The Aquarius disconnect

Aquarius female here...

I am in the single world, and have been for some time. I struggle with a few things and I am wondering if maybe I'm not the only one.
-Constantly in my head- I have to work hard to anchor myself to the present.
-feel emotionally aloof at times, I may forget how I come across, or brush off something important
-struggle with sex/intimacy- again- in my head during sex which can be good- but if my partner isn't like that, then there is less of a connection. If there isn't any mental stimulation, I feel empty, and want to end the relationship.
-clingyness, needyness, quick to make assumptions on the relationship and I feel panic-woahhhhh I don't want to feel caged....

Sometimes it seems like it would be easier to not date at all... I have tons of friends!
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oh you know i read on Sasstrology that if you have an empty house, you don't need to "express" or that house is not important in this life, life lesson ect ect.

i dont have 7th house like AquaMermaid (which her 7th house goes excellent with her husband's Libra mars) Same as my sister's 7th house mars and mercury goes excellent and wonderful with her husband's libra sun.

but i notice that i have 12th house, and that 12th house is similar that they need to pair up also!!!! but different. It needs to MERGE.

that's why i MERGED early in life (in my teens) with a Pisces sun/Mercury/mars pisces man. This stuff is eye-opening!!!

so, OP, if you have both 12th and 7th house, your quest in life is MERGE and PARTNER.

it would be cool to have a LIKE button, lol

but it's better this way. not seeing it cause people will be bias even if it makes sense. lol

i forget to add, now i'm married, not to a Pisces sun, but my 12th house TRINES his sun and venus. (among other aspects)

so maybe in this life, OP you are not ready for a relationship.

what's your chart??

I thought i'd include this,

this might help people and others who need to understand EMPTY houses:


http://sasstrology.com/2007/10/i-have-no-planets-in-my-seventh-house.html

Quote:

"If you have a planet in the Seventh, you will have to meet that planet’s corresponding need in a relationship (romantic, business, open enemy, and so on). In other words, you are dependent on another to fulfill that planet’s impulse. So, if you have no planets in the Seventh, it simply means that being in a partnership is not essential to the expression of your planets."

Posted by AquaMermaid
The 7th house says I will always look for a partner.I can't be on my own or stay single for long. I need a romantic companion always! *facepalm*

lol

aw.. it's a good thing right? 😛

anyway, i'll try. i'm not that good either,but i'm trying as well.

I totally relate with you! Story of my life. I'm gonna PM you 🙂 What are your placements?

How do I figure out my chart, etc?

Aquamermaid- my mom and cousin were born in Feb, I'm Jan 30th. They are more like you describe. I do wish I could feel my emotions more- I am happy, but I don't jump up and down for joy. On the other hand- anger can hit like a bolt of lightning

Go on cafeastrology.com. On the right hand side, you'll see bunch of options. Click on free reports something. Then select free birth chart. Place your bday, place of birth and time of birth (if you know) and voila.

It's like you have the clingy Aquas and then there's the Aloof Aquas that I always chase for.