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I have a friend who is close to an aqua guy. Apparently it's aqua season lol. Well she gives little surprises and gifts, which she puts in the front pouch of his backpack. The other day she tells me, she went to slip another gift in, and found a pack of condoms! :-o
She was a little upset, but I told her not to be. It's his bag so he can keep what he wants in it. However, I'm just wondering why the hey would he keep them there knowing she will find them? Is it an invite or a way of telling her to back off? WTF? Aqua mind games?

Well, slipping a piece of paper in a pouch doesn't need to involve looking inside the pouch to see what's inside.

How long have they been together? What is their official relationship status? Are they having sex?

I'm just saying there could be a slew of reasons. If it's a new relationship, perhaps they have always been in his bag. If they don't have an official relationship status, he could be seeing other women. If they are having sex maybe he's intending on using them with her. If they haven't had sex yet, maybe it's a hint to her that he wants to.

People seem to jump the gun and automatically think the worse. People are so paranoid and nont-rusting these days they assume things without thinking of all the different possibilities.

My advice, ask him.

And really, as a private person, I say that's what you get when you go snooping and getting into people's personal things.

Could be a set up to see what she would do. I could see an aqua doing something like that. "hmmm...lets plant this and see how long it takes her to confront me...it'll be funny!!".


--oops, my scorpio parts are showing...jk...lol!

Posted by virgoyum

Posted by Romancelives
I have a friend who is close to an aqua guy. Apparently it's aqua season lol. Well she gives little surprises and gifts, which she puts in the front pouch of his backpack. The other day she tells me, she went to slip another gift in, and found a pack of condoms! :-o
She was a little upset, but I told her not to be. It's his bag so he can keep what he wants in it. However, I'm just wondering why the hey would he keep them there knowing she will find them? Is it an invite or a way of telling her to back off? WTF? Aqua mind games?

Lol at "close." What does that mean, because you didn't even use the word dating. She clearly wants more cause she's taking opportunities to make him feel special. If she does these passive little gifts ain't going to cut it. You mentioned why he would keep them there knowing she will find them...if there is one thing Aquas are good it, its disassociating especially if they are not committed to someone. So in the back of his mind maybe he remembers she gives him gifts, but when he's living his life his not analyzing the deeper meaning behind putting condoms in a bag, especially if he has other chicks to use them on. The bag and condoms are functional.

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You nailed it. I told her its not her business. I also advised her to forget it and not confront him. They are only friends after all. The passive gift comment, I thought aquas don't like full-on people? Anyway, she just needs to stop, even just for a short while. Thanks

Posted by truecap
And really, as a private person, I say that's what you get when you go snooping and getting into people's personal things.

Could be a set up to see what she would do. I could see an aqua doing something like that. "hmmm...lets plant this and see how long it takes her to confront me...it'll be funny!!".


--oops, my scorpio parts are showing...jk...lol!

LMAO, I actually literally did when she told me. I said serves you right for trying to be stylish about snooping! Lol, said it was right on top, couldn't miss it if she tried!

I agree that there is an element of testing, but again that is a huge assumption. It'd his bag!!!!

Safe to say, I have just changed levels with my own aqua, but I still wouldn't go in his bag unless he asked me to... Even then I'd think twice, especially now my friend told me her story! Lol