Pisces contemplating Aquarius Love Interest

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Bella81 on Thursday, September 20, 2018 and has 9 replies.

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@Bella81
7 Years

I am a Pisces and self aware of my Boyfriend (Aquarius’) need for lots of free space. I came to the conclusion that we will never get married because he will see it as a loss of personal identity/freedom. We have been dating for a year. I love his company and accept his differences. I am at a delima because I am nearing end of child bearing age and he is older too. I have wasted a lot of years on guys that went no where. I would love to have a family. We both have discussed that we want children but he feels pressured when I bring it up. He wants it to be spontaneous but he is still showing that he is being precautious with sex. (I don’t like to be so blunt but to clarify -he pulls out). I am lost on how to handle this situation. I don’t want to pressure, trap or manuipulate. So it’s hard to address it when he seems to panic a little when I bring it up (which is not often - 2 times in a year). Any Aquarius insight/advice— 😬

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

You have to seriously tell him that you want a child and that from now on you should try to see what happens instead of taking precaution. It may take a long time or a bit but he won’t be ready for it, so it is better to live it to chance in a way so he doesn’t feel pressure.

But you have to make sure that he knows that for you is very important and that you don’t have much time, if that is the case.

You have to be honest with yourself and be ready for whatever happens

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@purplehearts94
8 Years

Aquarius here 🖤 the fact that he isn’t using protection might be a good thing. Aquarius’s are rebels, if you tell us to do something we will think about it or do it immediately depending on how much we are into you. But ask us twice that’s when I back up.. But I agree with the other comments have a serious sit down with him when the time is right, and be straight forward. He’ll appreciate that you know what you want.