Questions for Aquarius

1Why do u shy away from a person of any interest to you that asks u questions? U think its interrogation.

2Why are u so "psychic"?? Do feel more during ur "psychic" times or what?

3When is a good time to start opening up to an Aquarius man? Like u have feelings for them. u really like them or love them. Like, How many months involved?

4Do Aquarius men like "submissive" or bossy/demanding women? Why? Why not?

5What are some warning signs, Any warning signs to look out for with an Aquarius man concerning ANYTHING? Educate me more about them please! Whether It's about sex, in love, falling out of love or like with you, when they want to settle down with you and only you, etc?

6How to break an Aquarius man down? What do u say in conversations or do in person (actions) to get him to open up even MORE about himself without asking questions(since they don't like questions)?

Please give out examples to better explain or past experiences. Thanks!!!

My Aqua Man is February 11th. With Venus in Capricorn Moon is Scorpio. Any insight to more of his character?
I am Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius and Moon in Libra.

As an aqua just by reading these questions makes me want to run away lol.

1. I don't shy away from general questions. Ask me about art and literature. I shy away from personal questions because I share them when I feel I can trust you or that you are genuine. Even then I would only give you tiny pieces of information.

2. Psychic? explain. Maybe this Aqua just has a better connection with you but that doesn't mean he wants to answer all your questions in detail. My intuitions have mostly been right but hardly makes me psychic because I've made some stupid assumptions in my life before.

3. There is no good time I'm afraid. It's true we operate on our own timescale. You either catch us or you don't. Too soon and we feel smothered, too late and perhaps we already find someone else. I've had people I click with in a matter of weeks. Some months and some even years.

4. Still... no general rule I've fallen for both submissive and dominant. In the end I do prefer a strong woman who can be tender when we are alone.

5. If you're ignored by an Aqua it means no. If he isn't answering your questions after a lot of prodding, chances are he isn't interested and finds it annoying or just doesn't view you as someone important for the moment. Sex? no warning signs, we are just amazing in bed. Love? I don't often know when I love someone until it hits me but I can tell you I get infatuated quite quickly and fizzles out just as quickly. Settling down is never on my mind sorry to say, I don't plan my life to settle down. My 5 year relationship partly ended due to the fact I never proposed because I simply never thought about it even though I loved her.

6. You can't break an Aqua man honey sorry to say. We open up to people when we want to. We often don't like to share our feelings because we internalise it all in our minds and we just don't want to share it. The pisces girl I've met recently know a lot more of my secrets than most of my friends for years and even since primary school. There are also people who I have an amazing connection with for years that I feel I can't fully trust them with my emotions and feelings, I can't give you a definite answer on that.

Lastly me personally I don't know much about scorpios, probably because I never got a long with them *shrugs* my mother is a scorpio so go figure lol. They like to pry but never expressing their own feelings but have an undying passion once fixated is all I know to that extent. If your guy's aqua side is like anything like me you're in for one hell of a closed case the more you try to open him up.

Sorry if this isn't the answers you are looking for. Just pure honesty.

So you're saying, basically, don't pry and they will eventually open up as they begin to trust you?

That's what I've tried to do. I don't ask a lot of questions. Lo and behold, he just comes out with stuff sometimes. Like for instance, one day out of the blue he said, "well, I might as well tell you know what's on my credit report". I didn't ask, was really surprised he volunteered that information. It means so much more to me when he volunteers something on his own than if I asked and he answered the question.

now, not know. Where's the edit button? lol!

Good! Thank you. I'm all about honesty Aquaznoz!

So lets talk WHAT IF.....

What if the girl opened up about her feelings? Would that break him or make him rub?

What if she opened up a little more like once a week to him about who she is? Would this make him open up more?


And TruCap! That is soooo good that he volunteers. And he is telling u about his credit report which shows you are REaLLY in his future girl!! No one will talk about their credit report with just any 'ol body.

Basically yes 😛 I know it must be frustrating to some people. And when I say I don't trust people it doesn't mean I don't like them, it just means I'm evaluating if they can understand where I am coming from if I do decide to share things.

Alternatively, if this is an indication of anything, I shared more about myself when someone shares their own stories and questions their own feelings. In that way I can connect because I'm often wondering about my own feelings and then we have a mutual ground to discuss things.

I would say don't open up to him about how you personally feel about him....

Open up in that you tell him everything about yourself...
Your life.... Your interests... Past relationships if you trust him....

And more importantly how you feel about these experiences what your thought processes are

I know I like people who are independent thinkers.... Intelligent... And generally sweet and kind
But that's me.... I absolutely hate mind games... And will drop you like it's hot the instant I detect it

So in essence just be yourself like your around your best friend in the world
I know it sux... Cause you have all these feelings already... I'm kinda going through the same thing actually
Just be patient and if you are.... He will open up big time

I would say the more your like this the more he is probably going to want to spend time with you and not anyone else if this does not happen
Maybe he is not into you as much as you would have hoped...

Aquanoz: I pick up that he is still evaluating me. And that's ok. I am fine with at. The thing is, I am evaluating him also. Because I am female.... I am full of EMOTIONS Lolol!
I had an opportunity to see how he interacts with his buddies (males). I asked him last week WHY (yes, the why question) he can't talk to me like the way he talked to his buddies? His comment was that "We'll those are my partners and I've known them since childhood. All u have to do is open up and talk more and we will be able to connect more on that level."

I'm sorry it's just kind of hard for me to open up FIRST .

NotYourAverage: yes, I won't open all about my feelings towards him but I feel like I am going to bust at times. Lol!
He's just so darn sweet, sexy, attractive, smart, funny, etc etc.
I know he's into me though. I REALLY know that.
When is ur bday by the way?

HoneyJ and I are both on the same page, here, so don't think I'm hijacking her thread. Like her, I burst at the seems too to say something.

I said something spontaneous so guys, please tell me if I messed up. Yesterday, he apologized for something minor, I won't go into that, but I said, "that's okay baby, I love ya anyway". He laughed, said "well, thanks, glad someone does". Then it went off to a different subject. It was unplanned and just slipped out, but appropriately for a playful conversation. So its out there in a light hearted and no pressure sort of way. In fact I don't think it dawned on him the meaning of it (us caps with cap moons aren't comfortable with talking about feelings and we're not one to come out with it first).

I suppose I'll let him process it and see what happens. I don't plan on addressing it any further. Actually, I feel a little better (referring to the impatient thread on the cap board).

I'm afraid it was too soon to the incident few weeks ago with me ending a text with luv ya. After that, he called a little more often, though.

Hope this helps HoneyJ too. I believe we have the same sort of questions for you guys.

Posted by truecap
HoneyJ and I are both on the same page, here, so don't think I'm hijacking her thread. Like her, I burst at the seems too to say something.

I said something spontaneous so guys, please tell me if I messed up. Yesterday, he apologized for something minor, I won't go into that, but I said, "that's okay baby, I love ya anyway". He laughed, said "well, thanks, glad someone does". Then it went off to a different subject. It was unplanned and just slipped out, but appropriately for a playful conversation. So its out there in a light hearted and no pressure sort of way. In fact I don't think it dawned on him the meaning of it (us caps with cap moons aren't comfortable with talking about feelings and we're not one to come out with it first).

I suppose I'll let him process it and see what happens. I don't plan on addressing it any further. Actually, I feel a little better (referring to the impatient thread on the cap board).

I'm afraid it was too soon to the incident few weeks ago with me ending a text with luv ya. After that, he called a little more often, though.

Hope this helps HoneyJ too. I believe we have the same sort of questions for you guys.

My birthday is February 13 1983 6:00am ^.^

Like I said earlier I think the best way to be is open but not overly just the right amount share yourself...

Your experiences.... What you have learned personally from life.....
I'm telling you..... Don't worry about the whole idea of when how why.....
Your gonna have to learn to embrace the the whole way of thinking about things...

I mean the one true feeling that always haunts an Aquarius is their eternally lonely heart whether they admit it or not.
Just think about it like this...

You never compromise your position to satisfy the feelings, agendas, or motives of others or the collective group...

You are always objective about EVERYTHING... meaning it is easy for people to cut ties with you because instead of trying
to nurture their hurt feelings when they are in the wrong you try to stay steadfast to what is the truth... or what you perceive to be the truth

Makes for a lonely ass life... feeling like no one understands you...

If you can see where he's coming from... if your on his wavelength then your already winning half the battle...
I promise this is the way it's gonna work... I can't tell you how long but the instant he really feels no one gets him
better than you. Your probably going to have him for life.

I am having this problem with a scorpio in very similar way and I think I've gotten myself under control now...
You do need to realize too he is just a human being like everyone else on this planet...

But you never will because of how he makes you feel... All I can say is I feel your love pains....

If he really means as much to you as you say. You should have no problem waiting forever in theory. Why be with someone else just so you can have what a family ...that will likely be unhappy because you don't really love the guy...

I guess if someone comes along and just does it for you more than the Aquarius at some point then you'll know it wasn't him but he is the one doing it for you now so... just be happy someone in this world can make you feel the way you do.

Like I said in the scorpio forums me trying to express how I feel to someone who is not really directly expressing the desire too know my true feelings is sorta selfish...

I guess Im just the odd duckling. Figures......Im so intense and hardcore. You will know within the first five seconds if we are compatible or not. Not sure what part of my chart this is but if I could figure it out Id do some in depth research.

As an aquarian I tend to open up to some more freely than with others. I don't wait for a specific time to open up. I llike to express myself but I like people to express interest in what I have to say. I don't feel comfortable in speaking about myself unless you inquire and depending on my comfort level with you I can sing like a bird or give one word answers. In relationships I tend to open up too much with the first random thought or impulse my boyfriend will know about it. He is not that emotional and he rarely ask about me but he still gets an earful of all my randomnes. We have to trust you and it depends on the tone you set whether we feel free enough to be ourselves.

Posted by coldwater
I guess Im just the odd duckling. Figures......Im so intense and hardcore. You will know within the first five seconds if we are compatible or not. Not sure what part of my chart this is but if I could figure it out Id do some in depth research.

I've heard that early on Aquas just know if you're compatible or possibly the one. If not, they cut ties quickly. Then its a long time coming in confirmation for the other party. Is that rumor worth it's salt?

Posted by truecap

Posted by coldwater
I guess Im just the odd duckling. Figures......Im so intense and hardcore. You will know within the first five seconds if we are compatible or not. Not sure what part of my chart this is but if I could figure it out Id do some in depth research.

I've heard that early on Aquas just know if you're compatible or possibly the one. If not, they cut ties quickly. Then its a long time coming in confirmation for the other party. Is that rumor worth it's salt?

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I'd say no and yes.

Maybe true for Aqua girls? A close friend of mine has those lines of thinking.

Me personally my crutch is thinking too much on things that probably don't even matter. Yes I can sort of pick if it'll work out or if she is possibly the one, but that's when the thinking sets in and I need to make sure of my intuition.

I'd like to say maybe we 'like' someone very easily, much harder to love someone. And for me, I'm terrible at hiding my actions, you can always tell if I like someone. It's the words I'm more careful about.

TruCap: ur story is sooo cute!!! My Aqua laughs at certain things too! Maybe the laugh is to hide their emotions....... Mmmmmmmmh!
And yes, this really helps me.

TheUltra79: Ihow long were u with u when u said I love u first? I will have to try the asking advice thing too.

NotYourAverageAquarius: thanks! U r giving me SUCH GOOD Advice and insight!!!!!
When u say lonely heart, please elaborate more on this. Do u mean that they feel like no one understands them?
Please give me examples!

How do Aquarius men handle long distance relationships?
Is it a good or very bad thing? And WHY?? _??_

My Aqua and I are like 3 hours away from each other. We can see each other on weekends unless our busy schedule says otherwise.

Aqua took me to a huge family dinner at his mom and dad's. Guess I didn't screw up and run him off! Yay!!

Posted by HoneyJ
TruCap: ur story is sooo cute!!! My Aqua laughs at certain things too! Maybe the laugh is to hide their emotions....... Mmmmmmmmh!
And yes, this really helps me.

TheUltra79: Ihow long were u with u when u said I love u first? I will have to try the asking advice thing too.

NotYourAverageAquarius: thanks! U r giving me SUCH GOOD Advice and insight!!!!!
When u say lonely heart, please elaborate more on this. Do u mean that they feel like no one understands them?
Please give me examples!

honeyj,

I think I gave you pretty good general ideas that you could apply anything too but

Suppose we have a group of people say they are even friends of the Aquarius... The discussion is if you see someone drop a twenty dollar bill on the ground do you keep the twenty? Or do you return it to the owner?
Everyone in the group says they would keep it probably....(this is hypothetical)... Aquarius will be the only one to say he or she would return the 20 to the rightful owner...

Everyone in the group is gonna think Aqua so dumb or Aqua don't know how to take opportunities when they come knocking

Everyone avoids a certain individual in college because of w/e she/he is weird... they dress like weird.... or they generally have weird ass stuff to talk about... The one person who is gonna talk to this person is the Aquarius... why?
Because we gonna want to know what makes them tick...

Everyone is gonna ask Aqua why you talk to that guy? You weird or something?

The powerball was just what 400 or 550 million right... everyone is buying a ticket thinking ohhh what they gonna do with all that money when they win. You want to know what I an Aquarius was thinking?
There are only like 300 million people roughly in living in America... why the fuck not just distribute that money evenly to everyone and we all win like close to 2 million—? Then I thought but wait ...that would probably cause a form of derived inflation because if people know you have the money to spend they will just charge you more now!!

Yeah I bet you that thought never crossed your mind did it?

When you don't do what everyone else does... Who do you relate to honestly—? Who do you confide in your deepest thoughts and feelings—? You can tell other people but do they honestly care or even get what your saying?

That is what it is like to be an Aquarius ......

NYAA - those were some pretty good examples!!

I am an Aries who has been in relationships with 3 Aqua men. I also have my Juno in Aquarius which gives me this crazy insight into them. lol.

1Why do u shy away from a person of any interest to you that asks u questions?

Aquas can sense a lot of times that the person asking then questions has some kind of agenda or ulterior motive. Are you asking them questions because you want some kind of hold over them or insight to them? Or are you just a friendly person that likes to chat?
My Aquas opened up to me immediately because I was telling them stories about my wacky family or random adventures and they wanted to join in the fun. They knew that I didn't have an agenda so they spilled their guts.

2Why are u so "psychic"?? Do feel more during ur "psychic" times or what?

In my experience, Aquas are in tune with the world at large. Now, this doesn't always translate to them being able to process emotions, theirs or anyone else's. But, they do have great insight into the world. That's why they make awesome friends and sometimes struggle in the area of relationships.

3When is a good time to start opening up to an Aquarius man? Like u have feelings for them. u really like them or love them. Like, How many months involved?

All the Aquas I have been with declared their feelings for me first. As an Aries, I was so wrapped up in adventures, charity work, and living that I wasn't obsessed about their feelings toward me. That's why the felt comfortable sharing those feelings with me.


4Do Aquarius men like "submissive" or bossy/demanding women? Why? Why not?

I think that Aqua men like variety. Overall, they want a woman who can handle herself and they want the tenderness behind close doors. Unevolved Aquas end up with crazy needy mean chicks because they lack self-awareness about how their actions are attracting these women in the first place.

5What are some warning signs, Any warning signs to look out for with an Aquarius man concerning ANYTHING? Educate me more about them please! Whether It's about sex, in love, falling out of love or like with you, when they want to settle down with you and only you, etc?

An Aqua male will throw out a comment in passing about something else but, listen up because there is probably a message behind that comment.

6How to break an Aquarius man down? What do u say in conversations or do in person (actions) to get him to open up even MORE about himself without asking questions(since they don't like questi

6How to break an Aquarius man down? What do u say in conversations or do in person (actions) to get him to open up even MORE about himself without asking questions(since they don't like questions)?

You can break an Aqua in a weak moment but, they will resent you for doing so. There's no need to manipulate or try to gain control of the situation. Just have conversations with him. Don't worry about scaring him. Just be yourself and if that is scary to him then he isn't for you in the first place. Aquas are all about agenda free love.

Amen!

Thank u all for ur comments!!

This is really helping me understand this Aqua guy.

NotYourAverage: thanks so much for taking the time out to answer and give me examples. Since my Venus is aquarius, I actually do the same thing. Being the ODD one! So I definitely understand these scenarios u have given me.

firewaterearthpiscesvenus: Thanks to u as well by answering ALL of these questions. It is a help!! I cracked up when u talked about a Message within a message part dealing with Aquarius. When they make a comment but it really can mean something else. Lolol! YEP, he does that from time to time!