The Most Challenging Aquarius Man

I'm an "unlucky" Sag who's helplessly in love with my best friend, an extremely intelligent, cerebral, inventive, and detached Aquarius robot.

We met online two years ago. Ever since our first date, we've been doing tons of things together (sports, travel, films, creative work, house work, new businesses). Our interests are both very similar and different and we both have a passion for knowledge/ideas/inspirations. I feel that we often get excited about the same thing for different reasons, but it works harmoniously to keep us together. I'm completely in love with him, even though I act like a cool friend. When we first met, I didn't know much this air sign and was quite open to reducing our physical distance. He is a bad kisser (almost child like, really cute). After a few times, he made it clear that he just wanted to ?hang out?. Even though he never mentioned relationships again, nothing else has changed between us. He remains a very active part of my life. We live 5 blocks apart, see each other more than once a week and the longest time we've been apart is when one of us is out of the country for a couple weeks. All my friends know he's a special non-bf. I hardly know any of his existing friends and he never admits/denies anything about us to our new mutual friends (some of whom seriously think we're a couple). We've both met each other's family members and made good impressions.

Being a Sag, I love my freedom more than anything but it drives me crazy that he doesn't want to have physical contact (not to mention emotional intimacy). Even when I feel really down and want to leave this friendship, there will always be something interesting going on and he'll pull me back in. He gives me great inspiration in my creative work. He repetitively reinforces that we are good friends. No doubt I've pass the friendship test, but I'm dying to find out what's next? By this point I've figured out that we're better off living alone and I'm in no way of wanting to nail him down for marriage. But I do want something more than friendship, even knowing Aquarius value friendship above everything else! I really just want to have a creative and special relationship with him.

Have I already ruined my chance in the beginning or should I just be patient and keep picking his brain and one day he'll decide? Can anybody give me some suggestions?

Thanks for the very valuable insider talk. 🙂 That gives me more assurance on what I've been doing right. Good thing that the more than 50% of our activities are exercises for the brain. Plus we Sags love challenges. And I know I won't be bored if I ever get what I wanted. 😛