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Posted by SpaceBird
Are you usually upfront and ok with people asking you stuff?
No, I am not ok
Posted by lisabethur8I would never get a breast reduction. I don't like the anchor scar and they say that if your breast are naturally heavy they will start sagging, even when they are small. I'd rather have huge boobs that can't really sag then small ones that look like pancakes lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
lmao
if she's cancer moon/cancer rising...cancer mars? maybe she gets a breast reduction. xd
i know a few people that got breast reductions here in europe and a couple of them are family members..
yes they have cancer placements ;p
not so much in france though xd
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My boobs are easily 20lbs of my weight. I don't mind them, makes my back muscles stronger 😛
Posted by GC05My first cancer experience was CC on here lol sooo... hmm.
Aquas witch Pisces placements...
How do y’all think/feel about cancers?
But in person I've always found them to be extremely funny and radiate this natural charm and beauty it's a very different vibe to say pisceans and scorpios. Say... if scorpios were mysterious, pisces are alluring then cancers would be elegant.
I worked with one for a while she was my 2ic she could talk my ears off that one also the ones I have met are extremely caring and mindful of others. I've seen a bit of that stubbornness but most of the 'bad' stereotypes I've only seen here on DXP tbh.
Posted by dreamer18See it's strange because everything you've tried to explain does not resonate with me at all.Posted by aquasnozI will talk in general..but Aquas do really lots or compromises and sacrifices in their life, so i think that they want to reward themselves with little selfish behavior. click to expandPosted by dreamer18Posted by aquasnozPosted by dreamer18Posted by aquasnoz
why you guys gotta act all aloof and disappear all the time, god would it kill you to show some emotions.
To be honest,we absolutely have no idea how to express our emotions. I always feel so uncomfortable to show any kind of emotion.
Hey,we did not choose to be the way we are. Nobody wants to be aloof,but our nature is like that.
If you are friend with an Aqua its the best thing.But they are scared,because they think people wants to hurt them. They protect themselves from others.
Every Aqua loves their freedom,likes to isolate from the world for a little.Even if they dissapear that does not mean they hate you.If they love you,they will come back.Its important not to push them. click to expand
Wouldn't you consider that to be a bit selfish? Aquarius builds on trust do they not? How can you trust someone who innately has to disappear all the time. click to expand
They just need to be alone for some time. Haha maybe I do not find the disappearance weird,cause I am Aqua and I also disappear.
I do not think its selfish. Like I said,they will be back if they like you as a person. click to expand
So basically it it is selfishness since you don't want to compromise even for those you hold closest to you. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by GC05Big fan of cancer women.
Aquas witch Pisces placements...
How do y’all think/feel about cancers?
Lost my virginity to one.
Had fwbs with two of them.
Posted by PleistoanaxIt's okay, I remember yonks back some aqua said I don't even count as an aqua. I am rather fishy though I admit.Posted by aquasnozPosted by GC05
Aquas witch Pisces placements...
How do y’all think/feel about cancers?
My first cancer experience was CC on here lol sooo... hmm.
But in person I've always found them to be extremely funny and radiate this natural charm and beauty it's a very different vibe to say pisceans and scorpios. Say... if scorpios were mysterious, pisces are alluring then cancers would be elegant.
I worked with one for a while she was my 2ic she could talk my ears off that one also the ones I have met are extremely caring and mindful of others. I've seen a bit of that stubbornness but most of the 'bad' stereotypes I've only seen here on DXP tbh. click to expand
Sorry, I totally forgot that you have Pisces parts as well. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by SpaceBird
Are you usually upfront and ok with people asking you stuff?
I created this topic for your questions. I would love to answer them. But in real life i do not like people asking me many questions about my behavior ,cause its hard for me to explain it.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expandclick to expand
What kind of question is that?
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
lmao
if she's cancer moon/cancer rising...cancer mars? maybe she gets a breast reduction. xd
i know a few people that got breast reductions here in europe and a couple of them are family members..
yes they have cancer placements ;p
not so much in france though xd
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If you two are talking about me, i will tell you that, i am not Cancer moon or rising.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
Haven’t you got into enough trouble having to do with breast’s 😝😄😄😄😂 click to expand
I'm curious as I've never seen Aqua women with big breast.
Trouble is a friend 😜 click to expand
*cough* click to expand
Hey Jag I heard rumours that you're the biggest breast Aqua in here? Lol click to expand
Not sure on that, but they are more than a handful lol click to expand
How handful is it? click to expand
LOL I did say I don't mind being asked stuff , didn't I.
38 DDD I honestly want them smaller. Hurts my back. click to expand
NO shit. I don't believe it click to expandclick to expand
I'm not posting them again 😝
Posted by justagirlSee I have refrained from posting pics on the interwebs. Never know when something pops up in https://archive.org/web/ lolPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
Haven’t you got into enough trouble having to do with breast’s 😝😄😄😄😂 click to expand
I'm curious as I've never seen Aqua women with big breast.
Trouble is a friend 😜 click to expand
*cough* click to expand
Hey Jag I heard rumours that you're the biggest breast Aqua in here? Lol click to expand
Not sure on that, but they are more than a handful lol click to expand
How handful is it? click to expand
LOL I did say I don't mind being asked stuff , didn't I.
38 DDD I honestly want them smaller. Hurts my back. click to expand
NO shit. I don't believe it click to expand
I'm not posting them again 😝 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by dreamer18
If you wanna get to know better Aquarius ask me. I will try to give you more information why we act or say some stuff.
But remember not every Aqua is the same.
why do you guys like to be treated poorly?
also what with the houdini act? click to expandclick to expand
I personally do not like to be treated poorly. I do not think anyone will like to be treated poorly.
But there is some Aquas who act as victims just because they want the other person to feel guilty.
Houdini act??
Posted by GC05
Aquas witch Pisces placements...
How do y’all think/feel about cancers?
No Pisces placements but I love you guys 💓💕
Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03Ask him. click to expand
Why does my aqua ex stalk me all day long?click to expand
He’d ignore that question. No doubt.
Posted by justagirlIt's just a rumour then 😜Posted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by justagirlPosted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
Haven’t you got into enough trouble having to do with breast’s 😝😄😄😄😂 click to expand
I'm curious as I've never seen Aqua women with big breast.
Trouble is a friend 😜 click to expand
*cough* click to expand
Hey Jag I heard rumours that you're the biggest breast Aqua in here? Lol click to expand
Not sure on that, but they are more than a handful lol click to expand
How handful is it? click to expand
LOL I did say I don't mind being asked stuff , didn't I.
38 DDD I honestly want them smaller. Hurts my back. click to expand
NO shit. I don't believe it click to expand
I'm not posting them again 😝 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dreamer18Never mind lol you sound so young.Posted by AerialViewWhat kind of question is that? click to expandPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by dreamer18He’d ignore that question. No doubt. click to expandPosted by pinkbird03
Why does my aqua ex stalk me all day long?
Ask him. click to expandclick to expand
Yeah,obviously.
But i have no idea,what he thinks. Is his moon on Scorpio ?
Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
What kind of question is that? click to expand
Never mind lol you sound so young. click to expandclick to expand
I am 20, this is not young
Posted by WittyGem88v2My love signs are fixed. I have no problem with cutting folks off either. I either cling or let go. Lol. There’s not much grey area when it comes to my decisions 😄Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by saggurl88Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by Senorita_LLP2
@Pleistoanax
In my opinion, Libra placements are weak. But that's my take. I can agree Geminis can be unstable with emotions but not AF. Please don't use your Libra bits on me. LOOOL
Most Aquas I knew, did let me in. I have no issue with understanding Aquas but I do have issues with Leebs. I am also not gonna be defending my sign when you mentioned about Geminis back stabbing, being inconsiderate and cowardly. I have seen that with Gems too. Some can even be selfish and this, I agree.
You see, I don't deny butter we Gems had but I think you're being bias now because we all know you loves the Leebs. Not gonna argue with you anymore as I can see your Libra bits starting to show. Haha
Let's put a fullstop to our conversation, shall we?
Am I allowed to make one last reply? click to expand
I'm interested to know what the last reply was? I don't agree with some of what you say, as far as Libras being like aquas. I find them not alike AT ALL. Aquas are pretty confrontational and don't mind disagreements, Libras try and avoid them and will shut down. Aquas don't show much emotion and Libras are all about being loving and showing emotions, they will openly tell you they need hugs, Aquas though, they want you to do it, even when their body language says otherwise. Aquas just always seem to look uncomfortable until after the affection has been shown, then they ease up.
Both are chatty, I agree, But I don't see similarities at all. Why do you think they are similar?
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What reply do you mean?
Libras running away from confrotations is one of my biggest gripes with them but let's be fair Aquas and Geminis are runners when it comes to that as well.
None of the Libras I know are overly emotional.
They rationalize them just as Aquas but they are more open about sharing them. They are huggers, yes, but I also know a couple of Aquas who are.
It's more the Geminis I know that are the emotionals one of the air signs.
If an Aquas body language tells you he/she doesn't want to be hugged they probably don't want to be hugged. That's how body language works. Stop projecting.
I think they are similiar because all Air signs are the same just with different emphasizes. click to expand
Youre probably mistaking our impatience with being emotional. For us, we want answers now. Results now. And if we dont get it then we get upset then we move on. The root cause is our impatience. click to expand
Must be your moon. I’ve never found Gemini’s to move on quickly. They bug the hell out of you when they love you. And won’t let you go. Just kind of pretend nothing ended and keep going on day by day communicating as if nothing happened. Lol.
This is what kept me in my relationship so many years. I kept getting roped in and didn’t have any space to look for some one else. He consumed so much of my time. Lol click to expand
Hahaha. It cant be my moon because my moon is leo and its fixed. Fixed signs dont move on fast enough. I am cap and gemini dominant though. My venus in cancer is even in the 10th house and i barely feel the intensity of cancer venus. I think as far as moving on, i am pretty much a typical gemini. I can be friends with my exes but it does not mean i still got feelings. I havent even gotten back with any of my exes ever. Its closed book for me. And the leo moon just strengthens that fixed decision. Before moving on, i make sure i weighed all my options already and thats why there’s hardly any regret from cutting someone off or letting go of someone. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dreamer18houdini = disappearing / reappearing acts.Posted by AdreamuponwakingI personally do not like to be treated poorly. I do not think anyone will like to be treated poorly.Posted by dreamer18
If you wanna get to know better Aquarius ask me. I will try to give you more information why we act or say some stuff.
But remember not every Aqua is the same.
why do you guys like to be treated poorly?
also what with the houdini act? click to expand
But there is some Aquas who act as victims just because they want the other person to feel guilty.
Houdini act?? click to expandclick to expand
my interpretation is that aquas interpret people who treat them bad as busy/independent people who still pose a challenge
Posted by WittyGem88v2I haven’t gotten over the current Aqua cause I love him lol. I would need to fall in love with someone else in order to get over him. I haven’t met anyone in my city like that. But I also don’t date either, so it’s partly my fault. I hate losing, especially when I have a lot of chemistry with someone. It feels too much like destiny and I want to explore every aspect of it.Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by saggurl88Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by Senorita_LLP2
@Pleistoanax
In my opinion, Libra placements are weak. But that's my take. I can agree Geminis can be unstable with emotions but not AF. Please don't use your Libra bits on me. LOOOL
Most Aquas I knew, did let me in. I have no issue with understanding Aquas but I do have issues with Leebs. I am also not gonna be defending my sign when you mentioned about Geminis back stabbing, being inconsiderate and cowardly. I have seen that with Gems too. Some can even be selfish and this, I agree.
You see, I don't deny butter we Gems had but I think you're being bias now because we all know you loves the Leebs. Not gonna argue with you anymore as I can see your Libra bits starting to show. Haha
Let's put a fullstop to our conversation, shall we?
Am I allowed to make one last reply? click to expand
I'm interested to know what the last reply was? I don't agree with some of what you say, as far as Libras being like aquas. I find them not alike AT ALL. Aquas are pretty confrontational and don't mind disagreements, Libras try and avoid them and will shut down. Aquas don't show much emotion and Libras are all about being loving and showing emotions, they will openly tell you they need hugs, Aquas though, they want you to do it, even when their body language says otherwise. Aquas just always seem to look uncomfortable until after the affection has been shown, then they ease up.
Both are chatty, I agree, But I don't see similarities at all. Why do you think they are similar?
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What reply do you mean?
Libras running away from confrotations is one of my biggest gripes with them but let's be fair Aquas and Geminis are runners when it comes to that as well.
None of the Libras I know are overly emotional.
They rationalize them just as Aquas but they are more open about sharing them. They are huggers, yes, but I also know a couple of Aquas who are.
It's more the Geminis I know that are the emotionals one of the air signs.
If an Aquas body language tells you he/she doesn't want to be hugged they probably don't want to be hugged. That's how body language works. Stop projecting.
I think they are similiar because all Air signs are the same just with different emphasizes. click to expand
Youre probably mistaking our impatience with being emotional. For us, we want answers now. Results now. And if we dont get it then we get upset then we move on. The root cause is our impatience. click to expand
Must be your moon. I’ve never found Gemini’s to move on quickly. They bug the hell out of you when they love you. And won’t let you go. Just kind of pretend nothing ended and keep going on day by day communicating as if nothing happened. Lol.
This is what kept me in my relationship so many years. I kept getting roped in and didn’t have any space to look for some one else. He consumed so much of my time. Lol click to expand
Hahaha. It cant be my moon because my moon is leo and its fixed. Fixed signs dont move on fast enough. I am cap and gemini dominant though. My venus in cancer is even in the 10th house and i barely feel the intensity of cancer venus. I think as far as moving on, i am pretty much a typical gemini. I can be friends with my exes but it does not mean i still got feelings. I havent even gotten back with any of my exes ever. Its closed book for me. And the leo moon just strengthens that fixed decision. Before moving on, i make sure i weighed all my options already and thats why there’s hardly any regret from cutting someone off or letting go of someone. click to expand
My love signs are fixed. I have no problem with cutting folks off either. I either cling or let go. Lol. There’s not much grey area when it comes to my decisions 😄 click to expand
Why havent you gotten over the current aqua? Or have you already moved on from him? I do think sags and gems move on fast in general hahaha probably the only signs who wont harbor anger after a breakup. My sag friend got over her baby daddy in as short as a month. And shes happily single. Her baby daddy is a libra and he still hates her for leaving. But then it was his fault. And he even got a new girl now yet he still hates her for leaving 😂 he does weird butter like he wont sit in her couch and he wont enter her house and my sag friend said “maybe he thinks i might get pregnant when he touches my stuff like my house, my car, my couch” lol click to expandclick to expand
He has put up with a lot of my bullshit. I just wish he would put up with more of it 😛. I am getting exactly what I deserve though. We seem to like cutting each other off. He’s done it to me and I’ve done it to him. It’s the middle area that’s hard to deal with.
Posted by WittyGem88v2Yup! I have a pretty dominant Pluto chart. My lasting relationships have always been Pluto attached. He and I have heavy Pluto aspects both ways. We both have Libra Pluto’s so he touches my rising in my first house and I touch his mars.Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by saggurl88Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by Senorita_LLP2
@Pleistoanax
In my opinion, Libra placements are weak. But that's my take. I can agree Geminis can be unstable with emotions but not AF. Please don't use your Libra bits on me. LOOOL
Most Aquas I knew, did let me in. I have no issue with understanding Aquas but I do have issues with Leebs. I am also not gonna be defending my sign when you mentioned about Geminis back stabbing, being inconsiderate and cowardly. I have seen that with Gems too. Some can even be selfish and this, I agree.
You see, I don't deny butter we Gems had but I think you're being bias now because we all know you loves the Leebs. Not gonna argue with you anymore as I can see your Libra bits starting to show. Haha
Let's put a fullstop to our conversation, shall we?
Am I allowed to make one last reply? click to expand
I'm interested to know what the last reply was? I don't agree with some of what you say, as far as Libras being like aquas. I find them not alike AT ALL. Aquas are pretty confrontational and don't mind disagreements, Libras try and avoid them and will shut down. Aquas don't show much emotion and Libras are all about being loving and showing emotions, they will openly tell you they need hugs, Aquas though, they want you to do it, even when their body language says otherwise. Aquas just always seem to look uncomfortable until after the affection has been shown, then they ease up.
Both are chatty, I agree, But I don't see similarities at all. Why do you think they are similar?
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What reply do you mean?
Libras running away from confrotations is one of my biggest gripes with them but let's be fair Aquas and Geminis are runners when it comes to that as well.
None of the Libras I know are overly emotional.
They rationalize them just as Aquas but they are more open about sharing them. They are huggers, yes, but I also know a couple of Aquas who are.
It's more the Geminis I know that are the emotionals one of the air signs.
If an Aquas body language tells you he/she doesn't want to be hugged they probably don't want to be hugged. That's how body language works. Stop projecting.
I think they are similiar because all Air signs are the same just with different emphasizes. click to expand
Youre probably mistaking our impatience with being emotional. For us, we want answers now. Results now. And if we dont get it then we get upset then we move on. The root cause is our impatience. click to expand
Must be your moon. I’ve never found Gemini’s to move on quickly. They bug the hell out of you when they love you. And won’t let you go. Just kind of pretend nothing ended and keep going on day by day communicating as if nothing happened. Lol.
This is what kept me in my relationship so many years. I kept getting roped in and didn’t have any space to look for some one else. He consumed so much of my time. Lol click to expand
Hahaha. It cant be my moon because my moon is leo and its fixed. Fixed signs dont move on fast enough. I am cap and gemini dominant though. My venus in cancer is even in the 10th house and i barely feel the intensity of cancer venus. I think as far as moving on, i am pretty much a typical gemini. I can be friends with my exes but it does not mean i still got feelings. I havent even gotten back with any of my exes ever. Its closed book for me. And the leo moon just strengthens that fixed decision. Before moving on, i make sure i weighed all my options already and thats why there’s hardly any regret from cutting someone off or letting go of someone. click to expand
My love signs are fixed. I have no problem with cutting folks off either. I either cling or let go. Lol. There’s not much grey area when it comes to my decisions 😄 click to expand
Why havent you gotten over the current aqua? Or have you already moved on from him? I do think sags and gems move on fast in general hahaha probably the only signs who wont harbor anger after a breakup. My sag friend got over her baby daddy in as short as a month. And shes happily single. Her baby daddy is a libra and he still hates her for leaving. But then it was his fault. And he even got a new girl now yet he still hates her for leaving 😂 he does weird butter like he wont sit in her couch and he wont enter her house and my sag friend said “maybe he thinks i might get pregnant when he touches my stuff like my house, my car, my couch” lol click to expand
I haven’t gotten over the current Aqua cause I love him lol. I would need to fall in love with someone else in order to get over him. I haven’t met anyone in my city like that. But I also don’t date either, so it’s partly my fault. I hate losing, especially when I have a lot of chemistry with someone. It feels too much like destiny and I want to explore every aspect of it.
He has put up with a lot of my bullbutter. I just wish he would put up with more of it . I am getting exactly what I deserve though. We seem to like cutting each other off. He’s done it to me and I’ve done it to him. It’s the middle area that’s hard to deal with. click to expand
You made me think maybe... i havent fallen inlove yet. Granted that i love my bf and loved my exes but it was never strong enough for me to not get over the person quickly. It does take me time to warm up to a partner and it is true when they say gems have one foot in and one foot out in their rs. I am part of that stereotype although i cant speak for all. Do you have Venus-Pluto synastry with him? Im curious about your synastry because that could be the only reason why you would be coming back for each other every time. So far, i only have that with my current aqua so this might be it 😂 i never had that with any of my exes. click to expandclick to expand
One of my nodes is Libra too. We have that Pluto aspect that is possessive and jealous. It’s on my side but I can’t tell if he can feel it. I’ve only seen a hint of jealousy once and that was last year.
The Gemini I was with never threatened to leave. In fact he used to always be afraid that I would. I have no reason why he thought that.
Posted by PleistoanaxWhen you were “together” were I love you’s ever said? Had she ever told you that?Posted by WittyGem88v2Yeah, but you were already together at that point. We never were.Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2
@pleistoanax please tell me youre not her stalker!!! Like you just saw her in some random train ride and decided to get her number and just say you love her just like that. Surely you will be ghosted if that was the case. So really, what was it like? Have you been seeing her or was it fwb? Were you sleeping together? I doubt shes ghosting you for no reason at all
Uh, no.
We have known each other for almost seven (ten from her point of view) years at that point. click to expand
Haha! Ok. Were you seeing her? Sleeping with her? Or were you just friends? click to expand
Friends but that line was always heavily blurred by both sides.
What do you mean by seeing her? Dating? click to expand
Yes. Like courtship stage. Friends but heavily blurred by both sides... hmmm how long has that been going on before you admitted you love her? click to expand
Well, I said that I had fallen in love with her right from the start. That's how the thing started to begin with.
From there it took somewhere between 4-5 years to say I love you.
There some things that could be considered as dating if I wouldn't be adamt about not doing dating. click to expand
Did you say you love her because you actually do or was it because she was starting to leave and you knew you were about to lose her? 4-5 years before saying I love you is a freaking long time!!!! click to expand
Now, I'm a bit disappointed. Of course I did say it because I felt like it. At that time all was good between us and just finished my training at the gym, sat down and realized that it is true ending love. Then I went home texted her, got distracted by my Sag neighbour and locked myself out of my apartment as a result.
She always knes how I stood towards her from the beginning. I have always been entirely clear about that. click to expand
Hahahaha wth 😂😂😂😂😂 You told her you love her, did you ask her to be your girlfriend? Also, you said she knew how you felt for her from the beginning. How come in that 4-5 years, it didnt become an exclusive rs. Was kt her decision or was it yours? click to expand
She told me she didn't love me as an answer to my letter. After that I only asked her two more times when she had heavily overstopped that line again.
After that it became tougher, more complicated and emotional from her side. click to expand
Did you ask her why she cant love you back when she responded to your letter? Did she have existing fears that should have been addressed? Love is particularly a scary emotion for me. It used to drive me nuts. When i feel like im getting too close and i start having feelings for someone, i tend to just shut off because it scares me. To feel something, it takes me 3 mos so it became my rule before, to drop the guy within the three month period. Otherwise, my feelings will develop and it might be harder to get out. That was me for a very long time. My first real relationship was with a scorp who lasted 2 years then the aqua for 4. The best one was my aqua ex because i tried to get out many times. And he was persistent and i thought he was the one until he said he wont have kids again or get married again. And i left the year after that..... click to expand
I don't think it makes much sense to ask such a question. The possible reasons for not loving someone are basically infinite. click to expand
But asking is also a way to know why she is saying it. If you dont know the reason, you cannot be there for her. An example, my aqua now. I was about to leave him before because of an issue about his ex. Deep down, i was not jealous. I was scared because i have just been hurt. I am at the stage when i want to settledown and i cannot stand having to compete with someone else again for my man’s love. He asked me why i want to leave. Whats upsetting me in the situation and what i am scared of. And although i did not want to say it, he found a way for me to express myself with my hesitations and yet he was seeing right through me. And now we have been together almost 6 mos. Not too long but I am more ready to develop the rs and let myself fall if it happens. If you dont know why she doesnt love you, then nothing you do will make her love you. Its like prescribing a medicine to someone that you didnt even make a diagnosis of. click to expand
That's quite a difference.
Just for clarification: The letter was the beginning and the two more times I asked were within this first year.
The I love you happened 4-5 years later and I have never asked her this question after the first year. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by PleistoanaxHow did you know you were even together then? Usually I love yous are said when a person is having that feeling. Friends don’t normally say it to each other though.Posted by saggurl88Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by WittyGem88v2
@pleistoanax please tell me youre not her stalker!!! Like you just saw her in some random train ride and decided to get her number and just say you love her just like that. Surely you will be ghosted if that was the case. So really, what was it like? Have you been seeing her or was it fwb? Were you sleeping together? I doubt shes ghosting you for no reason at all
Uh, no.
We have known each other for almost seven (ten from her point of view) years at that point. click to expand
Haha! Ok. Were you seeing her? Sleeping with her? Or were you just friends? click to expand
Friends but that line was always heavily blurred by both sides.
What do you mean by seeing her? Dating? click to expand
Yes. Like courtship stage. Friends but heavily blurred by both sides... hmmm how long has that been going on before you admitted you love her? click to expand
Well, I said that I had fallen in love with her right from the start. That's how the thing started to begin with.
From there it took somewhere between 4-5 years to say I love you.
There some things that could be considered as dating if I wouldn't be adamt about not doing dating. click to expand
Did you say you love her because you actually do or was it because she was starting to leave and you knew you were about to lose her? 4-5 years before saying I love you is a freaking long time!!!! click to expand
Now, I'm a bit disappointed. Of course I did say it because I felt like it. At that time all was good between us and just finished my training at the gym, sat down and realized that it is true ending love. Then I went home texted her, got distracted by my Sag neighbour and locked myself out of my apartment as a result.
She always knes how I stood towards her from the beginning. I have always been entirely clear about that. click to expand
Hahahaha wth 😂😂😂😂😂 You told her you love her, did you ask her to be your girlfriend? Also, you said she knew how you felt for her from the beginning. How come in that 4-5 years, it didnt become an exclusive rs. Was kt her decision or was it yours? click to expand
She told me she didn't love me as an answer to my letter. After that I only asked her two more times when she had heavily overstopped that line again.
After that it became tougher, more complicated and emotional from her side. click to expand
Did you ask her why she cant love you back when she responded to your letter? Did she have existing fears that should have been addressed? Love is particularly a scary emotion for me. It used to drive me nuts. When i feel like im getting too close and i start having feelings for someone, i tend to just shut off because it scares me. To feel something, it takes me 3 mos so it became my rule before, to drop the guy within the three month period. Otherwise, my feelings will develop and it might be harder to get out. That was me for a very long time. My first real relationship was with a scorp who lasted 2 years then the aqua for 4. The best one was my aqua ex because i tried to get out many times. And he was persistent and i thought he was the one until he said he wont have kids again or get married again. And i left the year after that..... click to expand
I don't think it makes much sense to ask such a question. The possible reasons for not loving someone are basically infinite. click to expand
But asking is also a way to know why she is saying it. If you dont know the reason, you cannot be there for her. An example, my aqua now. I was about to leave him before because of an issue about his ex. Deep down, i was not jealous. I was scared because i have just been hurt. I am at the stage when i want to settledown and i cannot stand having to compete with someone else again for my man’s love. He asked me why i want to leave. Whats upsetting me in the situation and what i am scared of. And although i did not want to say it, he found a way for me to express myself with my hesitations and yet he was seeing right through me. And now we have been together almost 6 mos. Not too long but I am more ready to develop the rs and let myself fall if it happens. If you dont know why she doesnt love you, then nothing you do will make her love you. Its like prescribing a medicine to someone that you didnt even make a diagnosis of. click to expand
Yeah, but you were already together at that point. We never were.
That's quite a difference.
Just for clarification: The letter was the beginning and the two more times I asked were within this first year.
The I love you happened 4-5 years later and I have never asked her this question after the first year. click to expand
When you were “together” were I love you’s ever said? Had she ever told you that? click to expand
No. click to expandclick to expand
This would be confusing as heck to me and I would be hurt.
I’m wondering if you said it too late, as a last resort to keep her. Why couldn’t you admit it before?
Honestly, this is the first I have ever heard of a women not saying it when they mean it.
Women don’t usually hold out for years when they love someone. But I don’t know if there is some type of cultural difference.
Posted by WittyGem88v2Im in my cellphone so I couldn’t reply to a different post either. Smh. Ran out of space there as well lol.
@saggurl88 basically my aqua has strong pluto aspects and he is mostly pluto in our synastry (i prolly got 2 where i was pluto and he got 5) as the receiving end of the pluto energy from a partner, i feel that he can get extremely jealous if i give him a reason to be. And that he needs assurance. I would not have been ok with that if it was with a different partner and if it was a negative aspect. Fortunately it was all positive pluto aspects except for one and in the process he makes me feel good in assuring him and he makes me feel safe by his possessiveness so I am not running away. I can feel the pluto energy from miles away with him so I am guessing your aqua can too. And his response is probably to run when it gets too heavy and come back when it has mellowed down. It must be pretty hard for you considering you really do like him.
My issue is that stuff is never really mellow unless I’m in your presence. Cap venus tend to show a mature grown up side and that makes me have a serious undertone as well. He and I joked around a little but I used to overwhelm him a lot. I knew it. He hung in there for a while but anytime he did something I didn’t like I would disappear instead of talk it out. Then I would come back and try again and he would shoot me a message and say why don’t you go again. And I would get hurt and do it.
We’ve done this 3 or 4 times now. It honestly doesn’t bother me though cause I just miss him. If he reaches out, I will gladly try again. We need to find a balance that works. I’m always willing to try. I also learn a lot too from it. What he will and won’t accept from me and he’s doing the same.
I just miss him and he’s worth trying to re do it. We never argue. It’s usually over me not getting my way and I throw fits. Lol. I have to learn a lesson too. 😉
Posted by dreamer18Brat 😜Posted by AerialViewI am 20, this is not young click to expandPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialViewPosted by dreamer18Posted by AerialView
Why Aquarians are so smart?
Its in their nature to be intelligent click to expand
What's the breast size of Aquarius women? click to expand
What kind of question is that? click to expand
Never mind lol you sound so young. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dreamer18Aquarius Moon. I’m Scorpio moon.Posted by pinkbird03Yeah,obviously.Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03
Why does my aqua ex stalk me all day long?
Ask him. click to expand
He’d ignore that question. No doubt. click to expand
But i have no idea,what he thinks. Is his moon on Scorpio ? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03
Why does my aqua ex stalk me all day long?
Ask him. click to expand
He’d ignore that question. No doubt. click to expand
Yeah,obviously.
But i have no idea,what he thinks. Is his moon on Scorpio ? click to expand
Aquarius Moon. I’m Scorpio moon. click to expandclick to expand
wow I am surprised. Aqua moon to stalk you ..thats weird. Maybe he wants you back.
Aquas are pretty stubborn ,sometimes they really get what they desire. So, be careful with him.
Posted by dreamer18Really? Why I always read every where that they never come back even to their ex. I have a friend who's an aqua female and she was strongly on her opinion that aqua never ever go back to ex, like neveeeeeeerrrrrrr....Posted by swagnotforsale@swagnotforsale ...It depends,but i think they will come back if they miss you or wants to experience new things with the person. click to expandPosted by WittyGem88v2
General aqua question. What makes you keep coming back to someone? Just curious. Asking for a friend lol
I want to know about this as well click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dreamer18Thank you for the explanation. I got it.Posted by swagnotforsaleThe apologies of Aquas are awkward. They hate to be wrong,but sometimes they will admit they make a mistake. And will tell that they sorry about it. But it depends on who they apologise, if they like the person they will instantly show regret. They can show it in many ways,for example: they can make you laugh,cause Aquas knows how to make people happy. Or they can buy you a gift or they will suggest to watch a movie. Aquas are unique people,they will figure out how to apologise in many ways.Posted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsale
Do they ever feel regrets over something? in relationships, friendships, etc in any case. Because a lot of people say they’re a fix sign and nobody can change their decision. I wonder...
If they do feel regrets, they just let it go, let it be or do something to fix it?
Yes,we are fixed sign. Its hard for us to change our personalities,even impossible. We are really stubborn but of course we have regrets,everybody have.
I can tell you for sure that Aqua regret,but we do not like to show it very often,cause we do not want to admit that we are wrong. And we try to act tough. click to expand
Yea, that’s true (dont wanna admit it). I thought it only happened to aqua men, but aqua women are similar.
How do they show it usually if they feel regret? any example?
and why I feel Aqua who was born around early 20ish january e.g 22 or 23rd is more out going and fun? I have two friends, male and female. Theyre so click with me (cancer), always fun.
But i met another aqua born 29 jan, super sensitive, cant take criticism, easily hurt, super stubborn, have a tendency enjoy people praise and compliment them, something like that. Boring and monotone.
I know, maybe theres something to do with their moon, jupiter, venus, etc but just mostly who i met born early 20ish jan or half feb is just normal. But who was born around 29-31 january is kinda eeeerrrrr... click to expand
Not every Aquarius is the same. I also know a person who is Aqua,but she is complete opposite of Aquas. Yes,the moon in this case is important and also the other planets too. click to expandclick to expand
What if they brought up an old pic, kinda tryin to make you remember the old days? Does it mean they miss you? or try to make you come back to them? Or they want to come back? Or try to make you talk to them like the old days? Just in general because i know, everyone is different.
People say, aquas are so easy to move on but i dont think they are and theyre very sensitive, i think more sensitive than cancerians 😂 they like to ponder a lot.
If theyre sad because of you, do they become detach and shut down (shut down means like usually theyre so open about everything, showing/telling you what theyre doing, etc but because theyre sad or feelin sentimental, they just close off everything)?
Sorry for asking too many questions, bear with me.
Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by WittyGem88v2
General aqua question. What makes you keep coming back to someone? Just curious. Asking for a friend lol
I want to know about this as well click to expand
@swagnotforsale ...It depends,but i think they will come back if they miss you or wants to experience new things with the person. click to expand
Really? Why I always read every where that they never come back even to their ex. I have a friend who's an aqua female and she was strongly on her opinion that aqua never ever go back to ex, like neveeeeeeerrrrrrr.... click to expandclick to expand
Haha Aquas are really stubborn and fixed,so maybe this aqua female is serious about never going back to her ex.
But if one day I have a boyfriend and if we broke up, I will really like us to stay friends.
Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsale
Do they ever feel regrets over something? in relationships, friendships, etc in any case. Because a lot of people say they’re a fix sign and nobody can change their decision. I wonder...
If they do feel regrets, they just let it go, let it be or do something to fix it?
Yes,we are fixed sign. Its hard for us to change our personalities,even impossible. We are really stubborn but of course we have regrets,everybody have.
I can tell you for sure that Aqua regret,but we do not like to show it very often,cause we do not want to admit that we are wrong. And we try to act tough. click to expand
Yea, that’s true (dont wanna admit it). I thought it only happened to aqua men, but aqua women are similar.
How do they show it usually if they feel regret? any example?
and why I feel Aqua who was born around early 20ish january e.g 22 or 23rd is more out going and fun? I have two friends, male and female. Theyre so click with me (cancer), always fun.
But i met another aqua born 29 jan, super sensitive, cant take criticism, easily hurt, super stubborn, have a tendency enjoy people praise and compliment them, something like that. Boring and monotone.
I know, maybe theres something to do with their moon, jupiter, venus, etc but just mostly who i met born early 20ish jan or half feb is just normal. But who was born around 29-31 january is kinda eeeerrrrr... click to expand
The apologies of Aquas are awkward. They hate to be wrong,but sometimes they will admit they make a mistake. And will tell that they sorry about it. But it depends on who they apologise, if they like the person they will instantly show regret. They can show it in many ways,for example: they can make you laugh,cause Aquas knows how to make people happy. Or they can buy you a gift or they will suggest to watch a movie. Aquas are unique people,they will figure out how to apologise in many ways.
Not every Aquarius is the same. I also know a person who is Aqua,but she is complete opposite of Aquas. Yes,the moon in this case is important and also the other planets too. click to expand
Thank you for the explanation. I got it.
What if they brought up an old pic, kinda tryin to make you remember the old days? Does it mean they miss you? or try to make you come back to them? Or they want to come back? Or try to make you talk to them like the old days? Just in general because i know, everyone is different.
People say, aquas are so easy to move on but i dont think they are and theyre very sensitive, i think more sensitive than cancerians 😂 they like to ponder a lot.
If theyre sad because of you, do they become detach and shut down (shut down means like usually theyre so open about everything, showing/telling you what theyre doing, etc but because theyre sad or feelin sentimental, they just close off everything)?
Sorry for asking too many questions, bear with me. click to expandclick to expand
I think Aquas are kinda melancholic people (or at least I am. Maybe its cause of my moon in Scorpio).
I think they like seeing old photos. Even though they are people who are more interested in the future,they also enjoy seeing old memories.
Oh yeah, Aqua will wants you to remember the old happy days. I even see sometimes and old pictures of me and my friends and I become emotional.
Its my opinion,but If Aqua shows you an old picture, I think they really miss you and the old days with you.
We are masters at hiding our emotions haha ,but in reality we are reallyyy emotional and sensitive people.
Yes,if Aquas are sad they become detached.
I hope I was helpful to you.
Posted by dreamer18If he wanted me, he could have me. I think he just enjoys the games. Maybe it’s mental stimulation. He’s been the leader of it for months, but now I’ve been enjoying it cuz I’m controlling the current game. Even though he’s now trying to flip it. We are both crazy and addicted....Posted by pinkbird03wow I am surprised. Aqua moon to stalk you ..thats weird. Maybe he wants you back.Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03Posted by dreamer18Posted by pinkbird03
Why does my aqua ex stalk me all day long?
Ask him. click to expand
He’d ignore that question. No doubt. click to expand
Yeah,obviously.
But i have no idea,what he thinks. Is his moon on Scorpio ? click to expand
Aquarius Moon. I’m Scorpio moon. click to expand
Aquas are pretty stubborn ,sometimes they really get what they desire. So, be careful with him. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by WittyGem88v2I'm not a child, I'm grown lol I know what I want. This actually happened with my first Aqua encounter as well. It's like de ja vu. My personality just isn't easy with them. They want what I can't give, so we just adjust and compromise. It just take time. I have my whole life to drag and strangle these Aqua men 😛Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2
@saggurl88 basically my aqua has strong pluto aspects and he is mostly pluto in our synastry (i prolly got 2 where i was pluto and he got 5) as the receiving end of the pluto energy from a partner, i feel that he can get extremely jealous if i give him a reason to be. And that he needs assurance. I would not have been ok with that if it was with a different partner and if it was a negative aspect. Fortunately it was all positive pluto aspects except for one and in the process he makes me feel good in assuring him and he makes me feel safe by his possessiveness so I am not running away. I can feel the pluto energy from miles away with him so I am guessing your aqua can too. And his response is probably to run when it gets too heavy and come back when it has mellowed down. It must be pretty hard for you considering you really do like him.
Im in my cellphone so I couldn’t reply to a different post either. Smh. Ran out of space there as well lol.
My issue is that stuff is never really mellow unless I’m in your presence. Cap venus tend to show a mature grown up side and that makes me have a serious undertone as well. He and I joked around a little but I used to overwhelm him a lot. I knew it. He hung in there for a while but anytime he did something I didn’t like I would disappear instead of talk it out. Then I would come back and try again and he would shoot me a message and say why don’t you go again. And I would get hurt and do it.
We’ve done this 3 or 4 times now. It honestly doesn’t bother me though cause I just miss him. If he reaches out, I will gladly try again. We need to find a balance that works. I’m always willing to try. I also learn a lot too from it. What he will and won’t accept from me and he’s doing the same.
I just miss him and he’s worth trying to re do it. We never argue. It’s usually over me not getting my way and I throw fits. Lol. I have to learn a lesson too. click to expand
Yes. Maybe both of you need to learn a bit more from other people before the timing will be right click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dreamer18If one day, just a general example, if you blocked your ex bf in social media, do you still wanna be friends with him in real life? or its literally over? no being friends, no nothing.Posted by swagnotforsaleHaha Aquas are really stubborn and fixed,so maybe this aqua female is serious about never going back to her ex.Posted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by WittyGem88v2
General aqua question. What makes you keep coming back to someone? Just curious. Asking for a friend lol
I want to know about this as well click to expand
@swagnotforsale ...It depends,but i think they will come back if they miss you or wants to experience new things with the person. click to expand
Really? Why I always read every where that they never come back even to their ex. I have a friend who's an aqua female and she was strongly on her opinion that aqua never ever go back to ex, like neveeeeeeerrrrrrr.... click to expand
But if one day I have a boyfriend and if we broke up, I will really like us to stay friends. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by WittyGem88v2He has the placements that I like, if he was closer to me, I probably would but he would shoot down a practice run too and drag me into another purgatory. I can only handle 1 aqua at a time. 😛Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2
@saggurl88 basically my aqua has strong pluto aspects and he is mostly pluto in our synastry (i prolly got 2 where i was pluto and he got 5) as the receiving end of the pluto energy from a partner, i feel that he can get extremely jealous if i give him a reason to be. And that he needs assurance. I would not have been ok with that if it was with a different partner and if it was a negative aspect. Fortunately it was all positive pluto aspects except for one and in the process he makes me feel good in assuring him and he makes me feel safe by his possessiveness so I am not running away. I can feel the pluto energy from miles away with him so I am guessing your aqua can too. And his response is probably to run when it gets too heavy and come back when it has mellowed down. It must be pretty hard for you considering you really do like him.
Im in my cellphone so I couldn’t reply to a different post either. Smh. Ran out of space there as well lol.
My issue is that stuff is never really mellow unless I’m in your presence. Cap venus tend to show a mature grown up side and that makes me have a serious undertone as well. He and I joked around a little but I used to overwhelm him a lot. I knew it. He hung in there for a while but anytime he did something I didn’t like I would disappear instead of talk it out. Then I would come back and try again and he would shoot me a message and say why don’t you go again. And I would get hurt and do it.
We’ve done this 3 or 4 times now. It honestly doesn’t bother me though cause I just miss him. If he reaches out, I will gladly try again. We need to find a balance that works. I’m always willing to try. I also learn a lot too from it. What he will and won’t accept from me and he’s doing the same.
I just miss him and he’s worth trying to re do it. We never argue. It’s usually over me not getting my way and I throw fits. Lol. I have to learn a lesson too. click to expand
Yes. Maybe both of you need to learn a bit more from other people before the timing will be right click to expand
I'm not a child, I'm grown lol I know what I want. This actually happened with my first Aqua encounter as well. It's like de ja vu. My personality just isn't easy with them. They want what I can't give, so we just adjust and compromise. It just take time. I have my whole life to drag and strangle these Aqua men click to expand
Practice with @Pleistoanax hahaha he seem like a tough case to crack! click to expandclick to expand
I actually like it when they are hard to get, just makes it more of a prize when I do get them! 😛 and they don't go anywhere lol
Posted by dreamer18It helps a lot. Thank you so much.Posted by swagnotforsaleI think Aquas are kinda melancholic people (or at least I am. Maybe its cause of my moon in Scorpio).Posted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsale
Do they ever feel regrets over something? in relationships, friendships, etc in any case. Because a lot of people say they’re a fix sign and nobody can change their decision. I wonder...
If they do feel regrets, they just let it go, let it be or do something to fix it?
Yes,we are fixed sign. Its hard for us to change our personalities,even impossible. We are really stubborn but of course we have regrets,everybody have.
I can tell you for sure that Aqua regret,but we do not like to show it very often,cause we do not want to admit that we are wrong. And we try to act tough. click to expand
Yea, that’s true (dont wanna admit it). I thought it only happened to aqua men, but aqua women are similar.
How do they show it usually if they feel regret? any example?
and why I feel Aqua who was born around early 20ish january e.g 22 or 23rd is more out going and fun? I have two friends, male and female. Theyre so click with me (cancer), always fun.
But i met another aqua born 29 jan, super sensitive, cant take criticism, easily hurt, super stubborn, have a tendency enjoy people praise and compliment them, something like that. Boring and monotone.
I know, maybe theres something to do with their moon, jupiter, venus, etc but just mostly who i met born early 20ish jan or half feb is just normal. But who was born around 29-31 january is kinda eeeerrrrr... click to expand
The apologies of Aquas are awkward. They hate to be wrong,but sometimes they will admit they make a mistake. And will tell that they sorry about it. But it depends on who they apologise, if they like the person they will instantly show regret. They can show it in many ways,for example: they can make you laugh,cause Aquas knows how to make people happy. Or they can buy you a gift or they will suggest to watch a movie. Aquas are unique people,they will figure out how to apologise in many ways.
Not every Aquarius is the same. I also know a person who is Aqua,but she is complete opposite of Aquas. Yes,the moon in this case is important and also the other planets too. click to expand
Thank you for the explanation. I got it.
What if they brought up an old pic, kinda tryin to make you remember the old days? Does it mean they miss you? or try to make you come back to them? Or they want to come back? Or try to make you talk to them like the old days? Just in general because i know, everyone is different.
People say, aquas are so easy to move on but i dont think they are and theyre very sensitive, i think more sensitive than cancerians 😂 they like to ponder a lot.
If theyre sad because of you, do they become detach and shut down (shut down means like usually theyre so open about everything, showing/telling you what theyre doing, etc but because theyre sad or feelin sentimental, they just close off everything)?
Sorry for asking too many questions, bear with me. click to expand
I think they like seeing old photos. Even though they are people who are more interested in the future,they also enjoy seeing old memories.
Oh yeah, Aqua will wants you to remember the old happy days. I even see sometimes and old pictures of me and my friends and I become emotional.
Its my opinion,but If Aqua shows you an old picture, I think they really miss you and the old days with you.
We are masters at hiding our emotions haha ,but in reality we are reallyyy emotional and sensitive people.
Yes,if Aquas are sad they become detached.
I hope I was helpful to you. click to expandclick to expand
It’s true, masters at hiding emotions even this aqua dude that i know 🤣 his way showin the old pic tho, so strange 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Bizzare! I wasnt even in the pics but those pics were related to some old past of us.
I dont want to read between the lines or analyzing too much. after everyhing ended he looked very happy and moving on. I didnt contact him at all and keep him in the dark 🤣 a few days ago, out of the blue, he played a song on instagram story and kinda showing/expressing his emotion via the song lyric (i know his habit is like this when hes being sentimental), “i dont want you but i need you. I love you but i hate you at the very same time”. I just laughed so hard. The following day, he has been posting the old pics (those pics i know where n when they were taken cuz i was there) til today.
Maybe its nothing but after reading your explanation, it seems hes missing the old good days and have been pondering a lot.
Posted by Pleistoanax😛Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2
@saggurl88 basically my aqua has strong pluto aspects and he is mostly pluto in our synastry (i prolly got 2 where i was pluto and he got 5) as the receiving end of the pluto energy from a partner, i feel that he can get extremely jealous if i give him a reason to be. And that he needs assurance. I would not have been ok with that if it was with a different partner and if it was a negative aspect. Fortunately it was all positive pluto aspects except for one and in the process he makes me feel good in assuring him and he makes me feel safe by his possessiveness so I am not running away. I can feel the pluto energy from miles away with him so I am guessing your aqua can too. And his response is probably to run when it gets too heavy and come back when it has mellowed down. It must be pretty hard for you considering you really do like him.
Im in my cellphone so I couldn’t reply to a different post either. Smh. Ran out of space there as well lol.
My issue is that stuff is never really mellow unless I’m in your presence. Cap venus tend to show a mature grown up side and that makes me have a serious undertone as well. He and I joked around a little but I used to overwhelm him a lot. I knew it. He hung in there for a while but anytime he did something I didn’t like I would disappear instead of talk it out. Then I would come back and try again and he would shoot me a message and say why don’t you go again. And I would get hurt and do it.
We’ve done this 3 or 4 times now. It honestly doesn’t bother me though cause I just miss him. If he reaches out, I will gladly try again. We need to find a balance that works. I’m always willing to try. I also learn a lot too from it. What he will and won’t accept from me and he’s doing the same.
I just miss him and he’s worth trying to re do it. We never argue. It’s usually over me not getting my way and I throw fits. Lol. I have to learn a lesson too. click to expand
Yes. Maybe both of you need to learn a bit more from other people before the timing will be right click to expand
I'm not a child, I'm grown lol I know what I want. This actually happened with my first Aqua encounter as well. It's like de ja vu. My personality just isn't easy with them. They want what I can't give, so we just adjust and compromise. It just take time. I have my whole life to drag and strangle these Aqua men click to expand
Practice with @Pleistoanax hahaha he seem like a tough case to crack! click to expand
Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2Posted by saggurl88Posted by WittyGem88v2
@saggurl88 basically my aqua has strong pluto aspects and he is mostly pluto in our synastry (i prolly got 2 where i was pluto and he got 5) as the receiving end of the pluto energy from a partner, i feel that he can get extremely jealous if i give him a reason to be. And that he needs assurance. I would not have been ok with that if it was with a different partner and if it was a negative aspect. Fortunately it was all positive pluto aspects except for one and in the process he makes me feel good in assuring him and he makes me feel safe by his possessiveness so I am not running away. I can feel the pluto energy from miles away with him so I am guessing your aqua can too. And his response is probably to run when it gets too heavy and come back when it has mellowed down. It must be pretty hard for you considering you really do like him.
Im in my cellphone so I couldn’t reply to a different post either. Smh. Ran out of space there as well lol.
My issue is that stuff is never really mellow unless I’m in your presence. Cap venus tend to show a mature grown up side and that makes me have a serious undertone as well. He and I joked around a little but I used to overwhelm him a lot. I knew it. He hung in there for a while but anytime he did something I didn’t like I would disappear instead of talk it out. Then I would come back and try again and he would shoot me a message and say why don’t you go again. And I would get hurt and do it.
We’ve done this 3 or 4 times now. It honestly doesn’t bother me though cause I just miss him. If he reaches out, I will gladly try again. We need to find a balance that works. I’m always willing to try. I also learn a lot too from it. What he will and won’t accept from me and he’s doing the same.
I just miss him and he’s worth trying to re do it. We never argue. It’s usually over me not getting my way and I throw fits. Lol. I have to learn a lesson too. click to expand
Yes. Maybe both of you need to learn a bit more from other people before the timing will be right click to expand
I'm not a child, I'm grown lol I know what I want. This actually happened with my first Aqua encounter as well. It's like de ja vu. My personality just isn't easy with them. They want what I can't give, so we just adjust and compromise. It just take time. I have my whole life to drag and strangle these Aqua men click to expand
Practice with @Pleistoanax hahaha he seem like a tough case to crack! click to expand
He has the placements that I like, if he was closer to me, I probably would but he would shoot down a practice run too and drag me into another purgatory. I can only handle 1 aqua at a time.
I actually like it when they are hard to get, just makes it more of a prize when I do get them! and they don't go anywhere lol click to expand
Hahaha we are opposites! I like it when they chase me. I feel special and wanted. I have to admit i am not much of a go getter when it comes to guys. I like being chased 😂 then it depends how good they are, i let them catch me. 😂 try and deal with 3 aquas and i am sure you will say “let this be the last i ever deal with this sign” lol they are very nice people though. I tried dating an aries before and it was too much emotional roller coaster for me that i ended up going back to aqua men. I knew then i would never date another sign ever lol click to expandclick to expand
you are a DRAGON lady.... lol
you get admirers everywhere u go... ;p
they give away the secrets of dragon's downfall though..
if u have no admirers, your power dies down and u get depressed ;p
(but same with other power signs lol)
year of the ox is one of the most powerful. (hitler)
tiger ect.
Posted by SpaceBird
All Aquas I know are pretty male ...masculine energy and not a lot of feminine energy around them ...it's just something i have noticed i don't know if you agree.
They tend to be pretty protective, particularly if it's someone who can't for themselves or vulnerable. Would you say you are pretty protective of those around you?
Probably
Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by dreamer18Posted by swagnotforsalePosted by WittyGem88v2
General aqua question. What makes you keep coming back to someone? Just curious. Asking for a friend lol
I want to know about this as well click to expand
@swagnotforsale ...It depends,but i think they will come back if they miss you or wants to experience new things with the person. click to expand
Really? Why I always read every where that they never come back even to their ex. I have a friend who's an aqua female and she was strongly on her opinion that aqua never ever go back to ex, like neveeeeeeerrrrrrr.... click to expand
Haha Aquas are really stubborn and fixed,so maybe this aqua female is serious about never going back to her ex.
But if one day I have a boyfriend and if we broke up, I will really like us to stay friends. click to expand
If one day, just a general example, if you blocked your ex bf in social media, do you still wanna be friends with him in real life? or its literally over? no being friends, no nothing. click to expandclick to expand
I actually do not use social media. I have problems,so i prefer not to use it. And i also never had a boyfriend.
But if i used social media...if i blocked someone i would probably prefer not to talk to him/her in real life. I will just ignore to person.
If Aquaman likes a girl, not a lot i think...., but the girl accusing him lied, which he didn't and he said he's sad and disappointed about that.....will there be any chance she could do anything to get him back to like her, and start things over?
Is this Aquarius letting you down gently or ring sincere?
^^^
He has Virgo moon Cap Venus and Cap Mars by the way
He has Virgo moon Cap Venus and Cap Mars by the way
Posted by ladylibra21
Is this Aquarius letting you down gently or ring sincere?
He sounds honest. I bet he’d date you if you were cool with him talking to other girls.
my aquarius ex boyfriend dumped me out of nowhere with almost no explanation and now gets visibly upset and immediately leaves if he sees me in public.
i was his very first girlfriend.
very random, hard breakup. all of his friends and family adore me still, but we have not spoken in months since our breakup.
im a pisces sun with a leo moon, libra rising, an aquarius venus/neptune/jupiter and an aries mars/mercury/saturn.
he is an aquarius sun with a capricorn rising, gemini moon, libra mars rx, aquarius venus and mercury.
what do we make of this? im trying to move on but have not gotten any closure. is there a chance he will come back? i miss him. what should i do?
i was his very first girlfriend.
very random, hard breakup. all of his friends and family adore me still, but we have not spoken in months since our breakup.
im a pisces sun with a leo moon, libra rising, an aquarius venus/neptune/jupiter and an aries mars/mercury/saturn.
he is an aquarius sun with a capricorn rising, gemini moon, libra mars rx, aquarius venus and mercury.
what do we make of this? im trying to move on but have not gotten any closure. is there a chance he will come back? i miss him. what should i do?
Posted by 7thHousePosted by labufanda69
my aquarius ex boyfriend dumped me out of nowhere with almost no explanation and now gets visibly upset and immediately leaves if he sees me in public.
i was his very first girlfriend.
very random, hard breakup. all of his friends and family adore me still, but we have not spoken in months since our breakup.
im a pisces sun with a leo moon, libra rising, an aquarius venus/neptune/jupiter and an aries mars/mercury/saturn.
he is an aquarius sun with a capricorn rising, gemini moon, libra mars rx, aquarius venus and mercury.
what do we make of this? im trying to move on but have not gotten any closure. is there a chance he will come back? i miss him. what should i do?
Learn when to stop chasing. That's what you should do. It's been months and he didn't reach out. He's likely moved on. You should too. He broke up with you for a reason.click to expand
but what about his behavior when we run into each other? normally i would agree with you and wouldve moved on by now, but i cant seem to get past this one. every time we end up in the same place, he gets visibly upset and tears up and leaves immediately. ive never acted like that with an ex before and ive never had one act like this with me. ive managed to remain friends with every other ex boyfriend so i just dont understand.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by labufanda69
my aquarius ex boyfriend dumped me out of nowhere with almost no explanation and now gets visibly upset and immediately leaves if he sees me in public.
i was his very first girlfriend.
very random, hard breakup. all of his friends and family adore me still, but we have not spoken in months since our breakup.
im a pisces sun with a leo moon, libra rising, an aquarius venus/neptune/jupiter and an aries mars/mercury/saturn.
he is an aquarius sun with a capricorn rising, gemini moon, libra mars rx, aquarius venus and mercury.
what do we make of this? im trying to move on but have not gotten any closure. is there a chance he will come back? i miss him. what should i do?
What reason did he give you for the breakup?
He is behaving like he still has feelings for you.click to expand
We had been in a minor argument a few days prior but made up quickly and everything seemed fine. Earlier on the day of the breakup he mentioned being stressed and not sleeping well so I planned a surprise date night in. He never gave any indication anything was wrong between us, but showed up at my house that night and broke up with me. He was SOBBING and hands shaking while he broke up with me and kept telling me he didn’t want to do this anymore and after some prodding on my part he told me he wasn’t in love with me anymore, and stood up & left immediately after. We haven’t spoken since.
Why is Aquarius so obstinate in their opinions and/or versions of what you see happens to you. As if nothing can persuade you unless the other person takes out the "you're not being fair" card. Shouldn't fairness be fairly obvious to such objective viewpoints. Sorry, its something I'm noticing with my Aqua bff and I no longer bring up relevant issues because I know she'll go right to defense.
In another sense, do you think you're great at compromise (action) but sucky at negotiation(listening)?
In another sense, do you think you're great at compromise (action) but sucky at negotiation(listening)?
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