OH MY, I'M GOING TO MAKE THIS SHORT AS POSSIBLE. Its so much to say but I'm going to cut a lot of it out. My concerns is "what to do"?? Ok, I was dating an aqua man for 3 years OFF/ON and I just found out recently that he has been dating sooooo many other women as well, while with me and also when we weren't together. I left him several times b/c of issues of not trusting him, him not communicating with me...etc etc..him just being a typical aqua but I toughed it out and we back to him several times after he kept reaching out to me. So finally, I had to just "snoop" to see if my gut was telling the truth. I went through his phone one day b/c he normally guards it like it life depends on it but that day he had a emergency and left it at my house by mistake. So anyway, I went through it and over the course of a year, yes he had all those text messages. He has been seeing, dating, sleeping with over 20 women! He didn't sleep with all of them but he at least tried too. He was seeing some, dating some and sleeping with some. What bothered me the most is some of these girls are 15 years younger than him..he is 38 and some are 22, 23, 25 etc. This blew my mind not b/c he hurt me but to find out what type of man he is. Then every one of those women, he asked for $ $ at some point or another. Then his pattern is to date them for about three months and break it off. Now he did a lot of this when I wasn't with him but a few of those women was during the time that I was with him. Thank goodness we wore protection and also thank goodness that I was active with him b/c I didn't trust him. This man has serious issues. He always tells me that " I leave him so much" that he has a fear of rejection from me, blah blah. This post is not about me, I'm over this loser. My point of this post is I want to reach out to a few of these young girls, discreetly to tell them about this man, he is ruining their lives. In those text messages, he sweet talks them, tell them he love them, etc and they are falling for it. It breaks my heart b/c they are so young and he is trying to ruin their life. I'm 39, same age as him and I knew how I was in my early 20's and I feel so bad what he is doing to all of these women. Then on top of that, out of those 20, he got 3 of them pregnant and they all had abortions by him! In my mind, I'm like this man needs to be stopped but I know if I rat him out to those girls, all he is going to do, is move on and pick up another 20 girls and
