I need help with an Aries Man!

Aries men help me! My Aries is seriously mad, how can I get him to love me again? Aquarius woman!
I have been seeing an Aries Man for going on 3 months..we had our first disagreement, and he became cold and distant. He said we could still be friends, go places, he still paid for everything, hold hands..but no sex and we would start over our friendship which at the time I agreed with. at this time we had sex once and he said it would never happen again. that hurt me. then I created a fake phone number and asked him was he seeing anyone, he said no,but we were supposed to go out 3 days later! He was pissed when he found out it was me, told me that I royally fucked up any chance we might of had then ignored me for the rest of the night. Then I sent him messages saying how I felt and he said to stop messaging him, but he kept responding to me. Then he stopped. He blames me when he was so willing to strike up another relationship behind my back. But I want this to work, what can I do to get him back and to makes us one again?

Aries men help me! My Aries is seriously mad, how can I get him to love me again? Aquarius woman!
I have been seeing an Aries Man for going on 3 months..we had our first disagreement, and he became cold and distant. He said we could still be friends, go places, he still paid for everything, hold hands..but no sex and we would start over our friendship which at the time I agreed with. at this time we had sex once and he said it would never happen again. that hurt me. then I created a fake phone number and asked him was he seeing anyone, he said no,but we were supposed to go out 3 days later! He was pissed when he found out it was me, told me that I royally fucked up any chance we might of had then ignored me for the rest of the night. Then I sent him messages saying how I felt and he said to stop messaging him, but he kept responding to me. Then he stopped. He blames me when he was so willing to strike up another relationship behind my back. But I want this to work, what can I do to get him back and to makes us one again?

we were great together but the I hurt him and it was never the same..he would ask me to go places with even after our fall out..one day I wanted to go for a drive and he drove me around for 3 hours, on his gas then took me to his house and cooked for me, kept giving me crown royal and I laid my feelings out for him completely. I was drunk so I wanted to mess around, he hugged me to keep from kissing him and I felt him struggling, so I said forget let's laid down, that when he started up, but he only kissed me on my cheek, but he would do that all the time, he did this several times I felt his emotions.But two days after that is when he said it wouldn't happen again, but that wasn't premanate. So I guess that's why I was shocked that he wasn't seeing anyone.Lol. He would take about a future and a family, and idk how all that could be over because of a disagreement.

Aries men help me! My Aries is seriously mad, how can I get him to love me again? Aquarius woman!
I have been seeing an Aries Man for going on 3 months..we had our first disagreement, and he became cold and distant. He said we could still be friends, go places, he still paid for everything, hold hands..but no sex and we would start over our friendship which at the time I agreed with. at this time we had sex once and he said it would never happen again. that hurt me. then I created a fake phone number and asked him was he seeing anyone, he said no,but we were supposed to go out 3 days later! He was pissed when he found out it was me, told me that I royally fucked up any chance we might of had then ignored me for the rest of the night. Then I sent him messages saying how I felt and he said to stop messaging him, but he kept responding to me. Then he stopped. He blames me when he was so willing to strike up another relationship behind my back. But I want this friendship, what can I do to get him back and to makes us friends again?

Just a wils guess, but... Stop acting crazy?

You should post this in the Aries forum, as there are more than likely not going to be any Aries men in an Aquarius forum.

He's a fire sign. Once the flame has been extinguished it's almost impossible to get a re-spark.

I can't believe I did it either it was a joke but it just pissed him off and I need to know. he said that we had been progressing down the road to bf/gf but hit a bump and had to start all the way over. then he started to freeze me out. But still go places with me. it confused the hell out of me thisis my first aries. but instead of letting me know he would with hold sex but say relax and let time haopen.but if a man is into you still he is not going to refuse sex. even when we text warring addressed everything except one question..Will you be here Thursday, which we were supposed to go to the haunted house...if he does come, I 've dodged a bullet and will chill. Yes I do feel some love for him, Iwas proud of him impressed by him and all those positive things that an Aquarius Woman need to open her heart to someone. I hope by not calling and Thursday being an off day that he comes, then I won't even address it we could start from that point.

What I want from that's funny he asked me the same question, I want everything thing he promised me. I want the walks in the park back I want us to lay in the bed again and talk and hold hands. He took all that from me the first time we had a disagreement. he has abandment issues so he just completely down on me. he took away my lover and my friend. I think he will miss me like I do him. I just need to give him his space

did I mention he went crazy because Ibought him a gift. he spassed out he might be alittle nuts. this is the first time we have stopped all contact so I hope things get better.

You're playing games and creating drama with the fake number. What were you trying to do? Set him up?
If so, you deserve what you got. Grow up and quit the game playing.

I don't think Aries are very forgiving. I'm surrounded by them, so I know them pretty well.

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does the aries man have an Aqua venus?? That's a new one then.

People around here are always asking about aqua man in general, without the placements.

Or aqua venus over at cap forum especially. Something about aqua venus with cap is horrible or something..... O_O

i hardly ever read anything on women fretting about aqua venus with sag men, or aries men. even pisces men dont get harassed. It's always that cap/aqua thing.

Why is that??

Posted by lisabethur8
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does the aries man have an Aqua venus?? That's a new one then.

People around here are always asking about aqua man in general, without the placements.

Or aqua venus over at cap forum especially. Something about aqua venus with cap is horrible or something..... O_O

i hardly ever read anything on women fretting about aqua venus with sag men, or aries men. even pisces men dont get harassed. It's always that cap/aqua thing.

Why is that??

Two cold, distant placements in very important planets. Imagine a cap who likes space with aqua venus who requires space - imagine how neglected these girls feel.

I think I am over it

The phone number deal would have severely damaged his sense of trust in you. A very bad thing.

And, what sort of "gift" did you get him?

Ram 76 don't be an ass hole . He really likes the dark knight he thinks that's him. figures he would b So anal. I got him dual sided glasses with the symbol on one side and things he use to say on the other.

damage his trust in me, puhhh he was the one stringing me along, I felt something was off and checked out and was right. he is pissy because he got he was busted and couldn't lie about it. You know crybabies can't take responsibility. he can stay were he is at. I trust my feelings and if I something is off it usually is.

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feby was he an Aries? Lol. we didn't have a big blow out. So he might be back he might not, I am not going to dwell on it, I saved myself future heartache. But since I paid for his gift I am still going to send it to him.

I read a story that an Aries male came back twice after breaking up with someone. And he is "says" that I am the first person he has dated in 3 years. idk my emotions keep going back and forth. F@uck him, I miss him, f@uck. So don't send him his gifts either? He was the first nerd I ever dated.Lol I don't have any of his contact info anymore, pictures, messages nothing. And he knows this so if he misses me enough he will reach out.

Feby thank you I guess when he shut down on me, I paniced because I wanted to fix it. I have never dealt with an AriesMan before and I can say I have learned alot. He liked to go out and do things and he knows that I would go and do anything with him so when he gets bored enough hopefully he will reach out.

Oh my gosh you just made my effing day! How long did it take your guy to reach out? Did it take away before you guys reached another level? normally I would say eff it but we hit the ground running, we both had strong feelings for each other, we would drink and I would tell him how I felt so he know, and he said that we were very well on the path of eternity. he said I was the only one who could make him laugh and I accepted him for him. not for what he did but for who he was, we didn't even have to be doing anything as we were together the world was fine. I really hope one day we can be friends again. Do they ever open their hearts back up? does it matter that we didn't have a face to face fight?

he has a Taraus cusp? Idk he is water and I am fire. Well I told him when he was done being mad I wouldn't be here for him because I do plan to live life, it's just this all happened Sunday.

he has a taraus cusp and is a water sign and I have aqua cusp and I am fire. Idk what all this means I just getting in to this

Yeah that's true either way both of our trust is broken probably best to move on. this the last communication between us; Yesterday when I wrote him, I said the following; you are the first Aries I have ever dealt with and you are stubborn as shit lol. I read once an Aries icies you that it and I consider myself frozen. I told myself I would reach out to you one more, and if I didn't hear from you then I would live my life. I have yet to hear from you. I went on an awesome date last night and have another one tomorrow, why should I hold on to someone whose ego is more important than our friendship. We were did things together I felt like I was with a true friend. I must accept responsibility for the part I played in the brake up of our friendship. I am sorry for my insecurities. I don't feel like you gave us a fair chance after our first disagreement, you just shut down. But instead of showing me how to be part of the team you just kicked me off it. I have deleted every part of you out of my life and once fb will let me reblock I will. I am confused why you still haven't blocked me from fb, when I asked you to 2 days ago(after this he did) when you stop being mad and try to be my friend I will not be here for you. Because once you take something away from me I don't want it back. You are just as guilty in the break up of this friendship you are just less humble about it.

I will..I just had to say my piece and to let him know my life wouldn't stop. it's sad but there are plenty of partners out there for both of us. he knows that I care so there is nothing else I can do. And you are very right about the gifts he knew I was hell bent of giving them to him, so I am sure at some point he will wonder about it. I care more about losing a friend then I do a lover. I closed my eyes and jumped off a cliff in dealing with him. I was to honest and to available always ready and willing because he made me feel special and that's where I messed up at. I should of treated him like shit. then he would of loved me

I just remembered he will be leaving for tech school in the air force in the next couple of months for 13 months anyway. This is good that we called it quits now anyway, maybe so we can pick back up later. he will be different, I will be different then maybe we can be just friends. BECAUSE as an Aquarius I need someone emotional strong and who can communicate. thank Feby for all of your wisdom.

wtf lol, created a fake phone number? lol jeeze. Just move on and save yourself the trouble.

Run.

Posted by amberbrown

but no sex and we would start over our friendship which at the time I agreed with. at this time we had sex once and he said it would never happen again. that hurt me. then I created a fake phone number and asked him was he seeing anyone, he said no,but we were supposed to go out 3 days later!

So he mentioned starting over as friends and nothing more? Since that hurt you, you created a "fake" phone number to trick him and then you got upset when he said he wasn't seeing anyone?

Technically he wasn't lying about that. If he mentioned nothing more than friendship with you then he wasn't cheating on you. Trust is a huge deal for many people regardless of sign and if you manipulate someone and break that trust it's pretty hard to gain it back.

Posted by amberbrown

I have been seeing an Aries Man for going on 3 months..

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It's just barely going on 3 months and already all this drama. If he happens to want to work things out with you I think it's important for you to know and understand how he really feels about you. By that I mean, does he see you as just a friend, which based on what I've read seems to be the case or does he have the same feelings you do. If he does not ... then sometimes it's best to learn from mistakes and move on even if it hurts.

Your point is Valid, however he had just slept with me and few days prior and was saying to me let's start over as friends to build back our relationship. He had took me on a date, to his place, cooked for me, kept making me drinks, while he only had one, I think to see where my feelings where but we mostly talked about how I felt about him. I spent the night with him, we made plans. So understand my confusion about his intentions. But it's ok. This has motivated me to go back to school, he can please this Aries cat and mouse game with someone else.

hiS dob..3-22-83 yes we fwb is how it started

mines is 2-2-84

Posted by amberbrown
hiS dob..3-22-83 yes we fwb is how it started

FWB very, very seldom turn into more (oh, it's possible, just very unlikely). An FWB is a temporary arrangement that has an expiration date. Once the needs are met or until someone they're willing to be serious about comes along, the FWB stops because it's no longer needed and the life span of that arrangement has run its course.

Sorry. If you think there is a chance you might ever want a relationship, don't FWB with them.

truecap: Wow that is very real. I never heard or thought about it like that. thank you so much! I had to realize I am not ready, I am going through a divorce so my heart was trying to use him to fill avoid. My kids are going to live with their dad for two years so I can work and go to school. So I can think about something else and find a better bred of men..lol

Well, sometimes, FWB fills a void and can be beneficial. Just have to have the right perspective on it. 🙂

Ok I found our placements are we a good matched? What type of people are we, who would we pair up best with? I don't really no anything about this stuff so if anyone can explain it to me, that would be great.
Aries male- Rising sign-cancer, Sun-Aries, moon-cancer, mercury-pisces, Venus - Taurus, mars- Aries, Jupiter- Sag, Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Pluto- Libra, n.no -gemini.
Aquarius woman- Rising sign- sag, Sun Aquarius, moon Aquarius, mercury-cap, Venus-cap, mars-scorp,-Jupiter-cap,Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Neptune-cap, Pluto-scorp, n.node-gemini.

I have been reading alot about Aries men. I mean alot! So I reached out to him today after two weeks. only because I kept reading that his lines of communication were open and he was thinking about second chances. He did text back! :-) He was still kind of grumpy, but not purely hateful like he had been. I let him know I didn't want to talk about the past, what happened, happened and I just wanted to talk to someone that I admired and respected. He said I could ask him questions but he wouldnt come over. I know he was tired working 20 these last two days the another 12 tomorrow. I did let him know that I have been making big changes and will be kids free for about two years. Just to peek his interest because he knows how I feel about my babies. Then I let him know that I consider him a friend and friends are important to me. Then told him good night. I am nor going to text him for awhile. If I get him back I will know what to do now. I went into this with no knowledge of this type of man. I feel I have finally found my equal and I hope I didn't mess up to bad and lose him for good. Pray for me! :-)