rosaliemae
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need help with a aquarius crush
A shy kitty? I think it's kinda sweet, personally I've always hated when I have crushes on other people it's so illogical. Tend to think the feeling of holding onto a crush is far better than the real thing. lol.
I wouldn't take his 'not taking notice of you' as anything. Aquas are known for being social yes but they are also known for being a mirror. You being shy might have something to do with the latter, he's just mirroring perhaps what he perceives to be coldness coming from you. Start any conversation and you'll probably be surprised or just wait til he starts one.
I wouldn't take his 'not taking notice of you' as anything. Aquas are known for being social yes but they are also known for being a mirror. You being shy might have something to do with the latter, he's just mirroring perhaps what he perceives to be coldness coming from you. Start any conversation and you'll probably be surprised or just wait til he starts one.
Okay, a view not from an aqua, but oh well.
I'm not sure about this one. Would you consider yourself attractive? Your friend pointed you out as the one not feeling well, and he didn't know you at that point, but perhaps thought you were attractive? If not, it might have been a nice gesture, or perhaps he was eyeing up another one of your friends and wanted to know if it was her, etc, and when it wasn't, he responded nicely, anyway. You don't know for sure, right? And are you sure he's running away because he's interested and shy, or because he knows you like him and he doesn't want to be bothered by you? He didn't accept your request and he has apparently not talked to you since....and, he's run away at every opportunity to. If I were in that situation, I wouldn't view that as being shy. Why does he have to get up and leave every time and just not say anything? Just like you don't say anything to him because you're shy. Seems more avoidant.
You're getting stuck on this ideal that your friends are giving you. They're saying stuff like 'You'd be perfect together', etc. That can get your mind on one track. Their views aren't necessarily the truth, either, though, you might be more inclined to believe they are. Of course they're going to say encouraging things, etc, because you're their friend, but if all of them agree he likes you...does that mean he does? No. Unless they hear it from the source. Not even the source's friends. Either way, there is nothing substantial going on here. You haven't been making any moves, and we don't even know for sure if the other guy likes you to make any moves. So, something needs to happen, unless you want this to remain just a crush. I'd say for this, to stop relying on your friends to create conversation openings, etc, and rely on yourself. It just looks better, and I've never heard anyone say they admire when their love interest confesses to them via the help of his/her friends.
Have you tried adding him on facebook since?
I will also say that some aquas are known for playing games and putting people through tests not unlike scorpios are known for, so that's just a piece of information you might want to consider, too.
I'm not saying the way I'm viewing this is the way it is. Two aquas have said otherwise. But, since they already covered one side of it, I figured posting my views, which are different would be good, too. Once again, not to tell you that they're wrong, but to show you more options.
I'm not sure about this one. Would you consider yourself attractive? Your friend pointed you out as the one not feeling well, and he didn't know you at that point, but perhaps thought you were attractive? If not, it might have been a nice gesture, or perhaps he was eyeing up another one of your friends and wanted to know if it was her, etc, and when it wasn't, he responded nicely, anyway. You don't know for sure, right? And are you sure he's running away because he's interested and shy, or because he knows you like him and he doesn't want to be bothered by you? He didn't accept your request and he has apparently not talked to you since....and, he's run away at every opportunity to. If I were in that situation, I wouldn't view that as being shy. Why does he have to get up and leave every time and just not say anything? Just like you don't say anything to him because you're shy. Seems more avoidant.
You're getting stuck on this ideal that your friends are giving you. They're saying stuff like 'You'd be perfect together', etc. That can get your mind on one track. Their views aren't necessarily the truth, either, though, you might be more inclined to believe they are. Of course they're going to say encouraging things, etc, because you're their friend, but if all of them agree he likes you...does that mean he does? No. Unless they hear it from the source. Not even the source's friends. Either way, there is nothing substantial going on here. You haven't been making any moves, and we don't even know for sure if the other guy likes you to make any moves. So, something needs to happen, unless you want this to remain just a crush. I'd say for this, to stop relying on your friends to create conversation openings, etc, and rely on yourself. It just looks better, and I've never heard anyone say they admire when their love interest confesses to them via the help of his/her friends.
Have you tried adding him on facebook since?
I will also say that some aquas are known for playing games and putting people through tests not unlike scorpios are known for, so that's just a piece of information you might want to consider, too.
I'm not saying the way I'm viewing this is the way it is. Two aquas have said otherwise. But, since they already covered one side of it, I figured posting my views, which are different would be good, too. Once again, not to tell you that they're wrong, but to show you more options.
That smile he gave you to me sounds like my "let the games begin smile." I would be careful trend lightly friend?
Posted by aquasnoz
A shy kitty? I think it's kinda sweet, personally I've always hated when I have crushes on other people it's so illogical. Tend to think the feeling of holding onto a crush is far better than the real thing. lol.
I wouldn't take his 'not taking notice of you' as anything. Aquas are known for being social yes but they are also known for being a mirror. You being shy might have something to do with the latter, he's just mirroring perhaps what he perceives to be coldness coming from you. Start any conversation and you'll probably be surprised or just wait til he starts one.
i think i will have to start the conversation somehow .. but anyways thanx 🙂
Posted by Ladyaqua
I second the mirroring! He might be unsure of your feelings. As an aqua, I am confident and social...around certain people. I can get shy! Also, he might think you're gorgeous! I can talk to anyone, except a person I find intimidatingly hot lol just strike up a convo and see where he takes it. the worst thing that can happen is that it goes no where.
i seriously want to start a convo with him but i get nervous and when i see him i begin to blush and it too obvious. i dont want him to see that and find me weird ..but i am definitely going to try to talk to him atleast
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