@Lindaaaatje
11 Years
man with venus and mars in aqua ?
Well for me not really compatible .
Double Fixed air one minute it's good actions and next minutes it's detachment if it's not enough mental stimulation plus chemistry.
Possible quick and freaky in the bedroom and also keep it fun.
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.
Yeah hear that too..
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah hear that too..
Struggle is when for the sake of open-mindedness, given the fixed energy, we become reversed narrow-minded by not accepting people who are not open-minded, which is quite a paradox.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Possible quick and freaky in the bedroom and also keep it fun.
Is it true that when you're in a commited relalationship you can't give yourself fully while having sex?
The only time when we had passionate wild sex was when the relationship ended ( he ended it) and then he came back 14 days later to " have some fun". We had the best sex EVER!
Why does that make such a difference for you? When i asked him that question he said " because i have no obbligations, i do not have to think about anything" True? Or is that some other placement ( sun, moon ect) that is talking?
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.
If we would live together and i gave you enough room to breath, Then yes?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Possible quick and freaky in the bedroom and also keep it fun.Is it true that when you're in a commited relalationship you can't give yourself fully while having sex?
The only time when we had passionate wild sex was when the relationship ended ( he ended it) and then he came back 14 days later to " have some fun". We had the best sex EVER!
Why does that make such a difference for you? When i asked him that question he said " because i have no obbligations, i do not have to think about anything" True? Or is that some other placement ( sun, moon ect) that is talking?
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Oh no he means it no obligations and you chose now what you want to be.
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.If we would live together and i gave you enough room to breath, Then yes?
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It may be good to be friends have your own place and in few months reevaluate your boundaries. Don't move anyone in because it may change more than anticipated. And be stuck in a situation where you can not leave if needed to.
How old are you guys?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Possible quick and freaky in the bedroom and also keep it fun.Is it true that when you're in a commited relalationship you can't give yourself fully while having sex?
The only time when we had passionate wild sex was when the relationship ended ( he ended it) and then he came back 14 days later to " have some fun". We had the best sex EVER!
Why does that make such a difference for you? When i asked him that question he said " because i have no obbligations, i do not have to think about anything" True? Or is that some other placement ( sun, moon ect) that is talking?
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No obligations = Aquarius to the nth degree
No other signs have a similar mindset, I'm not surprised he said that. IMO it makes a huge difference as I'm not big on labelling things, they usually ruin the fun.
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.If we would live together and i gave you enough room to breath, Then yes?
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It can work, but can you keep his mind busy while doing all the things normal couple do?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys?
Quit young ....he is 50 and i am 51 :-)
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.If we would live together and i gave you enough room to breath, Then yes?
It may be good to be friends have your own place and in few months reevaluate your boundaries. Don't move anyone in because it may change more than anticipated. And be stuck in a situation where you can not leave if needed to.
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Yeh, we did that. I suggested to live apart but he wanted me to live with him . Its been a year since we moved in together.
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.
What do you mean by open-mindedness?
Why struggle with the word committed? It just means 1 women and no sidechicks?
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.If we would live together and i gave you enough room to breath, Then yes?
It can work, but can you keep his mind busy while doing all the things normal couple do?
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Keeping his mind busy? Intellectualy we match. We started a company together and make good money so he can do what he wants to do as off hobbies. He doesn't really need me to make money and he is clever enough and do work alot to make his own money. We are not the normal couple. He nor i are average. Oh so i think.
I told him i saw us as " roommates ". He needs room to breath and i give it to him because i need it to. I am a homebuddy so when he gets home i am there.
Its the emotional/intimacy/sexual part that is difficult sometimes.
Its like a puch and pull thing between us. When i am distant, he comes stronger to me and show me his emotions more.
When i come closer to him , he backs off a bit.
Like i said , puch and pull
Posted by Palerio
We struggle with the word committed, it's restricting to our open-mindedness.That's interesting....then hopefully my Gemini mars will trump the Aqua venus 🙂
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Trumping the Aqua venus isn't easy, I feel however like Gemini - given its mutability - could be the perfect vehicle to smoother the passage of energies - this transition is normally too extreme if we only include the other two - that leads back to your Pisces sun.
Gemini it's a cross between the two, it's the only sign of the zodiac that can truly undestand the quality and nature of both, it could be of great help. If I had it in my chart myself I'd make it my cornerstone and I would heavily rely on it to let loose :-)
Oh ok I'm half that age and still think it's doable lol but this is always a matter with an air sign.
If you a water sign and emotional then yes it will feel like a tug of war game with sex and all.
Oh noes OP...you put the word "commited" in the opening post. That's a NO NO with these placements.
I think some poor aqua venus/ mars guys opened this topic and died when they read that.
Posted by Damnata
Oh noes OP...you put the word "commited" in the opening post. That's a NO NO with these placements.I think some poor aqua venus/ mars guys opened this topic and died when they read that.
shame on me.... :-p
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