After doing much research on the Aquarius Male (obviously I'm still in mourning over our breakup) I can only conclude the following:
Aqua men are a defect of human nature. They are selfish, emotionally retarded and suffer a chemical imbalance. They are quite similar to the sociopathic personality.
"I actually dated a Leo male recently and it drove me crazy. He was txted me, emailing me, calling me and wanting to talk about nothing every day--I didn't understand it."
-ugh, i could NEVER date a leo man. way too possesive and jealous, and too much too fast.
So, you see, there is something for everyone out there...and obviously the Aqua guy traits on not for you...that doesn't necessarily mean he's a psychopath.
My only point would be your conclusion might be wrong as your research is flawed, you're only going get a skewed picture of the aqua guy traits on here, as most post pretty negative stuff and there isn't enough to balance it. There will be a lot of people who are blissfully happy to live and let live, in their aqua combo but that doesn't get discussed much here, wouldn't be much of a conversation starter, but it would probably balance your opinions of them.
Oh please.....gimme a break, you all come in here saying not to generalize based on their signs but all you people ever do in here is generalize about Leos.
"if they can't see their flaws then they are not honest with themselves."
Prime, is this referring to me?? How do you konw my flaws when you don't even know me. You've never sat down with me face to face and you're already judging me as a good listener based on my sign? I thought I read a few posts back there where you said this was exactly what you SHOULDN'T do. hmmmmm.....
Oh dear, have I made your ever superior Aqua bad priority list? I don't have mental lists, lists are just weird.
Oh prime dream on.....a secret thing for Aquas? I'm confident enough in myself to be able to weed out the less desireables.
I come in here not cuz I'm attracted to you Aquas, far from it. My Aqua dude,yes, very much so and still, yes.....but it's only been a short time.....
I come in here cuz we're having so much fun in here, aren't we— Believe me, once I'm over this thing and done with my fun, I'll be gone (I'm sure you're all pleased to hear that). Unlike you all, I actually have a life. 😉
We know our flaws just as leo knows their flaws...its leos who put up the over compensating ego to protect themselves while aqua quietly accepts and moves on.
Some of my comments have come off nasty, I'm sorry for them. My initial reaction is to get super defensive when attacked and sometimes regretful for my verbal attacks after.
PRime, I am here because the only reason I am here was to discuss and vent about my Aquaman so doesn't it make sense the topic I started in would be this one? Honestly I have no interest in any others. Except of course the Leo one.....I love my sister felines.
Then Prime, why are you still here? I know what your typical Aqua reaction will be. To rebel, exercise your "freedom" and never come back to this message board because you think you're somehow punishing me...... I'm sure you could give two shi** about me to actually do it but somehow I think you actually would....
Ummm....I think I'm the one who dumped him, on several ocassions if you'll remember prime. And if you also remember, he kept coming back and according to your preachings, aquamen dont come back unless they really do care, a little.
I don't know LadyM....mine seems to be differnt. I'm a pretty good judge of character all my friends tell me I'm very perceptive and I seem to pick up things on people that nobody sees til later.
Even the first day I met this aqua guy I knew something was kinda off, just couldn't put my finger on it. Thought he might have ADD or bipolar disorder or seomthing....
But he seems to get his feelings hurt, has a childlike sensitivity. I dont get a sado masochist vibe from him...
I'm sorry I said you guys all dont have a life and I do. That was just nasty, obvoiusly I don't have a life or I wouldn't be on this board for hours on end. Sorry.... :-/
"Here's a virtual pineapple Josie. When it's time for you to go, I'll give you another one. That's what they used to do in the south when they wanted house guest to get lost. "
Huh?? Oh what's with this pineapple nonsense prime.....and I'M the one who's "too old for this?" Jesus....
lol, your gong bipolar on us. The arguments...then apologies. Im confused.
Trust your intuition...whatever you feel is revealing its self for a reason. My leo friend has a strong intuition...sometimes it s alot of paranoia but when she needs it the most its there.
Thank you LadyM. I sincerely appreciate your advice, it actually makes sense to me. Especially, thanks for looking past my obnoxious ranting & raving and seemingly rude remarks.
I know I sound bipolar but a lot of what I say in here is playful as I have a very playful quality about me and when I realize it has come off mean I do feel sorry for it.
I'm not looking to redeem myself, obviously I dont care much what people think of me here, I have no face here afterall, but I never feel good about hurting someone's feelings as I am very sensitive myself.
My bipolar tendencies are pretty much thoughts that quickly enter my head & I write them down so they are my true words. I'm a highly emotional being.
Anotherscorp I totally disagree, a lot of our examinations are coming from inside of us and projected, people that don't understand would make that assessment, EVERYTHING with aquas start from within, most of us don't even know how to be any other way, now I could tell you all of my faults and I have many of them but I wouldn't want to bore you.
I personally rationalize, my 'woe is me' feelings...by saying theres always someone worse off...and my life could be worse. Maybe thats the humanitarian aspect, but I just dont see the need to harp on your[meaning my] so called 'sad' life.
Maybe others look at this as a flaw...one astro reading said aquas tend to place their feelings, etc in "cloaks of frivolty" and should change that.
I understand what your saying and it's hard to tell people I'm depressed or I really feel lousy or I'm unsure and I feel lost all at once because most Aquas deem this a sacred space shared with mostly no one, plus this would put us in the crazy category and we are far from it, we know that whatever we are feeling is temporary and will pass, most of us know we come here with a cross to bear, a lesson to learn, a hurdle to surpass...we have our momentary insanities and yet we function in life as most do... we KNOW we are capable of working it thru on our own...so no most of us will not tell you how we feel until we KNOW it ourselves, people are asking us to explain the unexplainable, their are waves of emotions going on, not just one emotion or 2 emotions, try 10 or more in varieties, who can explain that?? I can't describe that feeling, you have to feel it to know it and that feeling is hard to explain to others.
I tend to agree with Lady M, I always feel like why do you care how I feel, it's not like your going to be able to take away this pain that i'm burdened with...glad I worked thru my BS, mostly happy all the time..even when shit doesn't work out.
As for Scorps...my ex of many years is one (and still a friend)...what feeling DON'T they share with you?...lol!
lol lol...SO TRUE. its like they go through the screening process where they decide whether your a keeper or not. All secretive, don't say much at all...look a bit evil. Then when they decide your a friend they tell you how they feel about most things...he he and its like they look at you expecting some kind of emotional response back ...thhey seem madly dissapinted if your just like: 'ummm...okay.' or.: 'nice..'
ooops sorry got a bit distracted..back to those lovely aqua men,....
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