LibraLady612
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Is Aquarius serious about the rebound or just trying to hurt me?
I meant to say I left him to show him I’d do it alone if he didn’t get his life together.
also Since this all occurred a week ago he’s asked me to send him nudes and come have sex with him. When I declined he said he wasn’t serious and just wanted to prove he could “have me whenever”
I will never understand how people in such positions could continue to get knocked up by such people
Everyone is different. He might have gotten worse after this pregnancy you can’t judge.
When my ex Taurus was out cheating, taking drugs, abusing me and not coming home at night I was pregnant with his second child it took me 2 years to finally leave him after my son was born but it was very difficult. When I was pregnant with his first child he wasn’t like that he changed after the second. Nobody can judge but at least be supportive and let’s hope that y’all ain’t ever in her position.
OP, as far as this man goes... sorry to that man. Focus on your kids and your mental health don’t watch what him and his new flavour of the month is doing because I’m telling you it won’t last. Everything he’s doing to you he will do to her. This time next year or the year after or the year after that it will be somebody new and if she gets pregnant for him and engaged well tell her good luck! Let her take your problem away. Females don’t often understand that when a girl takes someone’s man away they are taking all your problems you should be thankful.
Don’t show him you care because he’s doing this for attention, and also he’s on drugs you wouldn’t want him around your children anyway. Just leave that man alone. I know it’s easier said than done but take it from someone who done it as well. I’m 3 years free from my abusive cheating ex. I got pregnant with our third and I aborted it and left him and his little misses to it. Now look at him 10 years in jail for selling drugs and his btch is no where to be seen, infact none of the girls he used to cheat on me with are anywhere to be seen lol🤔🤷🏽♀️ And of course he wants me back too🙄
It was hard but I left I cried to my friends and my family, changed my number on him, picked up and moved 3 hours away to another city and didn’t reach out to him until a year later so he could see his kids whilst I was strong enough. I mean you don’t need to do all of that but I’m just letting you know that if I could leave so can you.
When my ex Taurus was out cheating, taking drugs, abusing me and not coming home at night I was pregnant with his second child it took me 2 years to finally leave him after my son was born but it was very difficult. When I was pregnant with his first child he wasn’t like that he changed after the second. Nobody can judge but at least be supportive and let’s hope that y’all ain’t ever in her position.
OP, as far as this man goes... sorry to that man. Focus on your kids and your mental health don’t watch what him and his new flavour of the month is doing because I’m telling you it won’t last. Everything he’s doing to you he will do to her. This time next year or the year after or the year after that it will be somebody new and if she gets pregnant for him and engaged well tell her good luck! Let her take your problem away. Females don’t often understand that when a girl takes someone’s man away they are taking all your problems you should be thankful.
Don’t show him you care because he’s doing this for attention, and also he’s on drugs you wouldn’t want him around your children anyway. Just leave that man alone. I know it’s easier said than done but take it from someone who done it as well. I’m 3 years free from my abusive cheating ex. I got pregnant with our third and I aborted it and left him and his little misses to it. Now look at him 10 years in jail for selling drugs and his btch is no where to be seen, infact none of the girls he used to cheat on me with are anywhere to be seen lol🤔🤷🏽♀️ And of course he wants me back too🙄
It was hard but I left I cried to my friends and my family, changed my number on him, picked up and moved 3 hours away to another city and didn’t reach out to him until a year later so he could see his kids whilst I was strong enough. I mean you don’t need to do all of that but I’m just letting you know that if I could leave so can you.
Posted by 7thHouse
Don't even wonder about his intentions. He's downright disrespectful. I'm pregnant too and your situation is making my blood boil. If my husband ever did that to me, he'll be out the door in no time. He won't even see his kids ever again.
My question for you is, why are you letting him mess with your life like this? Whether it's a rebound thing or he is Inlove with her, it doesn't matter. Neither excuse makes you feel good about yourself right now. Please do yourself a favor and focus on you and your baby. Xxx
Every father has a right to see their children...
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHouse
Don't even wonder about his intentions. He's downright disrespectful. I'm pregnant too and your situation is making my blood boil. If my husband ever did that to me, he'll be out the door in no time. He won't even see his kids ever again.
My question for you is, why are you letting him mess with your life like this? Whether it's a rebound thing or he is Inlove with her, it doesn't matter. Neither excuse makes you feel good about yourself right now. Please do yourself a favor and focus on you and your baby. Xxx
Every father has a right to see their children...
To each their own. As I mentioned, if it was me, that's what I would do. But that's me. 🙂click to expand
What transpires between two parents has nothing to do with their children. The children have a right to be in relationships with both their mum and dad...taking away that right can have negative repercussions
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHouse
Don't even wonder about his intentions. He's downright disrespectful. I'm pregnant too and your situation is making my blood boil. If my husband ever did that to me, he'll be out the door in no time. He won't even see his kids ever again.
My question for you is, why are you letting him mess with your life like this? Whether it's a rebound thing or he is Inlove with her, it doesn't matter. Neither excuse makes you feel good about yourself right now. Please do yourself a favor and focus on you and your baby. Xxx
Every father has a right to see their children...
To each their own. As I mentioned, if it was me, that's what I would do. But that's me. 🙂
What transpires between two parents has nothing to do with their children. The children have a right to be in relationships with both their mum and dad...taking away that right can have negative repercussions
I'll think about your suggestion when it comes down to it. But for now, my true standpoint is, the dad needs to respect me so I will respect him. Its just my personality and the values I hold. I'm not advising anyone to do it.
If let's say the dad is a womaniser and introducing a different woman every month, an alcoholic, doing drug abuse, would you still say the same? There are repercussions as well to the father's behavior. The right vs responsibility of being around a child are two different things. It's not always going to be because someone is the dad, the relationship has to be there. There has to be some responsibility attached to it. But then again, that's my opinion and I'm not divorced. I've just seen it happen many times and have a cousin who never saw his dad until recently when he turned 30. Basically dad came around asking for money. I wouldn't want that kind of father around my child.click to expand
Well of course i wouldn’t if the child is in danger, that is a given. In a lot of cases though the woman isnt mature enough to separate her ego and feelings from the situation and the kids end up having no choice.
If you haven’t experienced it then you don’t know, i have and i do. I’m so happy i encouraged our lad to have a relationship with his dad and so is he...we are all great friends now despite our past differences (which had nothing to do with our Son).
He’s not in love he just needed a place to stay during quarantine .
He will be out like a fetus once quarantine is done
He will be out like a fetus once quarantine is done
Posted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHousePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by 7thHouse
Don't even wonder about his intentions. He's downright disrespectful. I'm pregnant too and your situation is making my blood boil. If my husband ever did that to me, he'll be out the door in no time. He won't even see his kids ever again.
My question for you is, why are you letting him mess with your life like this? Whether it's a rebound thing or he is Inlove with her, it doesn't matter. Neither excuse makes you feel good about yourself right now. Please do yourself a favor and focus on you and your baby. Xxx
Every father has a right to see their children...
To each their own. As I mentioned, if it was me, that's what I would do. But that's me. 🙂
What transpires between two parents has nothing to do with their children. The children have a right to be in relationships with both their mum and dad...taking away that right can have negative repercussions
I'll think about your suggestion when it comes down to it. But for now, my true standpoint is, the dad needs to respect me so I will respect him. Its just my personality and the values I hold. I'm not advising anyone to do it.
If let's say the dad is a womaniser and introducing a different woman every month, an alcoholic, doing drug abuse, would you still say the same? There are repercussions as well to the father's behavior. The right vs responsibility of being around a child are two different things. It's not always going to be because someone is the dad, the relationship has to be there. There has to be some responsibility attached to it. But then again, that's my opinion and I'm not divorced. I've just seen it happen many times and have a cousin who never saw his dad until recently when he turned 30. Basically dad came around asking for money. I wouldn't want that kind of father around my child.
Well of course i wouldn’t if the child is in danger, that is a given. In a lot of cases though the woman isnt mature enough to separate her ego and feelings from the situation and the kids end up having no choice.
If you haven’t experienced it then you don’t know, i have and i do. I’m so happy i encouraged our lad to have a relationship with his dad and so is he...we are all great friends now despite our past differences (which had nothing to do with our Son).
True that I haven't experienced it but it's plain common sense. There's no general rule out there about relationship with parents because it's all based on different circumstances. Lucky for you that your ex is a good dad just not the right husband for you. But its not possible to insist on everyone taking the same approach.
Just based on OP's post, her baby daddy is dangling another woman on social media, got money from another woman to buy drugs and asked for her naked photos and wanted to have sex with her only to say that he just wants to prove he can have her whenever. Does that sound like a father material? I just based my response on the info she's put out there. That to me clearly doesn't sound like a responsible father. It doesn't take experience to see the red flags. Specifically mentioning the drugs part. As you have acknowledged, it's not safe.click to expand
With a little creativity, there are supervised visits which can be arranged. If then it proves unsafe, then the mum can explain to the child why he/she can't see dad. At least then when the child is older they will know the mother at least tried to forge a relationship with child and dad...
Posted by _mudra
OP... who cares? That needs to be your mind set right now with this guy. Who. Fkn. Cares. Who cares what you do. Who cares who you are. Who cares what our past was. You mean nothing to him and he shows that in every single way possible. Don't trail after his bread crumbs ffs. Take screen shots of all that shit. Will come in handy later on in court during parenting plan and child support court. Gather your info now so you can be prepared. Don't be suckered into his bs. And don't let him on the birth certificate of this new baby. He probably wouldn't show up anyway as he's getting some other bitch pregnant.
Yes get this guy backed in a corner!!! Gather evidence! If you don’t, he will. This is not the right man for a family. He is being a ook (out of control) child when he has 4 kids omg. He’s begging to come back because he needs your stability because he’s ook. It’s that simple. He NEEDS to be locked out for good. His life is going to sink or float at this point and if you always throw him a lifesaver he will stay half-drowned in his own bloody water. Only a full lockout can make him see what he has become. Yes, he might sink... but that’s none of your business if he’s this bad to you. And he will never get better with you around. Also who needs this butter? Is he King Henry VIII? Must you “try” to make it work with a drug addicted cheating mofo? You should leave him before he takes off your head. But this is only my opinion, based on your limited information. In the end you must connect to your yoni, your sacred feminine energy and ask your core what you should do. You’ll hear the answer if you sincerely ask.
I appreciate the hard to read comments lol bc its what i need to hear and is helpful. im hurt so im kind of not thinking right as far as "wanting him back: but like i said the honest comments are helping. his addiction is newish. our other kids were before his addiction and hes like a different person, i think thats why i hold on. either way our children are fine, id never keep them from their dad but he hasnt tried to see them since he has left any ways, and thats bc he doesnt want them to see him this way.
i dont want him back im trying to know basically is he just a POS bogus disloyal aquarius all bc i talked shit about him or should i let him go. i want to handle it graciously but its like its such a messy embarassing situation i feel like i couldnt either way
i dont want him back im trying to know basically is he just a POS bogus disloyal aquarius all bc i talked shit about him or should i let him go. i want to handle it graciously but its like its such a messy embarassing situation i feel like i couldnt either way
Move the hell on. He is unhealthy on many levels and toxic to you. How many times as he disrespected you, lied to you, and not bern there when you needed him.
His life style is more important then you and his kids. Run and thank God you were able to catch him before you invested more time and energy into a person like that.
Break the cycle by saying no and most importantly, start questioning yourself as to why you allowed and tolerated this guy this much, in the first place. Otherwise you risk deal with this again with someone else.
His life style is more important then you and his kids. Run and thank God you were able to catch him before you invested more time and energy into a person like that.
Break the cycle by saying no and most importantly, start questioning yourself as to why you allowed and tolerated this guy this much, in the first place. Otherwise you risk deal with this again with someone else.
Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
OP, I know this is easier said than done, especially when you're pregnant, but you need to forget about what he is doing and focus on your children and the baby that you are carrying. You can't fix him. He has to want to help himself.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
Sarah’s fake accent does my head inclick to expand
Her blaccent? It only comes out when she's trying to be tough.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
Sarah’s fake accent does my head inclick to expand
I really can't stand trashy Maria. Her rap sheet was posted on Reddit. She has a bunch or prostitution arrests mixed in with some theft and assault.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
Sarah’s fake accent does my head in
Her blaccent? It only comes out when she's trying to be tough.
Ya when she’s trying to dominate forehead. Then she sleeps with him. So patheticclick to expand
And did you see her take a pregnancy test in the last episode? No protection with that? Blech! Maria alone is a walking herpie
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
Sarah’s fake accent does my head in
Her blaccent? It only comes out when she's trying to be tough.
Ya when she’s trying to dominate forehead. Then she sleeps with him. So pathetic
And did you see her take a pregnancy test in the last episode? No protection with that? Blech! Maria alone is a walking herpie
Ya I think that was for drsma.click to expand
Did you see the PSA's for quarantine? I saw one with Shane and one with Tony, giving tips on how to stay sane. They list them as "containment experts " LMAOOOOO
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83Posted by Deedee75Posted by Arielle83
Is this Sarah, from “love after lockup”?
I have yet to understand Michael's appeal. He's an ugly, broke felon and women fight over him.
Maria is his caliber though. She's an ugly criminal too.
Sarah’s fake accent does my head in
Her blaccent? It only comes out when she's trying to be tough.
Ya when she’s trying to dominate forehead. Then she sleeps with him. So pathetic
And did you see her take a pregnancy test in the last episode? No protection with that? Blech! Maria alone is a walking herpie
Ya I think that was for drsma.
Did you see the PSA's for quarantine? I saw one with Shane and one with Tony, giving tips on how to stay sane. They list them as "containment experts " LMAOOOOO
Ya Tony is just so fat.
I want to see one with Chon, but he has to be toplessclick to expand
All that dick sucking and fillers gave Lacey a speech impediment.
Chon is hot for a felon though
"Is Aquarius serious about the rebound or just trying to hurt me?"
the answer is both xs 2
the answer is both xs 2
Posted by SassyKiwi
I will never understand how people in such positions could continue to get knocked up by such people
its crazy but when ur in love im sure you catch yourself doing things you say you would never do even if it means taking back the ones that hurt u the most because ur hoping for the best..
he will never change he is an ass for doing that, she needs to pack his things up and out the door he goes he can kiss butt
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