cancer mother, confused Pisces father. Guys I'm going to need help with this one 😛

Seriously...I am SO worried with what I read on the Aqua board about their opinions on Cancers. I don't want my children to resent me or think I am smothering them to death. I know over half of you are going to say "Oh it's just stupid astrology, don't pay attention" HOWEVER...if you read the majority of posts BY Aqua's about Cancer's on here, the response is overwhelmingly negative.

Since my belly has dropped considerably I'm thinking I won't make it to my due date in March, so I will have Aqua twins. TWO OF THEM! AHHHHH!

What's a water sign to do? I don't want to raise them to be Paris Hilton!

CL/Cm2
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Ha ha! Cancerlady relax. You can't be stressing out especially in your condition. You shouldn't let a person's astrology signs rule your opinion of him/her as everyone is unique regardless of their star sign - it's just that astrology can give you an indication of general personality traits that a person is likely to possess. This is my opinion anyway. If your twins turn out to be aquas then talk to them and reason with them, try not to emotionally over-power them, and have fun with them!
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CL~

Thoughts become things...think GOOD ones! 😉 I agree with MD - do NOT let someone else's thoughts become yours. Your girls will be extrodinary because they have you...no worries. I raised three boys on my own and people constantly told me that it was going to be hard, I was going to be a wreck...well, let me share with you - they are the most incredible men and I have truly have had the most fun of my life sharing it with them. Honestly, the BEST job- "play" that I have embarked on yet - it was easy and still is. Why? because I THOUGHT it would be. You will be fine - you are never given anything that you cannot handle and if it is brought to you....it is meant for you.

I know it will be absolutley perfect - smile and get ready for an awesome adventure my friend! 😉
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LOL

Well I don't want any wrinkles yet! Or at all for that matter 😉

Thanks guys, I really need the encouragement sometimes. Especially when I read so much about how Cancer's get on Aqua's nerves so much. I think most of my apprehension stems from the fact that I just want to be good to them. I want them to grow up to be the best people they can possible be and it is a daunting task! To think, I could really screw these people up!

I have been a little stressed lately, but I am trying to take it easy. I just think about my friend who had the Aqua baby girl that was pulling away at 6 months! Just thinking about that makes me want to cry...then again it could be the pregnant hormones 😛

Either way...I will try to not over-emotionalize and learn to rationalize. On the up side, I have always been freedom loving and independent so I would want them to be like that too...just not too soon! As soon as they are out of diapers and walking...we will be off to see the world!

Thanks guys and if you have ANY valuable advice, astrology based or not...feel free to let me know.

CL/Cm2