My Birthday twin ghosted me ;(

It’s crazy but this guy I shared my birthday with ghosted me. We had wild chemistry obviously. Basically I met him at my job and he would tip me a lot while there. So that set the tone for the relationship. But I never hung out with him until the quarantine. So we linked up a few times and he would always invite me to parties or there would be other ppl there, but he has invited me out with his sister or for dinner but I was never available. I also noticed he never texted me just to talk only when he wanted to hang out which was once a month. He told me still talked to his ex so that was a red flag but that was fine with me because I still talked to mines too lmao. So the night came I decided we were going to have sex for the first time & it was amazing. I can’t think of anything else. That morning, I left in a hurry because I didn’t want to over stay my welcome, but now that I think about maybe I should’ve stayed so it didn’t seem like a smash & dash. I wanted 2 weeks and nothing. I finally texted him wishing him well, and he said he had thought about me but has been to busy to hit me up. I asked why he didn’t want to be friends anymore and he kinda just acted dumb. I feel really hurt. It’s confusing because after he told me how good the sex was, and how he does things for he doesnt do often😢 I feel like since were both aqua’s I should already know what it is. But at the same time I’ve definitely ghosted someone because I liked them too much. I just can’t stop thinking about him and he’s the first guy I’ve liked in a long long time.

I guess I’m asking for advice on how to move on, or if I should hit him up again. His chart is aqua, Scorpio moon, Capricorn Mars, Capricorn Venus

Mines is aqua, Leo moon, Capricorn Mars(we def had the same sexual energy) aqua Venus.

Was it the tips that got you 🤔

I had sex with my birthday twin. He pursued me hard! But afterwards he was A different person. Totally changed and became the rudest person. Ignored me hardcore

It was so odd

You need to move on, nothing that you’ve said says he’s interested in you more than the one night stand which is now over. He doesn’t engage in conversation with you at all and you are the one pursuing him. He didn’t contact you even after 2 weeks after you had sex— And then came up with the “I’ve been busy” excuse.

Do you really think that if you didn’t text him he would have eventually message you? Ask yourself, if he did, what do you think he would be wanting from you.. to be his gf or another lusty night?

Some guys know how little they need to put in to get it all. You need to work out that you’re not reading the signs with your head but your heart and flip that switch!

He probably ran out of money

Lol @ still talking to your ex being a red flag.

Ppl who think that are walking red flags.

Neither one of yall were serious about each other. You fed the curiousity and that's that. Move on. People get hung up by the very games they play. Both of you still talk to exes. Both were superficial. Now you feel some kind of way. Just go on about your business.

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What is your job?

Sounds like she’s a bartender

Maybe but where? In a strip club?

Thats what I like to think yes

Why you asking?

The interaction just seems very transactional.

They never really went on a proper date, but it seems like he asked and she declined. They never talked to get to know each other, only to meet up at parties.

I think she never gave him the opportunity to let feelings develop but she accepted his lots of tips and had sex with him. I’m thinking maybe he thinks this is something she does often...especially after she rushed out after what she called great sex.

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Yes it is a stripclub, I used to be a dancer. But not anymore. And you’re right we never had a chance. I finally hung out with him during quarantine, and even then he still asked me to come to Atlanta with him, and invited me out to dinner. But I didn’t want to rich into things by going to ATL and nothing was open so we couldn’t go on a real date. So kick back was all we had. We chilled just me & him before I even spent the night and he said he didn’t expect sex at all.

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I had sex with my birthday twin. He pursued me hard! But afterwards he was A different person. Totally changed and became the rudest person. Ignored me hardcore

It was so odd

Maybe we just had to much in common lol