How do you behave or treat someone you like?

Everything I've read says you are cold and aloof, even acting the opposite of how you are feeling. The Aquarius I'm talking to is thoughtful and kind. He messages me every day asking how my day is going, what I'm doing later, and things like that.

I think that is one of the "downsides" to Aqua-- most sites list those for each sign.

Ex. Leos can be arrogant, if they aren't "evolved" or if they are immature.

But it isn't a quality of Leos, in general, outside the stereotype.

Aquas can be delightful. 🙂

ya it depends on the situation, but most of the time until I really know someone, I do ignore them. Maybe thats just me?

I'm aloof until I get to know you. Just how I am 🙂

Posted by M00Nchild
Everything I've read says you are cold and aloof, even acting the opposite of how you are feeling. The Aquarius I'm talking to is thoughtful and kind. He messages me every day asking how my day is going, what I'm doing later, and things like that.

It's hard to say based on the little information you've provided. The messaging every day is a good sign - but the trick is determining if this is just friendship or like in a romantic sense. I suppose the question is, does he spend time with you?

I have male Aqua friends who are warm and kind and not the least bit cold or aloof when in love (I know because I'm good friends with all of their partners). I'm Aqua too and I'm neither of these things either. You can't judge millions of people based on lazy stereotypes or just their sun sign. Having said that, my boyfriend is Aquarius and he's the most contrary, confusing and down right frustrating man I have ever dated - hot and cold doesn't begin to describe him.

I am very loving towards friends. If someone is being sexual towards me or stressing me to make a commitment when I don't want to or still thinking, I am reeeeeeeeeally cold. If I am in love I am usually warm, unless my space is invaded..

Posted by justagirl
I'm aloof until I get to know you. Just how I am 🙂

+1. On a superficial level, we are pleasant and delightful. That's with everyone (be it a potential love interest or an acquaintance) unless we meet someone who is as disgusting as Hitler from the get go, at which point we don't even communicate with someone like that.

Even then, it's human nature to conceal your true colors at the very beginning. So it may not only be an aqua thing.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by justagirl
I'm aloof until I get to know you. Just how I am 🙂

+1. On a superficial level, we are pleasant and delightful. That's with everyone (be it a potential love interest or an acquaintance) unless we meet someone who is as disgusting as Hitler from the get go, at which point we don't even communicate with someone like that.

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you're FUCKING FUNNY ! Hitler married an Aquarius. 😆

You gonna get pissy now and start getting angry at the cray Aquarius woman who married him? You'll probably spitting PISSED OFF aren't you?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by justagirl
I'm aloof until I get to know you. Just how I am 🙂

+1. On a superficial level, we are pleasant and delightful. That's with everyone (be it a potential love interest or an acquaintance) unless we meet someone who is as disgusting as Hitler from the get go, at which point we don't even communicate with someone like that.

you're FUCKING FUNNY ! Hitler married an Aquarius. 😆

You gonna get pissy now and start getting angry at the cray Aquarius woman who married him? You'll probably spitting PISSED OFF aren't you?

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Actually I'm quite intrigued. I didn't know he married an aqua and if I were to go by what I heard about Hitler, it was that he was apparently a good father and husband. I don't know how true that is because I never really cared to study his mental issues; however if it's true, then yay for the aqua wife! Definitely commanded respect 😉