In the world of an Aqua, the Aqua, my Aqua

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Alchemical_Virgo
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7 Years

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...feels so cold. Like, we've been thru very rough times, and the phase we are in is" I can't live without you" - h says. I say the same but I add to myself... "or with you". I am a Virgo, asc.Libra, Leo moon, and I know him so well, I am still interested in what he likes, loves, adores, etc.etc. He just does not do that. He never was. I don't know is he seeing the real me, or is that real me even exists, r got trap inside this love? I am talking about 10 yrs, toghether, 8 in matrimony.

And nowdays, I remember of my best Cancer friend, like how he was reading me and knew me so well, but then after a complicated situation he just dissapeared on me.

I just miss this kind of things with the Aqua. I know, it's strsnge after so much time to actually look and admire to his color of eyes or the way he walks, same goes with him. On the side note, he never left me, he was always here about me, with me and for me. Same did I.

But why I feel the way I do? I just still can't figure him out...where are his emotions and how he shows them to someone like me who he loves?

Strange ppl. Brilliant tho, but very strange, very different from Virgos.

I just wish we were on the begining and we had better comunicating way, I don' t know how to free my mind and put it on ease, so I would be more interesting to him.

We know each other too well, he is faithful, I am too, but I do't feel happy.
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Alchemical_Virgo
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7 Years

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Posted by MyStarsShine

I felt exactly the same with the two aquas I was with and also a partner who had Aqua moon

*Isolating*

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what to do? I don't want to end it, but I am not happy either. I don't want to search for another soulmate or throw away ten years of my life, the best years, the years I was a girl. Strangely, now that I remember at first I liked this air of mystery about him and I liked him physically. But he just exists, and takes life as it is, me on the other hand am strong driven. From emotions, dreams, intuition etc etc. I don't know how to interpret him... is he taking me for granted or that is simply him, so I can take it or leave it,but he won't spend energy and time of changing himself/ maybe he doesn't need to. Maybe he needs some Sag or else...maybe he isn't happy with me too. Do not know...
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Leo138
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Posted by Alchemical_Virgo
Posted by MyStarsShine

I felt exactly the same with the two aquas I was with and also a partner who had Aqua moon

*Isolating*

❄️

what to do? I don't want to end it, but I am not happy either. I don't want to search for another soulmate or throw away ten years of my life, the best years, the years I was a girl. Strangely, now that I remember at first I liked this air of mystery about him and I liked him physically. But he just exists, and takes life as it is, me on the other hand am strong driven. From emotions, dreams, intuition etc etc. I don't know how to interpret him... is he taking me for granted or that is simply him, so I can take it or leave it,but he won't spend energy and time of changing himself/ maybe he doesn't need to. Maybe he needs some Sag or else...maybe he isn't happy with me too. Do not know...
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„Giving up” on such a long relationship is very hard. I was 21 when I got together with my Ex. We were together 8 years (until last December). He was my best friend. We went through so much together. But in the end, I wasn’t happy. And neither was he. We stayed together longer than we should’ve because we care for eachother and get along well as friends. But it’s kinda the same as with you. I’m very driven. I wanna do things, explore the world. He always just wanted to play video games and stuff like that. There were of course a few other things too.

Now we’re still good friends. It took a few months for us to get here, but I’m pretty with how things are.

Believe me, I’m not where I thought I’d be at 30. I thought I’d be married, with a kid on the way. Instead I’m single, figuring out my life new. But it’ll be ok.
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MyStarsShine
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Posted by Alchemical_Virgo
Posted by MyStarsShine

I felt exactly the same with the two aquas I was with and also a partner who had Aqua moon

*Isolating*

❄️

what to do? I don't want to end it, but I am not happy either. I don't want to search for another soulmate or throw away ten years of my life, the best years, the years I was a girl. Strangely, now that I remember at first I liked this air of mystery about him and I liked him physically. But he just exists, and takes life as it is, me on the other hand am strong driven. From emotions, dreams, intuition etc etc. I don't know how to interpret him... is he taking me for granted or that is simply him, so I can take it or leave it,but he won't spend energy and time of changing himself/ maybe he doesn't need to. Maybe he needs some Sag or else...maybe he isn't happy with me too. Do not know...
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Some people are just happy to stand still and not move forward and others aren't

Do you have children together?
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Alchemical_Virgo
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7 Years

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Alchemical_Virgo
Posted by MyStarsShine

I felt exactly the same with the two aquas I was with and also a partner who had Aqua moon

*Isolating*

❄️

what to do? I don't want to end it, but I am not happy either. I don't want to search for another soulmate or throw away ten years of my life, the best years, the years I was a girl. Strangely, now that I remember at first I liked this air of mystery about him and I liked him physically. But he just exists, and takes life as it is, me on the other hand am strong driven. From emotions, dreams, intuition etc etc. I don't know how to interpret him... is he taking me for granted or that is simply him, so I can take it or leave it,but he won't spend energy and time of changing himself/ maybe he doesn't need to. Maybe he needs some Sag or else...maybe he isn't happy with me too. Do not know...

Some people are just happy to stand still and not move forward and others aren't

Do you have children together?
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No, we don't. I have a diagnoses and if it was someone other, he would run from me like hell. the Aqua stayed and he is trying his best. We don't have kids because of the pills I am taking and it's very painful thing to talk about when with other nosy people...my mother died of cancer two months ago and I miss her so,so much. Aqua didn't had that loving childhood as did I,and maybe I look weird to him because I griev a lot,and yet he is trying his best. He is on my side, always. Maybe i am the problem for not being happy, maybe it's beause of my hard path, not him. And yet he never thought to give up on me although I've ut him thru very rough times. I do not know. I am a mess.
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Undine
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Aquas are not very expressive emotionally (and to be honest, most men are this way).

Aquas are adorable souls, though. They are very resilient and good at seeing the best in a situation. Don't expect them to go emotionally through hell with you. They will be keeping out of it at all costs, but held the gate open for you to return, and hand you some balm for your burns. To them, this is caring.

He demonstrates his deep feelings for you by "trying his best", as you say.

Don't you have a girlfriend closer to you? Women are much better at soothing! We can't expect our partner to fulfill all our needs, that's not possible. Luckily, there are other people who help us along the way.