If an aqua man didn’t want to talk to you anymore would he still answer your texts?

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I was talking to an aqua man for a few months and then he just stopped answering me one day. But I texted him about 3 times in the last 2 months and he has responded every time and will even talk to me for a few days (and he is engaged, i.e. asking questions, etc.).

Is this normal? Is he just keeping me at arm’s length because he’s unsure? We live really far from one another (east coast vs. west coast).
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Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
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Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
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Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
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I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Posted by AerialView
Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
lol I’m not like that. Usually I love the chase but have been extremely distant from this guy — I haven’t even asked him why he doesn’t respond sometimes. And me being a pisces female, I usually make impulsive decisions when texting (and when doing other things of course lol) but for some reason not with him. Whenever we would text I would take hours to respond even though I’m on my phone all day long.

Maybe I’m not aggressive enough for him — he has many women craving for his attention and I’m sure they’re more pushy than I am with him.
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I think even if he did like you he wouldn’t move forward in it due to the distance. He’s thinking logically.
I guess so — he’s probably not interested anymore. I’ve told him that I plan on moving and don’t know where (so he clearly knows that I’m willing to live anywhere — distance wouldn’t be an issue in the future if he wanted to continue talking to me). It’s okay, I just need to figure out how to get him off of my mind now because I think about him everyday and don’t know why because I don’t know him too too well — we spoke nonstop for about 3 months but 3 months isn’t long at all.
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Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know... i feel like I forced myself on him He was engaging it in his cerebral flirty way...

Last week I had a very direct conversation about certain sexual positions too when I was tipsy...

Then I see him in person and he’s like super nervous. Like he’s not sure what he’s supposed to do once I’m flesh and blood before him.

We’re supposed to hang out next week... i guess we’ll see what happens...
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LOL funny 😂😂😂😂
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Posted by AerialView
Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know... i feel like I forced myself on him He was engaging it in his cerebral flirty way...

Last week I had a very direct conversation about certain sexual positions too when I was tipsy...

Then I see him in person and he’s like super nervous. Like he’s not sure what he’s supposed to do once I’m flesh and blood before him.

We’re supposed to hang out next week... i guess we’ll see what happens...
LOL funny 😂😂😂😂


Not for me! Now I have to face his aloof ass after demanding he ties me up... i think he gets off more on the talk and fantasy then engaging in real life... unless my breasts are involved... he would much father have a tactile experience with them...

I’ve never had a guy like this before... I’m usuakky the one pushing them away because they com won too strong... now I’m the one apologizing for drinking and sexually harassing him

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I like you. I dig your vibe 😂
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Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know... i feel like I forced myself on him He was engaging it in his cerebral flirty way...

Last week I had a very direct conversation about certain sexual positions too when I was tipsy...

Then I see him in person and he’s like super nervous. Like he’s not sure what he’s supposed to do once I’m flesh and blood before him.

We’re supposed to hang out next week... i guess we’ll see what happens...
LOL funny 😂😂😂😂


Not for me! Now I have to face his aloof ass after demanding he ties me up... i think he gets off more on the talk and fantasy then engaging in real life... unless my breasts are involved... he would much father have a tactile experience with them...

I’ve never had a guy like this before... I’m usuakky the one pushing them away because they com won too strong... now I’m the one apologizing for drinking and sexually harassing him


I like you. I dig your vibe 😂
Ha, you’ve said that before... i think Aqua Men and I have fun together. I have another guy friend who is one and we just giggle together like schoolgirls...

Then again he just might be enjoying my cleavage as well...

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Oh I remember you! No wonder 😂 A Libra with Scorp Venus!
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Your overthinking the texting thing. All of us aquas aren't great at texting we are better in person
I understand but unfortunately face to face is not an option unless we purchase flights.
Have you met in person?
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Yes, we met in person randomly outside of a bar — it was unexpected; a pleasant surprise — but he was leaving the next day. He then came back to my area about a month later and we hungout but only to make out late night and he hungout until about 2pm the next day (during the time in between of seeing each other we were talking everyday).

I didn’t have sex with him (even though I really wanted to — I still really want to — I hardly ever dream because I smoke weed before sleeping but for some reason have crazy vivid dreams of him and having sex with him even though we only made out — it’s wild!).

After we hungout, he was still texting me everyday and then close to Christmas he began not responding but then would text me a few days later to say Hi but I’d be out with friends or busy and forget to respond.

So maybe he just realized that it wouldn’t work because of distance or what not. But ugh, again, it’s sooo crazy that I can’t get him off of my mind. I haven’t spoken to him in a month but yet he’s on my mind every single day, multiple times a day and I try hard not to think of him.

Every time he comes to mind I shut it down — it’s not even like things remind me of him so I’m not sure what’s going on. It’s also not like I don’t have a million things to do during the day, I’m so busy but yet he still pops into my head for no reason at all!

Sorry, I’m rambling — feels nice to get these things out instead of holding it all in because my friends are probably over hearing about it even though these are my feelings and they’re real.

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Posted by AerialView
Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know... i feel like I forced myself on him He was engaging it in his cerebral flirty way...

Last week I had a very direct conversation about certain sexual positions too when I was tipsy...

Then I see him in person and he’s like super nervous. Like he’s not sure what he’s supposed to do once I’m flesh and blood before him.

We’re supposed to hang out next week... i guess we’ll see what happens...
LOL funny 😂😂😂😂


Not for me! Now I have to face his aloof ass after demanding he ties me up... i think he gets off more on the talk and fantasy then engaging in real life... unless my breasts are involved... he would much father have a tactile experience with them...

I’ve never had a guy like this before... I’m usuakky the one pushing them away because they com won too strong... now I’m the one apologizing for drinking and sexually harassing him


I like you. I dig your vibe 😂
Ha, you’ve said that before... i think Aqua Men and I have fun together. I have another guy friend who is one and we just giggle together like schoolgirls...

Then again he just might be enjoying my cleavage as well...


Oh I remember you! No wonder 😂 A Libra with Scorp Venus!
And a Gemini noon that bounces me allll I get the place.

Still figuring out my Scorpio Venus... apparently there is a cancer influence there too... makes me a reserved Scorpio... probably just more emotionally inept
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Ooo, my moon is also in gemini..but my venus is in aries.
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Never double text!? That's ridiculous!

Step up your texting game!
Hahahaha

Mine will get like six in a row... poor guy....
I prefer that way!


Really? He says he’s used to it and not to worry... but I’m like ‘sorry I can’t shut up but I feel the need to overshare and bombard you with unimportant information right now’..
Don't forget to send him some sexy pictures!
Dude I got drunk last night... ugh..... I don’t ever send nudes or anything but there was a slew of sexy ones and a rant about how so want him to tie me up... i mean, he was engaging it... but I feel like an ass today...

We don’t usually get that direct
I bet he can't wait to have you drunk again 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know... i feel like I forced myself on him He was engaging it in his cerebral flirty way...

Last week I had a very direct conversation about certain sexual positions too when I was tipsy...

Then I see him in person and he’s like super nervous. Like he’s not sure what he’s supposed to do once I’m flesh and blood before him.

We’re supposed to hang out next week... i guess we’ll see what happens...
LOL funny 😂😂😂😂


Not for me! Now I have to face his aloof ass after demanding he ties me up... i think he gets off more on the talk and fantasy then engaging in real life... unless my breasts are involved... he would much father have a tactile experience with them...

I’ve never had a guy like this before... I’m usuakky the one pushing them away because they com won too strong... now I’m the one apologizing for drinking and sexually harassing him


I like you. I dig your vibe 😂
Ha, you’ve said that before... i think Aqua Men and I have fun together. I have another guy friend who is one and we just giggle together like schoolgirls...

Then again he just might be enjoying my cleavage as well...


Oh I remember you! No wonder 😂 A Libra with Scorp Venus!
And a Gemini noon that bounces me allll I get the place.

Still figuring out my Scorpio Venus... apparently there is a cancer influence there too... makes me a reserved Scorpio... probably just more emotionally inept
Ooo, my moon is also in gemini..but my venus is in aries.


I’m a Libra and I’m very confused about what I’m supposed to do in all matters... @aerialview is always saying not what comes natural but at this point I don’t even know what natural is anymore

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#geminimoonproblem
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Your overthinking the texting thing. All of us aquas aren't great at texting we are better in person
I understand but unfortunately face to face is not an option unless we purchase flights.
Ask him if he's interested in seeing you. Flying in our out... Take a chance. It sounds like you're about to give up anyway. The point o f giving up is always the best time to give something one more try. 💕
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Yeah, that does seem logical. I just don’t really deal with rejection well (even on a minuscule level) — I get super sad and my heart sinks a bit (on the list of stuff I’m working on changing lol).

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Your overthinking the texting thing. All of us aquas aren't great at texting we are better in person
I understand but unfortunately face to face is not an option unless we purchase flights.
Ask him if he's interested in seeing you. Flying in our out... Take a chance. It sounds like you're about to give up anyway. The point o f giving up is always the best time to give something one more try. 💕


The point of giving up is always the best time to give something one more try - I believe the same thing.



Yep it will either make or break it but it's enough for closure. Living in limbo is a waste of time you can never get back.

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That’s true — for some reason I’ve never thought of types of things like this as wasted time. I’m now beginning to realize that I choose men that will end up hurting me. It’s a pattern.

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Can I give you mine ?

I went out with an aquarius 2 years ago and he still texts me.

Randomly. Even though he knows I'm in a relationship.

With a fellow Scorpio. Lol little guy has -50% chance.


Are they just friendly texts asking how you are... or are they texts asking for you back?

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Just normal texts. Talking, asking about what I’m doing, where I’m traveling to, etc.