Hey all, I've been after this Aquarius girl for sometime now. I really admire her honesty, she's recently broken up with her ex about 2 months ago for good. I know this time its over because I've kind of been there the past year they've been breaking up. She knows I like her I told her straight to her face. We finally got to hang out a lone twice the past month, each time we hooked up. I held back from sleeping with her because I really like her. The chemistry between us is mind blowing. Being that she's fresh out of a relationship however, I don't want to be her rebound. Anyway, I've asked her out on a date prior and she refused, she said its because she really likes me. She doesn't mind hanging out in groups or parties. Also she's very aloof, she can be pretty detached at times. In person she's awesome, gives me all of her attention. Yet, I always have to initiate some sort of contact. She will contact me if I don't after a certain amount of days, its just sometimes frustrating because I feel like I'm annoying her. I never come on too strong and I try to be as consistent as possible. I'm a Sagittarius so I'm in no hurry what so ever. My question is do you aqua girls act like this when you like someone or am I wasting my time? Do I have to continue to chase her? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks 🙂
How do you Aquarius women act when u like someone?
Posted by feby
And yes lol you have to keep pursuing her. Yes she will value your consistency. Yes she will admire your passion for her. Yes She will give you her undivided attention when you're in person alone together.
Spot on on feeling like you're annoying her lol!!! Funny so true but don't worry about that.
Enjoy the fire air tango 😄
Thanks for the advice.. You girls are pretty confusing lol
what's your love placements? and hers?
Posted by CaptainPimp
Also curious to know, sorry bra i can't help. The one i am after does the same xD.
Chase chase. Always initiate...get boored, Leave her alone 2-3 days she contacts. She is aloof and distant, or seems like it.
But she always contacts back after a while if i drop the chase. Makes me wonder the same as you "is she interested? or wasting my time."
Oh and i also get the feeling that she is annoyed xD, but she is to nice to admit it. I do ask.
People here recommend to keep chasing and be consistent?
Yes they are hella confusing.
It's very nerve racking, I thought for some reason she was an aries but found out she's an aquarius its too late now, I like her too much. Good luck with yours man
Posted by AquaMermaid
Sagittarius men are definitely easy on the eyes 😛 I am proud of my Sagittarius Rising 😄 This combination reminds me of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Look how that turned out. Rumour was that Aniston wasn't keen on having a baby. Jolie snatched him from Jennifer. Is it that easy to distract a Sagittarius man? Personally, I wouldn't invest in a relationship where the man gets distracted so easily. Loyalty is everything for me. Aquarius women desire a strong companion who is not threatened or intimidated by her. We need challenge and excitement. A highly submissive man is boring. I am a fire dominant and god I hate boring people.Sagittarians make great friends and it's a known fact that Aquarians want their lovers to be their best friend.I am sure you'll have an advantage there. Aquarians are hunters,they don't like being chased(unless the feeling is mutual).When I like someone, I go after them at full force and use all my charm to win them over. When husband was courting me he gave me plenty of space(he's Aquarius Rising).He is a workaholic and that turned me on. A co-dependent partner is a nightmare. Be independent,positive,funny,excel in your work,introduce her to interesting adventures and ideas,take trips together,be available but not 24/7. Let her miss you. She should know that you're capable of being on your own. A man who has his life together and doesn't come off as needy will have better chances with us. Once she gives in, she'll be all yours.
Thank you for completely contradicting the other girl and now confuse me even more!
Posted by AquaMermaid
It's not rocket science genius! Follow the advice I gave you in last 8 lines.It was pretty clear.This girl just broke up 2 months back! It's not easy to move on so quickly and you are her friend. Obviously she doesn't want to rush things and ruin the friendship and lose you. What Feby meant was keep pursuing her and be consistent about it but don't smother her with too much togetherness. Don't rush things with an Aquarius. And please post your natal chart details.
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=18&d1month=12&d1year=1986&d2day=9&d2month=2&d2year=1986<BR>
there ya go idk what any of that means

I pick on you a lot... not in a mean mean way. You'll know I'm not bitchin.. just testin how u can handle my ego and sarcasm.

I hit you up often. I want to spend time with you alone, quality time. I touch you often, a light touch on the arm or beatin yo arm while laughin haha. Its pretty obvious I guess

Hold on. If an aqua tells you she is not thaaat into you, trust her words man. We would never refuse someone we would be really interested in.
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Hold on. If an aqua tells you she is not thaaat into you, trust her words man. We would never refuse someone we would be really interested in.
What? she's never said that. Did you read what I wrote?
Posted by CaptainPimp
So you prefer to spend 1 on 1 time with the one you like?
It really annoys me that in private she is mine. But with friends its like i dont exist, she is very busy with them. Generalky thats ok, i got my own. But im like completely left out, sometimes i feel she hides me:p.
1 on 1 is different. Thats how you are?
Teasing is opposite. 1on 1 almost never, she is defensive i tease her.
With friends, she teases me a lot :p.
Soo? That good or bad xD.
Posted by CaptainPimp
"And what are the signs Aquarian women give when they like someone. That is all! All I'm looking to find out!"
Yeah, me too :o.
I'm just asking my own questions here as to not make another thread. xD
I thought it was a general topic about aqua's so why not. (hijacking)
My bad, it's all good. I don't think they know themselves, cant get a straight regular answer.

Posted by AquaMermaid
Sagittarius men are definitely easy on the eyes 😛 I am proud of my Sagittarius Rising 😄 This combination reminds me of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Look how that turned out. Rumour was that Aniston wasn't keen on having a baby. Jolie snatched him from Jennifer. Is it that easy to distract a Sagittarius man? Personally, I wouldn't invest in a relationship where the man gets distracted so easily. Loyalty is everything for me. Aquarius women desire a strong companion who is not threatened or intimidated by her. We need challenge and excitement. A highly submissive man is boring. I am a fire dominant and god I hate boring people.Sagittarians make great friends and it's a known fact that Aquarians want their lovers to be their best friend.I am sure you'll have an advantage there. Aquarians are hunters,they don't like being chased(unless the feeling is mutual).When I like someone, I go after them at full force and use all my charm to win them over. When husband was courting me he gave me plenty of space(he's Aquarius Rising).He is a workaholic and that turned me on. A co-dependent partner is a nightmare. Be independent,positive,funny,excel in your work,introduce her to interesting adventures and ideas,take trips together,be available but not 24/7. Let her miss you. She should know that you're capable of being on your own. A man who has his life together and doesn't come off as needy will have better chances with us. Once she gives in, she'll be all yours.
Please note that Pitt is a Cat and Aniston is a Rooster.
A rooster is very bad for a cat. Like Whitney Houston and her husband.
I have only a scratching memory from my father's voice. Even if he is Aries and (with Mars in Virgo which is Rooster again) a very devoted man to his family. But Cat get tortured by Rooster. Also in life the worst years for a Cat are the Rooster years.

Posted by feby
And yes lol you have to keep pursuing her. Yes she will value your consistency. Yes she will admire your passion for her. ...
Yes, this is what I told to my Virgo sister when she was involved with an Aqua boy. And she got scared every three months.
I told her look at T (our Aqua gf), she had told and shown 1000 times that she would not run after guys. Also in the text books you see: Aqua shows herself from her best side. And that's it. You must apply for her attention. I had already checked the texts for Sag and Aqua and I knew they told give up, Sag, and let the Aqua build his happy home with a Cancer. Cause Cancers don't give up so soon. I explained this all to my sis.
So it worked a while.
Until she got tired of the fact that he was younger than her
and she had worries that he could be after other girls. IDK what happened next.
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by AquaMermaid
Sagittarius men are definitely easy on the eyes 😛 I am proud of my Sagittarius Rising 😄 This combination reminds me of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Look how that turned out. Rumour was that Aniston wasn't keen on having a baby. Jolie snatched him from Jennifer. Is it that easy to distract a Sagittarius man? Personally, I wouldn't invest in a relationship where the man gets distracted so easily. Loyalty is everything for me. Aquarius women desire a strong companion who is not threatened or intimidated by her. We need challenge and excitement. A highly submissive man is boring. I am a fire dominant and god I hate boring people.Sagittarians make great friends and it's a known fact that Aquarians want their lovers to be their best friend.I am sure you'll have an advantage there. Aquarians are hunters,they don't like being chased(unless the feeling is mutual).When I like someone, I go after them at full force and use all my charm to win them over. When husband was courting me he gave me plenty of space(he's Aquarius Rising).He is a workaholic and that turned me on. A co-dependent partner is a nightmare. Be independent,positive,funny,excel in your work,introduce her to interesting adventures and ideas,take trips together,be available but not 24/7. Let her miss you. She should know that you're capable of being on your own. A man who has his life together and doesn't come off as needy will have better chances with us. Once she gives in, she'll be all yours.
Please note that Pitt is a Cat and Aniston is a Rooster.
A rooster is very bad for a cat. Like Whitney Houston and her husband.
I have only a scratching memory from my father's voice. Even if he is Aries and (with Mars in Virgo which is Rooster again) a very devoted man to his family. But Cat get tortured by Rooster. Also in life the worst years for a Cat are the Rooster years.click to expand
good catch.
i find it is a little more complicated as the rising also counts. if rooster had a sheep rising, and cat had an ox rising it'd be good. (ox and rooster get on well and sheep and cat get on well) there
i find it is a little more complicated as the rising also counts. if rooster had a sheep rising, and cat had an ox rising it'd be good. (ox and rooster get on well and sheep and cat get on well) there's that exchange.
but if they had terrible risings to match too, that would be just horrible.
then again, look at Linda Lovelace and Chuck Traynor. Rat and Ox. are those two supposed to be good??
it says in chinese astrology that they are good but they had the most acidic, violent, most terrible relationship, just like whitney and bobby brown, or Tina turner and Ike Turner.
i'm guessing they had diametrically opposed risings. Also, just both horrible for eachother. Chuck Traynor went on to be with Marilyn Chambers (Taurus sun/Aries moon) who she KNEW he was already a crappy man, but she still went with him. (stubborn)
so what does that mean?? they don't have a photo of marilyn chambers with chuck traynor but Wikipedia and many sources say they were married for over a decade. this is her with the famous john holmes ( porn actor)
but if they had terrible risings to match too, that would be just horrible.
then again, look at Linda Lovelace and Chuck Traynor. Rat and Ox. are those two supposed to be good??
it says in chinese astrology that they are good but they had the most acidic, violent, most terrible relationship, just like whitney and bobby brown, or Tina turner and Ike Turner.
i'm guessing they had diametrically opposed risings. Also, just both horrible for eachother. Chuck Traynor went on to be with Marilyn Chambers (Taurus sun/Aries moon) who she KNEW he was already a crappy man, but she still went with him. (stubborn)
so what does that mean?? they don't have a photo of marilyn chambers with chuck traynor but Wikipedia and many sources say they were married for over a decade. this is her with the famous john holmes ( porn actor)
The Marilyn Chambers and chuck Traynor story really confused me because, she KNEW he was an asshole. So why did she marry him??
it's similar to the John wayne bobbitt who re-married TWICE after his incident with Lorenna.
maybe the women thought he was misunderstood??
even though the accounts of his physical/mental abuse torture was said in papers and court.
but look here, Bobbitt's 2nd wife. did she marry him because he was infamous?? cause they still ended up in divorce.
and look, she made a book out of it too. It sounds like she's making money off of him and his infamy but why go through that torture??
it's similar to the John wayne bobbitt who re-married TWICE after his incident with Lorenna.
maybe the women thought he was misunderstood??
even though the accounts of his physical/mental abuse torture was said in papers and court.
but look here, Bobbitt's 2nd wife. did she marry him because he was infamous?? cause they still ended up in divorce.
and look, she made a book out of it too. It sounds like she's making money off of him and his infamy but why go through that torture??
i guess it don't matter. women will be with whoever they wanna be with. crappy man or not.
hm i guess i was the same way, but much younger. so weird. it's like another lifetime.
also, lorenna bobbitt didnt marry another crappy man though.
Unfortunately, Marilyn Chambers died younger than her years (still in her 50s); like she lived a very fast life.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marilyn_Chambers<BR>
also, with Traynor and Lovelace, Lovelace saw that Traynor died before her, and said she was upset that she didnt get to KILL him first.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuck_Traynor<BR>
Death[edit]
"Traynor died at age 64 of a heart attack in Chatsworth, California, on July 22, 2002, three months after Lovelace died from massive trauma and internal injuries as a result of a car accident. Lovelace's sister, Barbara Boreman, later said in an interview in Inside Deep Throat that she was disappointed that Traynor died before she could kill him."
talk about violent all around.
also, lorenna bobbitt didnt marry another crappy man though.
Unfortunately, Marilyn Chambers died younger than her years (still in her 50s); like she lived a very fast life.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marilyn_Chambers<BR>
also, with Traynor and Lovelace, Lovelace saw that Traynor died before her, and said she was upset that she didnt get to KILL him first.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuck_Traynor<BR>
Death[edit]
"Traynor died at age 64 of a heart attack in Chatsworth, California, on July 22, 2002, three months after Lovelace died from massive trauma and internal injuries as a result of a car accident. Lovelace's sister, Barbara Boreman, later said in an interview in Inside Deep Throat that she was disappointed that Traynor died before she could kill him."
talk about violent all around.
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