Cancergal32
@Cancergal32
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HELPPP?!?
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
Posted by Gennieshe has a lot of Gemini though.
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
and OP, you need to have your own hobbies when you're with any man it seems.
I just never met any men in real life, who wanted to do things with their significant other ALL the time.
I would love to chain myself to my husband everyday, but he does need to go to work.
The other night he was invited to go drinking with his male colleagues, so he went.
i'm like ok that's fine. i'm not gonna tell him how to live his life.
he's gonna get PISSED off if I tell him how to live his life.
@lisabethur8
But cancers are so neeedy. Always underfoot. And a Cancer/Gem means underfoot and chatterboxing all the time.
But cancers are so neeedy. Always underfoot. And a Cancer/Gem means underfoot and chatterboxing all the time.
Posted by Gennie😆 aw.
@lisabethur8
But cancers are so neeedy. Always underfoot. And a Cancer/Gem means underfoot and chatterboxing all the time.
I don't understand how someone can make sense of saying "put your life on hold for a year for me and I'll see you every two weeks" who the heck would do that? NO ONE! i don't feel obligated to do anything. That's Crazy. I guess I feel that the first two months of me going by that is ridiculous.
Lastly! I feel that the fact that I let him know about another guy was good enough most people just do what they want. I have a hard time seeing my fault. Besides the continuing to talk to the other guy. But I told him I would.
Lastly! I feel that the fact that I let him know about another guy was good enough most people just do what they want. I have a hard time seeing my fault. Besides the continuing to talk to the other guy. But I told him I would.
Posted by Gennie
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
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Posted by Gennie
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
Also he broke up with me. And is telling me to put my life on hold. Like WHAT?
Posted by Cancergal32You were with another guy, and you're sayin he's a bad one?How about you, how good are you?You meet a guy,give him hope,and when the ex asks you back you just go back to him cuting off that new guy?How is that ok?He doesn't want you and he made it clear about it.Learn to live with the decisions you've made, learn from mistakes, write it down and see what can you do to overcome the same problem the next time, you had this topic yesterday and i answered it , why did you create a new one.Damn i can't understand people who always tries to make themselves a victim,thats def not the best quality for a person, you make a choise, no one else does, so atleast take some responsibility and pride in yourself and in the mistakes you did, you knew the risk, and expected the best, you took the risk and you didn't get what you expected and now you're acting like a victim, change your thoughts about this, make yourself understand that everything that happends in yourself is because of your choises you're making and because of who you are, rather than making someone else guilty take responsibility for yourself, somethings you just can't control and thats it , if he want's to comeback he might comeback one day, but i don't think he would, you broke hi's trust,hi's pride and i think he lost respect for you, relationships needs honesty/respect/trust and love,without either of these quoalities relationship fades into nothing,unless 2 people try to work things out,but seems you're the only one who wants this now,so stop,1person can't make all the effort because it doesn't work that way,live you life and do something for yourself,enjoy life and be happy so when a person comes you can share if,if you can't be happy alone, you will not be happy with someone else, unless only for a little bit,but then possessiveness will kick in and you will ruin it ,or you will do the same thing you did with this guy,learn from mistakes and go forward,i would also suggest reading a book,a fear of life,it's a great book,talks about love and about shadow forms of it 😉 goodluck and don't run away from the truth,embrace it,take it and wield it as a tool that will support you into the building of your life. 😉
I don't understand how someone can make sense of saying "put your life on hold for a year for me and I'll see you every two weeks" who the heck would do that? NO ONE! i don't feel obligated to do anything. That's Crazy. I guess I feel that the first two months of me going by that is ridiculous.
Lastly! I feel that the fact that I let him know about another guy was good enough most people just do what they want. I have a hard time seeing my fault. Besides the continuing to talk to the other guy. But I told him I would.
Posted by Cancergal32cut him off and live your life, this relationship of yours isn't going anywhere ,goodluck 😉 don't think ,just do it and go with it,see where it leads, to the better future 100%
Also he broke up with me. And is telling me to put my life on hold. Like WHAT?
see this. First off there is no me "playing" the victim. You dont ask someone to shut down there life. I didn't take a risk. I straight up told him. So I think your mind is twisted awkwardly into believing that being USED is ok. So good luck in your future relationships and I hope that you understand live doesn't mean going through hell with someone. I'm actually glad I posted on here so I could relize my lack of FAULT herePosted by rakacPosted by Cancergal32You were with another guy, and you're sayin he's a bad one?How about you, how good are you?You meet a guy,give him hope,and when the ex asks you back you just go back to him cuting off that new guy?How is that ok?He doesn't want you and he made it clear about it.Learn to live with the decisions you've made, learn from mistakes, write it down and see what can you do to overcome the same problem the next time, you had this topic yesterday and i answered it , why did you create a new one.Damn i can't understand people who always tries to make themselves a victim,thats def not the best quality for a person, you make a choise, no one else does, so atleast take some responsibility and pride in yourself and in the mistakes you did, you knew the risk, and expected the best, you took the risk and you didn't get what you expected and now you're acting like a victim, change your thoughts about this, make yourself understand that everything that happends in yourself is because of your choises you're making and because of who you are, rather than making someone else guilty take responsibility for yourself, somethings you just can't control and thats it , if he want's to comeback he might comeback one day, but i don't think he would, you broke hi's trust,hi's pride and i think he lost respect for you, relationships needs honesty/respect/trust and love,without either of these quoalities relationship fades into nothing,unless 2 people try to work things out,but seems you're the only one who wants this now,so stop,1person can't make all the effort because it doesn't work that way,live you life and do something for yourself,enjoy life and be happy so when a person comes you can share if,if you can't be happy alone, you will not be happy with someone else, unless only for a little bit,but then p
I don't understand how someone can make sense of saying "put your life on hold for a year for me and I'll see you every two weeks" who the heck would do that? NO ONE! i don't feel obligated to do anything. That's Crazy. I guess I feel that the first two months of me going by that is ridiculous.
Lastly! I feel that the fact that I let him know about another guy was good enough most people just do what they want. I have a hard time seeing my fault. Besides the continuing to talk to the other guy. But I told him I would.click to expand
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.
Posted by GennieYou sound dum an fuck. And you sound like weak as female who bows down to men.
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
Cancer/Leo's are the best of both worlds sensitive yet blunt. AND THANK YOU! HE definitely is use to that all his exes were just like that. Thank you so much for reconfriming that with me. I totally forgot that his ex let him LEAVE her on the side of the road in -9 degree weather! And still wanted him back. OMG!!! Why would I want someone like that? Thank you girl seriously I was stupid for even asking those questions eff him!
Posted by canerleo101
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.
Posted by Cancergal32He's just used to dealing with weak ass women, and trust me theirs a lot of them in this world. The fact that people actually said that you were in the wrong is a prime example, but then again not everyone is Blessed to be a Cancer/Leo.
Cancer/Leo's are the best of both worlds sensitive yet blunt. AND THANK YOU! HE definitely is use to that all his exes were just like that. Thank you so much for reconfriming that with me. I totally forgot that his ex let him LEAVE her on the side of the road in -9 degree weather! And still wanted him back. OMG!!! Why would I want someone like that? Thank you girl seriously I was stupid for even asking those questions eff him!Posted by canerleo101
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.click to expand
Posted by GennieNeedy, the only thing I need is to get my pussy ate for about an hour straight.
@lisabethur8
But cancers are so neeedy. Always underfoot. And a Cancer/Gem means underfoot and chatterboxing all the time.
Can I call it, "relationships of convenience"? Use one guy when the other guy is off and then switch back to the Aqua when he is back?? Terrible!
Being an Aqua male, if anyone does that to me, I will shun that person FOREVER!
Being an Aqua male, if anyone does that to me, I will shun that person FOREVER!
She played a game and it backfired. Simple as that.
@ rakac
Am i missing something here, she said that she wasn't in a relationship with the Aua guy, but he's acting as if he her husband but hasn't put a ring on her finger, he can't have the best of both worlds. I don't see what's wrong with her texting the new guy if the Auqu won't even be in a committed relationship with her.
Am i missing something here, she said that she wasn't in a relationship with the Aua guy, but he's acting as if he her husband but hasn't put a ring on her finger, he can't have the best of both worlds. I don't see what's wrong with her texting the new guy if the Auqu won't even be in a committed relationship with her.
Posted by canerleo101If you are going to attack me for sounding "dumb as fuck" learn to spell it first, it tends to have more of an impact. Or at the very least, if your fingers are too fat to type, then proof-read. The very thing I've learned about the "Help me with this guy" posts is a lack of pertinent information.Posted by GennieYou sound dum an fuck. And you sound like weak as female who bows down to men.
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.click to expand
Cliffs notes say:
They dated for a few months, but they broke up because she wanted more time than he had to give. So then for 2 months they go on as if they are IN a committed relationship and she's OK with it by her own words. However he is gone for weeks at a time for work - that thing grown ups call a career and other stuff but to top it off, he wants her to wait a year for him.
If they weren't together before, due to "breaking up", then why the big explosion about "mind games". It's not a mind game if you sign off on FWB by BEING FWB. No, what she really thought, was that she could change his mind and just stuck with the situation.
A) That's her not giving him the space he desires to get his shit together and B) if she doesn't like it because crosses a boundary for her, then why doesn't she put her foot down?
Oh waiiit, she finally DOES after he gives her a time-line, after all she doesn't want to hang out like a FWB for a year, she wants to change his mind sooner than that. So she says, she wants to see other people, but he is still an option for her, and he maybe gets an idea that he could be screwing this up for himself (even though I think he dodged a bullet). He puts up a protest and has a serious talk; she caves in, telling him that she'll put more effort into THEM and won't see the other guy. I like the Virgoesque semantics of her thinking she could do 3 things:
A) Tell Aqua man she is going to put more effort into their "situationship"
B) That not seeing the Other guy physically means its ok to still talk and flirt, when you are supposed to be putting effort in somewhere else.
C) Be totally surprised that Aqua man gets upset, then is blind-sided by him up and quitting on her.
Continued
I'm looking for where he lied to her about what he wanted and needed, and I can't find anything but her shady behavior at trying to keep this Aqua guy, who doesn't want to be kept, by playing a jealousy game with Other guy. That game never works with Aquas.
I'm looking for where he lied to her about what he wanted and needed, and I can't find anything but her shady behavior at trying to keep this Aqua guy, who doesn't want to be kept, by playing a jealousy game with Other guy. That game never works with Aquas.
Posted by canerleo101Well it's a perspective only, it's not about Aqua guy, it's about this Cancer's behavior, she started seeing new guy while leaving the doors open for that Aqua, as soon as he said i don't want you to see that guy she stoped, he didn't even said we are going to be together and she ended a relationship with a guy that might have been something, she throwed away what she had now just for the expectation to have something that dwells in the past, i don't see how this is ok, he made no real effort to show anything just told you and thats it you let go of the relationship you have now?How's that nearly ok? That might be karma hiting you back, you might not felt anything bad cuting relationship with that new guy, but i'm sure he didn't deserve to be left for the past relationship and he sure didn't deserve the pain you cost him,what i always suggest for people when something goes wrong in any way,relationship or anything,write it down to the simplest detail analyze it and see where was the mistake, in this sittuation i would say you cuting out the new guy for the past relationship was the little karma you might have earned thats why i don't think it's going to workout, i'm my point of view where there gets involved more than 2 guys or 2woman that's not going to end up healthy, when you truly want to be with someone ,you do it together, through hard and good times , and you need to realise both people need to put in effort,have honesty/trust/respect and love for each other, if any of that fades relationship starts to fade also, both people need to work on relationship, at first he didn't seem to want, later on you didn't seem to want, and now he doesn't seem to want again, its a treetrunk relationship ,doesn't sound like you trust or respect each other,you might love a person,but without resp/tru/hones relationships just doesn't work,it's more than a feeling, it's all these things +effort and understanding 🙂 i'm not saying anything bad,i just suggest learn from experiences like this ,realise bad relationships and realise where they lead,ask yourself would you like to live with a person like this for the rest of your life,if not,it's not real,people have 2much expectations for people and think they might change, when in reality the chance that they would change is a slim one,so would you rather have a real relationship you're happy with or live in a relationship with bigger expectations that the person will bring you in the future? 🙂 just my thoughts 😉
@ rakac
Am i missing something here, she said that she wasn't in a relationship with the Aua guy, but he's acting as if he her husband but hasn't put a ring on her finger, he can't have the best of both worlds. I don't see what's wrong with her texting the new guy if the Auqu won't even be in a committed relationship with her.
Posted by Cancergal32the only thing I saw here is.he was left on the side of the road—
Cancer/Leo's are the best of both worlds sensitive yet blunt. AND THANK YOU! HE definitely is use to that all his exes were just like that. Thank you so much for reconfriming that with me. I totally forgot that his ex let him LEAVE her on the side of the road in -9 degree weather! And still wanted him back. OMG!!! Why would I want someone like that? Thank you girl seriously I was stupid for even asking those questions eff him!Posted by canerleo101
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.click to expand
that's so sad. what kind of woman does that?? 😕
did she even return for him at all? that's so sad.
EDIT - wait, in MINUS 9??
that's horrible.
No judging, but i'm inviting person to think that this relationship will lead nowhere 😉
yup she doesn't seem to respect him at all.
you might feel something for him, but if you can't respect him it won't go anywhere.
just like him from afar and be happy for him, and be happy he'll find someone who won't leave him on the side of the road and that someone will take care of him.
and you, OP, find someone you respect.
seriously, the other week we heard about people walking on the freeway and they got HIT and yes DEAD.
this happens a lot in California I heard, where illegal aliens travel from the border of Mexico, and in families too, and they too get HIT. Yes, they don't survive.
lots of dangerous stuff on the freeway and being left on the side of the road.
you might feel something for him, but if you can't respect him it won't go anywhere.
just like him from afar and be happy for him, and be happy he'll find someone who won't leave him on the side of the road and that someone will take care of him.
and you, OP, find someone you respect.
seriously, the other week we heard about people walking on the freeway and they got HIT and yes DEAD.
this happens a lot in California I heard, where illegal aliens travel from the border of Mexico, and in families too, and they too get HIT. Yes, they don't survive.
lots of dangerous stuff on the freeway and being left on the side of the road.
Posted by lisabethur8No Liz, she said Aqua man left an ex girlfriend on the side of the road. And the ex girlfriend still wanted Aqua man back.Posted by Cancergal32the only thing I saw here is.he was left on the side of the road—
Cancer/Leo's are the best of both worlds sensitive yet blunt. AND THANK YOU! HE definitely is use to that all his exes were just like that. Thank you so much for reconfriming that with me. I totally forgot that his ex let him LEAVE her on the side of the road in -9 degree weather! And still wanted him back. OMG!!! Why would I want someone like that? Thank you girl seriously I was stupid for even asking those questions eff him!Posted by canerleo101
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.
that's so sad. what kind of woman does that?? 😕
did she even return for him at all? that's so sad.
EDIT - wait, in MINUS 9??
that's horrible.click to expand
Posted by Genniewhat a jerk.Posted by lisabethur8No Liz, she said Aqua man left an ex girlfriend on the side of the road. And the ex girlfriend still wanted Aqua man back.Posted by Cancergal32the only thing I saw here is.he was left on the side of the road—
Cancer/Leo's are the best of both worlds sensitive yet blunt. AND THANK YOU! HE definitely is use to that all his exes were just like that. Thank you so much for reconfriming that with me. I totally forgot that his ex let him LEAVE her on the side of the road in -9 degree weather! And still wanted him back. OMG!!! Why would I want someone like that? Thank you girl seriously I was stupid for even asking those questions eff him!Posted by canerleo101
You were basically too real and straight forward for him. It sounds like he's used to dealing with women that let him do whatever while he strings them along. We have the same birthday by the way, and like you I have been a little too honest with certain types of men and they can't handle that.
that's so sad. what kind of woman does that?? 😕
did she even return for him at all? that's so sad.
EDIT - wait, in MINUS 9??
that's horrible.click to expand
she dodged a bullet.
he could at least drop her off at her house or family or at a public transportation where she can travel and have money to travel.
if he doesn't want anything to do with her, give her some money and tell her to go home safely or drop her off safely.
he is not a good man if he does that.
and women are cray cray for wanting a man like that.
ifyou're INVESTED heavily, and deeply with a jerk like that. it's fucked up, and sad....
but it happens. but if she isn't even dating him or he is a boyfriend then you have NOTHING to worry about. you have never even invested your love, time and heart and soul to him.
be glad for that!!!
EDiT - seriously if I hear a man doing to that a woman or a woman doing that to a man without putting him in a SAFE place,
then he's cruel and vicious. because you might as well leave that poor person out to serial killers who would pick them up OR get hit by a car.
but it happens. but if she isn't even dating him or he is a boyfriend then you have NOTHING to worry about. you have never even invested your love, time and heart and soul to him.
be glad for that!!!
EDiT - seriously if I hear a man doing to that a woman or a woman doing that to a man without putting him in a SAFE place,
then he's cruel and vicious. because you might as well leave that poor person out to serial killers who would pick them up OR get hit by a car.
You don't know what you're saying first you say I can't stick out the tough times in the relationship then you say I stuck it out but cut if off when I realized I didn't want it which it true. An no he didn't stop talking to me for weeks at a time just for work! If it was just for work I wouldn't be mad. He'd say he had no time but then do other things with other people leaving me in the dark. After 2 months of me seeing him do that it got pretty old! And I straight forward said it wasn't going to work the way he wanted to do it. I'm not going to shut down my entire life for someone who can't even be there for me. That makes no sense! After saying that he felt left behind. I wasn't dating him!m for two months!!! And I was still there. How is that not showing loyalty? So I moved on to the new guy. Nothing was super serious between me and the new guy which is why I can just say "ya know I don't think I want to be with you." I didn't date the new guy I FLIRTED and I think I can flirt with whom I please if I have no commitment to someone. Last yes, my cancer/Leo gal I'm just not the type to let a guy do what he pleases with me. You can't make me put my life on hold giving me minimal commitment and then 2017 comes and he still doesn't want to date me. That would be a full year I wasted! I already wasted 2 months! Thank you everyone for your opinions cancer dude your crazy!Posted by rakacPosted by canerleo101Well it's a perspective only, it's not about Aqua guy, it's about this Cancer's behavior, she started seeing new guy while leaving the doors open for that Aqua, as soon as he said i don't want you to see that guy she stoped, he didn't even said we are going to be together and she ended a relationship with a guy that might have been something, she throwed away what she had now just for the expectation to have something that dwells in the past, i don't see how this is ok, he made no real effort to show anything just told you and thats it you let go of the relationship you have now?How's that nearly ok? That might be karma hiting you back, you might not felt anything bad cuting relationship with that new guy, but i'm sure he didn't deserve to be left for the past relationship and he sure didn't deserve the pain you cost him,what i always suggest for people when something goes wrong in any way,relationship or anything,write it down to the simplest detail analyze it and see where was the mistake, in this sittuation i would say yo
@ rakac
Am i missing something here, she said that she wasn't in a relationship with the Aua guy, but he's acting as if he her husband but hasn't put a ring on her finger, he can't have the best of both worlds. I don't see what's wrong with her texting the new guy if the Auqu won't even be in a committed relationship with her.click to expand
s on the other thread.
Posted by truecapPosted by Cancergal32You're playing games.
I was in a relationship with an aqua (male), obviously he left because he needed space. Me being a cancer/Leo cusp with tons of Gemini in my chart (moonand ascendant are both Gemini) I just let him go.
He came back and wanted to stay on break while he worked things out for a bit (and I admit he was going through a lot).
For a while I played along and we still acted as if we were in a committed relationship. But sometimes I wouldn't see him for 2 weeks at a time. Although he's still keep in touch
I got bored of that and let him know I wanted to talk to other people.
He obviously wasn't feeling it but I was over the games.
I also let him know when I was into someone as well as when it got a little more serious.
He really wasn't liking the fact that there was someone else so we had a talk and he told me he didn't like it (even thought he and I weren't together at this point) I told him that i would stop seeing this guy and focus more on him. Which I did.
I stopped physically seeing the guy and talking to him as much as I use to.
But
We didn't stop the flirting...
My Aqua male saw the texts between us and got really upset
I asked him if he was done for good and he said "I can't tell the future, and I'll still check on you to see if your ok but for right now this is done"
and now we haven't talked in 2 weeks.. We use to talk everyday.
Did I mess up?
Is he gone forever?
Either focus on the aqua or see other people. If you see other people don't give the aqua the power to stop you unless he's willing to commit.
My opinion, his fault you're talking to other guys and he doesn't have a right to get upset. If he wanted it locked down, he should have locked it down.
Your game is you talked to other guys hoping to get the aquas attention. It backfired on you. If you're going to see other guys, then see other guys. Don't bounce back and forth and definitely don't say yor will stop if you don't intend on it. (In some people's opinion, talking is the same as seeing).
What I'm trying to say is if you say it, mean it. That applies to several points in your story.
I feel sorry for this guy you used to get the aquas attention.click to expand
Posted by Cancergal322017 is only 9 months...not really that long in the big picture of things.
I'm a cancer/Leo cusp July 22 female
Gemini: moon
Gemini: Ascendant
I dated an aqua male with a Leo moon and ascendant in Sagittarius
So we dated for a few months and we have a great connection. He's even said I was perfect for him.
But we broke up because he had a lot going on and I demanded more time with him.
For the first 2 months of not being together I was ok with our position.
We acted as if we were in a committed relationship but he'd be gone for weeks at a time due to work or just other stuff. He told me to wait for him until 2017! 2000 and flipping 17!!!!
Eventually I got sick of his mind games and I told him I wanted to see other people
He wasn't to fond of that idea but I was done with the games.
I told him I wouldn't shut the door to me and him but I would be talked to other people. I also let him know when I started talking to another guy as well as when it got serious.
He really really didn't like that so he sat me down and we talked about it
I told him ok I'll stop physically seeing this guy and I'll put more effort into me and you.
Which I did!!!
Although me and the new guy didn't stop texting and flirting
I did cut back on how much I talked to him. But I still did flirt with him.
My Aqua male saw the messages and got really upset and said we were done (even thought we weren't even in a relationship)
I asked him if this was forever and he said to me "I can't tell the future, and I'll still check up on you to see if your ok, but for right now this is done" we haven't talked for 2 weeks now
Did I mess up?
Did I do anything wrong?
And Aqua males would you come back?
Is he gone forever?
What would you do?
Just sayin'.
@ Cancergal32 main point of what i said was you're not able to move on and cut ties with that Aqua guy, you hurt him, yourself and the new guy, i'm not crazy, i can look at things from many angles 🙂 either way this what you have not isn't going to last, you need to learn to cut things off with people, in your post you're stuck between past,now and the future, expecting to much from people who can't give nothin ,goodluck moving on in life, you should invest in yourself and learn to look at things from different angles,get to know yourself, it helps to take overall picture of things and accept responsibility for everything,because you see things one way, doesn't matter they are ,there are many more angles,same with people,same with your life,same with problems,the more angles you have the easier it is to solve a problem ,same way with life,relationships and everything,you have to learn to look from the side 😉 goodluck, and i know i'm crazzy, all great people were called crazzy before they were called genius 😉 so that's a compliment,thank you! 😛
I see it from all angels talking to someone isn't dating. Dating is a commitment. To the new guy I have no ties to aqua boy lol he's a joke. I think I played my cards well. I'm really over it now.
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@ Cancergal32 main point of what i said was you're not able to move on and cut ties with that Aqua guy, you hurt him, yourself and the new guy, i'm not crazy, i can look at things from many angles 🙂 either way this what you have not isn't going to last, you need to learn to cut things off with people, in your post you're stuck between past,now and the future, expecting to much from people who can't give nothin ,goodluck moving on in life, you should invest in yourself and learn to look at things from different angles,get to know yourself, it helps to take overall picture of things and accept responsibility for everything,because you see things one way, doesn't matter they are ,there are many more angles,same with people,same with your life,same with problems,the more angles you have the easier it is to solve a problem ,same way with life,relationships and everything,you have to learn to look from the side 😉 goodluck, and i know i'm crazzy, all great people were called crazzy before they were called genius 😉 so that's a compliment,thank you! 😛
Posted by GennieI'm college educated, are you? I've also attended some the best private schools in Silicon Valley. My fiance is worth over 2.5 million so my fingers must not be too fat being that i marring a millionaire. It's a blog who really has the time to proof read, and dum is a slang abbreviation for dumb. Just like fuc is a slang abbreviation for fuck. Have you taken English A1?Posted by canerleo101If you are going to attack me for sounding "dumb as fuck" learn to spell it first, it tends to have more of an impact. Or at the very least, if your fingers are too fat to type, then proof-read. The very thing I've learned about the "Help me with this guy" posts is a lack of pertinent information.Posted by GennieYou sound dum an fuck. And you sound like weak as female who bows down to men.
Cancers...smh.
When you told him, you would put more effort, he expected you to stop shopping around. You didn't give him his space. You didn't set boundaries. You said, I wanted more time to spend with him, but that's so fucking non-specific.
Heads up folks, if you want to date an Aquarius, you have to perfect the art of companionable silence. An Aqua isn't going to want to do everything hand in hand. When I'm puttering around in my Aqua cave, I expect to not be bothered.
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@Gennie
Like I said before, I'm say it again you still sound dummmmmmmmmmmm as fuck, and you sound like a weak ass do anything for a guy ass female.
Like I said before, I'm say it again you still sound dummmmmmmmmmmm as fuck, and you sound like a weak ass do anything for a guy ass female.
Posted by GennieOnly a insecure person would look at that a jealousy game. I see it as living for yourself, not putting your life on hold for some guy who hasn't even put an engagement ring on her finger.
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I'm looking for where he lied to her about what he wanted and needed, and I can't find anything but her shady behavior at trying to keep this Aqua guy, who doesn't want to be kept, by playing a jealousy game with Other guy. That game never works with Aquas.
Posted by rakacI't sound to me like she knows herself just fine, and she also knows herself well enough to know that it's not in a Leo woman's nature to sit around and wait for someone who's not treating her like a queen.
@ Cancergal32 main point of what i said was you're not able to move on and cut ties with that Aqua guy, you hurt him, yourself and the new guy, i'm not crazy, i can look at things from many angles 🙂 either way this what you have not isn't going to last, you need to learn to cut things off with people, in your post you're stuck between past,now and the future, expecting to much from people who can't give nothin ,goodluck moving on in life, you should invest in yourself and learn to look at things from different angles,get to know yourself, it helps to take overall picture of things and accept responsibility for everything,because you see things one way, doesn't matter they are ,there are many more angles,same with people,same with your life,same with problems,the more angles you have the easier it is to solve a problem ,same way with life,relationships and everything,you have to learn to look from the side 😉 goodluck, and i know i'm crazzy, all great people were called crazzy before they were called genius 😉 so that's a compliment,thank you! 😛
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you can't commit then why should I? He asked for a lot of commitment abs never gave any.Posted by canerleo101Posted by rakacI't sound to me like she knows herself just fine, and she also knows herself well enough to know that it's not in a Leo woman's nature to sit around and wait for someone who's not treating her like a queen.
@ Cancergal32 main point of what i said was you're not able to move on and cut ties with that Aqua guy, you hurt him, yourself and the new guy, i'm not crazy, i can look at things from many angles 🙂 either way this what you have not isn't going to last, you need to learn to cut things off with people, in your post you're stuck between past,now and the future, expecting to much from people who can't give nothin ,goodluck moving on in life, you should invest in yourself and learn to look at things from different angles,get to know yourself, it helps to take overall picture of things and accept responsibility for everything,because you see things one way, doesn't matter they are ,there are many more angles,same with people,same with your life,same with problems,the more angles you have the easier it is to solve a problem ,same way with life,relationships and everything,you have to learn to look from the side 😉 goodluck, and i know i'm crazzy, all great people were called crazzy before they were called genius 😉 so that's a compliment,thank you! 😛
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