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How Important are Looks to You?
If someone were a few pounds heavier than ideal, would that matter if she/he were everything you wanted in a partner?
The ideal weight seem to fluctuate between different people. But if we're taking victoria secret models as an example then no I don't mind it if she's a few pounds heavier than ideal. Naturally healthy is what I say there are very sexy curvy girls out there that 'own' their body and ooze sex appeal.
If she had small breasts?
I'm going to say it doesn't faze me but I'll tell you what they are great to look at and play with. I don't go on the hunt for big breasted girls but my past ex gfs I've noticed they get the worst attention from guys and they are always complaining about not finding a fitting bra or back problems *shrugs* And as bad as this is going to sound: As long as there's something there.
If she had abnormally large breasts for her body size?
I'd be more concerned about some health issues for her more than anything and yes there is such thing as TOO big.
If their teeth were crooked?
How crooked are we talking about? 😛 natural deformities or lack of taking care of oneself? lol
I won't lie I've read things about Libra Rising, maybe subconsciously I surround myself with beautiful girls or maybe they're not all that beautiful and my pisces venus is seeing something that makes them unique and beautiful? So in the end looks matter very little as long as there's the natural beauty and that they take care of themselves.
oh and I love redheads I will bend my rule for redheads.
The ideal weight seem to fluctuate between different people. But if we're taking victoria secret models as an example then no I don't mind it if she's a few pounds heavier than ideal. Naturally healthy is what I say there are very sexy curvy girls out there that 'own' their body and ooze sex appeal.
If she had small breasts?
I'm going to say it doesn't faze me but I'll tell you what they are great to look at and play with. I don't go on the hunt for big breasted girls but my past ex gfs I've noticed they get the worst attention from guys and they are always complaining about not finding a fitting bra or back problems *shrugs* And as bad as this is going to sound: As long as there's something there.
If she had abnormally large breasts for her body size?
I'd be more concerned about some health issues for her more than anything and yes there is such thing as TOO big.
If their teeth were crooked?
How crooked are we talking about? 😛 natural deformities or lack of taking care of oneself? lol
I won't lie I've read things about Libra Rising, maybe subconsciously I surround myself with beautiful girls or maybe they're not all that beautiful and my pisces venus is seeing something that makes them unique and beautiful? So in the end looks matter very little as long as there's the natural beauty and that they take care of themselves.
oh and I love redheads I will bend my rule for redheads.
You don't wanna hear my answer
Naturally everyone wants to be attracted to the person they are with, but in my experience extremely attractive people sometimes are not very pretty on the inside. This isn't meant to stereotype, because there are people who are beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by CluelessCancer
You look like that and you would date an ugly man..damn! What's wrong with you?
lol. There are other things that mean more to me in my lover than the outer shell of an appearance. That's pretty much it. And once I did date a very good looking ex model blah blah. That was an experience. Sex was great except that every other woman loved the way he looked too and he was a manwhore. truee story. Plus he was dumb and had 0 spiritual awareness.click to expand
That's what I'm talking about!
I messed up what I was trying to say.
I once went out with some girls in their mid 20s. They had a list of what they wanted a man to look like - no beer gut, full head of hear, etc.
I'm in my mid 40s and I told them - girls, the men I know looked like that in their 20s, but by the time they reached my age, they ALL have beer guts and are losing their hair!
So, perhaps age plays a factor too. I think as we age, looks tend to be less important with character and personality play a more important role.
I'd rather go out with an average looking guy who is fun and makes me laugh than a gorgeous guy who is a prick and arrogant asshole.
But, I will admit, my aqua is a nice looking man!
I once went out with some girls in their mid 20s. They had a list of what they wanted a man to look like - no beer gut, full head of hear, etc.
I'm in my mid 40s and I told them - girls, the men I know looked like that in their 20s, but by the time they reached my age, they ALL have beer guts and are losing their hair!
So, perhaps age plays a factor too. I think as we age, looks tend to be less important with character and personality play a more important role.
I'd rather go out with an average looking guy who is fun and makes me laugh than a gorgeous guy who is a prick and arrogant asshole.
But, I will admit, my aqua is a nice looking man!
^ You make us average guys feel much more appreciated much love!
Although that does make me question in the attempt to not sound superficial. What I find attractive is confidence, spiritual awareness as feb16aqua said and healthy mentally and physically. Albeit I don't think we can ALL be mentally stable and healthy ALL the time but you know. The girls that usually check these boxes are usually pretty good looking in my books too.
Although that does make me question in the attempt to not sound superficial. What I find attractive is confidence, spiritual awareness as feb16aqua said and healthy mentally and physically. Albeit I don't think we can ALL be mentally stable and healthy ALL the time but you know. The girls that usually check these boxes are usually pretty good looking in my books too.
^^ oops sorry I'm a bit slow, for trucap
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by truecap
I messed up what I was trying to say.
I once went out with some girls in their mid 20s. They had a list of what they wanted a man to look like - no beer gut, full head of hear, etc.
I'm in my mid 40s and I told them - girls, the men I know looked like that in their 20s, but by the time they reached my age, they ALL have beer guts and are losing their hair!
So, perhaps age plays a factor too. I think as we age, looks tend to be less important with character and personality play a more important role.
I'd rather go out with an average looking guy who is fun and makes me laugh than a gorgeous guy who is a prick and arrogant asshole.But, I will admit, my aqua is a nice looking man!
I can't do fat or bald (maybe) but I love hair...Virgo has beautiful hair...so he better be at the gym sweating...with me.click to expand
There are some good looking bald men out there!!
I just had to chuckle because my old boss was virgo and he was bald 😛
*is and *is
argh! My english is suck
argh! My english is suck
Posted by truecap
I was talking to my male Leo friend and he is very into how a woman looks. He realizes that women with looks like he wants have a tendency to be more shallow, spoiled, self centered, and vain but he doesn't seem to care as long as they look good. He's an average looking guy by the way.
I think us caps take looks into consideration, but I think most of us would rather give up ^^^ that kind of partner for someone kind, dependable and respectable but with good manners and character.
Curious to what the aqua take on this is.
For instance:
If someone were a few pounds heavier than ideal, would that matter if she/he were everything you wanted in a partner?
If a man was balding, ladies would that matter?
If she had small breasts?
If she had abnormally large breasts for her body size?
If their teeth were crooked?
You get the drift...
My husband has leo planets, but hates vain, spoiled women. For myself, my husband has strength of character, responsibility, a bit of loon at times, but lovable and very kind. Very dependable, and maybe the negatives would be because he has dominant SUN in his chart, he maybe like me (Venus dominant) lazy and indulgent, but we try to keep it balanced.
Grrr looks fade people get old fat get scars. Smarts funny kindness and love for adventure is were i start before even thinking about looks.
truecap you always have good topics btw 🙂
Keeping yourself healthy is the best way. But for me, it's a balance. I can't stop eating sweets or maybe a bag of chips. I LOVE delicious foods and stuff and I won't give up on some things. But, it's good to have a nice balance, keep eating veggies and truly a balanced meal. I keep away from those certain meats and don't eat pork ect. But i have a weakness for seafood.
Can't be positive all the time, but it's nice to go with the flow.
Keeping yourself healthy is the best way. But for me, it's a balance. I can't stop eating sweets or maybe a bag of chips. I LOVE delicious foods and stuff and I won't give up on some things. But, it's good to have a nice balance, keep eating veggies and truly a balanced meal. I keep away from those certain meats and don't eat pork ect. But i have a weakness for seafood.
Can't be positive all the time, but it's nice to go with the flow.
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I was talking to my male Leo friend and he is very into how a woman looks. He realizes that women with looks like he wants have a tendency to be more shallow, spoiled, self centered, and vain but he doesn't seem to care as long as they look good. He's an average looking guy by the way.
I think us caps take looks into consideration, but I think most of us would rather give up ^^^ that kind of partner for someone kind, dependable and respectable but with good manners and character.
Curious to what the aqua take on this is.
For instance:
If someone were a few pounds heavier than ideal, would that matter if she/he were everything you wanted in a partner?
If a man was balding, ladies would that matter?
If she had small breasts?
If she had abnormally large breasts for her body size?
If their teeth were crooked?
You get the drift...