I really let him go and it hurts like hell!!!!! (Page 2)

Right on, leokitten!

i haven't had someone make a point of telling they wanted to talk and then just don't since like high school. can't believe he is 35 and acts like this. you our all right!!!!! I have to accept it and thats the hardest because the whole time we broke up I was always hoping deep he would come back because he realized he made a mistake so its me accepting there is no hope or chance and really moving completely on.

Some guys never mature. The guy who annoys me is 30 and acts more like a teenager. He wants everything done on his time. Being the Aquarian female I am, this is a major turn-off. There should be mutual respect. Unfortunately, not everybody is capable of giving that.

I will admit that I put to much stalk in what he says, just if it ever came to us talking about something about us in a serious manner even if he wasn't that comfortable for him he would at least talk about it. i know that he didn't want anything serious but i did. I have always felt like I was competing with someone weither it was his x or the people he is seeing now. i just didn't think he would just let me walk. its hard just being someones friend when your in love with them. and I know that him saying he wanted us to build a deeper friendship was just some bs and his way of just keeping me around. i have always been good to him and i probably should have asked him some things in the beginning before i even allowed him back in my life. i fault myself for that, because I was just so happy that he was back.

Leo, i know what you mean and I only feel that way with him because there has always been something. other guys I am not like this. maybe its because he would tell me that I have an affect on him like no one has had on him before and that I am a bright light in his life and that he has never met someone like me. but besides all of that he can't love me but he has loved other women that have treated him far worse than I could imagine. it just messes with me, i understand that you can not make someone love you but i guess I feel like he doesn't want a good women he wants someone to treat him like shit.

i know that if he called i would let it go to voicemail. your right its me wanting him to want me. and me trying to understand if he still felt like there was something there why would he just walk. its me having to accept him for who he is and not what I want him to be. a part of me wants him to just say were not compatibale or we don't have anything in common...etc. i guess like if he knows I am a good women and I do believe he knows this why would he just let me go . we did get along great and all that stuff.....i know i sound silly just trying to get it out.

i don't want a realationship where someone is calling all the shots. it wasn't like that when we were together. at this point i guess I don't understand why would he would handle things so messed up but he will be the one when i see that will act like nothings wrong and wonder why I don't speak to him.

actually he said that he wanted to talk right after i told him i was sleeping with someone else but when he came over the last time i asked him if he still wanted to talk and he said yes but never said anything. and i don't know what he was going to say, but I can't help but to think that him being upset about that has something to do with why he is being such an asshole about things

Leokitten, i was just saying that because he told me that when we broke up that it hurt that i wouldn't speak to him and that I ignored him.

I sent you a reply detailing my feelings on this issue, but to sum it up, crushbuddy.

This guy is just plain bad news from my point of view. You deserve better than this and sometimes you just plain need to leave bad situations, you can't always work this out and with a situation like this, I think that you just need to let it go and give yourself the proper respect that you deserve.

thank you......