My heart actually hurts right now...

So incredibly heart broken.

Of course the dreaded day finally came-he's with someone else...

It's his birthday today and I couldn't help but check his Facebook, even though we're not friends on there. It's been 3/4 months of no contact and I just felt it in my heart that we would find our way back to each other one day. This connection with this aqua was just...wow. I log on and see that he's taking a trip with this girl to the Bahamas. They share the same birthday apparently and he said he's starting off his 32nd with his "right".

Could just be a friend that shares the same birthday and they're taking a trip, but I know that's highly unlikely...

I just can't stop crying and feeling incredibly stupid. I thought I was so different to him-that we had something special. I'm not one to latch on or like someone easily so when I felt in my gut and soul. I thought that what we had was different. I just knew I was right, but having him moving on so fast (at least to me) to take a trip with someone else I think I was mistaken. He's very private and for him to even mention her makes me think this new person is incredibly special to him. Now my brain is starting to wonder if we overlapped towards the end. Before this he hadn't been with someone in 4 years and according to him after our first kiss he said, "I really like you and I haven't felt this way in a long time". Since he's with her so quickly, again, this confirms my suspicion that she's very special and different to him. My own mother and best friends pointed out how he was falling in love with me before I even noticed. They said they could tell I was different to him. Heck, even my own mother said he would be back and he thought being done with us was him trying to be logical but that wasn't what his heart wanted. My mother has never been wrong about anyone, friends, colleagues, guys. Never wrong, but I guess she is this time...

What makes me feel even worse is this could have all been different if I didn't open my mouth and say something stupid. I said one thing to him that essentially killed everything for us and snowballed into us no longer speaking. If I just hadn't said that one thing to him...

My heart literally hurts right now. I haven't this much pain since...maybe ever. I was with my ex for 6 years, even thought I wanted to marry him and I was with this guy for a short period of time and the pain of this hurts more than anytime I was with my ex, even more than when my ex cheated.

Given his age I can't help but think this will be the one he settles down with.

I'm so incredibly angry with myself for still missing and hoping all this time just to find out that he has someone else. Just so dumb. Also makes me mad that she kind of looks likes me.

I don't know...guess I'm just venting here. Don't think I've cried this much in years...

I just wish I could fast forward to whomever I'm supposed to be with because this pain is so unbearable right now....

How long have you been together? What did you say to him? How did it ended?

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How long have you been together? What did you say to him? How did it ended?

Well what I said wasn’t some little thing. Well when I said that stupid thing, I was pretty much breaking up with him. I got scared for a second and backed out. It’s kind of hard to explain. He was getting ready to leave for a trip and I didn’t say anything until a week later apologizing. He said not to worry about it but then distanced himself. Then I started distancing myself and then it became a game of who can back off the longest. It was all so stupid. Eventually we just stopped talking after about a month (when I suspect he started seeing this girl).

It was more so how I handled things after the fact that I’m sure made it worse.

Granted I didn’t actually say the words, but I ended things with him for no reason. When he said everything was fine and not to worry about it I started to ignore him (I don’t know what was wrong with me) while still posting all on social media for about a week. Then after that he tried to see me but I couldn’t and he took that as another slight to him. It essentially became a game of who can back off the longest until we stopped talking. I said one last thing to him days after he contacted me to finally put an end to the silliness and he just completely ignored me. That was back in October.

Putting myself in his shoes if someone broke up with me out of the blue, for no reason, they tried to apologize a week later, I accept the apology then get ignored but see them on social media, I tried to see him and they didn’t make time I would be distancing myself too. Can’t blame him for distancing himself at all. I think anyone with some self-respect would’ve done the same thing…

I guess that’s why I’m so mad at myself.

Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

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Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

That's the thing he was. A day before I called things off he said he wanted for us to take a trip together. He was the one that was driving the ship (emotion wise). He asked to be exclusive, he was the one that got insecure about other guys, kissing my forehead, sending me messages throughout the day saying he missed me, surprising me with gifts, etc.

I don't get into a lot of relationships, but my gut told me he had fallen for me hard. A woman always knows deep down if a man is truly invested in her or not. I've only had that feeling with two men-him and my previous ex. I could just tell by how he had acted and looked at me. Don't know I could just feel it in my gut. He felt that way before I reciprocated those feelings.

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Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

That's the thing he was. A day before I called things off he said he wanted for us to take a trip together. He was the one that was driving the ship (emotion wise). He asked to be exclusive, he was the one that got insecure about other guys, kissing my forehead, sending me messages throughout the day saying he missed me, surprising me with gifts, etc.

I don't get into a lot of relationships, but my gut told me he had fallen for me hard. A woman always knows deep down if a man is truly invested in her or not. I've only had that feeling with two men-him and my previous ex. I could just tell by how he had acted and looked at me. Don't know I could just feel it in my gut. He felt that way before I reciprocated those feelings.

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Then what the fuck happened?? I don't get it... You got scared or what??

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Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

That's the thing he was. A day before I called things off he said he wanted for us to take a trip together. He was the one that was driving the ship (emotion wise). He asked to be exclusive, he was the one that got insecure about other guys, kissing my forehead, sending me messages throughout the day saying he missed me, surprising me with gifts, etc.

I don't get into a lot of relationships, but my gut told me he had fallen for me hard. A woman always knows deep down if a man is truly invested in her or not. I've only had that feeling with two men-him and my previous ex. I could just tell by how he had acted and looked at me. Don't know I could just feel it in my gut. He felt that way before I reciprocated those feelings.

Then what the fuck happened?? I don't get it... You got scared or what??

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Yea I did. I don't know why though. I just panicked. He left out of the country for a week. I sent an apology text. He said it was all fine and then I just backed off again which snowballed into things being officially done.

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Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

That's the thing he was. A day before I called things off he said he wanted for us to take a trip together. He was the one that was driving the ship (emotion wise). He asked to be exclusive, he was the one that got insecure about other guys, kissing my forehead, sending me messages throughout the day saying he missed me, surprising me with gifts, etc.

I don't get into a lot of relationships, but my gut told me he had fallen for me hard. A woman always knows deep down if a man is truly invested in her or not. I've only had that feeling with two men-him and my previous ex. I could just tell by how he had acted and looked at me. Don't know I could just feel it in my gut. He felt that way before I reciprocated those feelings.

Then what the fuck happened?? I don't get it... You got scared or what??

Yea I did. I don't know why though. I just panicked. He left out of the country for a week. I sent an apology text. He said it was all fine and then I just backed off again which snowballed into things being officially done.

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In some sort of strange way this resembles a bit my story. Just a bit though... Sorry that it happened this way 😢 you should really move on now.

For me its only been 2 weeks since things went sour. But most likely they will stay like this, and never get better, because of a stupid thing that I did... Except that 90% of people won't find it stupid, just Aquas probably.... anyway... shit happens.

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Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

That's the thing he was. A day before I called things off he said he wanted for us to take a trip together. He was the one that was driving the ship (emotion wise). He asked to be exclusive, he was the one that got insecure about other guys, kissing my forehead, sending me messages throughout the day saying he missed me, surprising me with gifts, etc.

I don't get into a lot of relationships, but my gut told me he had fallen for me hard. A woman always knows deep down if a man is truly invested in her or not. I've only had that feeling with two men-him and my previous ex. I could just tell by how he had acted and looked at me. Don't know I could just feel it in my gut. He felt that way before I reciprocated those feelings.

Then what the fuck happened?? I don't get it... You got scared or what??

Yea I did. I don't know why though. I just panicked. He left out of the country for a week. I sent an apology text. He said it was all fine and then I just backed off again which snowballed into things being officially done.

In some sort of strange way this resembles a bit my story. Just a bit though... Sorry that it happened this way 😢 you should really move on now.

For me its only been 2 weeks since things went sour. But most likely they will stay like this, and never get better, because of a stupid thing that I did... Except that 90% of people won't find it stupid, just Aquas probably.... anyway... shit happens.

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I thought I had moved on. I started seeing a guy a month ago and he's been great actually. It's just a huge kick in the gut when it finally happens :/

Posted by Vageenka
This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Thank you. I really wasn't trying to play games. That wasn't my intent at all I just handled things terribly wrong which made it seem like I was playing games. I freaked out initially and because I didn't know how to correct the situation properly I screwed it up even more. Well we both started to screw things up.

Well he has to be over me if he's taking a trip with her and calling her his "right". Even though my friend said him calling his right seems like right hand man aka buddy.

Ahhh the freak out. I've done that. Just work on self forgiveness for being a chicken about something real and remember this lesson.

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This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Thank you. I really wasn't trying to play games. That wasn't my intent at all I just handled things terribly wrong which made it seem like I was playing games. I freaked out initially and because I didn't know how to correct the situation properly I screwed it up even more. Well we both started to screw things up.

Well he has to be over me if he's taking a trip with her and calling her his "right". Even though my friend said him calling his right seems like right hand man aka buddy.

There's no way he could be over you in such a short period of time. He's just hanging with her to try and get over you.

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I don't know. I tried to patch things up and he wasn't having it so I don't see why he would need to be over me. He could've tried but he didn't.

for how long have you been together? For me 4 months would be enough to be over somebody.

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This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Thank you. I really wasn't trying to play games. That wasn't my intent at all I just handled things terribly wrong which made it seem like I was playing games. I freaked out initially and because I didn't know how to correct the situation properly I screwed it up even more. Well we both started to screw things up.

Well he has to be over me if he's taking a trip with her and calling her his "right". Even though my friend said him calling his right seems like right hand man aka buddy.

There's no way he could be over you in such a short period of time. He's just hanging with her to try and get over you.

I don't know. I tried to patch things up and he wasn't having it so I don't see why he would need to be over me. He could've tried but he didn't.

Well you seem to be really in love with him. If you are, you can't let him go without a fight.

I say show up to his house and tell him how you feel. 😈

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Noooo, don't do that!!! I did this to my Aqua and that why Im here miserable!! 🙂)) Really, I don't think that a good idea.

Get off social media and get out the house and away from astrology for awhile. All it is doing is making you relive the pain. You'll love again someday.

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4 months no contact, i think he already moved on.

stop thinking of him. be strong!

I need a directions...

Stop thinking! Boom! Gone!

Are you a pro? That's what they say for $ 120 per hour! I am glad you didn't charge!

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This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Thank you. I really wasn't trying to play games. That wasn't my intent at all I just handled things terribly wrong which made it seem like I was playing games. I freaked out initially and because I didn't know how to correct the situation properly I screwed it up even more. Well we both started to screw things up.

Well he has to be over me if he's taking a trip with her and calling her his "right". Even though my friend said him calling his right seems like right hand man aka buddy.

There's no way he could be over you in such a short period of time. He's just hanging with her to try and get over you.

I don't know. I tried to patch things up and he wasn't having it so I don't see why he would need to be over me. He could've tried but he didn't.

Well you seem to be really in love with him. If you are, you can't let him go without a fight.

I say show up to his house and tell him how you feel. 😈

Noooo, don't do that!!! I did this to my Aqua and that why Im here miserable!! 🙂)) Really, I don't think that a good idea.

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Haha no. I'd never been that type of girl and I don't plan on it now lol.

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@BAV not everyone is like you. I know it takes me months/years to get over someone. As for you playing this ignoring game...don't do that with us Aquarians. Because no matter how much we may want you, we will NOT chase you

here's an article I wrote a few weeks ago

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155745537373/aquarius-after-breakups

What's your sign OP?

Leo

Posted by EveryOunce
Get off social media and get out the house and away from astrology for awhile. All it is doing is making you relive the pain. You'll love again someday.

Yea I'm going to. I hadn't been looking until today smh.

I sort of think he was talking to someone else while this slow breakup was happening

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I sort of think he was talking to someone else while this slow breakup was happening

He wasn't. My gut never went off. With my previous ex I knew something was going on and I was right.

When I ended things with him I waited a week to apologize. He accepted the apology but then I went silent on him again. Then he tried to make me jealous on social media-which I don't think he would've done had he already had someone else.

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I sort of think he was talking to someone else while this slow breakup was happening

He wasn't. My gut never went off. With my previous ex I knew something was going on and I was right.

When I ended things with him I waited a week to apologize. He accepted the apology but then I went silent on him again. Then he tried to make me jealous on social media-which I don't think he would've done had he already had someone else.

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Did he make you jealous on social media with the same girl he's dating now or a different one?

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@BAV not everyone is like you. I know it takes me months/years to get over someone. As for you playing this ignoring game...don't do that with us Aquarians. Because no matter how much we may want you, we will NOT chase you

here's an article I wrote a few weeks ago

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155745537373/aquarius-after-breakups

What's your sign OP?

Leo

OMG -_- NOW IT MAKES PERFECT SENSE! YOU WALKED AWAY AND NOW HE'S HURT....

HERE READ UP LOVE

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/156335711043/a-love-story-aquarius-man-and-leo-woman

This is my story:

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155982717208/a-love-story-leo-male-and-aquarius-female

Any questions.... PM me... i'm here for you love

I also went through recent heartache because of my Leo. I love him but he hurt me. so just know we're here for you 🤗

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Any reading for a heart breaking male libra and a female Aqua? Thanks

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I sort of think he was talking to someone else while this slow breakup was happening

He wasn't. My gut never went off. With my previous ex I knew something was going on and I was right.

When I ended things with him I waited a week to apologize. He accepted the apology but then I went silent on him again. Then he tried to make me jealous on social media-which I don't think he would've done had he already had someone else.

Did he make you jealous on social media with the same girl he's dating now or a different one?

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Different.

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Posted by OldLibra
Any reading for a heart breaking male libra and a female Aqua? Thanks

I'll work on it 🙂

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I am serious. Can i have your Tumblr link again? Thanks

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But why didn't you reach out after you apologized?

I did, but a week later after not saying anything after he accepted my apology. I started to ignore him (I don’t know what was wrong with me) while still posting all on social media for about a week. Then after that he tried to see me but I couldn’t and he took that as another slight to him. It essentially became a game of who can back off the longest until we stopped talking. I said one last thing to him days after he contacted me to finally put an end to the silliness and he just completely ignored me. That was back in October.

Back in late September/Early October I ran into his roommate. He said he wasn't going out anymore, quit his job, and was moving out soon. All in all he was making it seem like he was recluse which is nothing like him. His roommate said, 'he's just kind of been in a *pauses*' and I said, "what? in a weird space huh?". He didn't say yes or no he just gave me a look so I took that as a yes.

A week after running into his roommate my ex wanted to see me but I went camping for almost 2 weeks and didn't have reception so I didn't get the message until much later. So I reached out to him and asked if he wanted to grab coffee and said 'Miss you'. He completely ignored me but I know he thought I blew him off so in turn he blew me off. A few days later is when he looked at my Snapchat (tells you who has viewed your post) after having stopped for a while and that's when he contacted me. He wasn't in town so I know it wasn't for a booty call. After we talked I reached out to him 10 days later saying I wanted to address what's going on with us and he completely ignored me and that was that. A few weeks later I went out and posted my outings for an entire weekend then he deleted me from Snapchat, but kept my friends. I hadn't looked at his post in months so it wasn't because I was still checking up on him. A few weeks later that same roommate added me which I thought was odd.

I know you didn't ask for all that background lol, guess I'm just getting everything all out... :/

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Any reading for a heart breaking male libra and a female Aqua? Thanks

I'll work on it 🙂

I am serious. Can i have your Tumblr link again? Thanks

It's going to take me a bit because when I wrote my articles I base it on experience, observations, and research. So it might take me a few days.

My Tumblr page is AquariusInterpreter.

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/156385724853/ship-names

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Thank you. I saw ship name "libra Aqua : the social butterfly " but can't open it

Posted by Noni05
Chin up honey

Wipe those tears it happens to the best of us

One day we think they love us the next they are moving on and that's life it's something that must be accepted as much as it breaks our little hearts and causes tears to run down our cheeks life will give us a better chance at feeling happy again! I promise! We will survive this! Feeling down tonight too, as tears run down my face I wish you nothing but the best. & may tomorrow be an easier day for yourself and I.

I agree. ^^^

I'm also in emotional hyperdrive. Had tears last night myself... UGH.

Sounds like you straight up broke his heart. Aquas are very sensitive deep down. No contact, he prolly felt YOU moved on so he did too. If you genuinely love him no harm in reaching out.

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Chin up honey

Wipe those tears it happens to the best of us

One day we think they love us the next they are moving on and that's life it's something that must be accepted as much as it breaks our little hearts and causes tears to run down our cheeks life will give us a better chance at feeling happy again! I promise! We will survive this! Feeling down tonight too, as tears run down my face I wish you nothing but the best. & may tomorrow be an easier day for yourself and I.

I agree. ^^^

I'm also in emotional hyperdrive. Had tears last night myself... UGH.

Hope your better today sweetheart I know I am

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Thank you. It's been a rough/tough couple of weeks....

Posted by xtra1990
So incredibly heart broken.

Of course the dreaded day finally came-he's with someone else...

It's his birthday today and I couldn't help but check his Facebook, even though we're not friends on there. It's been 3/4 months of no contact and I just felt it in my heart that we would find our way back to each other one day. This connection with this aqua was just...wow. I log on and see that he's taking a trip with this girl to the Bahamas. They share the same birthday apparently and he said he's starting off his 32nd with his "right".

Could just be a friend that shares the same birthday and they're taking a trip, but I know that's highly unlikely...

I just can't stop crying and feeling incredibly stupid. I thought I was so different to him-that we had something special. I'm not one to latch on or like someone easily so when I felt in my gut and soul. I thought that what we had was different. I just knew I was right, but having him moving on so fast (at least to me) to take a trip with someone else I think I was mistaken. He's very private and for him to even mention her makes me think this new person is incredibly special to him. Now my brain is starting to wonder if we overlapped towards the end. Before this he hadn't been with someone in 4 years and according to him after our first kiss he said, "I really like you and I haven't felt this way in a long time". Since he's with her so quickly, again, this confirms my suspicion that she's very special and different to him. My own mother and best friends pointed out how he was falling in love with me before I even noticed. They said they could tell I was different to him. Heck, even my own mother said he would be back and he thought being done with us was him trying to be logical but that wasn't what his heart wanted. My mother has never been wrong about anyone, friends, colleagues, guys. Never wrong, but I guess she is this time...

What makes me feel even worse is this could have all been different if I didn't open my mouth and say something stupid. I said one thing to him that essentially killed everything for us and snowballed into us no longer speaking. If I just hadn't said that one thing to him...

My heart literally hurts right now. I haven't this much pain since...maybe ever. I was with my ex for 6 years, even thought I wanted to marry him and I was with this guy for a short period of time and the pain of this hurts more than anytime I was with my ex, even more than when my ex cheated.

Given his age I can't help but think this will be the one he settles down with.

I'm so incredibly angry with myself for still missing and hoping all this time just to find out that he has someone else. Just so dumb. Also makes me mad that she kind of looks likes me.

I don't know...guess I'm just venting here. Don't think I've cried this much in years...

I just wish I could fast forward to whomever I'm supposed to be with because this pain is so unbearable right now....

i still love my ex,i didn't saw her 7-8 years

the worst part was i thought of her every day and thought she was still single?until i found her on facebook and she had two second names(married)

i widh too that someone comes and i settle but nobody arrived yet?

Posted by BAV
Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

Exactly what I just thought. If he was as much in love as you were he wouldn't be daring already and seems so seriously!

Posted by Vageenka
This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Am I the only one who thinks it is the stupidest love break up story ever?

Be THAT much in love and not cherish it and play moronic games? No! It's too stupid to even think about.

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Chin up honey

Wipe those tears it happens to the best of us

One day we think they love us the next they are moving on and that's life it's something that must be accepted as much as it breaks our little hearts and causes tears to run down our cheeks life will give us a better chance at feeling happy again! I promise! We will survive this! Feeling down tonight too, as tears run down my face I wish you nothing but the best. & may tomorrow be an easier day for yourself and I.

I agree. ^^^

I'm also in emotional hyperdrive. Had tears last night myself... UGH.

Hope your better today sweetheart I know I am

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May I ask for the recipe of betterness?

How do you achieve to be better in one day!

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This is what happens when someone is truly in love and play games. What is the point of playing games with someone you truly love with all your heart? Stupid "who can ignore who" the longest games?

I'm really sorry about your situation. And I highly doubt he is over you. But I think this is a huge lesson for you. True love is not worth sacrificing over a stupid game. It has to be treated with care.

Am I the only one who thinks it is the stupidest love break up story ever?

Be THAT much in love and not cherish it and play moronic games? No! It's too stupid to even think about.

Exactly. Ain't nobody got time for shit like that especially Aquarians. I hate it. I do not like my heart being toyed with. If I open myself upto you, feel privileged as I don't do that with just anybody.

Life's too short to not take a chance to be with the one you love

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I hate calling people trolls but this one did it for me.

At first I felt for her but then...what?

Thought some more and decided I am a bitch by every mean.

But if I love this man - before I say something I think. I can yell to make you deaf but when it comes to him - shut! Think! And decided to be nice no matter what. Because having him by my side means more than my pride or hysterical outburst!

But I am old...lol

However I had learned at 42! And no one immune but the person I LOVE!

This concept lost in here.

Posted by Noni05
Chin up honey

Wipe those tears it happens to the best of us

One day we think they love us the next they are moving on and that's life it's something that must be accepted as much as it breaks our little hearts and causes tears to run down our cheeks life will give us a better chance at feeling happy again! I promise! We will survive this! Feeling down tonight too, as tears run down my face I wish you nothing but the best. & may tomorrow be an easier day for yourself and I.

Thank you. I really appreciate that ?

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I hate calling people trolls but this one did it for me.

At first I felt for her but then...what?

Thought some more and decided I am a bitch by every mean.

But if I love this man - before I say something I think. I can yell to make you deaf but when it comes to him - shut! Think! And decided to be nice no matter what. Because having him by my side means more than my pride or hysterical outburst!

But I am old...lol

However I had learned at 42! And no one immune but the person I LOVE!

This concept lost in here.

Wait are you talking about me or the OP? ?

If it's the OP then yes she was very childish. She blew him off all for a tantrum. Expected him to be on her beck and call and to still be waiting on the sidelines for her? That doesn't work with us. You blew him off a couple times and he got hurt. You played the ignoring game and now that he's trying to move on you're heartbroken?? Why does this sound so much like the Leo in my life?

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Exactly! Childish as a girl in a sandbox but heartbroken as MM for both Kenneedies!

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Posted by BAV
Yeah, you acted weird... you wanted a validation from him probably, when you said those things. You wanted to play him, but I know now that aquas don't like to be played with. But they can test you all the time, they can do whatever they want, but not you. But probably he was not into you all that much either.

Exactly what I just thought. If he was as much in love as you were he wouldn't be daring already and seems so seriously!

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We haven't seen each other in 6 months. Haven't talked in 4. I would think that's enough time to move on to someone else even if you were in love especially since I was the one who initially called it off.

When I talked to my mother she said, "but you're seeing someone else as well"-she had a point. I do like the new guy a lot, I was just with him last night, but I still love this ex obviously. You can still move on to someone else and be in love.

With my previous ex that I was engaged to a met someone a month later (before we got engaged). I broke up with my ex and soon after was head over heels for him (or so I thought). I still thought about my ex but was happy with the new guy so I didn't try to reconcile. After a long time I knew my heart was still with him so we got back together.

All I'm saying it can happen that you're very much in love with someone but still move on to someone new quickly.

Of course you are going to miss him. Of course you are going to hurt. You are a human being. GO easy on yourself; give yourself some time. You WILL be okay.

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Posted by Gemitati


I hate calling people trolls but this one did it for me.

At first I felt for her but then...what?

Thought some more and decided I am a bitch by every mean.

But if I love this man - before I say something I think. I can yell to make you deaf but when it comes to him - shut! Think! And decided to be nice no matter what. Because having him by my side means more than my pride or hysterical outburst!

But I am old...lol

However I had learned at 42! And no one immune but the person I LOVE!

This concept lost in here.

Wait are you talking about me or the OP? ?

If it's the OP then yes she was very childish. She blew him off all for a tantrum. Expected him to be on her beck and call and to still be waiting on the sidelines for her? That doesn't work with us. You blew him off a couple times and he got hurt. You played the ignoring game and now that he's trying to move on you're heartbroken?? Why does this sound so much like the Leo in my life?

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I didn't throw a tantrum. I got nervous and freaked out. When I blew him off it wasn't intentional. I was on a trip and didn't have service when he contacted me.

I think it's more than normal to assume that the person you're with is dating but it's a huge kick in the gut when it finally happens.