How should I proceed with my Aquarian Man?

Okay... where do I even begin!!! My Aquarius man is like no other guy I've met.. he's detached yet a commitment seeking Aquarian. He is more emotionally demonstrative than other aquarian (I suspect he has some planets in Pisces and Scorpio as well as Aquarius and Capricorn). He's friendly and isn't into playing trivial mind games (Can you even believe it!! Not into mind games... I'm not bluffing). You could say he noticed me first. He approached me suddenly, out of the blue, came and sat next to me in complete silence. Then turned to me and asked if I fancied the pokemon salamence and who I would rate out of pikachu and buneary. Of course that made me laugh. You could say I am as crooked, weird and eccentric as he is..... and that my friends is how we hit it off.

At first I didn't even notice him.... but I noticed his actions. He is so persistent. He would sit around me despite his friends calling him over for months just to observe, listen and judge my character. How I was around my friends and in my 'natural habitat'. I seemed to have passed some test of his. We have the same views and this unspoken attraction for one another (of course he is unaware of that as I stupidly confuse him in every singly way). You could say I'm the problem here... I have this inherent fear of commitment and getting 'played', I mean who doesn't? He tried on numerous occasions to get me on my own. Whenever we would finally talk about interesting, deep topics someone would interrupt us. Always. Because of my pathetic fear of 'getting close' I blew a lot of plans we had made to see each other disappointing him in the process... but he is relentlessly still trying.

I would just like some advice on how to pursue things with him and where he is at in his mind. To other Aquarian's (both male and female) if someone you were interested in blew of plans but you sensed there was more to them what would you think and do? I have finally come to terms with how I feel about him and have communicated it through subtle gestures. He even slipped in side comments within our conversations on how he likes me 'more than a friend' and how I'm 'special'. However he has told me once (months ago) that I was not ready and I know what he means by that. I've been acting extremely erratic, but I know he sees through that while also being left confused. I feel that that is what repels and draws him towards me. I would really like to know if I should just confess to clear the confusion.

(And the saga continues.....) Should I display my feelings more? It would be great to add that we've only known each other for a year but the connection is strong. It's like I feel him when he's not even there (that sounds cringey now...). You could say he was interested first and would always try and talk to me but I would show absolutely no interest. But 6 months ago I've slowly started to develop something for him. I am just bad at communicating my interest and do so in a very confusing way.

Sorry about the length of this, felt like I was writing a book!