Incompatible signs! HELP

I'm an Aquarius but I always seemed to be intrigued by signs that I'm supposed to be incompatible with. Such as Virgo, cancers, Taurus, and Leo's.Ima sucker for Cancer men. They are the only sign that makes me want to commit. I don't particularly care for libra, Gemini, Aries men. Am I the only one? Lol

Maybe because they are different from you. Plus they may complete you as a person. You can even learn from them. So It's not necessarily a bad thing 🙂.

No, you're not weird.
Personally, I can't stand virgos for me to even get to friendship with them.

Fire signs ignite my fire and I can contemplate a fling, but there's something there that doesn't get commitment out of me. It's the recklessness of a fire sign.

Water signs have this laid back, hubby material vibe that brings commitment out of me. Cancer men love me and not so much for th aqua in me. I have this thing where I only get involved with guys I see myself marrying and a cancer senses that non aqua trait in me.

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Maybe because they are different from you. Plus they may complete you as a person. You can even learn from them. So It's not necessarily a bad thing 🙂.

Maybe not I just hate the fact I fall so easily for Cancers, there's just something about them. I love my independence but for some reason I'll give it up for them. Lol

Posted by aquarius09
No, you're not weird.
Personally, I can't stand virgos for me to even get to friendship with them.

Fire signs ignite my fire and I can contemplate a fling, but there's something there that doesn't get commitment out of me. It's the recklessness of a fire sign.

Water signs have this laid back, hubby material vibe that brings commitment out of me. Cancer men love me and not so much for th aqua in me. I have this thing where I only get involved with guys I see myself marrying and a cancer senses that non aqua trait in me.

I have a love hate relationship with Virgo's. I love firework signs especially Sagittarius men they are like the yin to my yang lol.and water signs especially those cancer men make consider marriage. There's something about them that makes me just want to nurture and take care of them. No other signs can do that

Lol maybe it's worth it. Can't help who fall for. Plus you never know who your Soulmate might be. I fall for the opposite signs too sometimes. So don't worry about it

I can't stand virgo men lol. Strange enough, I only attract & am attracted to "compatible" signs & an odd square here and there. Libra, aries & sagittarius are the signs that pop up the most. I can sense scorpio in someone as well because I get intensely attracted to people with scorpio somewhere in the chart. Not in the sun though. It's usually other scorpio moons, scorpio venus & mars. The energy makes me to literally vibrate.

A Cap guy I know has scorpio venus & we have CRAZY chemistry. It scares me because he is younger & I don't date younger men. So I just fantasize about him a lot.

I don't really like Scorpio men I find I them to be liars and I don't trust them. They usually live double lives and I don't like that. Pisces men are sweet hearts to me. I adore them. As far as cancer men I instantly feel a connection before I know they are a cancer. Something about them draws me in. It's the eyes I guess I'm not sure.

I like Capricorn men because they are driven and focused that's sexy to me

Posted by Chantexxiii
I don't really like Scorpio men I find I them to be liars and I don't trust them. They usually live double lives and I don't like that. Pisces men are sweet hearts to me. I adore them. As far as cancer men I instantly feel a connection before I know they are a cancer. Something about them draws me in. It's the eyes I guess I'm not sure.

Do you have Capricorn or water in your chart? It could explain the attraction to cancers.

Yep she may have water in her chart. I have an air venus and sometimes im attracted to air signs. Plus you can get along with anyone if you are mature, have love and understanding. Its possible

I also read on Yahoo answers and online about Cancer Men being attracted to Aquarius women. My 1st gf was an Aquarius. So I think the attraction/love happens both ways. Don't ever let astrology determine you want to love

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
I also read on Yahoo answers and online about Cancer Men being attracted to Aquarius women. My 1st gf was an Aquarius. So I think the attraction/love happens both ways. Don't ever let astrology determine you want to love

+1 on both posts, but some people are too crazy & embody everything negative you've heard about their sign.

Chantex, what does your chart look like?

Maybe he don't complain just because of how good she makes him feel. He probably feels emotionally secure with her. So it's all good. Plus we Cancers always return any kindness received

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Posted by 2BlackIndian3
I also read on Yahoo answers and online about Cancer Men being attracted to Aquarius women. My 1st gf was an Aquarius. So I think the attraction/love happens both ways. Don't ever let astrology determine you want to love

+1 on both posts, but some people are too crazy & embody everything negative you've heard about their sign.

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Earth dominate men for me, especially Virgos, Caps too. They ground me is the easiest way to explain. I am drawn to Sag but just as friends same with Gem men. Water signs.. Scorps scare me lol and cancer- only dated one and he was not a good man.

Posted by justagirl
Earth dominate men for me, especially Virgos, Caps too. They ground me is the easiest way to explain. I am drawn to Sag but just as friends same with Gem men. Water signs.. Scorps scare me lol and cancer- only dated one and he was not a good man.

Fire dominant for me.

But they are usually water suns. And they have some earth to understand my earth.

plus all the talk here....

if it didn't work for you, then you were NEVER compatible. If it's working, it's working.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I know an Aqua who has been with her Cancer man for like 7 years. She's head over heels for him. She takes care of him. I believe he does as well for her. She's always going out and has her own life.

So it's an interesting dynamic. Cause most CAncers are hermits..so i wonder how he takes her always being out.

Also she doesn't want kids...

this is hilarious!!

How does that work? I'm the hermit and so is my husband. We have to get "pushed" to do any adventuring, and that's what mother in law is for.

I'm not sure what's in my chart to be honest. I will find out now

As I said. Entire I have a love hate relationship with Virgo's. The one thing I do. To like about them is they get very distant and they are sometimes hard to read. But then some times they can be sweet hearts so I guess it all depends

I Know what you mean!!! I'm a cancer and I'm attracted mostly to air signs and fire signs.It is weird ,but I do crave someone who is completely different from me. Opposites attract 🙂

@QueenVictoria22 I'm the same as you lol. I'm very attracted to Air Signs & Fire signs. It's a feeling i can't explain. Especially Aquarius women. I really love them. I guess because they & other Air/fire signs are different. I like it 🙂

I have 2 aqua friends, male and female and I like how we are both weird, interesting people and have the same interests, we always make fun of each other , we act like goof balls together and our trust is strong, we tell each other everything and anything , and I like how aquas think differently from me, they open my eyes and make look at the word in a different way, they encourage me to try new things and when it comes to art we come up with some crazy ideas lol

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@QueenVictoria22 I'm the same as you lol. I'm very attracted to Air Signs & Fire signs. It's a feeling i can't explain. Especially Aquarius women. I really love them. I guess because they & other Air/fire signs are different. I like it 🙂

Yes Aquarius do rock lol

Posted by aqulibini
with virgos..i have always had a love hate relationship...it always begins awesomely, progresses fast n then turns into hate. i just don't get how but somehow they start pissing me off...n i just react to it.

i've never had any romantic experience with cancer but i have friends and they are sweet n caring.

my biological aquarius sister who is just one year senior to me is married to a cancer. another family friend aquarius female is married to cancer.

both couples had tough time in the beginning of their marriages but i don't thinkits got to do with astrology because i've seen n heard from many couples that the time after honeymoon happens to be tough. anyways but now the two couples are quite settled in their married life n things going fine.

but there was a point i hated my real sis's hubby n he was nasty with me over some family issues..but later we have made amends n he is reciprocating my attempts to mend the relations well to the point that he is actually treating me like his own sister n helping me with things n being protective n all. i like that and so i can see how the aqua would stick to them. its got to do with security n trust they provide i think.

I feel the same way about Virgo's they just do dumb ish. It starts off perfectly and then they ruin it with their actions words and lies

Posted by QueenVictoria22
I have 2 aqua friends, male and female and I like how we are both weird, interesting people and have the same interests, we always make fun of each other , we act like goof balls together and our trust is strong, we tell each other everything and anything , and I like how aquas think differently from me, they open my eyes and make look at the word in a different way, they encourage me to try new things and when it comes to art we come up with some crazy ideas lol

One of my favorite cousins is a cancer! I swear I can be so free and open with her. Our creativity flows when we are with each other,

One thing I do know about cancers are they are sensitive. I told my cancer friend I might need some time to my self if things get too intense and he hasbeen extremely distant since then. I thought I was doing the right thing by being honest but he's been acting differently I don't get it.

all i know is that, being loved by my husband,is unlike any man i've ever known.
my 3 ex's don't even come close. and i know they loved me very much in their way.

@queenvictoria22 I agree, my best friend of 8yrs, he is an aquarius. He stayed in my life the longest out of all my friends. IT be a few days that we don't talk because he is busy, but I know he is very loyal and always come through just in time 🙂. You gotta be patient with aquarius.

@Chantexxiii well maybe your Cancer friend is scared you wont come back or that you don't care for him anymore. You might wanna reaasure him that you not going anywhere,& that it's not his fault. He probably thinks it's his fault you need space. Give him enough love, so if you need time away, he wont panic. I was the same way at first with my aquarius friend. But he don't need much space. Make sure your Cancer is secure and can trust you. Like I said, he's probably scared.

@lisabethur8 is your husband a Cancer? it seems like it.

I know Aquarius and Cancer aren't listed as "compatible" signs, but their definitely is magic there when it comes to friendship. One of my best friends is an Aqua sun, and we've been friends for 15+ years. She is also the same one who was with a Cancer man and that was one of her best most compatible relationships, he took care of her like no other. I don't think it's as compatible with Aqua men/ Cancer women unless theirs a good amount of water in the chart because the typical complaints that other users have stated here and I can say I've experienced as well is enough to put the relationship off until the Cancer will eventually "disappear" too for good. Someone else stated on here about their Aqua man being with all Cancers over the past 10 yrs and married to one as well before they met him so I do think their is a chemistry and great potential if the Aqua can be matured and more communicative.