Why is love so hard?

Why is love so hard to receive and maintain? Ugh you guys can probably tell my New Year is starting off funky already...

I'm Sorry-I'm not trying to bring anybody down with me. I just thought I would ask this question.

Cos we desire and expect a little too much out of it...Hmm..Dunno..

Having probs with your crab? bless em

Even the right ones cause some kind of grief...wouldn't be normal if it was peachy 24/7!..I would definitely question that

I'm having problems period MM 😢 but yeah he is a big reason I am in the funk I am in today. It's too early for this nonsense. The year is just starting out.

I'm not settling. You can't help who you love though. And I am no dummy trust me. Love or Not.

"nothing in this life is peachy 24/7"

'cept me....couldn't resist. 🙂

LOL @ HP

I am sorry to hear your having such a crabby time Karima (excuse the poor joke!)..You know before I went on holiday, I was having a real shit year..things couldn't get any worse..but the holiday really sorted me out..away from existing environment to see life for what it really is..free and brilliant!..You may just need to break away from your current surroundings..

SS: You are just outrageously happy aren't you..bless..soooo sweet!..obviously picked a good un..keep up the good work!..lol..nice to hear peachy stories..LOL

Who analyzes love Branh? LOL! You never cease to amaze me.

Thanks MM for your support and your kind words they are surely appreciated.

In order to break away from my surroundings that means I would have to lose my mind 🙂 Like literally have some form of amnesia because everything I have going on is mental. I hardly see him. Thank God...It's just a headache...

I hate feeling like this. I feel as though I am getting to old for this madness.

"Even the right ones cause some kind of grief...wouldn't be normal if it was peachy 24/7!.."

Well said. Grief accompanies Love.

Well hello young man..how nice of you to grace us with your presence...

😉

Karima..baby doll..just remember, whatever your going through, theres someone who's going through far worse...This craziness will soon pass..you watch..Mr virguy sent me a text over new years..which was really nice..simple: one joy scatters a thousand griefs...awww...its so true..one moment of happiness, seems to wash away all the sorrow..I hope you have that moment soon..Now chin up..theres a lass!..

LOL..

Note to self: who died and made you mother theresa today MM!..

"I think I'm surrounded by some pessimistic people here on this board"

LOL...I never said grief is unwelcome.

Howz U doing Doctor ?

"that next time I drop by I find people here who are happy for a change.. Too depressing for my mood"

U cant ask me to get out of here 😛

one joy scatters a thousand griefs...

This statement is one hundred percent correct.

I'll try MM...Thank You 🙂

Love is a placebo....my ass!

I am alwight thanks..how are you? survived the new years party!

SS: Why do you need to stay away? are you easily affected by peoples mood on here? I have been annoyingly chirpy when others have been doom and gloom around me..It was fun!

Nah...I know what I want.

My soul is intact. But as I said before you cannot help who you love. I am not a materialistic person and I have been in enough stupid relationships to know when something has potential or when it needs to just "blow away"...

I Want? Nah...never me. I only want kindness, sincerity, honesty, affection and of course for the person to be finacially stable. Oh and to have good hygiene and an upbeat attitude.

" only want kindness, sincerity, honesty, affection and of course for the person to be finacially stable. Oh and to have good hygiene and an upbeat attitude"

What abt bad times ?

Bad Times I am there for too. Forgive me if I come off sounding like everything should be peaches and cream. Hardly...But overall these are things I would like because these are things I am offering.

Yes I do become jealous quickly and I can seem cold and distant at times and I BARELY hold my tongue when something is bothering me. It's like acid in your face. I am woman enough to admit this and definitely woman enough to admit when I am wrong and I am willing to talk about any and everything that is bothering you. I can apologize when i offend a person and if i hurt someone's feelings. I want to fix that.

I'm not God I can't fix everything. But when I am a partner I am there 100% percent.

"Many women will have exactly what they are looking for, but they still won't like a guy."

Women can never like a guy ...they like guys.

And Karima.. Sorry to hear that you have problems in your relationship. I hope things will work out for you.

LOL @ SS...go and enjoy lala land..

Ugh it seems like I brought everyone down today. Not intentionally though.

Please forgive me for the ones I have saddened or made more depressed that honestly wasn't my intention.

Branh I dealt with an Aquarius and wanted to kill him. So I need someone with sensitivity.

I'm going home. Not even going to my second job tonight.

Bye Ya'll-I'll come back when I am myself again. 🙂

Nothing in life should come easily...period!..

Thats what dreams were made for...

Well not orgasm..I was referring to the idyllic setting there....

So I take it the virguy is making someone happy!

LOL..

Aww @ "snugglekins boo bear"

bless

LOL @ EG...Yeah and don't go ruining it!..enjoy it while it lasts!..I have been sicklingly (is that a word?) sweet to everyone in the new year...definitely not how I want to proceed through the year though..Dunno, all seems to be going great...

"Puss N' Boots from Shrek."

I LOVE PUSS N' Boots"....

Yeah and I thought we were a civilised society..whatever he did, he certainly didn't deserve that!...fuckin morons..

ok rant over...i was highly disturbed about that..even seeing images of him having the noose (or whatever its called) around his neck first thing that morning was bad enough..can't believe just how much media can show these days..its disgusting!..

all orchestrated by that fuckin weasle in america...wanker

""MM - you're in a sweetie-kins kinda mood today! Guru.....here's your chance!""

EGEM...U feel I shud be risking my life in 2007 ?

"was highly disturbed about that..even seeing images of him having the noose "


Justice took a long time to catch up.

"Justice took a long time to catch up."

Doesn't need to be publicised...

I hope justice catches up with Bush too and am dreaming to see his execution...That I will watch..punk ass!

"yeah! now you can imagine why I seriously got the chills when watching the uncensored thing!! it instantly ruined my day!"

The man was a tyrant and a flippin devil, without a doubt..but its disgusting how they first portrayed his dead sons all over page 3 of the monday morning paper (I clearly remember those images in my head, start of the week and all that) and then the father practically 2 seconds from being hung...They should be ashamed of themselves...

A milestone for Iraq my fucking ass!...they've destroyed Iraq..he made Iraq with the help of the americans..fuck this bollocks..I am gonna seriously lose it..so I am just gonna change the subject...

Awww yes...the Cappy..bless his Armani boxers...god he was gawgeous..Didn't get his contact details though..am still trying to locate him sporadically...Maybe he was meant to be a Jewel of the Nile..

I should've dedicated a tomb for him..alongside mine of course..

::sigh::

Guess Doctor was pointing towards the hlep Americans gave Saddam to build iraqi infrastructue.

It's interesting to read the rants about the hatred of Pres. Bush. Every country leader could very well be tried and hanged for their orders. For Bush to be blamed for this, is wrong.

Saddam was captured by U.S. troops and he was turned over to the Iraqi government. He was not tried by Pres. Bush or any other American; he was tried and convicted by the people of Iraqi. For one to say that Bush should be executed and that you'd watch that execution is ignorance. That's similar to someone saying that anyone part of a jury who convicts someone to the gas chamber deserves the same treatment. No! Iraq feared its leader and yes, there are many who disagree with what the outcome was, but he isn't the first leader of a country to meet his demise and Bush isn't the ONLY president of the USA who has had the responsibility of making decisions to seek out the capture of a man so many others countries either wouldn't or feared trying to capture.

I'm not sure why anyone would want to want an uncensored execution - that's a problem in itself.

I read somewhere else that Iraq was made with the help of the Americans - sorry, but this is incorrect. Iraq had no initial assistance from the Western World. Try Europe.

"He was not tried by Pres. Bush or any other American; he was tried and convicted by the people of Iraqi"

Oh right, suddenly the people of Iraq have sooooo much power that after 20 years of oppression, they find the balls to try him in court..who assisted..get with the programme...

I am not here to discuss politics..I expressed my view..Period...

I am sure Branh will more than happily give you his breakdown of politics..

The stage awaits...

http://www.loc.gov/law/public/saddam/saddam_capi.html

Gain a little more insight before expressing your opinions.

🙂 I love you, MM.

Ahhh you will never understand...

Please don't patronise young one!..

Ooops I thought you were wheelhomies..in that case ignore the part about young ones in that last comment..

I'm sure many think it's fair. There are a lot of things I don't agree with in regard to the Bush Administration, but I don't wish him dead for it.

HP...Therez no point in debating whether all of that saga was created at America's behest or not. Whole world knowz the truth behind the invasion and that trial. The point is that Saddam was a monster and he got what he deserved. Nobody is saying that the instrument of justice was fair. Seems like Americans are good at furthering their interests even at the expense of bombing civilizations out of existence.

Bran should take over when Bush is executed....

I come from a family of politicians and lawyers. I have two degrees: Journalism and Poli Sci, so I've expressed my opinion and I will leave my extreme opinions for another time a place rather than DXP....especially since I should "get with the program" 🙂

Somehow I dont understand conservative agenda...whether coming from GOP or the jehadists. Thatz one area one shud be seriously looking into.

Ok, I'm onto another thread. I remember the last time Primegen and myself got into a debate about politics - wasn't pretty. I need to go find something light.