is this an issue with yew??

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by The_eleventh_sign_11 on Tuesday, November 19, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

ok im not trying to be a bitch or maybe i am a bitch cos im drunk and drunk a couple of bottles of champagne but i think im gonna boycott all the sagi friends i have cos I dont have any because they are all cunts and they their birthdays are so close to christmas and thats too much to deal with.and can I say Ive never had a friend or a relative that has ever bought me a birthday present in the last 7 years apart from my mum who gave me 50 bucks on my 21st and told me to buy me a wallet when she visted n me n melbouse with me little brother and bought him a whole wardrobe..yeh im a lil bitter.....are u guys bitter cos ur freinds dont buy u presents for your birthday—....i dont expect any for my birthday was wondering if u guys do— my ex bought me lottery tickets and admit my fridends bought me a ticket book on the same birthday!.....is aquanoz still here?? i need counselling!

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Presents are for kids. Adults can buy what they want, don't expect others to buy it for them.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself! Think of a poor child, who sees something he really wants. Instead of hoping that his mum will buy it for him (she won't), he says proudly to himself :"This will be the first thing to buy with my first salary!"

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Noooo!! LOL! its nor faiiiiirrrrrrrrrr meehhhh (hugzz) xoxoxo but its so saaaaad I want an awesome present thats all i want!!! my ex was a pisces and I bought him an awesome bong!!!! and he bought me 3 scratches!!

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

My birthday is New Year's. Everyone is either too hung over to remember OR they get caught up in the New Year's Eve celebration to remember. I have two best friends that usually at least do cake around 1 a.m. but everyone's too drunk to eat it.

I have also received a lot of combo gifts for Christmas/Birthday combined. Maybe it would be a nicer present, but it would have been nice to get birthday separate from Christmas. Everyone else gets presents twice a year, whereas we only get it once a year.

Doesn't bother me as much now as it did when I was a kid.

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@RaeofSun
13 Years

Hi there! I can relate a bit. It feels great when someone gives or even does something thoughtful for you on your birthday. It doesn't even have to be something big or that costs money.

On the bright side of things, rather then thinking of what people haven't given or done for you on your birthday, think of what they have done for you on a consistent basis throughout the year.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Noooo!! LOL! its nor faiiiiirrrrrrrrrr meehhhh (hugzz) xoxoxo but its so saaaaad I want an awesome present thats all i want!!! my ex was a pisces and I bought him an awesome bong!!!! and he bought me 3 scratches!!

I don't know what scratches are, but I could send you some pork scratchings 😉! x

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

I have hardly anyone remember my birthday.. yet I am freakishly always aware of others, it becomes imbedded in my mind forever lol

When I was younger I would always get the unwanted x-mas gifts.. as I have grown older, I don't even celebrate it!

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I get it. Birthdays are important to you

Unfortunately for you, birthdays aren't always important to everybody else.

So you just kinda have to deal with it. If you're in a relationship & don't receive a birthday gift, that's different. But if you're an adult & your parents don't give you any gifts, just let it go

Or hell go buy your own damn gifts! lol Go treat yourself!!

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh give me some of that champers and I'll probably have a bitchfest with you 😛 *hug*

How bout next year we go do something super awesome! haha! I feel ya, my birthday usually ends up around when everyone's on holidays so even if they didn't forget no one's ever around so I'm sorta use to it.