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Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
click to expand
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandclick to expand
What does Tyrant mean? You are bossy?
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Do you all love traveling? yes, however, I really didn't start travelling until about 5 years ago, I missed out so much when younger.
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel? yes, I'm OCD, I have to get that stuff out of the bag!
Do you all like organizing things for people? everything has it's correct place!
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun? what do you mean?
Are you bossy? lol YEs
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc? YES. I have ridden an elephant, I got sad half way through however, I couldn't stop thinking of it being captive.
Do you hog the bed when you sleep? Not really, I'm a midget, so don't take up much space.
Do you snore? when really, really tired I'm a treetrunking beaver man lol click to expand
Ahahahaa you and my bestie have some similarities except hogging the bed. She does it all the time and once i even fell off coz she was just moving so much and taking all the space wahahahhaha and all the pillows lol
Clean fun like nothing that can land you in jail or give you std. lols click to expand
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Oh I am up for an adventure, in the right time and place. 😈
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
You peeing in the streets again, Gem? Doing a back to back piss contest to see how far it travels down the street?? click to expand
Hahahahahahha I did that with a Feb aqua!!!!!! And he loved me even more. I wonder if January ones will too 😂😂😂🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪 click to expand
I think they will, sometimes crazy is good click to expand
Hahaha yes crazy fun is good once in a while. I just noticed me and my aqua bestie with their same birthday, we’ve had fun but mostly responsible fun. I wonder if it was a common thing for them hahaha my aqua bf is a january 25 one and he doesnt drink, smoke and do drugs but my feb aqua ex he drinks a lot and smokes a lot. Lol click to expand
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I think addiction is just a human thing, not tied to a astrological sign 🙂 People have choices, always
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
click to expand
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition.
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandWhat does Tyrant mean? You are bossy? click to expand
Yes, if you put your nose into my buisness you do what I say or you are out again. click to expand
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That was sounds so dominating lol I swear you surprise me more and more, in good ways of course 😆
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! 😆
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)
You're the bar manager dude right?
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)You're the bar manager dude right? click to expand
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Yeah was finally worked my way out of that position to something less shitkicking
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. 😆
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)You're the bar manager dude right? click to expand
Yeah was finally worked my way out of that position to something less shitkicking click to expand
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lol.....that was my next question.....how you still have the nerves for it. Good for you.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)Hhahhahahaa is it the pisces bits that make someone a bit open minded about crazy shiz hahaha click to expand
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Special occasion though for the slightly harder stuff I would like to laugh about chewing my own face off rather than actually having chewed my face off.
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I wonder for that one too. They seem wanna make people stick around and dont want you to move on while actually theyre moving on without us. Is it like somewhat an ego
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
You peeing in the streets again, Gem? Doing a back to back piss contest to see how far it travels down the street?? click to expand
Hahahahahahha I did that with a Feb aqua!!!!!! And he loved me even more. I wonder if January ones will too 😂😂😂🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪 click to expand
I think they will, sometimes crazy is good click to expand
Hahaha yes crazy fun is good once in a while. I just noticed me and my aqua bestie with their same birthday, we’ve had fun but mostly responsible fun. I wonder if it was a common thing for them hahaha my aqua bf is a january 25 one and he doesnt drink, smoke and do drugs but my feb aqua ex he drinks a lot and smokes a lot. Lol click to expand
I think addiction is just a human thing, not tied to a astrological sign People have choices, always click to expand
Yeah. True. Just checking out what these folks have in common. Its funny that they actually do have things in common on top of the same birthdays. 😂 click to expand
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Well at least you know whats to come and how to handle them then! 😄
Posted by WittyGem88v2
General aqua question. What makes you keep coming back to someone? Just curious. Asking for a friend lol
I want to know about this as well
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
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Were you the woman who had fuckbuddies too? Besides this aqua.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)Hhahhahahaa is it the pisces bits that make someone a bit open minded about crazy shiz hahaha click to expand
Special occasion though for the slightly harder stuff I would like to laugh about chewing my own face off rather than actually having chewed my face off. click to expand
True. I jave always imagined aquas will be up for almost anything granted they can recover from it. Grew up with several and its always been good fun. Basically in a nightout having an aqua and a sag with me is guaranteed fun 😂 click to expand
click to expand
I think they are my worst enablers tbh. I have huge history with all kinds of sags love and hate them!
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
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You say that, but it doesn't seem like that because of how the Aqua is acting. He seems to care a lot. The timing is shitty and I guess you won't really know until you are fully divorced. I guess it's a good thing sex wasn't involved with you two.
Glad your hubby is getting the treatment he needs and hopefully he gets better. He's gonna need to be self sufficient if he spirals again, without you there, he can't leave it to the kids. Hopefully he can manage or this will be a never ending issue for anyone in a relationship with you.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)You're the bar manager dude right? click to expand
Yeah was finally worked my way out of that position to something less shitkicking click to expand
lol.....that was my next question.....how you still have the nerves for it. Good for you. click to expand
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Yah I think that's why I stopped using DXP as much honestly no free time but alas back in the cesspool. I guess bar manager was a good gig though I have never loved and hated humanity so much.
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandWhat does Tyrant mean? You are bossy? click to expand
Yes, if you put your nose into my buisness you do what I say or you are out again. click to expand
That was sounds so dominating lol I swear you surprise me more and more, in good ways of course click to expand
I wouldn't consider this to be "dominant" behaviour. click to expand
click to expand
You do what I say or you are out doesn't seem dominating to you? As I read it, it came across like that.
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
Were you the woman who had treetrunkbuddies too? Besides this aqua. click to expand
I had offers. Men who knew my situation and weren’t bothered by it. It was when the Aqua blew up at me and told me I was a mistake and he wanted nothing to do with me. I never took them up, and currently have no contact with them. click to expand
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Oh sorry then. Mixed you with someone. Mea culpa. 😄
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! 😛
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Do you all love traveling? yes, however, I really didn't start travelling until about 5 years ago, I missed out so much when younger.
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel? yes, I'm OCD, I have to get that stuff out of the bag!
Do you all like organizing things for people? everything has it's correct place!
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun? what do you mean?
Are you bossy? lol YEs
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc? YES. I have ridden an elephant, I got sad half way through however, I couldn't stop thinking of it being captive.
Do you hog the bed when you sleep? Not really, I'm a midget, so don't take up much space.
Do you snore? when really, really tired I'm a treetrunking beaver man lol click to expand
Ahahahaa you and my bestie have some similarities except hogging the bed. She does it all the time and once i even fell off coz she was just moving so much and taking all the space wahahahhaha and all the pillows lol
Clean fun like nothing that can land you in jail or give you std. lols click to expand
Oh I am up for an adventure, in the right time and place. click to expand
And what is the right place? Lol click to expand
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That's a need to know answer 😛
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
You say that, but it doesn't seem like that because of how the Aqua is acting. He seems to care a lot. The timing is butterty and I guess you won't really know until you are fully divorced. I guess it's a good thing sex wasn't involved with you two.
Glad your hubby is getting the treatment he needs and hopefully he gets better. He's gonna need to be self sufficient if he spirals again, without you there, he can't leave it to the kids. Hopefully he can manage or this will be a never ending issue for anyone in a relationship with you. click to expand
I want my kids to have their Dad. I want him to be healthy and happy. We will always co parent and the Aqua knows that, he has kids too.
I thought he really cared. He even got me a gift... I just don’t understand this part of him. He gets so close to me then pushes me away without provocation click to expand
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Sometimes people don't like it when they get picked over. I understand your hubby is mentally imbalanced but I don't think I would have lots of patience for the situation either. You are supposed to be getting a divorce, your supposed to be separating, you've been getting closer with the aqua, he's been there, been supporting you but when your hubby has issues, you leave the aqua hanging and run back to your husband.
I wouldn't sympathize with that well at all. What do you need space from the aqua for? If you need support from him, then why are you pushing him away. Your supposed to know how to balance better than this. You're choosing you husband over him and leaving the aqua to fend for himself and expect him to just "understand" the situation. He should be a support system for you in this time, instead of you telling him you need space from him, he should be a shoulder to lean on and someone to talk to so you can get through this and be done with it.. He's probably hurt. Your actions are from from the words you speak. This is just how I see things though, I could be wrong.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)Hhahhahahaa is it the pisces bits that make someone a bit open minded about crazy shiz hahaha click to expand
Special occasion though for the slightly harder stuff I would like to laugh about chewing my own face off rather than actually having chewed my face off. click to expand
True. I jave always imagined aquas will be up for almost anything granted they can recover from it. Grew up with several and its always been good fun. Basically in a nightout having an aqua and a sag with me is guaranteed fun 😂 click to expand
I think they are my worst enablers tbh. I have huge history with all kinds of sags love and hate them! click to expand
Hahahaha tell me about it. Sags are limitless when it comes to fun 😂 i am ok with them but i try to avoid the type of people who consider fighting as fun. I met some who kinda like goes to the dark side after some alcohol. So far sags havent given me that yet. But they do like to challenge me to do stuff 😂 click to expand
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So sweet and I completely agree! 😆 I'm a fun drunk too
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandWhat does Tyrant mean? You are bossy? click to expand
Yes, if you put your nose into my buisness you do what I say or you are out again. click to expand
That was sounds so dominating lol I swear you surprise me more and more, in good ways of course click to expand
I wouldn't consider this to be "dominant" behaviour. click to expand
You do what I say or you are out doesn't seem dominating to you? As I read it, it came across like that. click to expand
Yeah, but only when it, as I said, comes to my matters.
People can do whatever they want as long as they don't hurt someone else. click to expandclick to expand
Oh, I see what you're saying now. 🙂
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)Hhahhahahaa is it the pisces bits that make someone a bit open minded about crazy shiz hahaha click to expand
Special occasion though for the slightly harder stuff I would like to laugh about chewing my own face off rather than actually having chewed my face off. click to expand
True. I jave always imagined aquas will be up for almost anything granted they can recover from it. Grew up with several and its always been good fun. Basically in a nightout having an aqua and a sag with me is guaranteed fun 😂 click to expand
I think they are my worst enablers tbh. I have huge history with all kinds of sags love and hate them! click to expand
Hahahaha tell me about it. Sags are limitless when it comes to fun 😂 i am ok with them but i try to avoid the type of people who consider fighting as fun. I met some who kinda like goes to the dark side after some alcohol. So far sags havent given me that yet. But they do like to challenge me to do stuff 😂 click to expand
So sweet and I completely agree! I'm a fun drunk too click to expand
Sags be like “lets do tequila shots then you go talk to that guy in the bar and tell him his shirt is upside down” lol click to expand
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So he can take it off? 😛 Ha Ha Ha!!! Sounds like a plan!!! 😆
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
You say that, but it doesn't seem like that because of how the Aqua is acting. He seems to care a lot. The timing is butterty and I guess you won't really know until you are fully divorced. I guess it's a good thing sex wasn't involved with you two.
Glad your hubby is getting the treatment he needs and hopefully he gets better. He's gonna need to be self sufficient if he spirals again, without you there, he can't leave it to the kids. Hopefully he can manage or this will be a never ending issue for anyone in a relationship with you. click to expand
I want my kids to have their Dad. I want him to be healthy and happy. We will always co parent and the Aqua knows that, he has kids too.
I thought he really cared. He even got me a gift... I just don’t understand this part of him. He gets so close to me then pushes me away without provocation click to expand
Sometimes people don't like it when they get picked over. I understand your hubby is mentally imbalanced but I don't think I would have lots of patience for the situation either. You are supposed to be getting a divorce, your supposed to be separating, you've been getting closer with the aqua, he's been there, been supporting you but when your hubby has issues, you leave the aqua hanging and run back to your husband.
I wouldn't sympathize with that well at all. What do you need space from the aqua for? If you need support from him, then why are you pushing him away. Your supposed to know how to balance better than this. You're choosing you husband over him and leaving the aqua to fend for himself and expect him to just "understand" the situation. He should be a support system for you in this time, instead of you telling him you need space from him, he should be a shoulder to lean on and someone to talk to so you can get through this and be done with it.. He's probably hurt. Your actions are from from the words you speak. This is just how I see things though, I could be wrong. click to expand
Only he doesn’t want to talk about it. He doesn’t want to know what’s happening or for me to come to him. He said he didn’t want to be part of the situation in any way and I keep my home stuff to myself. I didn’t even really give him details, but apparently it was too much.
I need some time because I had nothing to give because I was trying to figure out my next move. I couldn’t be available to him and I didn’t want him dragged into it. I needed 48 hours to just focus on that. click to expand
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It's always hard when someone gets pushed away. He may have not wanted to be dragged into the drama but he still may want to feel like he matters and is important. Everyone does, especially with the person they love.
Rejection is rejection, and Aquas have a hard time with this, from my understandings.
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandOk. So my bestie does all of those including clean fun. No crazy fun though. Our craziest was getting drunk and crawling back to our hotel but that was it lol
Clean fun like no drugs, no one night stands, basically nothing that can land u in jail or in big trouble. click to expand
Clean fun for me then.
I'm usually the one that gets butter back in order despite being drunk because I don't change as a person when I'm drunk. click to expandHa! Thats like my bestie. She just becomes quiet. Im possibly the opposite. I’m a happy drunk! 🤣 click to expand
Oh, don't get me wrong I can become chatty but it's just not very different from who I am.
If anything I just become a bit more friendly and approachable. click to expandOooohhhhh you let lose a bit. That’s good. I cannot imagine you being a serious drunk like what would that be like? Hahaha do you approach women when drunk? click to expand
No, I'm entirely done with stuff. click to expand
Even when drunk? But then actually, I like that about aquas. Strong self control. Lol but if lets say you’re not done yet, would you? And would you do it even if you are in a relationship with someone? click to expand
Not with the intention of sex/love etc..
That thing is entirely done for me but if I'm bored I would approach whoever piques my interest and I wouldn't behave differently if I were in a relationship. click to expandclick to expand
You really don't change in relationships? It seems like some Aquas expect so much more and let friends slide with certain things. It's one of the things that is so contradicting to me and frustrating.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)Hhahhahahaa is it the pisces bits that make someone a bit open minded about crazy shiz hahaha click to expand
Special occasion though for the slightly harder stuff I would like to laugh about chewing my own face off rather than actually having chewed my face off. click to expand
True. I jave always imagined aquas will be up for almost anything granted they can recover from it. Grew up with several and its always been good fun. Basically in a nightout having an aqua and a sag with me is guaranteed fun 😂 click to expand
I think they are my worst enablers tbh. I have huge history with all kinds of sags love and hate them! click to expand
Hahahaha tell me about it. Sags are limitless when it comes to fun 😂 i am ok with them but i try to avoid the type of people who consider fighting as fun. I met some who kinda like goes to the dark side after some alcohol. So far sags havent given me that yet. But they do like to challenge me to do stuff 😂 click to expand
So sweet and I completely agree! I'm a fun drunk too click to expand
Sags be like “lets do tequila shots then you go talk to that guy in the bar and tell him his shirt is upside down” lol click to expand
So he can take it off? Ha Ha Ha!!! Sounds like a plan!!! click to expand
He can take it off or he can buy us a drink hahaha sag is the enabler, im the bait and the aqua is there to make sure we all get home safe lol its a balanced friendship we all got a role to play hahaha click to expand
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He can do both! 😛 Hahahaha
Posted by aquasnoz
It's okay I can just blame my pisces bits for all the crazy fun I mean it's 420 somewhere in this world! (while my aqua bits scream out in pain NO ITS NOT 420 SOMEWHERE ELSE ITS IMPOSSIBLE!)You're the bar manager dude right? click to expand
Yeah was finally worked my way out of that position to something less shitkicking click to expand
lol.....that was my next question.....how you still have the nerves for it. Good for you. click to expand
Yah I think that's why I stopped using DXP as much honestly no free time but alas back in the cesspool. I guess bar manager was a good gig though I have never loved and hated humanity so much. click to expand
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Ya, from the entitled trash customers to thieving waiting staff. But there's a sweet spot tho, when you finally have an honest staff that click which each other and work becomes pleasure. It doesn't last tho, ppl leave.
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
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BBQ = big booty qutie? I can do that, np. 😆
Posted by WittyGem88v2
January 23 aquas — @aquasnoz @justagirl @pleistoanaxDo you all love traveling?
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Are you bossy?
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Do you snore?Lols
Yes.
No.
Sometimes.
What is clean fun?
Tyrant.
Yes.
No.
Not that I'm aware of. click to expandOk. So my bestie does all of those including clean fun. No crazy fun though. Our craziest was getting drunk and crawling back to our hotel but that was it lol
Clean fun like no drugs, no one night stands, basically nothing that can land u in jail or in big trouble. click to expand
Clean fun for me then.
I'm usually the one that gets butter back in order despite being drunk because I don't change as a person when I'm drunk. click to expandHa! Thats like my bestie. She just becomes quiet. Im possibly the opposite. I’m a happy drunk! 🤣 click to expand
Oh, don't get me wrong I can become chatty but it's just not very different from who I am.
If anything I just become a bit more friendly and approachable. click to expandOooohhhhh you let lose a bit. That’s good. I cannot imagine you being a serious drunk like what would that be like? Hahaha do you approach women when drunk? click to expand
No, I'm entirely done with stuff. click to expand
Even when drunk? But then actually, I like that about aquas. Strong self control. Lol but if lets say you’re not done yet, would you? And would you do it even if you are in a relationship with someone? click to expand
Not with the intention of sex/love etc..
That thing is entirely done for me but if I'm bored I would approach whoever piques my interest and I wouldn't behave differently if I were in a relationship. click to expandYou really don't change in relationships? It seems like some Aquas expect so much more and let friends slide with certain things. It's one of the things that is so contradicting to me and frustrating. click to expand
What exactly do you mean? click to expand
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From my dealings with aquas, it was just the communication dealings. I flat out don't communicate well. If they had friends that they communicate with once a month, it didn't bother them But both Aquas I dealt with used to with hold things back because of my lack of communication, almost as a punishment of sorts. If I don't give them what they want, they wont give me what I want.
I can communicate in person, but it didn't help. Aquas just seem different with significant others vs friends. I can't really explain it. But I can understand why people say they make better friends then boyfriends. You guys are so effortless with friends, theres no overthinking involved, you can relax and just spend time and enjoy. But with significant others! UGH! It's a struggle, especially when they weren't your friend first.
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
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lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though! 😆
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
click to expand
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—??
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
You say that, but it doesn't seem like that because of how the Aqua is acting. He seems to care a lot. The timing is butterty and I guess you won't really know until you are fully divorced. I guess it's a good thing sex wasn't involved with you two.
Glad your hubby is getting the treatment he needs and hopefully he gets better. He's gonna need to be self sufficient if he spirals again, without you there, he can't leave it to the kids. Hopefully he can manage or this will be a never ending issue for anyone in a relationship with you. click to expand
I want my kids to have their Dad. I want him to be healthy and happy. We will always co parent and the Aqua knows that, he has kids too.
I thought he really cared. He even got me a gift... I just don’t understand this part of him. He gets so close to me then pushes me away without provocation click to expand
Sometimes people don't like it when they get picked over. I understand your hubby is mentally imbalanced but I don't think I would have lots of patience for the situation either. You are supposed to be getting a divorce, your supposed to be separating, you've been getting closer with the aqua, he's been there, been supporting you but when your hubby has issues, you leave the aqua hanging and run back to your husband.
I wouldn't sympathize with that well at all. What do you need space from the aqua for? If you need support from him, then why are you pushing him away. Your supposed to know how to balance better than this. You're choosing you husband over him and leaving the aqua to fend for himself and expect him to just "understand" the situation. He should be a support system for you in this time, instead of you telling him you need space from him, he should be a shoulder to lean on and someone to talk to so you can get through this and be done with it.. He's probably hurt. Your actions are from from the words you speak. This is just how I see things though, I could be wrong. click to expand
Only he doesn’t want to talk about it. He doesn’t want to know what’s happening or for me to come to him. He said he didn’t want to be part of the situation in any way and I keep my home stuff to myself. I didn’t even really give him details, but apparently it was too much.
I need some time because I had nothing to give because I was trying to figure out my next move. I couldn’t be available to him and I didn’t want him dragged into it. I needed 48 hours to just focus on that. click to expand
It's always hard when someone gets pushed away. He may have not wanted to be dragged into the drama but he still may want to feel like he matters and is important. Everyone does, especially with the person they love.
Rejection is rejection, and Aquas have a hard time with this, from my understandings. click to expand
I don’t know how to could have felt rejected. I told him I loved him but I knew he didn’t want complications and my life was very complicated right now. I didn’t want him pulled into the situation and I just needed some space to deal with it. I was genuinely scared and not sure what was going to happen but I would contact him the next day once things settled.
He just decided it was too much. He is worried my husband will figure out what’s been going on and expose us. He didn’t say it, but I’m certain that’s what it is.
He doesn’t want the drama of that. click to expand
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Only time will tell, if he loves you, he won't let you go that easily. He hasn't so far. Just get your stuff done that needs to be done and go from there. Check in with him too and leave him messages, even if he isn't responding.
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
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I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! 😛
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
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I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw 😆
Anxiety and insecurity.
People always forget how much of an emotional beating Aquas can get just because they are what they are.
It takes a lot of time for us to become comfortable around someone we care about.
I know many people who would label me as their friends while I don't care about them at all. That's why it often seems so effortless. click to expand
This makes my heart hurt. 😢 I don't think of things in this way, but it makes a lot of sense. I just get jealous that the other person gets away with so much and I get treated bad. This is why it's nice to be open with communication, but again, some Aquas go to friends for advice and don't go to the person that they are really wondering about,unless they are completely comfortable. There's so much to understand with you Aquas.
I wish it was easier for me to guess and just "know"
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw click to expand
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I'll bring a couple of other girls then! Guess I'm out of the picture now! 😢 Better do a store run or shoot the deer in the back yard! 😆
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Do Aqua men enjoy mind treetrunking themselves along with the women who love them?I swear, they’re either rock steady or can’t decide what they want. The back and fourth doesn’t let anyone heal or move on. Don’t they want to move on too?
I thought things were improving for you or did that change? click to expand
It was spectacular for months. I told him I needed space because my husband was having a mental health crisis and I had to focus on it.
He decided it was too much drama having to hear about my marriage.
He was asking questions, giving me support, told me it was okay to talk. Then once it got ugly and I needed a moment he said no more.
No big fight, just a few texts and that was that. click to expand
Does your husband do this type of thing when he feels you pulling away— You get reeled into him so much. I don't know how you will ever get a divorce. smh Hopefully he wasn't just being manipulative. No one really knows your situation except you. click to expand
He’s mentally ill. He started spiraling awhile ago and it finally spiked. I had to deal with it since I’m still in the home.
We’ve decided to try a partial separation, I’m moving out of the Days he has custody. We want to keep the kids in the house and we move around them.
He’s currently in treatment and is stabilizing. We will reevaluate our arrangements once he’s had some time to level out.
The Aqua was never going to commit anyways. My marriage is an excuse because he knew I was seeing a lawyer and separating. click to expand
You say that, but it doesn't seem like that because of how the Aqua is acting. He seems to care a lot. The timing is butterty and I guess you won't really know until you are fully divorced. I guess it's a good thing sex wasn't involved with you two.
Glad your hubby is getting the treatment he needs and hopefully he gets better. He's gonna need to be self sufficient if he spirals again, without you there, he can't leave it to the kids. Hopefully he can manage or this will be a never ending issue for anyone in a relationship with you. click to expand
I want my kids to have their Dad. I want him to be healthy and happy. We will always co parent and the Aqua knows that, he has kids too.
I thought he really cared. He even got me a gift... I just don’t understand this part of him. He gets so close to me then pushes me away without provocation click to expand
Sometimes people don't like it when they get picked over. I understand your hubby is mentally imbalanced but I don't think I would have lots of patience for the situation either. You are supposed to be getting a divorce, your supposed to be separating, you've been getting closer with the aqua, he's been there, been supporting you but when your hubby has issues, you leave the aqua hanging and run back to your husband.
I wouldn't sympathize with that well at all. What do you need space from the aqua for? If you need support from him, then why are you pushing him away. Your supposed to know how to balance better than this. You're choosing you husband over him and leaving the aqua to fend for himself and expect him to just "understand" the situation. He should be a support system for you in this time, instead of you telling him you need space from him, he should be a shoulder to lean on and someone to talk to so you can get through this and be done with it.. He's probably hurt. Your actions are from from the words you speak. This is just how I see things though, I could be wrong. click to expand
Only he doesn’t want to talk about it. He doesn’t want to know what’s happening or for me to come to him. He said he didn’t want to be part of the situation in any way and I keep my home stuff to myself. I didn’t even really give him details, but apparently it was too much.
I need some time because I had nothing to give because I was trying to figure out my next move. I couldn’t be available to him and I didn’t want him dragged into it. I needed 48 hours to just focus on that. click to expand
It's always hard when someone gets pushed away. He may have not wanted to be dragged into the drama but he still may want to feel like he matters and is important. Everyone does, especially with the person they love.
Rejection is rejection, and Aquas have a hard time with this, from my understandings. click to expand
I don’t know how to could have felt rejected. I told him I loved him but I knew he didn’t want complications and my life was very complicated right now. I didn’t want him pulled into the situation and I just needed some space to deal with it. I was genuinely scared and not sure what was going to happen but I would contact him the next day once things settled.
He just decided it was too much. He is worried my husband will figure out what’s been going on and expose us. He didn’t say it, but I’m certain that’s what it is.
He doesn’t want the drama of that. click to expand
Only time will tell, if he loves you, he won't let you go that easily. He hasn't so far. Just get your stuff done that needs to be done and go from there. Check in with him too and leave him messages, even if he isn't responding. click to expand
I don’t think my heart can do this anymore with him. He tends to break things off with me randomly with no warning. It isn’t healthy for me to be with someone who doesn’t communicate but just reacts.
We don’t get in fights or even argue. There is no warning, just a text...
He may love me, he may not. But he isn’t ready for this either. click to expand
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Yeah it all comes down to the timing. Maybe it will get better once everything is done. Until then you guys kind of keep going in circles with this.
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw click to expand
I'll bring a couple of other girls then! Guess I'm out of the picture now! Better do a store run or shoot the deer in the back yard!
click to expand
I prefer the right hand to this.
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw click to expand
I'll bring a couple of other girls then! Guess I'm out of the picture now! Better do a store run or shoot the deer in the back yard!
I prefer the right hand to this.
click to expand
Hahahaha! You said it, not me! 😆 I just ran with it lol
@ Mr_Pinchy
I see you did it again! #Derailer! 😆
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw click to expand
I'll bring a couple of other girls then! Guess I'm out of the picture now! Better do a store run or shoot the deer in the back yard!
I prefer the right hand to this.
Hahahaha! You said it, not me! I just ran with it lol
click to expand
Ummm.....i never said i want ppl who need a tent instead of yoga pants over for dinner. -.-
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Where do aquas go when they dissapear?The million dollar question. click to expand
I think they steal ppl's laundry on clotheslines in spare time. click to expand
😀
Or simply they just go fuck other people click to expandclick to expand
Wash your mouth little lady. Those are filthy lies! 😆
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
I wish i could be an aqua.click to expand
*checks pocket
How much do you eat again?
*worried faceclick to expand
So you weren't planning on cooking for me—? What the hell Pisces moon!!!! Where's the damn romance and candlelight—?? click to expand
Okay i did the accounting. It's doable, but it can't be too long because the Zippo lighter functioning as a candle will run out of gas. Sounds good? click to expand
Absolutely! I'm not scared of the dark! We can have one of those fun dinners where we try to guess what the food is in the dark. So make sure it's finger foods and don't put and condiments out or it could get a little messy! click to expand
Okay, welcome to my kitchenette then. Don't worry about the mess. My maid, Ms.Rain will wash all that away.
I'm a sag so I love the outdoors!!! Go ahead and light that baby up! I'm hungry!
Okay, but gimme 5 mins so i go to the gym first to get muscle definition. click to expand
I'll take the food out the fridge and grab the beers! click to expand
Might as well cook then if you've already started. click to expand
MEN!!!! Can't even freaking BBQ!!!! Damn you!! click to expand
BBQ = big black qutie? I can do that, np. click to expand
lol You're crazy. Guess I'm bringing a friend. She won't be black though!
There's not enough food in the whole forest to feed that. You wanna starve or.....—?? click to expand
I see you switched it to booty lol I was a little shocked at your admission to your fetishes! click to expand
I spilled the beans too early.....character flaw click to expand
I'll bring a couple of other girls then! Guess I'm out of the picture now! Better do a store run or shoot the deer in the back yard!
I prefer the right hand to this.
Hahahaha! You said it, not me! I just ran with it lol
Ummm.....i never said i want ppl who need a tent instead of yoga pants over for dinner. -.- click to expand
click to expand
So then it's back to just you and me then?? 😄 I knew you would come around! 😆
Take this beer while I cook!
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Where do aquas go when they dissapear?The million dollar question. click to expand
I think they steal ppl's laundry on clotheslines in spare time. click to expand
😀
Or simply they just go fuck other people click to expandWash your mouth little lady. Those are filthy lies! click to expand
Well not only Aquarius.
If a man is not busy with you he's busy somewhere else.
Sorry not sorry click to expandclick to expand
Stealing laundry? 😄
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@WittyGem88v2
Do you all love traveling?
Yeah I travelled quite a bit towards the end of my studies, plenty more places I'd like to visit but I'll add them to my bucket list for much much later.
Do you all unpack everything when you stay in a hotel?
Not really, I just pack whatever I need and pull it out when I need it.
Do you all like organizing things for people?
Depends on how messy it is I suppose but generally no. I'll only do it if I think you're messed up and can't organise for shite or you know if you're rooms a mess I'll move some stuff out of the way to make a pathway.
Do you all like having clean fun than crazy fun?
Crazy fun all the way yolo.
Are you bossy?
Nope. But I am an actual boss though.
Are you up for adventures like riding an elephant, snorkeling, boating etc?
Everything once or twice is what I say.
Do you hog the bed when you sleep?
Nope but in my experience people take them off me, inconsiderate bastards.
Do you snore?
Nope but I do grind my teeth in my sleep apparently it's hereditary. People also tell me I like to pull down my pants in my sleep though I can't tell you why I do it.