Long distance relationship with aqua girl

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4fresh
@4fresh
10 Years

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Well this is the 2nd question I ask here about this subject. I keep kind of a long distance relationship with an aqua... We met in a summer camp... Sparkling romance in just a few days... We fell madly for eachother.
After 2-3 months of highs and lows and just one (extremly awsome) day when we managed to met and date we still talk very often and it seems that our romance is keept frozen somehow. The chemestry between us was so big so (after months of passive and inconsistent talking) we still feeling attracted and emotionally conected, needing eachother. She fell asleep in my arms and when we were togheter we are very caring, but never in a verbal way. We both prefer deeds and we dont need words when we are togheter. I dont want (and if i think about it, I cant even if I want it) to start a new relationship with someone else and she told me the same thing. The situation let us just the option of a passive friendship right now, but she is very confortable with this situation and managed to shape this whole relationship to fit to her needs, she have all the freedom an aquarius can pssibly have and she gets a lot of the warm and persistent friendship that aquarius see as "love" from times to times. You are strange creatures, she in a particular way, but after 3 months of emotional struggle (cancer ascendant, aries sun) I managed to fit in this kind of comunication and I'm ok with it. She actually forgived me after an emotional breakdown after witch I stoped talking to her for a month (and it seems she missed me a lot because when i called her again she was so damn happy)...
My question is: The situation is ok and chilly right now and we planed to met in the winter hollyday, but can i get some tips about how to keep this pre-relationship frienship (we gonna be togheter in less than a year) somehow affectionate or idk... More intimate?? I'm ok in this situation but time changes a lot of things... And I still dont know what is expected from me in this state. In this type of relationship you feel like things are cooling off after a while? She seem to be very consistent and stabile with her feelings but is very hard for me to read her. I learned to trust her and now I feel ok. Anyway, give me some tips to apply in order to keep the friendship somehow relationship like or tell me if it is no need for this kind of stuff.
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aquamila
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10 Years

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I have been in a ldr for over a year now (with a scorp by the way) and I can tell you the way to stabilize things for aquas is clear, straightforward communication. And you can't really manipulate an aqua into getting into a relationship, either she wants to be with you or not, which she will figure out for herself. Don't put her under pressure, but don't let the relationship fall asleep. Show her that YOU want to be with her, without clinging or obligations. Show her strength, learn to read her (if you do, she will feel disarmed/exposed, but it will impress her I promise). One thing an aquarius has to learn (and often needs someone to teach her) is to follow their heart when it comes to important decisions in life. Maybe you can be that someone.
Wish you the best of luck and love 😉